Well it goes without saying that Monifah and Terez
tied the knot. The lovely ladies and friends of the site tied the not
on February 8th, 2014 with a beautiful ceremony in Hawaii. All of the
Divas were present and so were the TVOne cameras. I hope like hell Koo-Koo Wyatt was on her best behavior and did not attempt to make Monifah’s moment about her.
“It’s something I’ve never done before,” says Monifah.
“It’s all new and wonderful. My life is merged and my spirit has merged
with somebody else.” ~Monifah
Check out more pics from the wedding and Monifah’s interview with Essence Magazine.
ESSENCE.com: How did it feel to be a bride?
MONIFAH: I was excited. I didn’t really have too many
nerves. I made up my mind that I wasn’t going to be frazzled and crazy
about stuff that was insignificant. Because the bottom line is was as
along as Terez was there, I was good. That’s all I really cared about.
Of course I wanted to be beautiful, but before we started planning I had
already had in my mind that it’s going to be what it’s going to be and
I’m not going to fret over things that were not in my control. I just
cared about my wedding dress, good food, hair and makeup. With
everything else, I was fine. It could have rained…whatever, as long as I
was marrying my best friend. Acceptance is key.
ESSENCE.com: What was your absolute favorite wedding moment?
MONIFAH: Seeing Terez’s face as I walked towards her.
That’s all I saw. I focused on her. I didn’t want to cry, but she was
crying so she almost made me cry. When she saw me, I could tell she was
ESSENCE.com: You both looked absolutely beautiful. What song did you walk down the aisle to?
MONIFAH: Rahsaan Patterson performed “Can’t We Wait A
Minute?” He’s a friend of mine. My second time seeing him in concert,
she was with me. When he sang this song and the words, I just started
crying because I was like, “That’s me and my baby!” I was crying and she
was crying. I looked over and said to her, “Babe, I think we found our
wedding song!” I wish everyone would have gotten to see it, but for some
reason they don’t show him on the episode. That was the best!
ESSENCE.com: How did you decide on that fierce, non traditional gown?
MONIFAH: You know, that’s just me. I’m non-traditional
anyway. I like to do me. I wasn’t walking down the aisle in a white
dress. I love Black. It’s striking, it’s beautiful, and you know what?
It was my day! I designed the dress myself. It was a variation of three
dresses that I saw that I loved. I put them together and it worked. The
English netting, with the nude under-bodice, I loved. I had an amazing
couturier and sketcher who helped me bring the vision to life. I think
I’m going to frame it!
ESSENCE.com: Who was in your bridal party? Any bridesmaids?
MONIFAH: No, just our parents and us. I didn’t want all
of that; it would have just been too much. It was very last minute for a
wedding. We planned it in a couple of months, and really more like a
month and a half. I’m too old for that! (Ha!)