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Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

You sound like you feel sorry for the man or you really like him . Think of your safety and your roomate .
Why do you continue to sex and deal with a man like this ??????????????????
 

 

No more Miss Nice Ex. Tell him to go away and stand firm. Take control. He might not be in his right mind, but he should respect your wishes. you find him annoying, but it’s your responsibility to follow through when he tries to contact you. If he calls or texts or shows up where you are, ignore him, or at most tell him it’s important to you for him to leave you alone. I’ve been shirked by an ex in public, and I never tried again. It’s humiliating. If you’ve got another person in your life, don’t be afraid to say “I’ve moved on.” It’s not impolite, and it might be imperative to the health of your current relationship.. Get right in your head about it. The second step, if you’ve already told him how you feel and that you need him to go away is to begin to adjust your own mental state to be apathetic about him. Not hate, not resentment, just free him from your senses. Lose his number, ignore his texts and be empowered. . He needs to move on, and you need to regain control. But what if he doesn’t listen? If it’s been while and he’s still not hearing you, even when you take a firm and proactive approach to losing him for good, something is wrong. If he’s showing up at your house unannounced, being creepy, call the cops. Sounds drastic, but if there’s the slightest inkling that your safety is compromised, don’t hesitate to bring in the authorities. You know… if he’s for-real nuts.

But if it’s just about empowerment, getting the guts to tell him to move on, you might not have to be brutal, just honest. Say, “I don’t think you and I are able to be friends in a way that is healthy.” It’s your prerogative, girl. It’s your life.  Change your locks and stop giving the man a reason to feel , you want him by allowing the fool to sleep in your bed!!!


I did, I've already filed a restraining order on him, that sh*t is over with
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though your house your rules definitely applies but I gotta agree someone telling me they have to lock their self locking door sounds like a whole lot of needless bullsh*t.
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Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

though your house your rules definitely applies but I gotta agree someone telling me they have to lock their self locking door sounds like a whole lot of needless bullsh*t.

Slamlock can so easily be broken into, all you need is a credit card. I live in brooklyn. that sh*t lol
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it looks like those text messages are written by a 19 yr old boy.  i find it hard to believe that he was some kind of catch worth overlooking his bipolar condition.  he called you crazy for explaining the obvious to him, but i bet if you asked if his bipolar was flaring up it would be a problem.  he must've had the bluest of eyes.  he's immature as hell.

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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

it looks like those text messages are written by a 19 yr old boy.  i find it hard to believe that he was some kind of catch worth overlooking his bipolar condition.  he called you crazy for explaining the obvious to you, but i bet if you asked if his bipolar was flaring up it would be a problem.  he must've had the bluest of eyes.  he's immature as hell.

He's 35 *face palm* and yes he has the bluest of eyes and the best damn cheekbones you ever did see. When he gets manic he's like really just i can't even explain it, you see the texts
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Honestly, he should be ready to leave when you are.... no questions asked... I mean I thought it was pretty much unspoken rule especially when there are roomates involved.
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this is just dumb
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My advice is usually spot on.....y'all just want the Vaseline.....
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