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    Posted: Mar 20 2012 at 8:50pm
If I had a kid, and the mother and I broke up, and things were smooth I still would go to court, to make sure that when I pay child support is legally being recognized by the courts. I know too many guys who didnt want to go through the courts and felt it unnecessary due to getting along with their ex, and just kept writing monthly checks and then months or years later, things got ugly for various reasons the ex took them to court and the judge didnt even recognize the self imposed child support and they were forced to make back support

To me its legal protection for the man, as long as he isnt a deadbeat dad, and is actually doing what he is supposed to be doing he is much safer than if he is writing a check or giving a money order
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Couldn't agree more
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I don't want to. I know couples who co parent beautifully without having another file of information at a government office.

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Originally posted by ceme ceme wrote:

Couldn't agree more
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I don't want to. I know couples who co parent beautifully without having another file of information at a government office.

 
My uncle thought the same thing too. It worked for a couple of years however in the end she still claimed he wasn't paying. So many lies that she was telling.
 
 


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Originally posted by ceme ceme wrote:



Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I don't want to. I know couples who co parent beautifully without having another file of information at a government office.


 
My uncle thought the same thing too. It worked for a couple of years however in the end she still claimed he wasn't paying. So many lies that she was telling.
 
 



exactly, just because the things are good now, doesnt mean it will remain that way
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It makes so much sense, which is why the majority doesn't have this mindset.
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I begrudgingly agree it protects both parties...
I just rather not
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I don't want to. I know couples who co parent beautifully without having another file of information at a government office.


Lol. This sounds like the people who try to tell me why they don't have a bank account.
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Exactly, men should be protected at all costs
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