Do I balance it? NO, its about me only right now. I'm delaying starting a family until it financially makes sense.
Right now I'm trying to get my company off the ground, while i'm currently working full time. Before actually starting my business, my goal was to have a business that would allow me to stay home. The thing is, the goals I have for my company will have me working just as much as working at a day job...if not more.
The good thing is.... My SO is also an entrepreneur so he understands the grind. He's also in no rush to have kids....so it'll probably be in my late 30s before I have them. That gives me enough time to start putting systems in place that I could be the hands on Mom I want to be.