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Topic: getting a ring more important than getting a hse
Posted By: afrokock
Subject: getting a ring more important than getting a hse
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 4:56pm

i believe its in her name



now the question is whose priorities are fuccked up



Replies:
Posted By: MizzAmirah
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:01pm
A lot of these black male celebs stay passing on their wealth to the next generation of clear folks. 


Posted By: naturesgift
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:02pm
best idea ever- I'd rather a home than a ring
a trip rather than an expensive garment/shoes


Posted By: danieb23
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:03pm
I mean, he married her && she seems fine with their arrangement.
Not my relationship so I'm not concerned with her lack of a ring.


Posted By: bunzaveli
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:05pm
lol is your name on the house ?


Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:07pm
I'll take the house


Posted By: rell85
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:07pm
I'll take the house too....go tammy.


Posted By: Yardgirl
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:11pm
House! I can wear a simple band and he can get me a nice ring for an anniversary.


Posted By: _ConcreteRose_
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:13pm
por que no los dos?


Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:13pm
Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

lol is your name on the house ?

I actually know somebody right now who's not married to the guy but he bought her a really nice house, and yes its in her name. Only.

Quite frankly, as long as I'm happy I would take the house.



Posted By: fckwitmeuknoigotit
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:15pm
Originally posted by MizzAmirah MizzAmirah wrote:

A lot of these black male celebs stay passing on their wealth to the next generation of clear folks. 
 
 
tbh, she's black.


Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:19pm
Buy me a house AND give me the card to decorate as I please? sh*ttt...what ring?

They have tattoos anyway on their ring fingers.


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:20pm
The house sounds like a damn good choice to me.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:21pm
8 bdroom house? vs how many carats? lol

(just so I can make an informed decision)


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:23pm
I think this is a shot at Stebie and Jose.
1.Because they moved into a bigger house but I dont think they own it.
2.Jose gave Tammy grief over not having a ring.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:27pm
Why not get both? But whatever, they're married. The ring doesn't matter at all at this point.

I would like both. Priorities are pretty fcked up in general if you're buying an 8 bedroom house. Let's get the zillow info on that property.


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:32pm
If you marry and then get the 8 bedroom house, it becomes a marital asset. I'll take the house. In my name, of course.


Posted By: Yardgirl
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:32pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Why not get both? But whatever, they're married. The ring doesn't matter at all at this point.

I would like both. Priorities are pretty fcked up in general if you're buying an 8 bedroom house. Let's get the zillow info on that property.

Why though? I'm thinking they're from large families or plan to have one of their own.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:34pm
Originally posted by Yardgirl Yardgirl wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Why not get both? But whatever, they're married. The ring doesn't matter at all at this point.

I would like both. Priorities are pretty fcked up in general if you're buying an 8 bedroom house. Let's get the zillow info on that property.


Why though? I'm thinking they're from large families or plan to have one of their own.


Depends on the house. Some ppl buy huge houses just to have a huge house, they don't really feel like homes. Word to all the athletes on mtv cribs with pillars and empty bedrooms.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:41pm
Wacka don't have any sperm, how many kids they having? Just seems like a lot of upkeep.


Posted By: goodm3
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:46pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Wacka don't have any sperm, how many kids they having? Just seems like a lot of upkeep.

damn....cold blooded even if it is true...




Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:50pm
Originally posted by goodm3 goodm3 wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Wacka don't have any sperm, how many kids they having? Just seems like a lot of upkeep.


damn....cold blooded even if it is true...




lol don't shoot the messenger, they went to the doctor on the show. They'll probably do treatments to get one.


Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:57pm
ill take the house in my name only and marry someone else. 
thanks for the gift boo. 


Posted By: Rumbera
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 5:58pm
Wacka whole mouth area is a turn off..
 
I'll take the house in my name with affordable yearly property taxes for when we break up..LOL


Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 6:06pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by goodm3 goodm3 wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Wacka don't have any sperm, how many kids they having? Just seems like a lot of upkeep.


damn....cold blooded even if it is true...




lol don't shoot the messenger, they went to the doctor on the show. They'll probably do treatments to get one.

this whole time i thought he was just responsible. this makes a whole lot more sense. 


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 6:10pm
house isn't enough

can she upkeep the house, taxes and maintenance?

if things go south, can she live on the proceeds?  can her children?

this is the commitment ceremony of assets lol

nah if you want protection get married, if you like to be really protected get a pre nup




Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 7:14pm
Why would this be an either/or or a versus in the real world?  Don't they live in the South where housing is inexpensive? You can buy real estate but not a ring? That makes no sense. miss me with that.


Posted By: alynxx
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 7:17pm
Takin the house.


Posted By: mzsophisticated
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 7:23pm
I understand they got ring tattoo or whatever and she never wanted a ring...but why does it have to be a choice between a ring or house. I mean you can get a nice ring for a couple of thousand and still have a nice house. Her statement seems like shade towards Jossy and Stevie since we know they VH1 is renting the fake mansion


Posted By: Princess_S
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 7:36pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Wacka don't have any sperm, how many kids they having? Just seems like a lot of upkeep.
Wonderrrrrrrrrrr you wrong


Posted By: miana79
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 8:00pm
why not both? The ring doesn't need to be extra extravagant. 


Posted By: zolloh
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 8:05pm
Waka's sperm count is like 10000/ml...normal is like 20million/ml...the only way they are getting a 2nd baby is in a doc's office


Posted By: Marcelo22
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 8:20pm
I think my sperm count is low. Ive been going raw all these years and never had any pregnancy scares. I be straight up bussing in women and I never get that call. They usually on BC but still. It's a gift and a curse.


Posted By: MizzAmirah
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 8:21pm
Honestly, if he can afford to buy someone else (apart from himself) an 8 bedroom house, surely he could afford a ring. Unless she thinks she's married to Kobe Bryant and making $30+ million dollar ring demands (which I doubt from her post), I don't see why not both a house and a ring. 


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 8:33pm
My mother wanted a house instead a ring and they're still living happily together after 30 years Heart




Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 8:44pm
the house is just a 5k per month mortgage payment..
the ring is a serial, life altering commitment.

unless i see that its fully paid for and in my name... meh. ill take a kim k/bey-esque 5 million dollar ring.
can those be repo'd..? seems way less likely to be repo'd or taken.


Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 8:45pm
Ill take a house over a wedding. Rings I like arent expensive at all. 20 person civil union and then a big reception with open bar and appetizers.


Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 8:59pm
U ain't gotta pay taxes on that ring tho. Is wakka pockets deep enough to maintain that house and its property taxes long term. .lol

If i were dating a rapper my choice of house or ring would depend on his duckets. If its chingy get the ring if its jay take the house. Id need someone whose spousal support covers my post marriage amenities a foreclosed 400k house aint it


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 10:30pm
I don't give a fck. I'm not into jewelry and I don't want to be a home owner


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 10:44pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


I guess if folks are getting 400k rings and 400k homes we can compare
CryLOL


Posted By: HunnyB
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 10:55pm
Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

lol is your name on the house ?

LOLRight
All happy and sh*t when the deed is done and your name ain't even on the deedCry


Posted By: cosmogirl
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 11:01pm
House with my name on the deeds.

I also need to be checking my pockets that I can afford the council tax (I'm in the UK) if we break up.


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: Sep 03 2014 at 11:37pm
Just realized i didnt answer the question , Ill take the house with the deed in my name for a thousand ALex.


Posted By: femmemichelle
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 12:44am
Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

I think my sperm count is low. Ive been going raw all these years and never had any pregnancy scares. I be straight up bussing in women and I never get that call. They usually on BC but still. It's a gift and a curse.

Confused


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 1:14am
you'd need so much paperwork for the same legal assurances that a "ring" provides

if he can afford to buy a house outright and put your name on the deed, it's shortsighted to settle for a house over marriage

especially if you are committed, making personal and professional sacrifices, etc




Posted By: Prtybrwneye_z
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 1:27am
With the high rate of foreclosures I need more details. How much down did he put on the house, monthly mortgage, can she afford to keep it if he decides to leave etc


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 3:13am
I'm not sure why people always make it seem like it has to be either or.
Buy what's in your price range. Err durr.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 5:52am
Oh so they're married, she just doesn't have a ring? So Afro is asking us if we would be ok married with no ring(s)? Maybe. Lol

Some couples don't wear rings anyway.


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 5:56am
No they weren't married at the time of the tweets

As clearly visible in the op

Lol



Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 5:58am
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


I guess if folks are getting 400k rings and 400k homes we can compare
guuuuuuuuuuurl ... Now you know!!

@gk, wakafloka has been getting that Europe money for almost 18 months

He practically lives in Paris


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 6:05am
That's why I asked for more details. Lol

Like where is this house located???


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 6:07am
^^and does it come with a housekeeper???


Posted By: Missvw
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 6:38am
I'll take the house. The ring can come later.


Posted By: Joja1107
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 7:23am
Uh, all the married ppl I know have both a ring & a house.  


Posted By: HeyBeautiful18
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 9:18am
Whats the reason behind him not getting her a ring ?

I guess if I was married and he was not trying to hide me or keep it under wraps then Ill take a house too   LOL


Posted By: goodm3
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 9:48am
to most people...yes, the house would be more important. 

but in this case with Tammy and Wacka..he has the funds to do both. I just don't understand how someone who buys me the world...EXCEPT a wedding ring.


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 10:20am
if they're married, this is a non issue

Rings come in every price range, so many materials.   Not sure why no ring and their marriage is supposedly public 


Posted By: NuAttitude
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 10:39am
Originally posted by _ConcreteRose_ _ConcreteRose_ wrote:

por que no los dos?
I would like both as well but if I had to choose 1, then a house it would be.Wink


Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 11:24am
Is it that hard to believe some women don't want a ring?


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 11:34am
Originally posted by callmeDEva callmeDEva wrote:

Is it that hard to believe some women don't want a ring?
for the person who was in the op yes!!


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 11:47am
Afro, you didn't give us the backstory on people in OP lol


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 11:48am
did that really need explanation??



Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 1:45pm
Originally posted by Missvw Missvw wrote:

I'll take the house. The ring can come later.

ia...i really dont understand how this could be a problem per se.


Originally posted by callmeDEva callmeDEva wrote:

Is it that hard to believe some women don't want a ring?

seems more like its hard to believe that a woman of all people would choose a home over a ring...
no sé porqué?ConfusedLOL


Posted By: Bored w/Out Me?
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 4:16pm
Her ring money is going to go towards in vitro according to Zolloh's post...


Posted By: Benni
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 6:11pm
Skipped ahead here but....

8 bedrooms ??

How about 4 bedrooms and a ring


Posted By: NuAttitude
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 6:31pm
Hmmm 8 sounds about right......The Master bedroom, bedroom for my parents, bedroom for his parents, a bedroom for 3 kids, and a mancave/bedroom when she kicks him out the master or when he tries to sneak in late at night.Stern Smile


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 9:19pm
Actually I should I should have just used my favorite WF gif for this thread. So my response to the OP is.....



Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 9:21pm
He can actually afford both tho.....


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 10:30pm
i hope that ms. deb isnt moving into that 8br house. imo, she is more emotionally draing that scrppy's momma. at least mama dee is the type to get a man and become ghost. ms. deb aint event trying to get a man (maybe a woman thoStern Smile). All she wants to do is attempt to live vicariously thru waka & tammy and recapture her lost youth & missed experiences.


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Sep 05 2014 at 5:17am
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

No they weren't married at the time of the tweets

As clearly visible in the op

Lol



they only had tattoos or some sh*t on the show and then went to the courthouse

I have no idea the exact dates when it comes to the marriage or the tweets

so the tweets were before they went to the courthouse?

I assumed he still didn't buy a ring, but gave her his name

did you watch the show?


What show?

Thanks for the dates ..

Even funnier now to the girl who is banging on bout the ring



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