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Topic: SimplYounique big chops again
Posted By: JamCaygirl
Subject: SimplYounique big chops again
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 9:14pm
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I mean I know its just hair, but sometimes I get confused why the numerous big chops some people do



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Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 9:21pm
whoever she is, she is pretty on both pix.


Posted By: Alias_Avi
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 9:23pm
Her makeup is not flattering... at all


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 9:26pm
i saw her hair was relaxed...i wonder if that  was why

now i remember why i hate bhm...it's hit or miss posting sh*t




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Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 9:27pm
Originally posted by Alias_Avi Alias_Avi wrote:

Her makeup eyebrows is are not flattering... at all

fixed!!!!


Posted By: Tbaby
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 9:28pm
^^I hate painted on eyebrows with a passion.  Why do women think that look is cute?Wacko


Posted By: JamCaygirl
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 9:34pm
She relaxed it like a month ago - it was waist lenght and now its chopped

My Favorite Natural Hair Guru, SimplYounique, Relaxes Her Hair & It’s Waist Length!

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Oh and her hair looks really healthy and is very very long. Wow!

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I have no place to judge her because it’s her life and her hair and she can do what she want, but I’m hurt when another positive role model in our community makes the decision to relax their hair and then says they did it because it’s “easier”.  This messaging is what hurts me, not the decision. Do what you want, but own it.  Tell me what you think. Is relaxing your hair after years of being natural because it’s easier a legitimate reason or a cop out?

I can come up with a  few alternatives that I personally would choose to do to my hair instead of relaxing it if my life got too tough and I was having trouble managing my hair.  And actually, the first one I  did do when my life was overwhelming because I was pregnant with my 2nd child, was high risk, maintained a full time job and had a 2 year old son, hubby, and was in the process of buying a house. PROTECTIVE STYLES ANYONE? Anyone with no time knows how convenient this can be. Kerry mentioned that she is currently keeping her hair “in a ponytail, a bun or under a lace front.”  So basically she’s protective styling her relaxed hair. #noshade

Just in case you read that paragraph as judging, I’m going to say it again, I’m not judging her, I’m addressing her reasoning as to why she chose to relax her hair. She said she had no time, right?  If you’re ever too busy to do your natural hair this is another alternative that you can take versus relaxing your hair, why not try a low manipulation style like mini twists that can last weeks or a marley bun which can last at least a week.

And my final option which I tell people all the time, you don’t have to relax your hair to wear it straight.  Heat styling is not foreign to anyone, visit a salon for a blow dry and flat iron and voila. I ask you once again, Is relaxing your hair after years of being natural because it’s easier a legitimate reason or a cop out?




Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 9:39pm
so how do you know if she big chopped? are those pictures at the top recent?


Posted By: JamCaygirl
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 9:41pm
Its on her facebook
http://www.facebook.com/1SimplYounique" rel="nofollow - https://www.facebook.com/1SimplYounique


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 9:42pm
Originally posted by Tbaby Tbaby wrote:

^^I hate painted on eyebrows with a passion.  Why do women think that look is cute?Wacko
Some people really don't have eyebrows to begin with so they draw them on. Hers are just very very dramatic.

Relaxing to WL and big chopping to TWA length all within a month...she is making women who live vicariously through her hair mad.LOLLOL


Posted By: zolloh
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 9:43pm
that whimper you hear is bald bishes weeping Cry


Posted By: Alias_Avi
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 9:44pm
People in they feelings because a woman chose to cut her hair?!??

I gonna need for these Black women to get their self-esteem and fall back with all the entitlement issues

We should be happy that a fellow Black woman actually has the option of growing or cutting her long hair. Ain't that what all this 'hair journey' sh*t is about anyhow? The opportunity to have options?

Originally posted by JamCaygirl JamCaygirl wrote:

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I have no place to judge her because it’s her life and her hair and she can do what she want, but I’m hurt when another positive role model in our community makes the decision to relax their hair and then says they did it because it’s “easier”.  This messaging is what hurts me, not the decision. Do what you want, but own it.  Tell me what you think. Is relaxing your hair after years of being natural because it’s easier a legitimate reason or a cop out?




Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 9:45pm
Im glad im no guru. I could see myself getting a perm again.


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 9:52pm
Originally posted by JamCaygirl JamCaygirl wrote:

Its on her facebook
http://www.facebook.com/1SimplYounique" rel="nofollow - https://www.facebook.com/1SimplYounique

oh i see...umm that's interesting


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 9:55pm
Its her hair it will grow back but her features are most striking with her twa


Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 9:57pm
Her eyebrows are atrociously annoying


Posted By: JamCaygirl
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 9:57pm
her brows arent so bad here




Posted By: Alias_Avi
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 9:59pm
poor thang ain't got no brow bones


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 10:11pm
We keep sayin' it's just hair but in the 2014...it's still...


Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 10:14pm
good for her. i've big chopped three times already. it is just hair


Posted By: rell85
Date Posted: Aug 19 2014 at 10:28pm
Cute...this cut makes her cheeks pop.


Posted By: iluvmihair
Date Posted: Aug 20 2014 at 3:39am

I'm devastated!!! I loved her WL relaxed tresses! They were gone as quickly as they came! Cry


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Aug 20 2014 at 3:47am
Relaxed hair was easier for me to maintain....I'm still going thru my natural journey but natural hair can be a pain lol


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Aug 20 2014 at 4:08am

Originally posted by Alias_Avi Alias_Avi wrote:

Her makeup eyebrows are not flattering... at all

her makeup is fine to me...just those painted on brows....


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Aug 20 2014 at 4:11am
its so weird how people get emotionally attached to someone else's hair.


Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: Aug 20 2014 at 7:18am
Originally posted by CherryBlossom CherryBlossom wrote:

people were annoyed at africanexport cutting her hair too

...lol get a life and worry about what's growing out of your head...these yt "gurus" don't owe you a damn thing

Cry omg


 






Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Aug 20 2014 at 8:21am
she looks better with long hair


Posted By: Qualified
Date Posted: Aug 20 2014 at 8:27am
Well its her hair, but I think the longer tresses were more flattering.


Posted By: HaitianLuv
Date Posted: Aug 20 2014 at 8:43am
she relaxed too bone straight. Her face is big and she needs hair with more body. You see the ponytail? The hair is so flat to her head that it looks weird. Or maybe she just has really fine hair...


Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Aug 20 2014 at 9:21am
damn I didn't know AE's hair was that long. my LS always talks about how much she misses the ease of her TWA

natural haired women need to realize that every natural doesn't have the same motive or want the same thing out of being natural. it's not a "road to self discovery" for everyone.



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