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Topic: is a mans time all you need??
Posted By: afrokock
Subject: is a mans time all you need??
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 3:23pm
is a man's time all you need if you can get yourself everything you want and desire?

like this young lady?




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Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 3:26pm
I agree. Gifts are still nice though


Posted By: kfoxx1998
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 3:31pm
I definitely buy myself enough sh*t as it is.  I don't have no room for his gifts and end up taking them back anyway because I don't need itEmbarrassed.  But I always have a seat next to me for himHeart


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 3:32pm
Nah....blame my Virgo sun/Cap moon....we like gifts....time....experiences.....money.....we want it all...


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 3:34pm
time or undivided attention is valuable 

Money, things can cut it only for so long but on the flip side without money/things life can be too hard to enjoy the time 

So my answer is balance 


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 3:34pm

time and well thought out gifts (which take time) please and thanks.



Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 3:35pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Nah....blame my Virgo sun/Cap moon....we like gifts....time....experiences.....money.....we want it all...

What Sandy said. Don't nobody got time to be spending my own one when I can spend his...i need the whole package.


Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 3:36pm
That's some bull...I want it all!
She gonna be hella piss.


Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 3:37pm
No.

Eta. The more i read this the more it sounds like something a jumpoff who wants to be a gf/wife would say.


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 3:41pm
Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

time and well thought out gifts (which take time) please and thanks.

This.

If he knows I like sipping messy tea, then buy me a funky colored tea set and drink it with me.Cool


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 3:46pm
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

time and well thought out gifts (which take time) please and thanks.

This.

If he knows I like sipping messy tea, then buy me a funky colored tea set and drink it with me.Cool
 
gurl!!!!!!!!LOLClap


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 3:46pm
i think she would annoy me tbh ..

i mean im pretty generous, but id get tired of the awww.. you didnt have to bae... like wtf

sometimes giving makes other people happy


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 3:47pm
I bet a million dollars her ass been single since Saved by the Bell: the college years......those are always the ones talking this bullshizzni-ee....she get with a cheap nicca and be mad as hell....


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 3:48pm
Unemployed Brothas got all the time in the world to give shorty.


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 3:49pm
Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Unemployed Brothas got all the time in the world to give shorty.


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 3:49pm
lmao


Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 3:52pm
RT

does the twitter chic's opinion also mean she's paying the bills/buying groceries and alladat? She can have that.

I never want to lead a materialistic life. Sure I want nice things on my bday, Christmas etc. But nothing like laying up, watching netflix, eating good food and having sex all weekend.


Posted By: Rumbera
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 4:15pm
Nah... time gets old


Posted By: kfoxx1998
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 4:20pm
LOLy'all so cold-blooded.  I kind of assumed she was talking about dudes that stay up (missing birthdays, anniversaries, kid's b-day party etc., getting caught with time for dumb sh*t but no time for me) and use gifts and money as a way of making up for it with no intention of changing it.  Think Scrappy. 

And thinking about how on power Jamie don't never have time for Tasha or Tommy but he got hours and hours to give Angie's narrow ass....

Tasha's closet is fullStern Smile


Posted By: rell85
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 4:21pm
I love to be spoiled...why do it when someone eles can.


Posted By: keelolo1
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 4:30pm
Gifts are great. What woman wouldn't want that. But. I'm going through this now. I'd PAY to get some of my man's time.


Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 4:32pm
Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Unemployed Brothas got all the time in the world to give shorty.




Posted By: mzsophisticated
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 4:33pm
To me both are equal, I want gifts and then sometimes I want one/one time


Posted By: fckwitmeuknoigotit
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 4:56pm
i heard love don't cost a thing, tbh..
 


Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 5:37pm
Spreadsheet husband prolly thought that was enough too and well look what happened.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 5:42pm
Originally posted by fckwitmeuknoigotit fckwitmeuknoigotit wrote:

i heard love don't cost a thing, tbh..
 


right
but lust is expensive


Posted By: _ConcreteRose_
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 5:42pm
I agree. All the people I adore, I have really good memories/experiences with.


Posted By: phattrabbit
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 6:14pm
If the time is quality, then POSSIBLY.  However if that nicca got his nose in his damn phone the whole time then hell naw, where the diamonds at!


Posted By: alynxx
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 6:17pm
Confused Confused.com


Posted By: msjaim2
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 6:26pm
time & thoughtfulness always impress me most, though gifts are nice. i get shes trying to convey shes not a gold digger.


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 6:34pm
She shouldn't say it out loud though. If she wants that time, she gots to work on developing some type of instinctual greed. Sounds counterintuitive but men are weird.


Posted By: HowardAlumAKA
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 7:07pm
I agree....I dated someone who had a more hectic schedule than I....when I was free he was NEVER free. I would go weeks without seeing him and we lived less than 10 mins away from each other.....however he would send flowers and chocolates and jewelry to work. Irked me.


Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 8:18pm
if he aint spending it on you, he spending it on some other bytch. 


Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 8:25pm
Fcuk that,. I want gifts.. and they don't have to be well thought out either. I'm simple. One of my favorite gifts was a Walmart gift card.... another was some scooby snacks and fiber one fruit snacks (ok those 2 were thought out). 

But anyway, I like time too.. I want it all


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 8:28pm
I don't mind being spoiled with time...Gifts are nice but if he's barely spending time with you and doing other sh*t. What is the point of being together? I can barely see you, get gifts, and be single lol


Posted By: zolloh
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 8:35pm
bullshat....in my early 20's i was that "you didnt have to" but seething inside if a bf got me a gift i didnt like or i thought was cheap....i copped to my materialistic ways, i tell my SO what i want, he buys it, i act surprised, he's happy..../story


Posted By: OoDles O
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 9:07pm
Originally posted by smaison smaison wrote:

if he aint spending it on you, he spending it on some other bytch. 
:cameldead:


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 9:52pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Nah....blame my Virgo sun/Cap moon....we like gifts....time....experiences.....money.....we want it all...


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 10:02pm
The lies people tell, Yeah I want you to spend time with me sometimes BUT Im not into shacking up , I need my space quite often and bring me some DSW last years shoes and its over.


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Jul 23 2014 at 10:06pm
Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

Fcuk that,. I want gifts.. and they don't have to be well thought out either. I'm simple. One of my favorite gifts was a Walmart gift card.... another was some scooby snacks and fiber one fruit snacks (ok those 2 were thought out). 

But anyway, I like time too.. I want it all
Awww.Heart

...why'd I read that as Metamucil?LOL



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