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The One Who Got Away

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Topic: The One Who Got Away
Posted By: callmeDEva
Subject: The One Who Got Away
Date Posted: Jul 11 2014 at 9:50pm
Is there someone from your past who you didn't appreciate at the time, and now you see their value, although it may be too late?

Did you eventually get back together, if not, do you still regret it? How long will you/have you regretted it?

On the flip side, are YOU the one that got away? Why didn't you go back even though they appreciate you now?



Let's discuss



Replies:
Posted By: keelolo1
Date Posted: Jul 11 2014 at 10:01pm
Not a one. Good riddins to bad rubbish. 


Posted By: rell85
Date Posted: Jul 11 2014 at 10:27pm
It's a lost cause...I don't regret it but now i can say it was me.


Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Jul 11 2014 at 10:36pm
Ive broke up with some good dudes. But i never took them for granted tho.



Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Jul 11 2014 at 11:44pm
Originally posted by callmeDEva callmeDEva wrote:

Is there someone from your past who you didn't appreciate at the time, and now you see their value, although it may be too late?

Did you eventually get back together, if not, do you still regret it? How long will you/have you regretted it? NO


On the flip side, are YOU the one that got away? Why didn't you go back even though they appreciate you now? YES. I just wasnt into them then and I am still not into them. I am tired of them looking me up. I dont have my real name on FB b/c I dont want to be looked up.



Let's discuss


Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: Jul 11 2014 at 11:59pm
No. They are all in the past.


Posted By: beautiful_hair
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 1:47am
I was the one who got away.  He didn't want me to be a military wife (I ended up joining the military a few years later, ironically).  I saw him when I went home years ago and he told me that he shouldn't have broken up with me and that he had a good thing with me.  I was with my ex at the time living in Cali, so no, I was not going back to him.  Plus I don't go back to guys once we've broken up.


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 2:14am
Hell naw, I don't luh deez hoes
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Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 2:14am
But I've been the one who got away for multiple people according to them.

But this is just because when I'm gone, I stay gone. I'm quite stubborn.


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 3:19am
No.


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 5:55am
my girls are like boomerangs
no matter how far i throw them they (wanna) come back

/big L


so with that being said, naaah


Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 7:54am
Originally posted by beautiful_hair beautiful_hair wrote:

I was the one who got away.  He didn't want me to be a military wife (I ended up joining the military a few years later, ironically).  I saw him when I went home years ago and he told me that he shouldn't have broken up with me and that he had a good thing with me.  I was with my ex at the time living in Cali, so no, I was not going back to him.  Plus I don't go back to guys once we've broken up.


That is ironic! Was he in the military at the time?


Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 7:55am
Originally posted by rell85 rell85 wrote:

It's a lost cause...I don't regret it but now i can say it was me.


I like that last part. Sounds sad, but it's the reality


Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 7:56am
Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

But I've been the one who got away for multiple people according to them.

But this is just because when I'm gone, I stay gone I'm quite stubborn.


I need to be more like that.


Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 8:06am
I used to date a really good man. one of the last of a dying breed. but I didn't treat him right or appreciate him. I should have just let him go since I couldn't love him the way he deserved instead of lying to him, putting him down and cheating behind his back..he really wanted a commitment too and saw me in his future but I was too busy chasing aint sh*t Brothas


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 8:10am
There is this one man. But looking back, I know now that is the way it was meant to be, even though I still think of him fondly. He'll always have a special place in my heart.

And I was definitely the one that got away for someone else.

Then there's the one I should have quickly thrown away, lol. But would have, should have, could have is not the way to live one's life.


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 8:15am
There's some wood I wish I'd held on to, but I don't miss the man attached to it.

My ex's wife just tried to cuss me out last week cuz apparently replying to her man's text telling him I don't see him like that anymore "is keeping him from letting go and giving him hope".



Posted By: Missvw
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 9:25am
Originally posted by keelolo1 keelolo1 wrote:

Not a one. Good riddins to bad rubbish. 


Posted By: Princess_S
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 9:26am
I think I've been in both situations.
 
I let a good one get away. I was really young 20 or so and he wanted marriage and kids right away. He was about 28. I just wanted to finish school and do ratchet things with my friends.Cry
 
After him I ended up being with someone veryy long term and I was his one that got away. We've been broken up for 3 years now and he still contacts me very regularly. Unhappy


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 9:37am
no. apparently i am the one who got away.
tbh im tired of them lookin me up and tellin me so.Angry


Posted By: nemesis1
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 10:28am
No...


Posted By: Tbaby
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 10:28am
Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Ive broke up with some good dudes. But i never took them for granted tho.



ditto.


Posted By: sbrownie84
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 4:46pm
Nope


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 4:56pm
i am the one who got away…. 


Posted By: Benni
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 5:59pm
Not sure.. If I was too immature or shallow to appreciate this person when I first met them.

Whether or not I think about them from time to time.

I do believe in divine intervention.

If this person was meant to be in my life

our paths will cross when the time is right,

and my heart will know.



Posted By: HeyBeautiful18
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 6:12pm
Nope nope nope


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 7:38pm
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

my girls are like boomerangs
no matter how far i throw them they (wanna) come back

/big L




LOL
most come back w/ a plan/schemeWink

in general, not saying that's why yours came back AfroLOL


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 7:43pm
lol


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 7:48pm
I can't be the only one lol


Posted By: beautiful_hair
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 8:42pm
Originally posted by callmeDEva callmeDEva wrote:

Originally posted by beautiful_hair beautiful_hair wrote:

I was the one who got away.  He didn't want me to be a military wife (I ended up joining the military a few years later, ironically).  I saw him when I went home years ago and he told me that he shouldn't have broken up with me and that he had a good thing with me.  I was with my ex at the time living in Cali, so no, I was not going back to him.  Plus I don't go back to guys once we've broken up.


That is ironic! Was he in the military at the time?
Yes. He joined the military out of high school and I went to college.  After I dropped out of school, I joined the military.


Posted By: sunshine321511
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 10:39pm
Originally posted by keelolo1 keelolo1 wrote:

Not a one. Good riddins to bad rubbish. 
 
Those neygros saying I'm the one that "got" away....me....I'm saying...thank you JESUS...for not letting me have a child by any of them....and thank you for allowing the foolishness to END.


Posted By: dijah.love
Date Posted: Jul 12 2014 at 11:01pm
No... no one I've dated seems to want to go away.



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