Being White and Black
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Topic: Being White and Black
Posted By: Adrian
Subject: Being White and Black
Date Posted: Jul 08 2014 at 2:07pm
| Why don't biracial girls (and men) embrace their white side. They always consider themselves "black"? |
Replies:
Posted By: Lilaca
Date Posted: Jul 08 2014 at 2:17pm
| The ones i see only use black when its convenient unless they are raised in a purely black family with no white contact. |
Posted By: rell85
Date Posted: Jul 08 2014 at 2:35pm
| Embracing white while looking black huh that won't go well...saying thier biracial is good enough. |
Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jul 08 2014 at 2:44pm
| one drop rule. |
Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Jul 08 2014 at 2:50pm
| or they always consider themselves white. it's usually one or the other. |
Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Jul 08 2014 at 2:54pm
| Meh..ive seen folks sway both ways and down the middle. A great deal of it depends on how they interact with the families. |
Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jul 08 2014 at 2:54pm
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I think I remember your light skin/dark skin bs |
Posted By: Miss B
Date Posted: Jul 08 2014 at 2:56pm
This. FREEPOST! |
rickysrose wrote:Posted By: nala52808
Date Posted: Jul 08 2014 at 5:24pm
| Um most mixed people don't look white. Black folk however come in all shades so they are more likely to fit in. White only comes in White and if there's anything ethnic about you, they will notice. |
Posted By: Adrian
Date Posted: Jul 08 2014 at 5:32pm
Never heard of that. To many mullato is black, like Alicia Keys and Mariah Carey. Embrace all of you! |
Posted By: honeyb87
Date Posted: Jul 08 2014 at 9:37pm
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Because black is versatile, and white isn't. |
Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 1:11am
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Here in the US it seems that when you are biracial, you have to embrace one or the other side. Never both. I don't get that, because if you love the whites and blacks in your family, why should you choose? Anyways, I am mixed and I never had this issue, but I am a foreign, and we didn't have lynching and other vile things happening to blacks for almost a century after the end of slavery, so that might be one of the reasons why people have to "choose". |
Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 3:30am
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Because whites don't accept them as white |
Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 7:10am
/end thread |
Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 7:26am
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Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 7:32am
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Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 7:41am
| Also if you are mixed and can actually twerk with boots meat that is round then you are black. |
Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 7:43am
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Posted By: Majesty02
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 7:48am
| BP |
Posted By: Majesty02
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 7:51am
I don't know what kind of biracial people you've been around but all of the ones I known play off of the fact that their mixed. Some of the ones I've known use it as a "bragging right" to make themselves seem more hmmmm "exotic". Lol. Very few nowadays say they’re just Black. Example: Jason: Wow, Lisa you’re very pretty. What are you mixed with? Lisa: I'm German, Irish, Italian, Polish, Zambian and Jamaican. But in actuality Lisa's Mom is a White woman from Minnesota, and her Dad is a Black man from Detroit. So my question is, why not just say you’re mixed with Black & White instead of adding all of these nationalities and countries to your background that you've never been to, nor do your parents have immediate ties to? But if you do have factual proof of all of these ethnicities in your background then cool, embrace it. But if not it’s kinda reminds me of those Blacks that claim to be mixed with Indian, but have no immediate ties to any Native American tribes or factual documentation of being part Native American.  Example:
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Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 7:54am
You know we can meet fcuk nicca |
Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 7:55am
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You can't afford the flight Keep dreaming |
Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 7:58am
Can we punch him together?
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Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 8:00am
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I will be there this fall bytch nicca! I got family station there and it going to skull drag you down from the city to the country side. You damn omo-aiye Sang you don't want this beef young nicca. |
Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 8:05am
But the real question we should be asking is why ask if they are mixed to begin with? As if bring mixed is more attractive than regla black or regla white You feel me? Pause! |
Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 8:06am
| Go drink the Queens tea and choke on some crumpets. |
Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 8:29am
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Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 8:34am
 I thought we all just agreed that he was a caricature of the uncle tom/zip coon character embodying a living warning to the "new blacks" that we kept around for entertainment and educational purposes. I was waaaaaay off… 
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Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 8:40am
| I ain't no zip coon/uncle Tom I have no preference to Europeans. They can get it to. I detest all humans equally. |
Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 8:49am
| Troublesome '96 - 2pac: |
Posted By: zolloh
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 9:00am
| Idk about y'all but my mama always told me never to argue with a fool coz people may not see the difference...so yeah |
Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 9:07am
| I ain't no fool nicca |
Posted By: Adrian
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 10:01am
And at the same time I don't accept them as black. |
Posted By: Majesty02
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 10:09am
Yea. Its sad but unfortunately there's a lot of simple mined people that still think this way. As if it would be impossible for a black woman especially one with brown/dark skin to be beautiful and not fit the typical stereotype of what they think Black woman should be. |
Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 10:12am
| My only white friend is black lol. Her dad is black and mom is white, but she looks white. She is not light skinned, but anglo-saxen skinned. She said her dad's family urged him to get a paternity test because she was so.....caucasian. I just let people tell me how they want to identify themselves as, but for the most part people that I know that are yt and blk biracial claim both sides or black. |