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Topic: Sex when you are pissed
Posted By: petiteone29
Subject: Sex when you are pissed
Date Posted: Jul 05 2014 at 10:15pm
Can y'all have sex with your spouse when you are mad, irritated with them? Or do you need to resolve the issue before you get busy?



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Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Jul 05 2014 at 10:21pm
when i had one, yes. we were the type to plainly say so beforehand and compartmentalize being pissed so we could have sex. LOL

rarely were we still concerned afterwards. hahahah!! 


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jul 05 2014 at 10:37pm
if it's nothing major sometimes that's the best way to get things right




Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Jul 05 2014 at 10:43pm
Last chick I was with, I remember one time we had an argument, had sex and then she got mad at me for enjoying it and going to sleep.


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jul 05 2014 at 11:52pm
well if apologies/acknowledgments are necessary based on the argument that should happen before or after

Not, not at all

Things can fester that way

But truth be told if I need an apology or feel I need to make an apology it's happening before

We TRY not to go to bed angry


Posted By: kerysdream7
Date Posted: Jul 05 2014 at 11:55pm
Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

<span style="font-size: 12px;">if it's nothing major sometimes that's the best way to get things right</span>



This


Posted By: Bored w/Out Me?
Date Posted: Jul 05 2014 at 11:58pm
He don't ask for oral when I'm pissed


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 12:11am
That's how he likes it


Posted By: sweetskul
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 12:18am
heck no matter of fact dont even try to touch me for a few days if it was a big argument and sh!t isnt resolved..but if the argument is big and sh!t is resolved i still sometimes wont want him touching me depending on the nature of the argument 


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 4:16am
naaah

if im pissed im pissed

i dont think with my dick


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 4:38am
no dont touch me, i'll clock you upside the head.


Posted By: Missvw
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 6:46am
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


no


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 7:50am
get some head and then roll over and go to bed/go home


Posted By: petiteone29
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 9:17am
Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

no dont touch me, i'll clock you upside the head.

LOL



Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 9:30am
Depends on what I'm pissed about. Sometimes that's the best way to release my anger though


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 10:28am
Yeah, but I'm mean with it. Hop on, get mine, and then I'm done lol.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 11:34am
Depends why I'm mad


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 11:38am
Originally posted by CherryBlossom CherryBlossom wrote:

sex when I'm pissed?







Posted By: fckwitmeuknoigotit
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 11:41am
no way...if i'm pissed then that means i don't want to be bothered at all. not even the pleasure of sex can change that.


Posted By: blaquefoxx
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 11:52am
Funny this topic came up, I just saw that infamous scene from Belly last night lmao


Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 12:06pm
I tried it once. we were both mad at each other...super upset...but I was horny...worse sex ever...we still laugh about it. but never again, I didn't even let his ass cum, I pushed him off and told him to finish his self off. I think that made him even more upset. we have both agreed to forgo sex when we are upset cuz it can't go down like that again.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 12:09pm
it seems like it would be interesting.. 

but depends… 'pissed' probably not. 
'annoyed'? seems like it would be fine. 




Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 12:11pm
Originally posted by fckwitmeuknoigotit fckwitmeuknoigotit wrote:

no way...if i'm pissed then that means i don't want to be bothered at all. not even the pleasure of sex can change that.


not even some good head

that sh*t fixes everything. temporarily 


Posted By: rell85
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 12:16pm
Yes


Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 12:20pm
Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Funny this topic came up, I just saw that infamous scene from Belly last night lmao


Me too! And I was mad for her. He was a pedophile! Like did she not hear that he was messing with her at 11 years old?!


Posted By: petiteone29
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 1:25pm
Originally posted by fckwitmeuknoigotit fckwitmeuknoigotit wrote:

no way...if i'm pissed then that means i don't want to be bothered at all. not even the pleasure of sex can change that.

Interesting. I am kind of surprised at some of the men's responses. 




Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 1:27pm
I think.


Posted By: petiteone29
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 1:28pm
My husband stays away from me when I'm mad. So he knows it ain't happening. 


Posted By: Cream1970
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 2:20pm
Not married, but I can ALWAYS fcuk my SO ,regardless.

Thus far, we haven't had an issue/argument THAT bad. If there was a major issue, I don't know how my sex drive would react.

He puts me in the dog house though..So I'm learning to not nitpick over trivial shyt like I used to.

The fukka...



Posted By: Sleek
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 2:31pm
No I can't but my SO can he rocked my body last week I didn't even know he was upset at a comment I made till after.


Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 3:18pm
It depends on what I'm mad about.

If it's something that has affected my trust/loyalty, then I absolutely can't. It actually won't be the same until that issue is resolved completely.

Anything else probably wouldn't matter.


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 3:21pm
Yuppp...then I stopped talking to him lol


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 3:23pm
It depends on the nature of the disagreement, of course. When it's a minor quarrel, sex is the great equalizer. When it's a huge problem, sex is the last thing on your mind.


Posted By: petiteone29
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 3:24pm
I meant to put s/o instead of spouse in the title y'all.


Posted By: petiteone29
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 3:25pm
Originally posted by Sleek Sleek wrote:

No I can't but my SO can he rocked my body last week I didn't even know he was upset at a comment I made till after.

LOL


Maybe it wasn't that serious to him.


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 3:38pm
Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

I meant to put s/o instead of spouse in the title y'all.


LOL, I noticed that. I thought it was a thread for the married women's club only.


Posted By: Sleek
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 3:43pm
Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

Originally posted by Sleek Sleek wrote:

No I can't but my SO can he rocked my body last week I didn't even know he was upset at a comment I made till after.


LOL
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Maybe it wasn't that serious to him.
Lol no he told me he was mad at what I said and that his intentions was that when we get back into the room was to slay me.....and my comment had nothing to do with sex that's the crazy part....


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 3:50pm
Originally posted by Sleek Sleek wrote:

Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

Originally posted by Sleek Sleek wrote:

No I can't but my SO can he rocked my body last week I didn't even know he was upset at a comment I made till after.


LOL
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Maybe it wasn't that serious to him.
Lol no he told me he was mad at what I said and that his intentions was that when we get back into the room was to slay me.....and my comment had nothing to do with sex that's the crazy part....


I was about to suggest something like that but I didn't dare. But since you mentioned it... I had an ex who did exactly that. Some dudes think of sex as a form of  "revenge" in these circumstances. I loved it though LOL Problem is I ended up having to pick fights to get some. Dude turned out to have major issues (that's just my experience though)


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 4:33pm
Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

I meant to put s/o instead of spouse in the title y'all.


A lot of people claim SOs, spouses, and misters on here who ain't married

No diff


Posted By: Sleek
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 5:01pm
Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

Originally posted by Sleek Sleek wrote:

Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

Originally posted by Sleek Sleek wrote:

No I can't but my SO can he rocked my body last week I didn't even know he was upset at a comment I made till after.


LOL
</br>

Maybe it wasn't that serious to him.
Lol no he told me he was mad at what I said and that his intentions was that when we get back into the room was to slay me.....and my comment had nothing to do with sex that's the crazy part....


I was about to suggest something like that but I didn't dare. But since you mentioned it... I had an ex who did exactly that. Some dudes think of sex as a form of  "revenge" in these circumstances. I loved it though LOL Problem is I ended up having to pick fights to get some. Dude turned out to have major issues (that's just my experience though)

Lmao thxs for the heads up JP


Posted By: petiteone29
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 5:47pm
Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

I meant to put s/o instead of spouse in the title y'all.


LOL, I noticed that. I thought it was a thread for the married women's club only.


LOL Nah I wouldn't do that.


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 6:07pm
Originally posted by Sleek Sleek wrote:

Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

Originally posted by Sleek Sleek wrote:

Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

Originally posted by Sleek Sleek wrote:

No I can't but my SO can he rocked my body last week I didn't even know he was upset at a comment I made till after.


LOL
</br>

Maybe it wasn't that serious to him.
Lol no he told me he was mad at what I said and that his intentions was that when we get back into the room was to slay me.....and my comment had nothing to do with sex that's the crazy part....


I was about to suggest something like that but I didn't dare. But since you mentioned it... I had an ex who did exactly that. Some dudes think of sex as a form of  "revenge" in these circumstances. I loved it though LOL Problem is I ended up having to pick fights to get some. Dude turned out to have major issues (that's just my experience though)

Lmao thxs for the heads up JP


Girl, I'm just rambling.


Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 6:13pm
angry sex can be hella good
idk sometimes I will 
depends on how mad I am 


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 6:23pm
maybe we need an example or a scenario 

I have the feeling we're not talking about the kind of pissed lol




Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 7:13pm
Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

maybe we need an example or a scenario 

I have the feeling we're not talking about the kind of pissed lol




that's why I said " I think." LOL
Either I'm not understanding the scenario, or it hasn't happened yet.


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 7:29pm
no.thank.you.i'll.pass....


Posted By: bunzaveli
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 7:37pm
Originally posted by Sleek Sleek wrote:

No I can't but my SO can he rocked my body last week I didn't even know he was upset at a comment I made till after.


take that, take that. dont ban me bro


Posted By: bunzaveli
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 7:57pm
all the sex scenes in this show true blood are ummm interesting


Posted By: petiteone29
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 9:48pm
I didn't have a scenario because people get pissed about different things.LOL

Umm IDK.....

Lets say your man pulled a Kurt Frost(LAHHATL), DNA test and all.....
Or you found out he had a love child
Or he lied to you about something big
Or he pulled a RHOA Appollo move like he did with Kenya



HMMM........ actually I would put my husband out the house for these things


Those are the only examples I can think of though Stern Smile


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 9:51pm
oh damn…. 
i thought we were talking more along the lines of annoyed/irritated/frustrated… 

them are serial offenses and he better not touch me. 
we'd be through after half of those i think.. 


Posted By: HowardAlumAKA
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 9:54pm
Makeup sex is so goofy to me. No, its not the best sex ever, no, all is not forgotten afterwards. Its just silly to me.


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 9:57pm
oh. I was thinking along the lines of not taking meat out of the freezer last night




Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 9:58pm
I don't know those people or what happenedLOL, but for the other 2 scenarios, we wouldn't be having sex again period.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 9:59pm
I'm thinking anything that makes me mad enough to not want to have sex with him is gonna end up being a permanent thing.

eta: but I'm waiting on more scenarios.. may change my answer.


Posted By: petiteone29
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 9:59pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

oh damn…. 
i thought we were talking more along the lines of annoyed/irritated/frustrated… 

them are serial offenses and he better not touch me. 
we'd be through after half of those i think.. 

LOL

I think that I get mad about little things thats why I went to those extremes. 


Ok ....how about if he

Effed up the house and didn't bother to clean up?
Or he forgot your Bday?
Or he just said something really ignorant and stupid that annoyed the hell out of you?
Bought a new expensive car without bothering to tell you?
Flirted alittle too much with some chick?


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 10:01pm
Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:


Flirted alittle too much with some chick?


that makes it better right?


Posted By: petiteone29
Date Posted: Jul 06 2014 at 10:07pm
LOL @ PURP


Y'all a tough crowd

I tried


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jul 07 2014 at 12:52pm
oh don't mind  me. I'm a weirdo. I'm sure that's not a turn on for anybody else but me lol


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jul 07 2014 at 1:10pm
forgot my bday, no sex passes given. I need an elaborate, extravagant, well planned, multi phased apology

Didn't clean the house, pass

Something stupid/ignorant, hmmm depends who it was directed at and the intent etc. Conditional pass

Bought an expensive item, we ask opinions but not permission. No issues unless it's going to stop us from doing something we planned to do. And even then no issues if he has a plan 

Flirted.  Hmmmm. We're kinda passed that at this point. Plus I think he's smoother than to do this in a way that would make me feel a way.  This is more of a notation in the ledger for future reference if need be.  Pass.




Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jul 07 2014 at 1:22pm
suppose he changes his FB status from married to single--sex?

lol


Posted By: petiteone29
Date Posted: Jul 07 2014 at 2:58pm
Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

suppose he changes his FB status from married to single--sex?

lol

NO sex


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jul 07 2014 at 3:00pm
LOL



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