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Topic: Has anyone been in a Black sorority?
Posted By: Up&Out39
Subject: Has anyone been in a Black sorority?
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:43pm
poof. already answered. 



Replies:
Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:47pm
Black Greeks don't get a lot of love on BHM :-(

I've been in one for six years. I joined my sophomore year.

Do a lot of research. Not only is every sorority different, every chapter is different. Had I been at a different school, I'm not sure if I would have joined my sorority. That says a lot.

Even if you join now, you will be a soror for life. Many women join their senior year and continue to do the work forever.


Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:48pm
Oh and I had tons of fun. Many life lessons I still use today and will continue to learn I'm sure. There are negatives and positives but I never regretted my decision.


Posted By: sbrownie84
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:48pm
Join a sorority. Great connections and long lasting sisterhood. Very hard to find at a certain afe


Posted By: Up&Out39
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:51pm
Thank you, ladies. I will definitely give it a try. I think two are being added. I'll do my research. I would prefer to join one that is a bit academic/career based instead of just social. I'm kinda excited now 


Posted By: Tbaby
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:52pm
I'm a founder at my sorority chapter.  The nice thing is that there weren't alot of big sisters around to hassle usLOL  Expect to make best friends for life.  I'm not active any more but I still keep up with my line sisters and its been 20+years.  DST, everyone else is wannabesSmile


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:53pm
UP and out the sorors aren't online yet. I say go for it.


Posted By: Up&Out39
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:55pm
The only thing I'm worried about is would I have to get a Facebook? I used to have one for like 2 months but then I deleted it. I don't like social  media. I hear a lot of frats and sororities use it to communicate. maybe i can work around that


Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:57pm
Tbaby you tried it lol

Why do you HAVE to get a Facebook? I hate Facebook.


Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:17pm
i'm not in one, but I think I would have been a good aka if I did


Posted By: Up&Out39
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:17pm
Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

they dont teach discretion anymore do they

Question


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:18pm
they dont teach discretion anymore do they


Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:21pm
I doubt OP would know anything about discretion. There's no black Greek culture at her uni. That's where she would have picked up on it


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:22pm
Originally posted by Up&Out39 Up&Out39 wrote:

Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

they dont teach discretion anymore do they

Question


guess not


Posted By: Up&Out39
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:24pm
Oh am I not supposed to ask these type of questions or talk about it? I didnt mention what school I go to or what sororities are being added. I didnt know i said too much...im not versed in the greek life


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:26pm
Originally posted by Up&Out39 Up&Out39 wrote:

Oh am I not supposed to ask these type of questions or talk about it? I didnt mention what school I go to or what sororities are being added. I didnt know i said too much...im not versed in the greek life

I thought it was okay since she didnt reach pledge status, it wasnt set up at the school yet. Damn Up and out i should have told you to poof in the other thread. As it will go the same way as the one i remembered. Hopefully some PMs are sent to you.

Lawwkkssss SI came in with it, just dry so.LOLOuch


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:28pm
Create a black female mystery sorority. The Greek is just a copy from kemet mystery schools.


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:30pm
Originally posted by Tbaby Tbaby wrote:

I'm a founder at my sorority chapter.  The nice thing is that there weren't alot of big sisters around to hassle usLOL  Expect to make best friends for life.  I'm not active any more but I still keep up with my line sisters and its been 20+years.  DST, everyone else is wannabesSmile




Posted By: Up&Out39
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:31pm
Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

Originally posted by Up&Out39 Up&Out39 wrote:

Oh am I not supposed to ask these type of questions or talk about it? I didnt mention what school I go to or what sororities are being added. I didnt know i said too much...im not versed in the greek life

I thought it was okay since she didnt reach pledge status, it wasnt set up at the school yet. Damn Up and out i should have told you to poof in the other thread. As it will go the same way as the one i remembered. Hopefully some PMs are sent to you.

Lawwkkssss SI came in with it, just dry so.LOLOuch

ConfusedOuch I'll keep quiet from now on.



Posted By: Brjasuga51
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:37pm
GURLLLLLLL(OP)..Do ur research... think before u pledge. Make sure that is what u want. I can understand ur thread...u r curious and would like to know.


Posted By: Up&Out39
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:41pm
Originally posted by Brjasuga51 Brjasuga51 wrote:

GURLLLLLLL(OP)..Do ur research... think before u pledge. Make sure that is what u want. I can understand ur thread...u r curious and would like to know.

Thumbs Up will do! thx for understanding


Posted By: Brjasuga51
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:44pm
Originally posted by Up&Out39 Up&Out39 wrote:

Originally posted by Brjasuga51 Brjasuga51 wrote:

GURLLLLLLL(OP)..Do ur research... think before u pledge. Make sure that is what u want. I can understand ur thread...u r curious and would like to know.


Thumbs Up will do! thx for understanding

No problem


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 9:28pm
Could she at least PM folks to get info then? Or is that frowned upon?


Posted By: Tbaby
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 9:49pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by Tbaby Tbaby wrote:

I'm a founder at my sorority chapter.  The nice thing is that there weren't alot of big sisters around to hassle usLOL  Expect to make best friends for life.  I'm not active any more but I still keep up with my line sisters and its been 20+years.  DST, everyone else is wannabesSmile




LOL


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 10:15pm
aka's..........some of yall soros was on la hair last week...pearls and all...Big smile
 
ff to :54  and then then did a lil sumthin sumthin @ 3:30
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n7GD6v7c6aI" rel="nofollow - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n7GD6v7c6aI  


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 10:19pm
TC dante and I had the same face and thoughts when i saw it!!! Not one step was done, hmmpf!

ETA Oh wait oh wait oh wait. I never saw the beginning of the episode, only from the point where they left the chairs. DanteCryCry 




Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 10:22pm
lol diane did you see the lil chant they did?  chile..........


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 10:27pm
Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

lol diane did you see the lil chant they did?  chile..........

gurrrrrlllllll. so sad. i thought they were joking but they were so serious. Dante DOES step better.


Posted By: JamCaygirl
Date Posted: Jul 02 2014 at 8:07am
why are sororities meant to be secret?


Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Jul 02 2014 at 8:20am
Originally posted by JamCaygirl JamCaygirl wrote:

why are sororities meant to be secret?


Because they're by invite only. So there's a level of confedentiality that comes with that.


Posted By: Bribby
Date Posted: Jul 02 2014 at 12:39pm
So I missed it ):


Posted By: HowardAlumAKA
Date Posted: Jul 02 2014 at 9:43pm
I dont regret it a day in my lifeApprove


I can talk to any of my sorority sisters about anything without being judged.



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