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Topic: ask a bhm member a question...
Posted By: Josephuss
Subject: ask a bhm member a question...
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 5:52pm
clcny20 do you randomly google those food pics?



Replies:
Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 5:58pm
is it time for me to go away?


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:04pm
no joe. 


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:08pm
Why is Jadakiss as hard as it gets?


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:08pm
thanks for answering coco


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:09pm
I google recipes food recipes not pics.


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:12pm
Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

Why is Jadakiss as hard as it gets?
lol


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:14pm
youre suppose to ask a specific member


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:25pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

I google recipes food recipes not pics.

LOL


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:27pm
i think this thread has potential… 

i probably have some questions but idk if ppl will answer 


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:37pm
not true joe… 

we can make it come alive… 


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:38pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

i think this thread has potential… 

i probably have some questions but idk if ppl will answer 
thread already flopped


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:42pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

not true joe… 

we can make it come alive… 
i ruined the thread by making it


Posted By: Bored w/Out Me?
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:55pm
You're right Joe, if SL made this thread ther'd be 5 pgs of questions and answers...


Posted By: Up&Out39
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:55pm
It hasnt flopped yet. Joe why r u so hard on yourself?


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:55pm
I have a question

BINDY, how old are you and where are you from?


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:56pm
i agree with up&out 


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:57pm
AK, 
does your apprehension about showing your face on here have something to do with your fathers position? 
or your position? 

or do you just not wanna show your face…? 





Posted By: Junior Jr
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:58pm
joe,

are you coming back to twitter? i miss seeing you troll twitter hunnies

jr.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:58pm
Diane what is your fav Jadakiss song?


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 6:59pm
coco are there any members whos threads you will stay out of completely?


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:01pm
Originally posted by Up&Out39 Up&Out39 wrote:

It hasnt flopped yet. Joe why r u so hard on yourself?
just dealing with reality


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:01pm
PG, nah… 

idc who made the thread.. ill post wherever i want. 


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:04pm
Originally posted by Junior Jr Junior Jr wrote:

joe,

are you coming back to twitter? i miss seeing you troll twitter hunnies

jr.
now that im a practicing Jehovah Witness I cant talk like that or associate with the raunchiness that comes with twitter.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:04pm
smh joe… 

thats no fun 


Posted By: Up&Out39
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:05pm
Joe, have you ever watched The Secret? Im not trying to be all new agey with you, but maybe itll help you see a different perspective


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:07pm
Joe what religion were you before becoming a Jehovah witness?


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:08pm
Originally posted by Up&Out39 Up&Out39 wrote:

Joe, have you ever watched The Secret? Im not trying to be all new agey with you, but maybe itll help you see a different perspective
no.. whats it about?


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:10pm
why do yall act all cray about me posting pics…. like if i ever do its one of the few rare sightings of jesus himself……. 

but there are HELL OF ppl i can think of that never ever post pics… that yall have more likely than i…. never seen.. but they dont get harassed/haggled. 




Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:13pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Joe what religion were you before becoming a Jehovah witness?
well most of my family are Jehovah Witnesses so its the only religion I been associated with


Posted By: Up&Out39
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:13pm
Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by Up&Out39 Up&Out39 wrote:

Joe, have you ever watched The Secret? Im not trying to be all new agey with you, but maybe itll help you see a different perspective
no.. whats it about?

just give it a try, only an hour long. its about changing your mindset and stuff like that


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:14pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


ask me anything
how much money you make a year?


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:16pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

why do yall act all cray about me posting pics…. like if i ever do its one of the few rare sightings of jesus himself……. 

but there are HELL OF ppl i can think of that never ever post pics… that yall have more likely than i…. never seen.. but they dont get harassed/haggled. 




Cuz you always talk about what you look like and it makes people curious? lol


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:17pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

why do yall act all cray about me posting pics…. like if i ever do its one of the few rare sightings of jesus himself……. 

but there are HELL OF ppl i can think of that never ever post pics… that yall have more likely than i…. never seen.. but they dont get harassed/haggled. 



I think its do the font match the face syndromeConfused
I know people who I dont even engage with will pm me for a pic, sometimes I send em sometimes I dont. 

I kinda did want a pic confirmation from everyone in that slim thread though, I am still convinced it was some lies being told. 


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:19pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Diane what is your fav Jadakiss song?

hahahahhahahaha. Knock yourself out, but i only know about 3 Jadakiss songs.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:21pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

why do yall act all cray about me posting pics…. like if i ever do its one of the few rare sightings of jesus himself……. 

but there are HELL OF ppl i can think of that never ever post pics… that yall have more likely than i…. never seen.. but they dont get harassed/haggled. 



I think its do the font match the face syndromeConfused
I know people who I dont even engage with will pm me for a pic, sometimes I send em sometimes I dont. 

I kinda did want a pic confirmation from everyone in that slim thread though, I am still convinced it was some lies being told. 

Ppl here seem pretty open and honest about their body type, other things I can't say the same for but in general I think everyone in the slim or fat thread probably chose accurately.

But...who specifically?


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:21pm
Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Joe what religion were you before becoming a Jehovah witness?
well most of my family are Jehovah Witnesses so its the only religion I been associated with

I just asked since you said you did Twitter before becoming one is all.
Have you ever looked into different religions on your own or you just go to the hall because that is where your family goes and thats what you believe?

My family is straight cogic and I think they be crazyConfused, I plan on switching to something else. A bunch of that stuff dont make a lick of common sense and the logical part of me says it cant be true. 




Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:21pm
do i……? 

i dont think i always talk about what i look like.. like i will if it comes up in a thread… 
but maybe i do. 

if thats the case.. then i guess i get it. 

i type like im the baddest bitch…? Disapprove
i think im type humble. 


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:25pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

do i……? 

i dont think i always talk about what i look like.. like i will if it comes up in a thread… 
but maybe i do. 

if thats the case.. then i guess i get it. 

i type like im the baddest bitch…? Disapprove
i think im type humble. 
you type like you look like a model with a perfect body but people wouldn't appreciate your undeniable beauty because you are dark


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:25pm
SL can you post a pic of your bridesmaids' dress or bouquets? I wanna say it was turquoise and orange or near there. it was purdddyyy.

PG, why must you make me cry?

Up and Out, are you an alias? Member reincarnated? Also waht do you do for a living?


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:25pm
i just know that i have a list of people that id like to see… i doubt barely anyone has seen them… but they dont get haggled. 




Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:27pm
it's what BB said, you talk about your looks a lot.  Someone like alias I would be curious about seeing but she never talks about how she looks.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:27pm
Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

do i……? 

i dont think i always talk about what i look like.. like i will if it comes up in a thread… 
but maybe i do. 

if thats the case.. then i guess i get it. 

i type like im the baddest bitch…? Disapprove
i think im type humble. 
you type like you look like a model with a perfect body but people wouldn't appreciate your undeniable beauty because you are dark

smh… 

i dont believe that youre being serious cus ive always said that a bad bitch is a bad bitch… regardless of her color… 

im type offended and flabbergasted. 




Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:29pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

do i……? 

i dont think i always talk about what i look like.. like i will if it comes up in a thread… 
but maybe i do. 

if thats the case.. then i guess i get it. 

i type like im the baddest bitch…? Disapprove
i think im type humble. 


not always....but nothing wrong with that tho.


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:29pm
I'm serious, that's just my perception


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:29pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Joe what religion were you before becoming a Jehovah witness?
well most of my family are Jehovah Witnesses so its the only religion I been associated with


I just asked since you said you did Twitter before becoming one is all.
Have you ever looked into different religions on your own or you just go to the hall because that is where your family goes and thats what you believe?

My family is straight cogic and I think they be crazyConfused, I plan on switching to something else. A bunch of that stuff dont make a lick of common sense and the logical part of me says it cant be true. 


well I seen enogh where im either gonna be a Jehovah Witness or nothing. my family might influenced this decision to a degree but my heart tells me this is it.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:30pm
do i….? 

like i get that someone like alias (shes on my list…) never talks about the way she looks.. 

but i dont think i talk about my looks that much.. like if a thread comes up asking about our experiences in life ill explain/share… 
i dont even have hella confidence anymore… 

i feel some type of way about these accusations. 
im not gonna talk about my looks anymore. 





Posted By: Up&Out39
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:30pm
Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

SL can you post a pic of your bridesmaids' dress or bouquets? I wanna say it was turquoise and orange or near there. it was purdddyyy.

PG, why must you make me cry?

Up and Out, are you an alias? Member reincarnated? Also waht do you do for a living?

Not an alias. I don't do anything for a living. Just a 21 year old student striving. Nothing special


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:31pm
to everyone: when are you guys gonna invite me for dinner? seriously its hot and i dont wanna be in a hot kitchen lol.Geek


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:31pm
the color shade was real
in Graces world light does not give you extra points


Posted By: Up&Out39
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:32pm
Does anyone live in California? 


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:32pm
My perception is not reality. all I have to go by is your posts.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:33pm
someone ask Bindy a question on every page so she doesn't skip it.  I feel like she posts often but I don't know anything at all about her...age range, location...I need a better visual.


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:33pm
Ice ou can come over but im taking you to a restaurant. Summer and kitchens dont work. I dont cook really. I need to start.

Thanks Up and Out! 


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:34pm
Originally posted by Up&Out39 Up&Out39 wrote:

Does anyone live in California? 

I used to...bhm is much more enjoyable when you're on EST.


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:34pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


ask me anything
how much money you make a year?


lol

are you scared of spiders?


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:34pm
Diane, what actually does rass mean? I'm talking to this Jamaican girl and she was using that a lot when she was talking to me while drunkin. Is she cursing at me? lol


Posted By: Brjasuga51
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:36pm
Diane cannot cook Ice....runnnnnnnn. She will bake your chicken and tell u its jerk chicken...dwl


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:36pm
Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

to everyone: when are you guys gonna invite me for dinner? seriously its hot and i dont wanna be in a hot kitchen lol.Geek
I made cajun paiche, rice, and sauteed ruby red Swiss chard.

I was hot as fck when I was done. He liked it. You could of got a plate


Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:37pm
This thread is nice so far.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:38pm
Diane I dont mean to make you laugh, 9/10 Im serious but its my delivery that throws it off.
I do say the same stuff irl, people be mad. 


Posted By: OoDles O
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:39pm


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:39pm
Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

My perception is not reality. all I have to go by is your posts.

the model part… okay. 

but the dark part… i dont understand. im always saying that color or race aside… a bad bitch is a bad bitch.. no excuses… 

you dont need to explain though. 
whatevs 

typically i wouldnt give .25 fcks about the way im perceived on here.. but about this.. i feel some type of way cus im not hella confident. 




Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:39pm
Ice I could invite you but all Im serving is protein shakes and you live so far.


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:40pm
Who can tweark very well?


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:42pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

My perception is not reality. all I have to go by is your posts.


the model part… okay. 

but the dark part… i dont understand. im always saying that color or race aside… a bad bitch is a bad bitch.. no excuses… 

you dont need to explain though. 
whatevs 




You say that but that just means that you feel that way.

I can feel a type of way and know I could be judged differently depending on the audience.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:42pm
coco, talking about your looks and bragging aren't the same thing...you're not bragging, just talking about skin(not tone) or weight or looks in general...it's not in the negative way you're making it.


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:43pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Diane I dont mean to make you laugh, 9/10 Im serious but its my delivery that throws it off.
I do say the same stuff irl, people be mad. 
why did you separate from your husband?


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:43pm
Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Who can tweak very well?
did you mean twerk Nicca?


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:43pm
Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Diane, what actually does rass mean? I'm talking to this Jamaican girl and she was using that a lot when she was talking to me while drunkin. Is she cursing at me? lol

BBP raas = your ass. Oh yes she was cursing at you. It can be used in place of $hit or fluck or damn. Very versatile word. 


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:43pm
Coco what do you look like


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:44pm
Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Who can tweak very well?
did you mean twerk Nicca?


I wrote that and auto correct did it's job and I didn't proofread. So can you?


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:44pm
Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Who can tweark very well?
smh. This was your edit?


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:45pm
Yeah my bad again shid so can you?


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:45pm
Originally posted by Brjasuga51 Brjasuga51 wrote:

Diane cannot cook Ice....runnnnnnnn. She will bake your chicken and tell u its jerk chicken...dwl

GWEH! I can season chicken and i do a mean jerk chicken in the oven thanks to Walkerswood seasoning and my scotch bonnet pepper and fresh spices. Where am I gonna get pimento wood from? I do have a coal stove though


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:46pm
Nope. No ass.


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:46pm
I thought you would have at least some decent ass.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:47pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

coco, talking about your looks and bragging aren't the same thing...you're not bragging, just talking about skin(not tone) or weight or looks in general...it's not in the negative way you're making it.

okay. 
thank you for elaborating on that. 

she said i type like im a model with undeniably beauty but no one could possibly see it (so its just in my head..) 

i know i should be like wtf cares about what bhmers think.. but about this.. idk why but i feel a way. 


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:48pm
Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Diane I dont mean to make you laugh, 9/10 Im serious but its my delivery that throws it off.
I do say the same stuff irl, people be mad. 
why did you separate from your husband?

Now you tried itConfused


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:48pm
Nope. All boobs.


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:49pm
Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Diane, what actually does rass mean? I'm talking to this Jamaican girl and she was using that a lot when she was talking to me while drunkin. Is she cursing at me? lol

BBP raas = your ass. Oh yes she was cursing at you. It can be used in place of $hit or fluck or damn. Very versatile word. 


Thank you! omg I knew she was cursing at me! I kept asking her if she was cursing at me but she said no LOLLOL little liar!


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:49pm
Ooh pics?


Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:50pm
Oooo very pretty samone


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:51pm
Thanks SL!

Nita where were the army bases you were stationed? Just name the state/country?


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:53pm
Originally posted by Brjasuga51 Brjasuga51 wrote:

Diane cannot cook Ice....runnnnnnnn. She will bake your chicken and tell u its jerk chicken...dwl
LOL....as long as i dont have to cookStern Smile


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:57pm
Everyone: Is high school as hard as US tv make it seems? Is it that stratified/clique-ish? How was it for you? 


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:58pm
Ia that samone?


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 7:58pm
I don't consider it stationed because I was a contractor.

Never been to an army base, only marine and navy.


Posted By: _ConcreteRose_
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:00pm
I hated high school but it's not as clique-ish as movies portray.


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:00pm
High school was hard for social reasons only. The curriculum is not hard at all.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:00pm
highschool was fun..



Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:01pm
High school was clique-ish to me. But me and my best friends were cool with everyone. We had a good time


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:02pm
Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

I don't consider it stationed because I was a contractor.

Never been to an army base, only marine and navy.

I knew army was wrong! LOL You were a contractor, got it! i knew you weren't a soldier, marine, air force etc etc . I just wanna faas (be nosy) in your work travels. 

Thanks SL! 


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:02pm
oh and im in Cali… 
nor cal though 


Posted By: Up&Out39
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:02pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


I liked high school

but I had a core group of friends
 

Yeah I had my core group of friends too until I moved to a different high school my junior year. I only had like 2 friends. It was hard to get by socially when everyone had their cliques established. There were no bullies or big bad kids who picked on the nerds and made them cry like in the movies


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:03pm
high school was fun and very cliquey but luckily I had a lot of friends from childhood and also made new ones.  Honestly, like a year of it is a blur.  I got to go to really good proms.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:03pm
coco dont talk about her looks as much as some posters wanna beat you over the head with juices and berries, obtaining a man or beyaki can do no wrong. 


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:05pm
I've been on the bored since 08. In 6 years, that was my perception.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:05pm
Diane Its cliques everywhere, hs is no different. I do find it odd that they act like bullying just started last year though... shrugs shoulders.


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jul 01 2014 at 8:06pm
Thanks everyone!!!!

Up and Out what are you studying?

Everyone: Remember the thread where a pledger (prob using the wrong name) was talking about _____ sorority and the board told her to shut the hell up with the quickness? Lord who was the member? 



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