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you ever get any freebies for your looks?

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Topic: you ever get any freebies for your looks?
Posted By: Josephuss
Subject: you ever get any freebies for your looks?
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 5:02pm
as far as myself goes, being disabled outweighs any bonuses I would of got for my looks, and being though im average looking, getting things for my looks wouldn't occur anyway. this is something more common with females anyway, so you ladies ever get anything for looking nice?



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Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 5:03pm
Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

as far as myself goes, being disabled outweighs any bonuses I would of got for my looks, and being though im average looking, getting things for my looks wouldn't occur anyway. this is something more common with females anyway, so you ladies ever get anything for looking nice?


Your self deprecating trolling is getting tired real fast


Posted By: K_Camille
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 5:26pm
Twice, I think..those guys never said I was gorgeous though so I guess those times don't count. lol


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 5:27pm
Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

as far as myself goes, being disabled outweighs any bonuses I would of got for my looks, and being though im average looking, getting things for my looks wouldn't occur anyway. this is something more common with females anyway, so you ladies ever get anything for looking nice?


Your self deprecating trolling is getting tired real fast
i dont troll and i never got a freebie for my looks. saying im average is true btw


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 7:10pm
ok, no one else I guess


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 7:13pm
I got free chicken wings at Wal-Mart


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 7:13pm
Food....that's all I want anyway


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 7:15pm
just food and stuff.


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 7:18pm
Red carpet service 4 my looks.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 7:20pm
yes. 
or discounts/extras 

it might not completely be my looks though. 


Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 7:24pm
yep all the time



Posted By: Marcelo22
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 7:28pm
1 month free rent


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 7:35pm
Money and television


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 7:37pm
Originally posted by AwesomeAries AwesomeAries wrote:

yep all the time

do you feel flattered or amused, or what?


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 7:39pm
i think it's my gift of gab/small talk





Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 7:41pm
Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Red carpet service 4 my looks.
what do you mean?


Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 7:43pm
I think my sweet, non threatening attitude is why. My appearance gets me in the door, but my attitude seals deals.

Simple answer yes.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 7:43pm
Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Red carpet service 4 my looks.
what do you mean?

probably like.. doesnt have to wait in line at the club.. gets into vip.. etc.. 




Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 7:47pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Red carpet service 4 my looks.
what do you mean?


probably like.. doesnt have to wait in line at the club.. gets into vip.. etc.. 


ok... she must really knock em dead when shes out


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 7:53pm
she does!


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 7:55pm
i think i look innocent and endearing or something.. plus im a decent talker when i wanna be. people typically like me.. 

the last time i got a rental car i was annoyed with this blk bish randomly came from nowhere when it was my turn. i always prefer men… 
but she knocked some money off and gave me a few upgrades. 

ive had a few teachers give me good grades. 
10th grade.. i didnt do sht but 1 paper in english class.. rarely went to class.. i got a B. he liked me.. 

there have been other times where teachers (men and women) have upped my grade too. 


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 7:59pm
Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Red carpet service 4 my looks.
what do you mean?

*free vacation for me + guest to Miami (hotel, airfare, food, nightclubs)
*i dont wait in line. i just walk up to the front at venues.
*people kindly pick up my tab (or the tab for me and whoever im with).
*I get free upgrades for stuff without asking.


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 8:01pm
Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Red carpet service 4 my looks.
what do you mean?


probably like.. doesnt have to wait in line at the club.. gets into vip.. etc.. 


ok... she must really knock em dead when shes out

No. They assume that I am a connected person and connected people get stuff free.



Posted By: TayTay
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 8:05pm
-shopping spree in Sephora
-strangers picking up my tab in restaurants/bars

the rest i'm keeping my mouth shut on 
Stern Smile


Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 8:06pm
Not that I recall it.


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 9:24pm
Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Red carpet service 4 my looks.
what do you mean?


probably like.. doesnt have to wait in line at the club.. gets into vip.. etc.. 


ok... she must really knock em dead when shes out

No. They assume that I am a connected person and connected people get stuff free.

well im sure you knock em dead as well


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 10:01pm
thanks, but no. it's all about the presence/presentation.


Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 10:20pm
Twice at the liquor store customers have given me a bottle

Idk if it was for my looks or just the fact that I got a vag


Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 10:21pm
Oh and the stranger at the restaurant thing

And free drinks like all girls do


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 10:25pm
Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

Oh and the stranger at the restaurant thing

And free drinks like all girls do
so a guy pays for your food and remains anonymous?


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 10:30pm
my almost future b/f got $1000 in legal fees so far


Posted By: NadiaPost
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 10:55pm
I got a bible

A bag of cheese puffs

Ampro styling gel

A Watch Tower Pamphlet

I'm trying to think what else my sexy self done got.

Oh got to see the back of Micheal jacksons hand from across the street. I know negroes that know other negroes that have pull. My peoples can even get you to see the back of Beyonces head if you are pretty enough. If you are unfortunate looking then my peoples can only get you close enough to see the water bottle she drinks from.


Posted By: rell85
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 10:57pm
mostly food related things, moive tickets, and a tattoo.


Posted By: Benni
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 11:37pm
I guess getting preferential treatment, and not getting 'dinged' for something can be considered getting a 'free pass'.
Now that I am a little older and wiser, I don't accept them anymore because I never know who will be expecting something for their 'favors'.   


Posted By: _ConcreteRose_
Date Posted: Jun 20 2014 at 11:38pm
I get freebees all the time, but Im not sure if it was because of my looks or not. Maybe people are just nice!


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jun 21 2014 at 1:49am
Every woman gets freebies bc guys are picturing you blowing them.  It's just the way of the world.


Posted By: DiorShowGirl
Date Posted: Jun 21 2014 at 2:27am
my sister did once at this italian restaurant....my niece was only a month 0ld and these italian folks were going crazy over her( lite brite my niece) so when they asked what is her name my sister told them(an Italian name)___well that was it...FREE FOOD...my sister said she tore out of there before they found out she was fully black...LOLLOLLOLLOL..they thought she was half Italian....


a doctor at work once out of the blue bought me my lunch...said I will get this...thanks Doc


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jun 21 2014 at 2:49am
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Every woman gets freebies bc guys are picturing you blowing them.  It's just the way of the world.

i dont think so.. 

i think you have to have somethin about you. 

it must be her ass cus it aint her face. 

but yea.. ive seen a lot of girls who i thought were cute be all excited about free sht like it was a rare/1st time thing. 


Posted By: Samoneisthebest
Date Posted: Jun 21 2014 at 10:27am
nope


Posted By: Miss B
Date Posted: Jun 21 2014 at 11:46am
Looks are only part of it. A confident posture will get you more. Eye contact, and if you're gonna wear lipstick, wear lipliner / lip lock / SOMETHING. O's with smudged or feathered lipstick can't be trusted. Or O's that refuse to wear appropriate shapewear. Or the appropriate bra for the dress. It's the little things man. I know you ain't running CRAP if you have a halter dress and are wearing a regular bra. You gon' be waiting in line all night, LOL



But seriously, confidence. I have sauntered backstage at a concert like I knew where I was going and not one person stopped me LOL. No groupie status, I knew someone in the band and didn't feel like waiting for them to come out. That crap takes forever.




Posted By: StylingArabella
Date Posted: Jun 21 2014 at 12:49pm
Yes, but don't most women? Men like pretty women. A few things I get are all access gym membership when I only paid for single gym use, discounts, upgrades, car washes, and food of course. I never ask (maybe hint Wink) and I never lead anyone on cause I am married. It's usually in a service setting. There's only one thing that I am not proud of....free cable for the salon. In my defense I was just playing with the brotha when I said "How do people get that free cable? Wish I knew someone who could that." I guess I winked a bit too hard cause when he was done he said "you can't get any movie channels and call me if it goes out. Bye cutie" Embarrassed.



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