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Topic: So..classy ladies of bhm...
Posted By: Lady ICE
Subject: So..classy ladies of bhm...
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 8:38pm
i'm curious. would you date a man that waited 90 days before spending money on you?












*no im not in a situation like this*



Replies:
Posted By: _ConcreteRose_
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 8:40pm
Depends, why would he do that?
I'd rather someone say to me that he wanted to hang out didn't have the money at the time. Otherwise it just seems like a game he's playing by waiting 90 days. I just don't get it.


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 8:44pm
So what we doing for 3 months then? 


Posted By: maysay1
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 8:44pm
Define spending money?

I know it's possible but I'm not sure how you can actually go on dates for 90 days without some money being spent.


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 8:46pm
he on some type of probation period? what is the 90 days for?Confused


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 8:47pm


Spending money on dates isn't a big deal LOL


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 8:51pm
hell nah 

gawd… these new age/modern negros be trying it. 

first date spending limits.. 
probationary periods… 


Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 8:55pm
he purposely waited? LOLOLOLOL no


Posted By: maysay1
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 8:57pm
Like, once we hit all the free museum nights and concerts in the park and make our picnics and go people watching...what else are we gonna do? There's not enough free stuff to fill the 90 days.


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 8:57pm
Know your worth ladies.


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:05pm

no.



Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:06pm
Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

So what we doing for 3 months then? 

taking picnics and strolls in the park
reading 1-3-1 essays to each other 



Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:07pm
ain't nothing in life free
and my time damn sure ain't
fcuk that brotha
I can do free sheit by myself 


Posted By: Journey94
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:13pm
I wouldn't but I will say you don't see each other every day not even every week when dating. 90 days isn't a long time, and who dates 1 person at a time? You're simply getting to know someone. Only way you're seeing each other constantly is if neither of you guys have jobs or school lmao. What I'm saying is I could see how it would work for some but I personally wouldn't. Sounds strange that a time limit would be put on it


Posted By: Miss SDY
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:13pm
Lmfao!

So what are they doing for 3 months?

The chill at home dates?

Skeet and delete dates?

Oh, and my answer is no.


Posted By: maysay1
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:14pm
I just don't see how in 3 months a guy wouldn't have at least one interest or event they'd want to share with the girl they're dating that costs money? New movie comes out, or you want her to read a book you love, or there's a great band playing, or a good deal on a restaurant or massages or something.




Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:15pm
But be tryna fuqq....nah yo muney on hold and so is the box.....


Posted By: herwoman
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:15pm
No, he childish.


Posted By: rell85
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:16pm
Won't do it...so for 90 days they chilling at home?


Posted By: zolloh
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:23pm
Originally posted by AwesomeAries AwesomeAries wrote:

Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

So what we doing for 3 months then? 

taking picnics and strolls in the park
reading 1-3-1 essays to each other 

ihatechu with the fires of a thousand suns Cry LOL Cry


Posted By: goodm3
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:23pm
He would have to be very extremely creative to come up with dates that don't involve spending money...and don't involve chilling at the house. even if you went to a free festival...you're still going to want to get a drink or a snack while there...


no man thats really interested in spending time with you would ever think of something like this...

this is for dudes who have zero interest in you and are only using you for a filler until they find a woman they REALLy want.... and women who are comfortable playing that role for even the slightest bit of male attention. 


Posted By: beebeexx
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:24pm
the people who are equating waiting to be intimate add waiting to spend money/court are everything that's wrong with dating in 2014.


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:27pm
He doesn't even buy me an ice cream cone while we hang out in the park in the summer heat? Cook me a meal at home? Let me have some of his hot cheetos? Give me a stick of his gum?

Bish swerve.


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:28pm
So we leaving the house to get fresh air? mmmkay.

Swerves to go back into the house to watch TV. If he ain't peeling his paper the 1st week then bye. I ain't going dutch on shat. I'm allergic to dutch guys.


Posted By: herwoman
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:31pm
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

He doesn't even buy me an ice cream cone while we hang out in the park in the summer heat? Cook me a meal at home? Let me have some of his hot cheetos? Give me a stick of his gum?

Bish swerve.

No flower from the vendor? No bread for the geese?


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:31pm
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:


Bish swerve.
 
lol right.  even my broke azz bf's back in hs found a way to spend a few coins on me...


Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:32pm
Naw


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:36pm
what is happening to mankind lol


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:36pm
Right TC?LOL

Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

He doesn't even buy me an ice cream cone while we hang out in the park in the summer heat? Cook me a meal at home? Let me have some of his hot cheetos? Give me a stick of his gum?

Bish swerve.

No flower from the vendor? No bread for the geese?
No gas in his car to come and pick me up? No sno-cone while we feed the geese?

Bish swerve.


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:46pm

Yall know I'm playing lol



Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 9:53pm
Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

the people who are equating waiting to be intimate add waiting to spend money/court are everything that's wrong with dating in 2014.

Keep telling yourself that.....LOL

The problem with dating is people don't want to place value on themselves....self worth....sorry you are okay with group on dates and picnics....but I was raised by men that feel if a man can spoil you like your daddy uncle and granddad why are you with him....this low budget courting is new school.....


Posted By: whitrhymes
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 10:21pm
Originally posted by zolloh zolloh wrote:

Originally posted by AwesomeAries AwesomeAries wrote:

Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

So what we doing for 3 months then? 


taking picnics and strolls in the park
reading 1-3-1 essays to each other 

ihatechu with the fires of a thousand suns Cry LOL Cry




Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 10:29pm
Wait how we cause this sounds like some his couch, Limarita and his dick in my other hand type date. Confused

I know we could do free concerts in the park, and museums, and meet at the park, visit each other but I honestly dont think I would be sitting on no blanket in the park looking for ants and swatting mosquitos for some strange.



There was one exception to this response but he , well he was special and heaven sent and I would have sat at the library whispering with him for 900 days and smiled the whole time. Smile


Posted By: nemesis1
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 10:29pm
No.





Posted By: Katrenia
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 10:40pm
No, I'm not going to be part of his experiment. 

So what will he say "I'm into you but I'm sorry because my rule is; I can't spend any $$ on you for 90 days"

And I'd say, "See you in 89 days." 

I hate game playin bomb azz niqqas.


Posted By: Benni
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 10:57pm
Not a 'Classy Lady' but,

YES !!!

Quality, not quantity.

90 days is time enough to get to know someone.

Nothing wrong with both of us being cautions.
I say this to say that if things don't work out he cannot say "I did this, or spent that on you"....NO   
I like a clean slate and walk away with my head held high.

If a man can keep me interested and entertained for even 1-month without spending money     ,
the next 60-days may be an interesting challenge.



Posted By: kerysdream7
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 11:09pm


Posted By: OoDles O
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 11:35pm
^lmao


Posted By: OoDles O
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 11:36pm
it just means you go Dutch for 90 days... right?


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 11:43pm
90 days before he starts paying bills, hair appointments, or car repair? i can do that

w
ait yall talking about dates?...wtf will we be doing if he's not paying for it? im confused


Posted By: Katrenia
Date Posted: Jun 12 2014 at 11:53pm
Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

it just means you go Dutch for 90 days... right?

Even if that were the case, it still wouldn't work for me.

I'm a gift giver and I'm not cheap but I do like balance. 


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 1:22am
Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

it just means you go Dutch for 90 days... right?


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 1:57am
I suppose it really does mean going Dutch, but ditch on every little thing..

Like wtf?!

You can't buy a bottle of water or nothing?

Some groupon dates cost more than regular dates. Went to a Michelin starred restaurant last weekend in the easy end, meal for two worked out cheaper than average set menu groupon meals

I just don't see how you could go 3minths without spending some kind of money



Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 2:13am
wow when you hear questions like this

Contrasted against the thread where women shouldn't have kids until they can be stay at home moms

Looks like they'll need to rely on a high net worth because committed providers you can rely on ... well mercy


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 4:13am
i don't see how this is possible.  i would be mildly suspicious after the 1st date(not opposed to casual first time outting). and there wouldn't be a 3rd date if it happened the 2nd time around.


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 6:27am
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


dutch for 90 days?

so yall are cheap, petty friends
 
Dead


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 6:40am
Gold fcking diggers! All you want is a man to take you out on five star restaurants daily and spend money making middle class income. When you are making barely ends meet. Broke azz chick's!


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 6:44am
Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Gold fcking diggers! All you want is a man to take you out on five star restaurants daily and spend money making middle class income. When you are making barely ends meet. Broke azz chick's!
bhm be like



You cant even buy a shirt that fits looking like a hand me down teletubby ..

You in no position to talk


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 7:16am
Stfu before I head to London and kick your azz nicca. Don't get swerved this planet ain't that big


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 7:35am
Stop it cherry! I'm like yo cousin 20 generations removed and he is like a thousand removed quit playing.


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 7:50am
My DNA test came out 80 percent Yoruba hence my huge interest in my ancestral tribe. We family and came from a group of people who left eastern Africa and at one point conquered West Africa and brought down the Sudanese warriors. Ile ife will be my future home and give praise to Oludumare.


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 7:52am
Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Stfu before I head to London and kick your azz nicca. Don't get swerved this planet ain't that big
gtfoh


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 7:57am
Make me! Make me! You can't reach me shorty


Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 8:08am
no I wouldn't. any guy who doesn't spend money on you does not like you and is not taking you seriously or is broke

sex and money cannot be compared. I don't have to sleep with a guy to justify him spending money on me. I cant get my emotions and sex back. but he can go to work and earn his money back. i'm risking emotional pain, pregnancies, bad dick, stds and heartbreak by having sex with a virtual stranger. what is he risking by paying for a simple date? any man who tries to justify it by comparing the two may as well just tell u up front that he's a dog and all he wanna do is hit


Posted By: Brjasuga51
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 8:25am
lets say I meet him in the summer and we go to a free concert...yes  I am thirsty. I wont be able to get a bottle of water and a roasted corn(a favorite)....nawwwww dat wont work at all.#iknowmyworth#


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 8:25am
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Gold fcking diggers! All you want is a man to take you out on five star restaurants daily and spend money making middle class income. When you are making barely ends meet. Broke azz chick's!
bhm be like



You cant even buy a shirt that fits looking like a hand me down teletubby ..

You in no position to talk
lmfaooooo


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 8:27am
Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

So what we doing for 3 months then? 


LMAO THIS

I like dating to be mutual in reciprocation.. If it's just me spending in our courtship, I'm not staying.


Posted By: AmiliaCabral
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 8:28am

I'd think I'm a sidepiece. He's saving to spend his cash on somebody...or either he's cheap as fukk.

 
I don't want either one.


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 8:28am
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Gold fcking diggers! All you want is a man to take you out on five star restaurants daily and spend money making middle class income. When you are making barely ends meet. Broke azz chick's!
bhm be like



You cant even buy a shirt that fits looking like a hand me down teletubby ..

You in no position to talk


MONICA!


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 8:30am
Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Gold fcking diggers! All you want is a man to take you out on five star restaurants daily and spend money making middle class income. When you are making barely ends meet. Broke azz chick's!


You don't even know why you're on this site anymore, do you?



Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 8:44am
Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Gold fcking diggers! All you want is a man to take you out on five star restaurants daily and spend money making middle class income. When you are making barely ends meet. Broke azz chick's!


You don't even know why you're on this site anymore, do you?



Natural hair tips with using natural ingredients.



Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 8:46am
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Gold fcking diggers! All you want is a man to take you out on five star restaurants daily and spend money making middle class income. When you are making barely ends meet. Broke azz chick's!


that 40k is going to your head bro


It's Friday the thirteen and my ratchery is going up boo.


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 8:47am
Ew


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 8:50am
Afro ain't that damn funny.


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 8:58am
Ladies I need to ask you guys a question.....To the ones that will rather go dutch. I'm not understanding this rationale.
How does a young classy lady like yourself pay for dates even if its dutch?
Is the man not capable to foot the bill?
Are you feeling sorry for him?
Is he not working?
Why did he ask you out then?


Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 8:58am
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Gold fcking diggers! All you want is a man to take you out on five star restaurants daily and spend money making middle class income. When you are making barely ends meet. Broke azz chick's!


that 40k is going to your head bro


Most of the women on here make more than him sooo...


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:01am
Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Ladies I need to ask you guys a question.....To the ones that will rather go dutch. I'm not understanding this rationale.
How does a young classy lady like yourself pay for dates even if its dutch?
Is the man not capable to foot the bill?
Are you feeling sorry for him?
Is he not working?
Why did he ask you out then?
some people don't want to feel indebted, or made to feel like they owe someone something over a 3 hunnit dollar dinner


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:06am
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Ladies I need to ask you guys a question.....To the ones that will rather go dutch. I'm not understanding this rationale.
How does a young classy lady like yourself pay for dates even if its dutch?
Is the man not capable to foot the bill?
Are you feeling sorry for him?
Is he not working?
Why did he ask you out then?
some people don't want to feel indebted, or made to feel like they owe someone something over a 3 hunnit dollar dinner



Nah bump that. So what you spent 300 hunnid. We both ate, had great convo, gazed into each others eyes and enjoyed dinner. This may possibly end with another date. But you ain't getting any snookums unless I feel like giving you some.

Ladies shouldn't feel indebted its part of courtship.


Posted By: NuAttitude
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:07am
Is this a trick questionConfused So I guess if he has to wait 90 days for the "cookie" I have to wait 90 days for him to spend money.  We would really have to use our imagination to come up with dating ideas that doesn't involve money. It's possible but not that practical IMO.  Someone, if not both of us, would be spending some kind of $$.


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:09am
Suga, I went out with my ex last weekend and gave him $5 for tip, we had drinks and appetizers idk the total... he said thanx.

Dutch is for friends of the same sex. If a date suggested dutch, I'd consider him a woman, definitely not a friend tho


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:15am
Originally posted by AwesomeAries AwesomeAries wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Gold fcking diggers! All you want is a man to take you out on five star restaurants daily and spend money making middle class income. When you are making barely ends meet. Broke azz chick's!


that 40k is going to your head bro


Most of the women on here make more than him sooo...


oh dear, I need to get in some good graces.


Posted By: Bribby
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:19am
This was going around twitter. I think dudes are trying to contest women's 90 day rule for sex.


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:19am
Originally posted by Bribby Bribby wrote:

This was going around twitter. I think dudes are trying to contest women's 90 day rule for sex.


Boy byeLOLLOLLOL


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:24am
Sugar, you are a nice and great person


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:30am
Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Sugar, you are a nice and great person


I'll take you as my BHM cousin since your test came back positive stating we are from the same tribe.

ILive so tell us about the dates you been on. 
Do you pay?
Are you expecting snookums at the end of the night if you just met the shorty?
Do you keep it casual?
Are you guys holding hands?

Enlighten us from a male perspective.


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:34am
LOL why does snookums sound so cute?



Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:35am
If she not worth you spending any money on why even bother asking her out???


No shade but I don't know men/women who participate in things of this nature...



Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:35am
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

If she not worth you spending any money on why even bother asking her out???




PG you can't just fly up in here preaching the good word!!!


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:37am
Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Ladies I need to ask you guys a question.....To the ones that will rather go dutch. I'm not understanding this rationale.
How does a young classy lady like yourself pay for dates even if its dutch?
Is the man not capable to foot the bill?
Are you feeling sorry for him?
Is he not working?
Why did he ask you out then?
some people don't want to feel indebted, or made to feel like they owe someone something over a 3 hunnit dollar dinner



Nah bump that. So what you spent 300 hunnid. We both ate, had great convo, gazed into each others eyes and enjoyed dinner. This may possibly end with another date. But you ain't getting any snookums unless I feel like giving you some.

Ladies shouldn't feel indebted its part of courtship.
in an ideal world


Posted By: fckwitmeuknoigotit
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:40am
Originally posted by Bribby Bribby wrote:

This was going around twitter. I think dudes are trying to contest women's 90 day rule for sex.




Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:40am
Afro I will not ask you about your dates because your font comes off like you walk around smelling like Creed and fresh line ups. So I will assume you're the model gentleman that know's how to treat a lady.


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:44am
Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Sugar, you are a nice and great person


I'll take you as my BHM cousin since your test came back positive stating we are from the same tribe.

ILive so tell us about the dates you been on. 
Do you pay?
Are you expecting snookums at the end of the night if you just met the shorty?
Do you keep it casual?
Are you guys holding hands?

Enlighten us from a male perspective.


To keep real I pay for dates, I don't let the lady in with touch a door nor move her chair back or forward, I usually pay fifty to a hundred dollars and usually we have been talking for a bit. I don't look for sex for the first depending on the company I'm with, if she is long term I prefer not to. Just make it that more interesting and mysterious. Beyond the trolling, I'm a romantic love casual picnic dates and such. I'm make sure she safe and sound and we'll protected. I don't call women out of names and such. I act like I have sense and reason.


Posted By: JasmineE02
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:47am
Formal rules in dating feel...arbitrary.  I'd assume we weren't compatible and move on.


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:53am
Ain't no shame in that lmao, no I got too much pride


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 9:53am
Blank stare at women feeling like they owe someone reverse cowgirl for seared pieces of cow.....


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 10:13am
Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Afro I will not ask you about your dates because your font comes off like you walk around smelling like Creed and fresh line ups. So I will assume you're the model gentleman that know's how to treat a lady.
lol

I don't live a vacuum and I do see how some of these backfire with bad results


Posted By: NuAttitude
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 10:58am
Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Sugar, you are a nice and great person


I'll take you as my BHM cousin since your test came back positive stating we are from the same tribe.

ILive so tell us about the dates you been on. 
Do you pay?
Are you expecting snookums at the end of the night if you just met the shorty?
Do you keep it casual?
Are you guys holding hands?

Enlighten us from a male perspective.


To keep real I pay for dates, I don't let the lady in with touch a door nor move her chair back or forward, I usually pay fifty to a hundred dollars and usually we have been talking for a bit. I don't look for sex for the first depending on the company I'm with, if she is long term I prefer not to. Just make it that more interesting and mysterious. Beyond the trolling, I'm a romantic love casual picnic dates and such. I'm make sure she safe and sound and we'll protected. I don't call women out of names and such. I act like I have sense and reason.
Hmmmmm........sounds good!Wink


Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 2:02pm
Well, while ur doing ur 90 day no money rule, I'll b with someone else. Ain't that what the dudes say?


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 2:11pm
he wouldn't even put a quarter in my parking meter?


Posted By: Katrenia
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 2:41pm
Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

he wouldn't even put a quarter in my parking meter?

Not if it's your car.LOL


Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 2:57pm
classy ladies play money-spending-waiting games with men they are dating?

I thought classy ladies did/paid for all their shiit by themselves?





Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 2:58pm
Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

he wouldn't even put a quarter in my parking meter?

Not if it's your car.LOL


lol.
then I guess he definitely won't pay the $25 parking ticket for me either LOL

I used to get soooo many of those.


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 3:02pm
Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

classy ladies play money-spending-waiting games with men they are dating?

I thought classy ladies did/paid for all their shiit by themselves?



raaaaaaaas


Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 3:02pm
Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

he wouldn't even put a quarter in my parking meter?

Not if it's your car.LOL

LMAO!!!!




but i feel OP was talking about gifts..lavish dinners, etc.....?


Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 3:04pm
lololol@ AK...
on a serious note though...i dont even see how you could be going out on dates with someone and they end up not spending anything at all ----if the OP is just talking about spending in general


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 3:18pm
I don't even know what this means

If you're going to nickel and dime over food from jump, that isn't someone you'd want to deal with

What happens with household bills, mortgage payments, sickness, pregnancy, kids, vacations, gifts, hard times, good times, saving, investing, retirement 

You know it would be a relief to hear about this closed fist cheapness from jump rather than find out any later



Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 3:21pm
This is not something ill ever have to worry about.


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 3:22pm
Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

classy ladies play money-spending-waiting games with men they are dating?

I thought classy ladies did/paid for all their shiit by themselves?





Where they do this at??? Ermm I don't know any classy ladies that pay for their own shyyyt especially while dating. I am not dating you to bring out my own wallet. That's what I have you for.


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 3:22pm
I do pay for dinner with coworkers, family members, clients, friends 

But this dutch business, nope, no need.  On a date? Never.




Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 3:24pm
Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

This is not something ill ever have to worry about.


What the Prince's name please? I have to do a background check before he is privy to see my gkisses private goodies?



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