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Topic: say something nice week
Posted By: ms_wonderland
Subject: say something nice week
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 7:10am
for the next week I'm going to challenge myself to only say nice and positive things in any thread I participate in. Who's with me?!

_________________________________________________________________________________
 

so far the ones who gave affirmative answers are: myself, TC, Ming, Benni, keepgrowing, sexyandfamous, Ashbash, PrincessGrace(good luck girl), Angelic soul, Brjasuga, SouthernNtellect, noneyons, rickysrose
...india*?

Coconess will judge, along with 2 more people (looking for volunteers)...if we don't find any, those of us playing will work it out here, with Coco being the ultimate judge.

If you're found to be in violation to the agreement you are subject to a hot seat/roast thread or a truth or dare.  don't join if you ain't bout that life.

I may not be able to update the OP if more people join, so check page 7 for added participants. 



Replies:
Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 8:57am
no thanks. 




Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 12:15pm
lol i'm down...


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 12:19pm
Lol you're tempting people to start some outlandish topics

Challenge accepted


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 12:19pm
ClapClap


Posted By: Benni
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 12:20pm
I am in




Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 12:20pm
Originally posted by Ming Ming wrote:

Lol you're tempting people to start some outlandish topics

Challenge accepted

oh its going to be hard.


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 1:48pm
eh, im usually nice antyways  ^_^


Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 1:48pm
this will be fun LOL


Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 1:49pm
Why would anyone 1 star this thread?
Bitter b!tch


Ok, I am in nowLOL
It starts tomorrow right? All the way to Saturday?
What if we fail? Is there a punishment such as "you're not allowed to log in for a day"?


Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 1:49pm
ok so i'll get all my hate out today if we start tomorrow. 


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 1:52pm
lol im gonna be getting at all yall crazy 




Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 2:57pm
Originally posted by sexyandfamous sexyandfamous wrote:

Why would anyone 1 star this thread?
Bitter b!tch


Ok, I am in nowLOL
It starts tomorrow right? All the way to Saturday?
What if we fail? Is there a punishment such as "you're not allowed to log in for a day"?

lol yes, we'll start Sunday.  i hadn't thought of a punishment but i think that's a good one.  no log in for 24 hours. 


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 2:58pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

lol im gonna be getting at all yall crazy 



i'll give you a compliment in return. Big smile
i'll even be nice to Kim, Kanye, and the rest.


Posted By: Im_oh_so_hott
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 3:01pm
I think i'll just watch


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 3:01pm
i meant to say this before but yea a punishment makes it hella fun… 

im excited now and im not even playing 


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 3:19pm
I'm in.


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 3:27pm
I cant.


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 3:28pm
when you said punishment I thought a roast thread or hot seat or truth or dare 




Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 3:31pm
I think I can


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 4:30pm
Lord knows I need to try that.


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 4:32pm
Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

I think I can
I want to bet against this.Sleepy


Posted By: maysay1
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 4:37pm
I'm always nice.


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 4:40pm
lol @ maysay

Yeah me too Stern Smile


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 5:05pm
No problem unless we have a LSA topic transfer .  


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 5:06pm
Auntie.


Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 5:15pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

lol im gonna be getting at all yall crazy 



i'll give you a compliment in return. Big smile
i'll even be nice to Kim, Kanye, and the rest.

lol i'm staying out the kimye threads. 


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 5:18pm
Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

I'm always nice.


I agree


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 5:18pm
Originally posted by keepgrowing keepgrowing wrote:

 
lol i'm staying out the kimye threads. 


this is how I do it (I only post in a few threads LOL)
easy peasyLOLLOL


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 6:05pm
and yall thought bhm was dry before. Now Wonder gonna limit people to only saying nice things? prepare for it to be like the Sahara around here. lol


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 6:28pm
Ill play along, unless some bish try it then its back to I hope a fly land in your mouth and lay eggs Grace again. 


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 6:36pm
an entire week of nothing but positivity and kind words leaving your fingertips.

have fun… 

i agree bhm will be extra dry 


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 6:52pm
the punishment thread will be 100 pages though


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 7:01pm
I am a great person.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 7:08pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

I am a great person.


I agree.


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 7:47pm
I love a challenge and I HATE losing.


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 7:53pm
No thanks. I enjoy saying mean things from time to time


Posted By: aNgElIc*SoUl
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 8:00pm


Posted By: SeeminglySweet
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 8:02pm
I lost already in my own thread.




Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 8:02pm
Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

when you said punishment I thought a roast thread or hot seat or truth or dare 





Ok this is delicious

Truth or dare or hot seat? I think we need to go with this angle since it brings things full circle.

And participants, no avoiding popping or tempting threads!


Posted By: SeeminglySweet
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 8:03pm
Fixed. 


Posted By: aNgElIc*SoUl
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 8:05pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

when you said punishment I thought a roast thread or hot seat or truth or dare 





Ok this is delicious

Truth or dare or hot seat? I think we need to go with this angle since it brings things full circle.

And participants, no avoiding popping or tempting threads!


you play dirty. I like you


Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 8:10pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

lol im gonna be getting at all yall crazy 



i'll give you a compliment in return. Big smile
i'll even be nice to Kim, Kanye, and the rest.


I forgot about Kim. I like to go to that thread and laugh at her stupid wedding.
I guess this week I will have to avoid it. Too hard to say something nice about those people


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 8:11pm

@ angel $ saf

May the force be with y'all


Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 8:11pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

when you said punishment I thought a roast thread or hot seat or truth or dare 





Ok this is delicious

Truth or dare or hot seat? I think we need to go with this angle since it brings things full circle.

And participants, no avoiding popping or tempting threads!


Goddamnit!


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 8:52pm
Alright now!

So let's define positive Approve
 


Posted By: Brjasuga51
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 8:56pm
Alright Wonder... whisper prayer#..Lord please help me to past the first day...


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 9:02pm
so if anyone at any point says anything negative or not nice.. for a week.. they'll have to either play truth or dare or a roast thread? 


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 9:07pm
Can/may I be the one who decides if a post is nice or nasty? Lol


Posted By: aNgElIc*SoUl
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 9:11pm
Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Can/may I be the one who decides if a post is nice or nasty? Lol


That's gonna be tough, people love to throw that nice-nasty shade


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 9:13pm
Lol. And I don't seriously want that job. I'm just being silly.

But this could prove who is the best at delivering real shade...the kind when you dont even know you were shaded til the next day.


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 9:16pm
i'd rather not say anything at all


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 10:04pm
i lost already 


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 10:07pm
^^^ LOL

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

Alright now!

So let's define positive Approve
 

find the brighter side to things, be complimentary, no tearing down only lifting up. 
if y'all wanna be shady then be very careful. Stern Smile

if someone gets called out then we will come here and decide.


Posted By: MizzAmirah
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 10:53pm
Are we all automatically enrolled to confining to niceness? Stern Smile

I heard ratchetness heats up around the first of the month. Geek   


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 10:54pm
nah, only people that want to.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 10:57pm
i want to be the one that decides.. im very fair. 

i know purp was joking but we really should.. a panel of like 3 of us. 




Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 10:57pm
yall all rachet and nothing can be done about it Stern Smile


Posted By: noneyons
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 11:03pm
this is a game? probably won't be able to post much in the next few days but i'll play. 

will there be a winner at the end? this is easy lol


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 11:07pm
Originally posted by aNgElIc*SoUl aNgElIc*SoUl wrote:

people love to throw that nice-nasty shade
 


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 11:12pm
mkay, Coco, you seem fair enough.  
maybe more people will join in tomorrow or monday.
noney, it's less of a game and more of a chance to cleanse.  



Added: mizzamirah, qualified

Judges will be:  Coconess, AwesomeAries, & CherryBlossom




If anyone else joins it will be listed on page 11(so I can edit Monday).


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 11:15pm
you're joining? lol ok maybe we should start at sunrise. Geek


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 11:17pm
im trying
let theses wear 0ff///


i funnno even know what the censored stands for 


Posted By: noneyons
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 11:21pm
i don't need a cleansing but i'm inLOL


Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 11:24pm
Wonder, you should update the OP with the participants


I would want to be a judge, because I'm the fairest person ever; unlike most of you biased tainted monsters.. But, I've been disappearing for days at a time.


I still want to stalk for funsies




Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: May 31 2014 at 11:42pm
Im just making my list of threads that I will make the gifs, shade and phuckery begin....




Posted By: herwoman
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 12:00am
SMH that you people can't participate in a thread without being mean and throwing shade.If it wasn't for the fact that I am a half glass away from finishing off this bottle of wine and would prove to be too tired from drinking shots of Tito's, I would go to church and pray for y'all in a few hours.


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 12:13am
oh I'm in ms_w

I like the shade review by thread idea... and we do need a poster to kinda lead bringing people to the thread for review and breaking ties, coco's a good choice



Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 12:15am
Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

SMH that you people can't participate in a thread without being mean and throwing shade.If it wasn't for the fact that I am a half glass away from finishing off this bottle of wine and would prove to be too tired from drinking shots of Tito's, I would go to church and pray for y'all in a few hours.

thank you for wanting to include us in your prayers. Thumbs Up  i hope that tomorrow doesn't include any headaches, nausea, diarrhea, dizziness, or irritability.  i hate hangovers.
some lady on shark tank created this new wine/spritzer w electrolytes that looks really good, im going to try it when i can.
eta:  no sugar! http://www.bonaffair.com/What-It-Is/" rel="nofollow - http://www.bonaffair.com/What-It-Is/
oh yeah, NO INSTIGATING....CC, feel free to join the group. Big smile


Posted By: herwoman
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 12:23am
You guys are going to suck at this and obviously the shade is going to prove to be worse than usual.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 12:25am
we will all be fine, all we have to do is be nice.  testing it with constant shade wouldn't be wise.


Posted By: herwoman
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 12:34am
I'm not in the challenge.

Strength comes from saying no even in temptation.


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 12:47am
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

SMH that you people can't participate in a thread without being mean and throwing shade.If it wasn't for the fact that I am a half glass away from finishing off this bottle of wine and would prove to be too tired from drinking shots of Tito's, I would go to church and pray for y'all in a few hours.

thank you for wanting to include us in your prayers. Thumbs Up  i hope that tomorrow doesn't include any headaches, nausea, diarrhea, dizziness, or irritability.  i hate hangovers.
some lady on shark tank created this new wine/spritzer w electrolytes that looks really good, im going to try it when i can.
eta:  no sugar! http://www.bonaffair.com/What-It-Is/" rel="nofollow - http://www.bonaffair.com/What-It-Is/
oh yeah, NO INSTIGATING....CC, feel free to join the group. Big smile




Good luck to you fabulous, positive, non-shade throwing, non section 8 young ladies.Big smileBig smileBig smileBig smile


Posted By: Bored w/Out Me?
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 12:52am
My friend from work went to alcohol detox
I used to ask her if she had been drinking, she used to lie though.
I'm glad she is getting some help


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 12:55am
Lol i just read the edit


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 1:57am
I see what you what did there cc

That's deep, valid

Hmmmm, I like the idea of positive posting just for the board to be more supportive and warm 

Not like we're trying to prove that we can post more than the "ghetto ratchetry f*ckery that's particular to bw" Wacko

Now if you didn't mean all that cc, Im saaawy

I'm still all for the positive posting challenge... the internets on a whole, outside of bhm, can be very shady, overly critical and downright negative




Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 3:11am
ming should judge with me 




Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 7:57am
I would love to judge

I am trying to be a more positive person since my lent


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 8:04am
Good morning everyone and may you all have a blessed and positive day!


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 8:07am
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

ming should judge with me


Dead @you calling me a judging ass btch LOL

lol.. i dont feel like jumping from thread to thread with my spreadsheet seeing whos not being nice. I dont click all the threads as is Embarrassed... hmm ill figure something out


Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 8:14am
I support cherry


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 8:16am
shade

does judging mean you get to say un-nice things?


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 8:28am
Originally posted by CherryBlossom CherryBlossom wrote:

yeah I can say what I like cos I'm the judge...as with judges irl the rules don't applyLOLApprove


*judging* LOL


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 8:38am
Me too... it that 1% tho LOL Cool


Posted By: MizzAmirah
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 9:25am
I'll join cus I realized I'm almost always nice. Beer


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 10:17am
Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

I see what you what did there cc

That's deep, valid

Hmmmm, I like the idea of positive posting just for the board to be more supportive and warm 

Not like we're trying to prove that we can post more than the "ghetto ratchetry f*ckery that's particular to bw" Wacko

Now if you didn't mean all that cc, Im saaawy

I'm still all for the positive posting challenge... the internets on a whole, outside of bhm, can be very shady, overly critical and downright negative


I mean it.Wink This will be fun to watch to see how much progress y'all make.


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 10:19am
kim k and yeezy looked happy-ish on the wedding pics i saw...


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 10:23am
I'm the devil nothing nice unless it's a bad broad or new technological or historical objective info I'm going to say something devilish.


Posted By: Qualified
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 10:56am
I am all in.


Posted By: noneyons
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 12:02pm
Checking in just to say something nice. "Something nice" lol


Posted By: Alias_Avi
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 12:44pm
LOL

Glad to see something positive transpire out of a BHM thread lol

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

I see what you what did there cc

That's deep, valid

Hmmmm, I like the idea of positive posting just for the board to be more supportive and warm 

Not like we're trying to prove that we can post more than the "ghetto ratchetry f*ckery that's particular to bw" Wacko

Now if you didn't mean all that cc, Im saaawy

I'm still all for the positive posting challenge... the internets on a whole, outside of bhm, can be very shady, overly critical and downright negative




Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 1:43pm
somehow it seems you aren't being sarcastic alias and that's disappointing and no that statement could not be the point of the challenge because that statement is a lie

You too are on bhm and a black woman so you aren't excluded from whatever shade you're trying to cast on "the rest of us"

Anyways that bw ain't sh*t mess is better suited for that other thread instead of stinking up this one 




Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 1:47pm
Originally posted by AwesomeAries AwesomeAries wrote:

I would love to judge

I am trying to be a more positive person since my lent

ah i forgot to add you...so awesome, cherry, & coco...thanks!


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 1:49pm
AA if you want to be a more positive person shouldnt you participate instead of judge..? 



Posted By: Alias_Avi
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 1:55pm
ricky, this isn't the thread to start reaching

be nice Tongue



Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 2:03pm
that was being nice Alias 

I haven't gotten mean yet and I won't for the next week 

We all could use a truce. You should breeze pass the challenge week quite easily and you'll get a chance to truth or dare participants, should be fun

Are you joining?




Posted By: Alias_Avi
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 2:15pm
k


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 2:19pm
A truce thread?
Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

Checking in just to say something nice. "Something nice" lol
LOLGet out!


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 2:53pm
Can we talk about kkw dress without breaking the rules ? I was offline for a bit and unable to give my 2 cents . Cry


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Jun 01 2014 at 3:01pm
^You will have to wait until next Sunday at midnight to discuss the dress unless it is all positive. You can do it India!Big smile



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