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do you avoid people you know?

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Topic: do you avoid people you know?
Posted By: Josephuss
Subject: do you avoid people you know?
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 6:10pm
Like if you see them in a store or something? Why?



Replies:
Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 6:14pm
somebody avoided you today? laugh outloud while they're being ignant & keep it movinWink


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 6:18pm
yes, i don't like small talk. 


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 6:18pm
all the time.
cause i dont like talking.


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 6:21pm
Originally posted by Bonjour baby ooowee Bonjour baby ooowee wrote:

somebody avoided you today? laugh outloud while they're being ignant & keep it movinWink
no but this is something people do


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 6:24pm
i have different levels of it: i don't EVER ignore my babies-my genuine familyHeart/ bafoonin family STAY on ignoreSleepy/ like minded neighbors i speak~ needy annoying neighbors i totally ignore cause once you open up that can of worms its none-stopAngry/ associates through shopping or being out n about it depends on how i feel that day shoot ALOT of the time im in my zoneStar


Posted By: TayTay
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 6:32pm
depends on my mood


Posted By: nemesis1
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 6:45pm
YES. I do it all the time.


Posted By: missunfoolish
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 6:47pm
yes - if i don't care to talk to them
no - if we're close, id say wasup and keep it moving


Posted By: rell85
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 6:55pm
Yes sometimes i don't feel like speaking.


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 6:57pm
I avoid people if I 

1. look crazy
2. don't want to talk to them
3. don't really like them
4. don't want to do the whole "hey girl hey, we should catch up" when we both know it ain't happening
5. i am just trying to go about my business quickly


Posted By: HaitianLuv
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 7:29pm
i do it when i look bussed up, or just dont feel like engaging in small talk


Posted By: HeyBeautiful18
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 7:42pm
Yeah

Cause sometimes i just don't feel like having a point less small talk conversation..


Posted By: fckwitmeuknoigotit
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 7:47pm
yup, sure do. most of the time its cuz i'm bad with names. i hate running into people i know but forgot their name but they remember mine


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 7:56pm
all the time. 
i am so good for pretending to look for something or being distracted by something and speed walking the opposite direction or acting like i dont see you.. 

cus i dont feel like talking to people a lot of the time or cus i look a mess. 


Posted By: newin2009
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 8:00pm
Depends on my mood. I'm way better than I used to be.


Posted By: Katrenia
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 8:21pm
Oh yes I do it too often, family included. I should be ashamed of myself.





Posted By: Benni
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 8:27pm
Yes. If I am in a hurry, or don't feel like being bothered.

I do it on the phone also.   Thank you 'Caller ID'


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 8:29pm
Yes!! Sometimes I hate small talk...Can't we just wave and keep it moving?


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 8:41pm
only the people i never cared for from the start...


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 8:47pm
I don't avoid people I just don't speak when I don't want to


Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 8:50pm
I think it depends of person and my mood. I am usually a smiley person, so if I see a person I know, I usually smile, but most of the times I smile at them, it does not mean that I wanna chat. It is just a way to acknowledge them and keep moving.
And yes, I do avoid some people, but only in big places. Supermarket is kinda of stupid to avoid them, because you'll eventually bump into them in another aisle or by the cashier.


Posted By: _ConcreteRose_
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 11:27pm
Sometimes if Im being shy and don't know them that well.
Or sometimes I'll talk even if I don't know them well. But it's always an awkard convo. lol


Posted By: dOLLish.
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 11:28pm
Sometimes.

Why?  I don't feel like speaking [at the time].


Posted By: MizzAmirah
Date Posted: May 23 2014 at 11:30pm
Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

yes, i don't like small talk. 


THIS!!
Just wanna do what I came for and dip. 


Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: May 24 2014 at 3:58am
Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Like if you see them in a store or something? Why?


I never avoid people because of the way I look at the moment. I gave up that whole 'looking like he** just to run a quick errand look' yeaaars ago. I always make sure I am put together when I step out in public.

I never avoid people that I know and like and call 'friends' etc - however, I do try to avoid people that I know ... but that I dislike.

If I can't avoid someone I dislike - sure, I will speak and be friendly (because I have to) but then ... I am 'on my way'.

I think this is fairly common because you are not going to 'like' everyone you know or are acquainted with. Though I don't see the point of being out and out rude.

Family? Family will hound you if you try to avoid them hee hee! - so best to just leave town and don't reply to their messages.


Posted By: callmeDEva
Date Posted: May 24 2014 at 7:19am
All the time to associates/people I know but don't ever talk to.

Small talk makes me anxious. If I'm friends with you, I'm hollaring you down though lol



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