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Topic: Sherri Shepherd Files For Divorce
Posted By: PurplePhase
Subject: Sherri Shepherd Files For Divorce
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 4:54pm

Sherri Shepherd's Husband Lamar Sally Files For Divorce After Nearly Three Years of Marriage



Sherri Shepherd and Lamar Sal Sally at the 2013 BET awards

Sherri Shepherd's husband Lamar Sally has filed for divorce after nearly three years of marriage with the View co-host
 

http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrities/sherri-shepherd" rel="nofollow - Sherri Shepherd's going to be single once more. The View co-host's husband, Lamar Sally, has filed for divorce after nearly three years of marriage, http://www.tmz.com/2014/05/09/sherri-shepherd-divorce/" rel="nofollow - TMZ reports. Sally filed legal documents on May 2.

Shepherd, 47, and Sally tied the knot back in August 2011 at the Fairmont Hotel in Chicago. In September 2012, the TV personality revealed during an appearance on Rachael Ray that she and Sally were http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-moms/news/sherri-shepherd-im-looking-for-a-surrogate-2012289" rel="nofollow - looking for a surrogate.

Shepherd has sat on the ABC talk show's panel since 2005. She currently co-hosts with http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrities/whoopi-goldberg" rel="nofollow - Whoopi Goldberg , http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrities/jenny-mccarthy" rel="nofollow - Jenny McCarthy , and http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrities/barbara-walters" rel="nofollow - Barbara Walters . Last month, she jumped up-and-down in excitement with McCarthy when the former Playboy model revealed she's engaged to Blue Bloods actor Donnie Wahlberg.

Shepherd was previously married to Jeff Tarpley for nine years until their split in 2010. They share son Jeffrey, 8.




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Posted By: hauteshellbi
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 4:57pm
I wonder why? I'm sad and very surprised about their split


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:08pm
“Their whole relationship was built on a fraud and it’s finally over. She’s thrown him out of the house and he’s tried to speak with her but nothing is happening.”
“Lamar told Sherri that he was a big Hollywood player, with scripts being sold. But she’s tired of being married to a guy that doesn’t have a job.”


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:09pm
I didn't know Jen and Donnie were engaged.


Posted By: Benni
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:10pm
Say it ain't so


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:10pm
Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

“Their whole relationship was built on a fraud and it’s finally over. She’s thrown him out of the house and he’s tried to speak with her but nothing is happening.”
“Lamar told Sherri that he was a big Hollywood player, with scripts being sold. But she’s tired of being married to a guy that doesn’t have a job.”


where'd you get that juice? lol


didn't he convince Sherri to have a woman in her wedding party that turned ou t to be his ex lover?


Posted By: herwoman
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:13pm
I'm here for all the receipts oh and how sad


Posted By: Benni
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:13pm
My oh my. Y'all are dishing


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:19pm
Why does everyone in Hollywood need a surrogate?


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:19pm
lol @ my sis saying that  wouldn't end her marriage because marriage is forever. 


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:29pm
I am glad they don't have a child together.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:38pm
I thought they were trying with a surrogate. I hope they hadn't finalized anything yet.


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:42pm
So he was faking the funk? Barbara should've done a background check in him.


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:52pm
http://www.tmz.com/2014/05/09/sherry-shepherd-divorce-separation-baby-surrogate-prenup/" rel="nofollow -

- Sherri Shepherd

- Husband Says

- I Want Custody of Unborn Child

7 minutes ago https://plus.google.com/116217476749222049928?rel=author" rel="nofollow - BY TMZ STAFF
EXCLUSIVE

0509-sherri-shepherd-tmz-instagram-02
Sherri Shepherd
and her husband have an unborn baby ... and he wants the kid.  And here's the real twist ... she's not pregnant.

Sources connected with the couple tell TMZ ... Sherri and Lamar Sally have hired a surrogate who is carrying their baby, and the estimated delivery date is July 28th. 

TMZ broke the story ... Lamar http://www.tmz.com/2014/05/09/sherri-shepherd-divorce/" rel="nofollow - filed legal docs to end the marriage .  The docs are for legal separation, but we're told the only reason the divorce box wasn't checked is because Lamar has only lived in California for 3 months and there's a 6 month residency requirement.  He will change it to divorce in 3 months.

According to Lamar's legal docs, he wants full legal and physical custody of the unborn child, and wants Sherri to ONLY have visitation rights.

Sherri has not responded yet.

Lamar also wants spousal support and he wants the prenup invalidated based on FRAUD.

It sounds very nasty.  Lamar wants an order preventing Sherri from interfering with his ability to take the kid with him after the birth.


Read more: http://www.tmz.com/2014/05/09/sherry-shepherd-divorce-separation-baby-surrogate-prenup/#ixzz31GHs2NNn" rel="nofollow - http://www.tmz.com/2014/05/09/sherry-shepherd-divorce-separation-baby-surrogate-prenup/#ixzz31GHs2NNn


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:53pm
what was Sherri's fraud?
oh no. Didn't she have to pay her 1st husband alimony too? Poor Sherri. Does she have a hitman on speed dial? LOL


Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:54pm
Whomp


Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:55pm
Originally posted by thewonderfulwa thewonderfulwa wrote:

I am glad they don't have a child together.
Looks like they do.


Posted By: Benni
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:55pm
TMZ is coming on in about 5 mins here on the West Coast.
Hope Harvey has an update.

I feel so sad for Sheri


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:57pm
omg I feel sorry for the surrogate having to deal with their drama...I'm sure he wants child support, not the baby.

She talked about her husband soooo much, how awkward.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:57pm
from Radar:

“Sherri was ready to expand their family and had found a healthy  http://radaronline.com/category/tags/surrogate/" rel="nofollow - surrogate . They were actively trying to have another child, but it was putting extra strain on their marriage,” the insider told Radar.

According to the source, Shepherd, 47, wanted Sally, 43, to  http://radaronline.com/photos/doting-dad-david-beckham-plays-with-harper-seven-at-dodgers-game/photo/567247/" rel="nofollow - step up as a father figure  – but claims he “was lazy” and “sat around the house all day doing nothing.”

“Sherri has a full time nanny, who drives Jeffrey to school every day and picks him up in the afternoon. This has been going on for years, and Lamar doesn’t even offer to help. It is unfortunate.

“Sherri started to wonder if he’d ever be able to step up once they had another child, or if she’d be practically raising the child alone,” the source said.




Posted By: Benni
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:58pm
Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

what was Sherri's fraud?
oh no. Didn't she have to pay her 1st husband alimony too? Poor Sherri. Does she have a hitman on speed dial? LOL





Hope she was wise enough to have a Pre-Nup


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:58pm
ruh oh!

<<Lamar is being represented by Mark Vincent Kaplan ... who famously represented Kevin Federline during his divorce from Britney Spears.>>


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:59pm
Sherri may have to pay up though. The 1st husband cheated and she ended up paying him alimony.


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:00pm
He's looking for spousal support AND child support.
Sounds like she didn't do her homework on this dude.


Posted By: herwoman
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:01pm
Lawd! He wants a check,I wonder what the fraud claim is?


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:02pm
Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

ruh oh!

<<Lamar is being represented by Mark Vincent Kaplan ... who famously represented Kevin Federline during his divorce from Britney Spears.>>

Smfh...there's nothing I hate more than a woman having to pay a man...my stomach gets tight reading stories like this lol I can't believe the life kfed has made for himself on britney's dime....and reading rumors about Mariah and Nick, the same thing may happen. Cry


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:07pm
what? Mariah? Are they on thin ice?


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:11pm
And he moved to California 3 months ago probably just so he could file for divorce there too. Sherri had better live like Oprah from now on unless she wants to spend her entire life paying for ex peen.


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:13pm
Brothas ain't even ashamed no more of being bums. This Togolese dude I know said the worst shame for a man is to not be able to take care of his family. Hw will be looked down upon. Here...not so much.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:13pm
Lies, I don't know but I hope her lawyer was disbarred LOL

@below post


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:13pm
Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Sherri may have to pay up though. The 1st husband cheated and she ended up paying him alimony.

How dat go? Confused


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:13pm
j/k. that' happens often from what I hear (cheater receives alimony). The courts don't care about infidelity.


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:15pm
Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

“Their whole relationship was built on a fraud and it’s finally over. She’s thrown him out of the house and he’s tried to speak with her but nothing is happening.”
“Lamar told Sherri that he was a big Hollywood player, with scripts being sold. But she’s tired of being married to a guy that doesn’t have a job.”


where'd you get that juice? lol


didn't he convince Sherri to have a woman in her wedding party that turned ou t to be his ex lover?

mhmmmhh/ Wat i tell y'all about "friends" even though he introduced the two of them. That would make me lose it, i'd throw acid on the two of them then call my lawyer. Angry


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:15pm
Originally posted by Benni Benni wrote:

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

what was Sherri's fraud?
oh no. Didn't she have to pay her 1st husband alimony too? Poor Sherri. Does she have a hitman on speed dial? LOL





Hope she was wise enough to have a Pre-Nup


she had one but he's trying to invalidate it. Prenups aren't worth the paper they're printed on LOL


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:17pm
Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

 
mhmmmhh/ Wat i tell y'all about "friends" even though he introduced the two of them. That would make me lose it, i'd throw acid on the two of them then call my lawyer. Angry


I couldn't believe my sis said that wouldn't end it for her. I was thinking that lie of omission was probably indicative of the type of person he is. No doubt that wasn't the only untruth she uncovered about him or his dealings.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:17pm
Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

what? Mariah? Are they on thin ice?

There's gossip from lots of directions..I think national enquirer and picked up by huffpo and all the other blogs.  One story I read said that things went downhill during his promotion of white people party music.  He went on big bois radio show and talked about past sexual relationships including Kim kardashian...maybe she doesn't want to be mentioned in the same conversation as KK?  another story said he cheats all the time, he's never home, etc etc.  There's always rumors of trouble when the less successful half has a breakout year.  Nick has gained more credibility and acceptance the past couple yrs.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:19pm
wow. I saw Mariah on a late show(?) the other night. I was thinking they seem to be making it  when folks said it wouldn't last. Oh well.


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:21pm
Originally posted by Jess Jess wrote:

Originally posted by thewonderfulwa thewonderfulwa wrote:

I am glad they don't have a child together.
Looks like they do.


OMG, Looks like she will be supporting this husband too.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:21pm
I thought the same but she did seem pretty dismissive of him during that breakfast club interview...$515-530 million dollar fortune at stake.Dead


Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:26pm
Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

“Their whole relationship was built on a fraud and it’s finally over. She’s thrown him out of the house and he’s tried to speak with her but nothing is happening.”
“Lamar told Sherri that he was a big Hollywood player, with scripts being sold. But she’s tired of being married to a guy that doesn’t have a job.”


where'd you get that juice? lol


didn't he convince Sherri to have a woman in her wedding party that turned ou t to be his ex lover?

mhmmmhh/ Wat i tell y'all about "friends" even though he introduced the two of them. That would make me lose it, i'd throw acid on the two of them then call my lawyer. Angry
Dead


Posted By: Tbaby
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:36pm
Men don't want their wives having more success in their careers then the husbands.  Its "ok" if the man is the main breadwinner, but not the opposite way around.

About hollywood surrogates:  possibly hollywierd women don't want to be bothered with the whole 9 months pregnancy and 9 months of working out to get their bodies back?



Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:37pm
Sherri's 47. Isn't she too old to get pregnant, Bhm? lol


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:37pm
What did you say about beyonce?


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:38pm
i don't have an opinion about sherri, she's a comedy sitcom actress that worked her way up from the bottom, got on with the view and the dating game which she STILL worksStar the marriage is something she craved & desired to see be prosperous and happy Ouch  women with any kind of wealth / riches need to realize some men just wanna get a closer look inside your world to see how you operate, see what you workin with & how he can possibly get it Sick living happily ever after part didn't happen with him, it aint the end of the world ( in fact its probably a postive beginning for her) i BET her son is one happy boyBig smile  sooo now she needs to gather up her 5star lawyer crew & kick this LOSER to the curb without becoming his bread and butterWink

sidenote: Oprah is wayyyyyy ahead of MANY business savvy / financial mogul / wealthy / rich women by a long shot, she left that marriage sheitt alone decades agoBig smile she sat down & looked @ her assets where she is & where she'll be in the future Oprah said, " i aint got time for no man takin my hard earned money" Clap you go O!


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:40pm
oprah could pay some alimony and not even miss it. Not like Stedman would get half or anything close.  I doubt that's why she won't marry lol


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:42pm
Sherri did in vitro the first time. Maybe she had some problems conceiving naturally and decided to just do a surrogate this time. She said she had some eggs saved from the in vitro I think(???)


Posted By: Benni
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:42pm
He doesn't stand a chance if he entered into the marriage under fraudulent circumstances.
That alone should invalidate the marriage.

What a creep.

If there is a child involved, how could he get custody if he doesn't have a J O B ???




Posted By: Benni
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 6:44pm
TMZ not talking about it today


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 7:02pm
she was married?

oh


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 7:44pm
oprah doin fine just like she wanna doWink we never know why she smart enough not to give no man her money voluntarily in a messy divorce Star WELP good luck sherri kick azz in the settlement


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 7:46pm
 
Originally posted by Benni Benni wrote:

He doesn't stand a chance if he entered into the marriage under fraudulent circumstances.
That alone should invalidate the marriage.

What a creep.

If there is a child involved, how could he get custody if he doesn't have a J O B ???





LOL  EXACTLY!


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 7:51pm
Wow i need to know what the fraud was? How does he want the prenup invalidated?


Posted By: Benni
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 8:25pm
Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Wow i need to know what the fraud was? How does he want the prenup invalidated?



From what I've read here, he claimed to have a job in Hollywood doing whatever, and that was untrue.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 8:26pm
Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

He's looking for spousal support AND child support.
Sounds like she didn't do her homework on this dude.


She probably thought she had a good one. I bet he was all comforting with her while she was writing her 1st husband's alimony checks telling her how that man was a loser for taking her money and that he would never do something like that to a woman. 


Posted By: Benni
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 8:27pm
Sal, If all this is true you are a gold-digging bottom feeder.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 10:01pm
purple did you see the Dr Phil episode today about the white bride with the blAck husband who ends up having a baby with the white bridesmaid?  He and the wife want custody.  Now she says he raped her.  Looks like it'll be juicy.  Watching now...I'm such a party animal these days.  


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 10:15pm
Didn't Niecy Nash hook them up? I hope this doesn't Lisa-Raye/Vivica Fox/Star Jones their friendship. I've heard that Sheri's fertility issues were the result of being a serial aborter, which she has admitted to being.


Posted By: demilee27
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 10:26pm
He's such an ass


Posted By: Journey94
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 11:42pm
Poor Sherri


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 11:47pm
Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

Didn't Niecy Nash hook them up? I hope this doesn't Lisa-Raye/Vivica Fox/Star Jones their friendship. I've heard that Sheri's fertility issues were the result of being a serial aborter, which she has admitted to being.

Dead


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 11:52pm
Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

Didn't Niecy Nash hook them up? I hope this doesn't Lisa-Raye/Vivica Fox/Star Jones their friendship. I've heard that Sheri's fertility issues were the result of being a serial aborter, which she has admitted to being.


this...i know she's side eyeing her friend

most of these men just end up being kept men/"managers"



Posted By: iluvmihair
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 4:05am
Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

Didn't Niecy Nash hook them up? I hope this doesn't Lisa-Raye/Vivica Fox/Star Jones their friendship. I've heard that Sheri's fertility issues were the result of being a serial aborter, which she has admitted to being.




Posted By: iluvmihair
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 4:14am
My face after rereading my last post:
Please excuse me, the fact that there is a baby in the gif was not meant as a correlation to the comment. I just was looking up sad/crying pics. I apologize if it appeared insensitive.


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 6:24am

Sherri Shepherd and her husband have an unborn baby ... and he wants the kid.  And here's the real twist ... she's not pregnant.

Sources connected with the couple tell TMZ ... Sherri and Lamar Sally have hired a surrogate who is carrying their baby, and the estimated delivery date is July 28th.

TMZ broke the story ... Lamar filed legal docs to end the marriage.  The docs are for legal separation, but we're told the only reason the divorce box wasn't checked is because Lamar has only lived in California for 3 months and there's a 6 month residency requirement.  He will change it to divorce in 3 months.

According to Lamar's legal docs, he wants full legal and physical custody of the unborn child, and wants Sherri to ONLY have visitation rights.

Sherri has not responded yet.

Lamar also wants spousal support and he wants the prenup invalidated based on FRAUD.

It sounds very nasty.  Lamar wants an order preventing Sherri from interfering with his ability to take the kid with him after the birth.

Read more: http://www.tmz.com/2014/05/09/sherry-shepherd-divorce-separation-baby-surrogate-prenup/#ixzz31JLKg83i



Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 7:42am
She is 47 and her husband is old as hell too. I have no idea why people are suprised or looking for alternate explanation for them needing a surrogate.


Posted By: yurika975
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 8:02am
That headline needs to read I want meal ticket. I want the baby and for her to have visitation only. I am old as well and want spousal support and child support. Why do they pick these about nothing folk? Just to get in her pockets....


Posted By: zolloh
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 8:03am
Im confused...all these reasons for divorce (no job, fraud, doesnt do sh*t but lay in the house) all sound like 2 people who got married 2wks after meeting each other. They didnt know the person they were gonna get married to?


Posted By: Journey94
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 8:19am
Originally posted by zolloh zolloh wrote:

Im confused...all these reasons for divorce (no job, fraud, doesnt do sh*t but lay in the house) all sound like 2 people who got married 2wks after meeting each other. They didnt know the person they were gonna get married to?


She was desperate to marry and said yes to the first man that asked her. So it's really her fault. She's the type that just wants to say & brag "My husband.." "As a wife..." "Well I'm married and.." etc. She got what she asked for. Sad but she did it to herself.


Posted By: JamCaygirl
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 10:09am
He's 43????



Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 10:15am
Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

She is 47 and her husband is old as hell too. I have no idea why people are suprised or looking for alternate explanation for them needing a surrogate.


it really depends on how well you take care of yourself, never be surprised when a woman over 40 conceives a healthy child/ i suppose i witnessed a miracle when my neighbor & her husband across the street from me was having their 4th child @ 56 yrs youngLOL he came out fine & well adjusted sooo i can't do the doubt thing of a woman having a baby over 40Wink


Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 10:26am
Originally posted by Journey94 Journey94 wrote:

Originally posted by zolloh zolloh wrote:

Im confused...all these reasons for divorce (no job, fraud, doesnt do sh*t but lay in the house) all sound like 2 people who got married 2wks after meeting each other. They didnt know the person they were gonna get married to?


She was desperate to marry and said yes to the first man that asked her. So it's really her fault. She's the type that just wants to say & brag "My husband.." "As a wife..." "Well I'm married and.." etc. She got what she asked for. Sad but she did it to herself.

Correct!

She was just another female that HAD to get married so that she could feel good about herself. :(

(Before she met him I got soooo sick and tired of her talking about being 'celibate' - like that was such a great idea. Why was she letting the whole world know her PERSONAL business which was that AT 40 YEARS OLD she was gonna save herself for marriage.) Stupid ... she invited a con man into her life.

She was just desparate to GET MARRIED and these kinds of women WILL ALWAYS get married because there is a creep around every corner .. ready to 'play' these females with low self esteem.

(Star Jones was another one and so was that 'Waiting to Exhale' writer.)

Just PITIFUL the lot of them.

Aside from that .. I neeeever understood that relationship to begin with. He was a big ugly dope to me .. never saw the 'light' in his eyes for her. I saw it as a sham from the start and now it comes out that he never even had A JOB?

DUH? Now how did he fool a grown woman ... if she even had BASIC sense in her head?

She needs counseling so she can learn to VALUE HERSELF and stop begging for crumbs.


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 10:27am
Originally posted by zolloh zolloh wrote:

Im confused...all these reasons for divorce (no job, fraud, doesnt do sh*t but lay in the house) all sound like 2 people who got married 2wks after meeting each other. They didnt know the person they were gonna get married to?
Indeed. He was a bum when you met him and he's still a bum now. At least he's consistent?LOL


Posted By: Benni
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 10:46am
I am not going to pass judgment. We all know scandal sells. Since this is all out they will surely be discussing it on The View on Monday. I will certainly be tuning in to hear what she has to say.
Sheri, for your sake I hope this is all over inflated.


   


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 10:47am
wait a minute, yall sayin this man is 43? unnn unnn he can't be! if he 43 he DIDN'T take proper care of himself he looks 63Confused


Posted By: kerysdream7
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 10:59am
Originally posted by Bonjour baby ooowee Bonjour baby ooowee wrote:

wait a minute, yall sayin this man is 43? unnn unnn he can't be! if he 43 he DIDN'T take proper care of himself he looks 63Confused



He does look older than her.


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 11:08am
sherri imma need you to get it together from now onShocked you can't be kickin with woodrow from the corner store, inviting him over for spades & catfish dinners then gettin serious bout him unnn unnnLOL
( even if it's neicys' suggestion tell her nawwww girl he ain't representin/ he ain't keepin it real)LOL you in the spotlight boo/ you gone have to put yo sexxxy big gal pantys on & go for the good menWink


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 11:54am
He looks like a damn "smart man" as my boy would say. Greasy as hell.  How the fucc?  Did he not have a job when they met?  What was he doing when they met?  What the fucc was Niecy doing hookin' up her friend with a nicca who ain't got no job nor resume?


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 12:04pm
Mmmhmm, ya'll don't like paying alimony and child support. Oooohhh, how the scorpion stings when it's on your end. LOL


Posted By: ScorpioLuv
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 12:13pm
I thought that they were doomed from the start anyway. He had his ex be apart of her bridal party but never told Sherri who the lady was. She found out a whole year after. They were friends first but friends don't do sh*t like that


Posted By: zolloh
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 12:30pm
^^^wtf?quit playing Scorpio....his ex was one of her bridesmaids and Sherri didnt know? smh...damn Sherri looking like a fool in these streets


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 12:31pm
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Posted By: rell85
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 1:29pm
Marriage isn't for her.


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 1:48pm
Sadly women get taken in by ain't sheit dudes all the time. I feel sorry for her. She so desperately wanted to marry. I'm not gonna blame her. Could be a case of she didn't do her homework on him before getting hitched, just like it could be a case of him being a slick and convincing conman. I hope she gets her act together and finds a lawyer with the killer instinct to preserve her interests. At least she got herself a prenup. Let's hope it's solid.


Posted By: Journey94
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 2:06pm
Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

Originally posted by Journey94 Journey94 wrote:

[QUOTE=zolloh] Im confused...all these reasons for divorce (no job, fraud, doesnt do sh*t but lay in the house) all sound like 2 people who got married 2wks after meeting each other. They didnt know the person they were gonna get married to?


She was desperate to marry and said yes to the first man that asked her. So it's really her fault. She's the type that just wants to say & brag "My husband.." "As a wife..." "Well I'm married and.." etc. She got what she asked for. Sad but she did it to herself.

Correct!

She was just another female that HAD to get married so that she could feel good about herself. :(

(Before she met him I got soooo sick and tired of her talking about being 'celibate' - like that was such a great idea. Why was she letting the whole world know her PERSONAL business which was that AT 40 YEARS OLD she was gonna save herself for marriage.) Stupid ... she invited a con man into her life.

She was just desparate to GET MARRIED and these kinds of women WILL ALWAYS get married because there is a creep around every corner .. ready to 'play' these females with low self esteem.

(Star Jones was another one and so was that 'Waiting to Exhale' writer.)

Just PITIFUL the lot of them.

Aside from that .. I neeeever understood that relationship to begin with. He was a big ugly dope to me .. never saw the 'light' in his eyes for her. I saw it as a sham from the start and now it comes out that he never even had A JOB?

DUH? Now how did he fool a grown woman ... if she even had BASIC sense in her head?

She needs counseling so she can learn to VALUE HERSELF and stop begging for crumbs.[/QU


She's annoying. She was forever talking about being single then when she got married she couldn't shut up about him. No one cares. Elizabeth talked about her husband too but not nearly as much. Sherri is a mess. Oh and yeah the writer, how the heck didn't she know that man was gay? Had all that attitude when she was on Oprah, like hun it was clear from the start he didn't swing your way but you were so desperate & pathetic and took the first man that looked your way. Sad.


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 2:14pm
People get so happy when black women get mistreated in a relationship/marriage. I bet if he was the offending party, everybody would be empathizing with the poor black man who got taken in by that wench.

She may not have been the brightest bulb and she can be annoying as hell but she didn't deserve that. I don't like seeing women getting dragged for being victimized.


Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 2:16pm
Originally posted by zolloh zolloh wrote:

^^^wtf?quit playing Scorpio....his ex was one of her bridesmaids and Sherri didnt know? smh...damn Sherri looking like a fool in these streets


What! I didn't know that either.

A bride is supposed to be in charge of her own daggone wedding party!

That big old-looking dope is a liar ...and now probably a cheat too.

Daggone Sherri - what are you gonna tell the audience on The View Monday?

(shrugs)It'll be good for ratings at least.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 2:28pm
I wonder if she will even discuss it on the View. I don't think she ever mentioned the bridesmaid/ex girlfriend thing on the show. I was waiting on it.


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 2:30pm
Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

People get so happy when black women get mistreated in a relationship/marriage. I bet if he was the offending party, everybody would be empathizing with the poor black man who got taken in by that wench.

She may not have been the brightest bulb and she can be annoying as hell but she didn't deserve that. I don't like seeing women getting dragged for being victimized.


EXACTLY that's why im telling her get it together girlfriend because i realize she's human/ isn't perfect/ makes mistakes however this is the 2nd husband so i served my dose of tough love to get her str8LOL
(like she's really reading BHMLOL) i want her to heal & get it right next time unless she's like zsa zsa gabor who just liked being married and married over 10 times i thinkLOL


Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 2:30pm
Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

People get so happy when black women get mistreated in a relationship/marriage. I bet if he was the offending party, everybody would be empathizing with the poor black man who got taken in by that wench.

She may not have been the brightest bulb and she can be annoying as hell but she didn't deserve that. I don't like seeing women getting dragged for being victimized.


Umm I didn't say I was 'happy' about her situation. I don't think anyone is happy she got taken by that loser. :(

Clearly, I said she was another woman so desparte to 'get married' she did not 'ask questions' when she should have nor did she look 'too closely' at who he was ... or she would have known he was out of work and lying about his career in Hollywerid.

Then thus business about his ex being in her wedding party ... and what? She forgave that nonsense and STAYED with him? That was a major deception and a red flag. Probably she's been ignoring a lot of red flags because these so far are pretty basic.

I think Sherri is bright - she does well on the show ... it's Religion and men where she's got a screw loose IMO. Remember that clip where she disputed if 'the world was flat?' That's Religion for you - makes you stupid.

If the guy was the one TAKEN by her - I would say the same - that something is off if you are marrying someone and you don't even know she does not work.




Posted By: hauteshellbi
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 2:38pm
Originally posted by wrote:

Roughly 67% to 80% of second marriages end in divorce, while third marriages crumble at an even higher rate, says Opperman. This could be because “divorce doesn’t help us choose a better partner or be a better mate in our next relationship. Divorce teaches us how to divorce,” says Wendy Walsh, PhD, CNN’s relationship expert and author of The 30-Day Love Detox.



Kim K you see this boo


Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 2:41pm
Originally posted by Journey94 Journey94 wrote:

Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

Originally posted by Journey94 Journey94 wrote:

[QUOTE=zolloh] Im confused...all these reasons for divorce (no job, fraud, doesnt do sh*t but lay in the house) all sound like 2 people who got married 2wks after meeting each other. They didnt know the person they were gonna get married to?


She was desperate to marry and said yes to the first man that asked her. So it's really her fault. She's the type that just wants to say & brag "My husband.." "As a wife..." "Well I'm married and.." etc. She got what she asked for. Sad but she did it to herself.

Correct!

She was just another female that HAD to get married so that she could feel good about herself. :(

(Before she met him I got soooo sick and tired of her talking about being 'celibate' - like that was such a great idea. Why was she letting the whole world know her PERSONAL business which was that AT 40 YEARS OLD she was gonna save herself for marriage.) Stupid ... she invited a con man into her life.

She was just desparate to GET MARRIED and these kinds of women WILL ALWAYS get married because there is a creep around every corner .. ready to 'play' these females with low self esteem.

(Star Jones was another one and so was that 'Waiting to Exhale' writer.)

Just PITIFUL the lot of them.

Aside from that .. I neeeever understood that relationship to begin with. He was a big ugly dope to me .. never saw the 'light' in his eyes for her. I saw it as a sham from the start and now it comes out that he never even had A JOB?

DUH? Now how did he fool a grown woman ... if she even had BASIC sense in her head?

She needs counseling so she can learn to VALUE HERSELF and stop begging for crumbs.[/QU


She's annoying. She was forever talking about being single then when she got married she couldn't shut up about him. No one cares. Elizabeth talked about her husband too but not nearly as much. Sherri is a mess. Oh and yeah the writer, how the heck didn't she know that man was gay? Had all that attitude when she was on Oprah, like hun it was clear from the start he didn't swing your way but you were so desperate & pathetic and took the first man that looked your way. Sad.



Yes, that Waiting to Exhale Writer - ohhh she was pitful.

The guy was:
- much younger
- from another country (and just after he got an American passport - he announced that he wanted out and was gay)
- he looks 'pretty' - reminds me of the guy Star married .. so yes, he was a gay guy that hooked up with a rich older woman and GOT TO COME AMERICA. DUH!

But what I found 'telling' and soo pitiful ... was the way she acted on Oprah and on other talkshows. She just ACTED A FOOL in front of the world because he lied to her.

THAT BEHAVIOR allll over the media was what made her look like a fool.

When you get hurt - just go behind closed doors and cry and deal with it ... but in public, have some dignity about yourself, hold your head high and move on. She acted like he was the last man on earth so she was gonna fight tooth and nail to keep him.

Pitiful


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 2:41pm
Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

People get so happy when black women get mistreated in a relationship/marriage. I bet if he was the offending party, everybody would be empathizing with the poor black man who got taken in by that wench.

She may not have been the brightest bulb and she can be annoying as hell but she didn't deserve that. I don't like seeing women getting dragged for being victimized.


Umm I didn't say I was 'happy' about her situation. I don't think anyone is happy she got taken by that loser. :(

Clearly, I said she was another woman so desparte to 'get married' she did not 'ask questions' when she should have nor did she look 'too closely' at who he was ... or she would have known he was out of work and lying about his career in Hollywerid.

Then thus business about his ex being in her wedding party ... and what? She forgave that nonsense and STAYED with him? That was a major deception and a red flag. Probably she's been ignoring a lot of red flags because these so far are pretty basic.

I think Sherri is bright - she does well on the show ... it's Religion and men where she's got a screw loose IMO. Remember that clip where she disputed if 'the world was flat?' That's Religion for you - makes you stupid.

If the guy was the one TAKEN by her - I would say the same - that something is off if you are marrying someone and you don't even know she does not work.



^^I wasn't targeting you specifically with my comment. There were other comments besides yours that I thought were harsh. I'm just saying that sometimes, there are really skilled con men out there and it doesn't necessarily make you stupid for falling for it. Love is a crapshoot. She took a chance on him and it blew up in her face. She's human. And she did have a prenup! Like Bonjour said, let's just hope she makes wiser decisions regarding her love life from now on. Everybody plays the fool sometimes. Her problem is that she's in the public eye and she was always incessantly gushing about her hubby and how much she wanted to get married. She needs to be more discreet about her private affairs.


Posted By: hauteshellbi
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 2:50pm
Terry McMillan was too much lmfaoooo



Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 2:53pm
Ummm but it is a sort of 'stupidity' to be 40 something ... and be sooo fixated on 'getting a man'.

Something is missing with her on the inside.

A lot of women (even in real life) gushhhhh over their men ... like they hit the lottery and they think if you are not the same ... you are not in a happy relationship.

And then it all goes south .. and I am thinking 'why don't you keep your business to yourself' and 'having a guy is not everything anyway'.

He was a con man .. but I think she let these things like 'no proof of work' slip by because she wanted him .. (anyone) at any cost.

No telling how many red flags she ignored.

I am sorry for Sherri - there's not a mean bone in her body but something ain't right if something so OBVIOUS about him slipped her attention.


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 2:56pm
Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

Ummm but it is a sort of 'stupidity' to be 40 something ... and be sooo fixated on 'getting a man'.

Something is missing with her on the inside.

A lot of women (even in real life) gushhhhh over their men ... like they hit the lottery and they think if you are not the same ... you are not in a happy relationship.

And then it all goes south .. and I am thinking 'why don't you keep your business to yourself' and 'having a guy is not everything anyway'.

He was a con man .. but I think she let these things like 'no proof of work' slip by because she wanted him .. (anyone) at any cost.

No telling how many red flags she ignored.

I am sorry for Sherri - there's not a mean bone in her body but something ain't right if something so OBVIOUS about him slipped her attention.


So you can't select the wrong man past 40 and get your heart broken??? That is only reserved for the young and if you make a mistake past a certain age, you are to be publicly flogged??? I agree that she was way too fixated on getting married at all costs. But we don't know what went down between closed doors, so the red flags might not have been as obvious as you assume them to be. Or they might have been. No one knows. At the end of the day, he's an asshole and a poor excuse for a man.



Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 2:59pm
Originally posted by hauteshellbi hauteshellbi wrote:

Terry McMillan was too much lmfaoooo



Yeah, that's another level. She made a spectacle of herself giving that interview too.


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 3:01pm
ooooweeee now yall takin it BACKLOL^^^ yesssss hunty terry couldn't see the forest for the trees on this guyOuch idk why not


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 3:09pm
Originally posted by hauteshellbi hauteshellbi wrote:

Terry McMillan was too much lmfaoooo



Her facial expressions would make perfect gifs!! LOLLOL


Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 3:19pm
Originally posted by hauteshellbi hauteshellbi wrote:

Terry McMillan was too much lmfaoooo



Right. Just looking at that guy ... she had to have known ... 'something was off' she just ignored it until it all BLEW UP.

Terry is my age ... she knew.


Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: May 10 2014 at 3:40pm
Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

Ummm but it is a sort of 'stupidity' to be 40 something ... and be sooo fixated on 'getting a man'.

Something is missing with her on the inside.

A lot of women (even in real life) gushhhhh over their men ... like they hit the lottery and they think if you are not the same ... you are not in a happy relationship.

And then it all goes south .. and I am thinking 'why don't you keep your business to yourself' and 'having a guy is not everything anyway'.

He was a con man .. but I think she let these things like 'no proof of work' slip by because she wanted him .. (anyone) at any cost.

No telling how many red flags she ignored.

I am sorry for Sherri - there's not a mean bone in her body but something ain't right if something so OBVIOUS about him slipped her attention.


So you can't select the wrong man past 40 and get your heart broken??? That is only reserved for the young and if you make a mistake past a certain age, you are to be publicly flogged??? I agree that she was way too fixated on getting married at all costs. But we don't know what went down between closed doors, so the red flags might not have been as obvious as you assume them to be. Or they might have been. No one knows. At the end of the day, he's an asshole and a poor excuse for a man.



Oh yes ... you can be a young fool as well as an old fool. :)

We've all been fools for men hee hee! .. but it's when you get MARRIED to a con artist that it goes to far if you are an old fool.

She has the maturity to know that once you get MARRIED you have to join your finances etc and you have to have an ongoing conversation and be IN HIS financial business .. before you get married.

It's when you are a young fool (like 25) that you don't understand that finances is the number 1 cause of divorce.

That's why I said if she was willing to overlook his finances KNOWING she got stuck paying alimony the first go around too?

Ummm see this would be too much - because she has had enough life experience so to overlook this kindof stuff is a reflection of what's happening on the inside.

Again ... she is SUPER Religious so I am sure she 'prayed on it'.

(To me, that is crap though. Praying is only appropriate when you don't have any control. So if you are on a plane and the pilot says strap in, put your head between your legs and BRACE for a hard landing - THAT would be the time to pray. If you receive a call that your child has been hit by a car .. then all the way to the hospital is the time for you to pray.

But if you have a DECEPTIVE, LYING man on your hands ... praying is not gonna help. If there is a God .. he gives us all 'common sense'so that we can manage a lot of stuff ourselves.)

I digress. :)


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