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Topic: The dreams drama with his soon to be baby mama
Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Subject: The dreams drama with his soon to be baby mama
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 12:38pm

The-Dream claims pregnant ex-lover Lydia Nam 'falsely accused him of assault and strangulation to avoid deportation from US'


The-Dream has claimed that his ex-girlfriend has falsely accused him of attacking her so that she can avoid deportation to Canada. 

The R&B and pop producer made the claims after he was charged on Wednesday with alleged assault, strangulation, harassment and reckless endangerment against his pregnant former lover Lydia Nam,  http://www.tmz.com/2014/05/08/the-dream-girlfriend-lydia-nam-assault-strangulation-visa/" rel="nofollow - TMZ  reports.

The star, 36, who was allowed to leave the Manhattan Criminal Court after paying $20,000 bail, is said to have told friends that Ms Nam, who was heavily pregnant at the time of the alleged attack in April 2012, falsely accused him.  

Dispute: Music producer The-Dream claims that assault allegations by his former partner Lydia Nam are lies to avoid being deported from the US
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Dispute: Music producer The-Dream claims that assault allegations by his former partner Lydia Nam 'are lies to avoid being deported from the US'

He is said to have claimed that his former lover was about to be thrown out of the USA and returned to Canada, and she is lying to take advantage of a visa concession that allows crime victims to remain in the country if they are needed to testify in a prosecution.   

On leaving court, the producer who has worked with A-list singers sich as Britney Spears and Rihanna, said: I have nothing to say. It'll all come out. There are worse things in the world going on.'

Sources for Nam allegedly told the website that Dream has a history of domestically abusing her. TMZ reports that while she waited seven months until after the alleged incident to report it, the reason was because she was terrified of him.

A lawyer for the star told the judge that his client was innocent at that the accusations, which were reported in November 2013, were the result of tensions between the former couple on civil litigation and child support issues.    

A criminal complaint alleges that Dream 'punched and kicked' his former girlfriend at New York's Plaza Hotel in April 2012 and threatened to kill her 'like O.J. Simpson killed Nicole Brown'.

The producer is also alleged to have 'dragged Lydia by her hair, twisted her necklace around her neck, kicked and punched her in the head, grabbed her by the neck, pinned her to the wall and choked her.' 

Allegations: Music producer The-Dream is reportedly wanted by police in connection to alleged assault of then-girlfriend Lydia Nam back in 2013, when she was pregnant with their son
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Arrested: Music producer The-Dream was reportedly taken into custody in connection to alleged assault of then-girlfriend Lydia Nam back in April 2013, when she was pregnant with their son

His rep released a statement to MailOnline shortly after his arrest: 'Dream voluntarily surrendered to the Midtown North Precinct this morning in order to responsibly address the false allegations filed against him by Lydia Nam.

'He is innocent of the charges filed against him today, and we are confident that when this case is concluded and all the evidence has been reviewed, it will be clear that he is innocent.'

In addition to the two felonies, which were for assault and strangulation, he was also booked for three misdemeanors, for assault, reckless endangerment and child endangerment.

Former love: The-Dream was previously married to singer Christina Milian
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Former love: The-Dream was previously married to singer Christina Milian

The incident is alleged to have happened at the Plaza Hotel in New York City - around three months before Lydia gave birth.

However, following the alleged attack, Lydia went until November before filing a police report, with no indication as to if she sought medical attention following the reported assault.

But a source close to the the 36-year-old musician has insisted to  http://www.tmz.com/2014/04/30/the-dream-wanted-nypd-after-baby-mama-attack-lydia-nam/" rel="nofollow - TMZ.com  that the claims are untrue, adding that Dream believes the Canadian Nam is a 'vengeful woman who's plotting to use this alleged crime as a way to extend her visa in the US.'

The alleged assault isn't the first domestic violence case that Dream has been accused of being involved in. 

He helped make her: The-Dream created Umbrella, which was a breakout hit for Rihanna, pictured on Monday at the Met Gala
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He helped make her: The-Dream created Umbrella, which was a breakout hit for Rihanna, pictured on Monday at the Met Gala

TMZ.com also reported that Dream was arrested last June following an incident that also involved Nam, but she declined to press charges, meaning the case was rejected by the District Attorney.

MailOnline has contacted a representative for The-Dream for comment.

Dream is a famous American producer who is responsible for having co-written some of the world's most famous songs, including Beyoncé's Single Ladies and Rihanna's Umbrella.

Dream has three children with his first wife Nivea, as well as a daughter with second wife Christina Milian and a son with Nam.







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Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 1:27pm
I hope what he is saying isn't true.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 1:34pm
He told her he was ton Kill her like OJ killed Nicole.......I think she lying.....


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 1:40pm
lol @ avoiding deportation to Canada


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 1:53pm
what does deportation have to do with any thing. If they wanted to deport her they could.


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 1:58pm
It's hard for me to be sympathetic towards him even if she's lying.


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 2:18pm
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

lol @ avoiding deportation to Canada


LOLLOL
Well it's not that easy to move to the States from Canada. She's probably looking for a sugar daddy.

 I could move tomorrow if I wanted to but that would involve some illegal sheit I'd rather keep under wraps, lol.



Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 2:27pm
If she were a victim of a crime in US soil, she gets a green card, which means she becomes a permanent resident - that's why he is claiming she did that.

To be honest, the story does not add up at all: if she had suffered all that abuse while pregnant, she could have gone to police. She is making it up to stay in the US.


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 2:45pm
fucck tetris and his new black tears


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 3:00pm
she's supposed to be what they call exoticalLOL

she aint got no pull so he can do what he wants / she signed up for the lifestyleConfused

he pretty much done pissed her off & tryin to fix this here sheitt before it gets all the way outta handOuch

alot of times men get women from other countries & such to have something that's considered as untouched / this is another MAJOR fail as black men are now experiencingSleepy


hmmm this is the guy who has an autistic son with the chick from r&b divas/ he seems like he's trying to get some babies that might come out different than his 1st/ whatever the phase he's going through he BETTA get his sheitt together fo his azz get locked up they aint playin with NOBODY no mo when it comes to jail/ domestic violence is gettin HELLA black celebrities careers FUKKKKKED UPAngry  don't believe me just ask: the game/ columbus short/ eva's baby daddy/ chris brown and more i didn't nameShocked




Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 3:26pm
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

lol @ avoiding deportation to Canada
I know right ......is Canada really that bad....I thought she would be trying to avoid deportation to some third world country.


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 3:31pm
The US isn't deporting non violent immigrants as long as Obama is in office. Plus her baby is a citizen. She wasn't going nowhere anyhow. Try again dream.


Posted By: leftywefty
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 3:44pm
I remember during the christian milian drama someone said he looked like a teddy grahamCry


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 5:34pm
Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

The US isn't deporting non violent immigrants as long as Obama is in office. Plus her baby is a citizen. She wasn't going nowhere anyhow. Try again dream.


The baby isn't born yet, from my understanding.


Posted By: Meme0887
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 5:37pm
who was heavily pregnant at the time of the alleged attack in April 2012, falsely accused him.  


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 5:37pm
Originally posted by Meme0887 Meme0887 wrote:

who was heavily pregnant at the time of the alleged attack in April 2012, falsely accused him.  


Oh, ok. I didn't read my own post. lol


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 5:39pm
those must be bad pics…. 

she cant be that basic. 


Posted By: Meme0887
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 5:39pm
lol


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 5:42pm
Meme that lip color in your avi is giving me life!!!


Posted By: Journey94
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 5:51pm
Lmao


Posted By: Meme0887
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 5:51pm
Smile Thanks!


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 5:56pm
Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

The US isn't deporting non violent immigrants as long as Obama is in office. Plus her baby is a citizen. She wasn't going nowhere anyhow. Try again dream.



He's just mad because he's now cutting checks to at least 3 different women. That's probably why he kicked her ass.


Posted By: *Belle*Femme*
Date Posted: May 08 2014 at 6:19pm
Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

It's hard for me to be sympathetic towards him even if she's lying.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 4:46am

Th http://www.tmz.com/2014/05/09/the-dream-baby-mama-assault-photos/" rel="nofollow - e-Dream's Baby Mama

http://www.tmz.com/2014/05/09/the-dream-baby-mama-assault-photos/" rel="nofollow - Photographed Injuries After Alleged Attack

http://www.tmz.com/2014/05/09/the-dream-baby-mama-assault-photos/" rel="nofollow - 60 minutes ago BY TMZ STAFF
EXCLUSIVE

http://www.tmz.com/photos/2014/05/09/lydia-nam-the-dream-injury-bruises-cuts-scabs-photos/" rel="nofollow">0508_lydia_nam_the_dream_pregnant_injury_photos_launch_v2 The-Dream's baby mama photographed her injuries immediately following her alleged fight with him last year and the graphic pics are now part of the police investigation.

As TMZ first reported, Lydia Nam is accusing Dream of  http://www.tmz.com/2014/04/30/the-dream-wanted-nypd-after-baby-mama-attack-lydia-nam/" rel="nofollow -
Nam says she waited seven months to report the incident out of fear for her safety. The-Dream  http://www.tmz.com/2014/05/08/the-dream-felony-arrest-assault-pregnant-girlfriend-charges-arraignment/" rel="nofollow -

Read more:  http://www.tmz.com/#ixzz31D6A1ZGc" rel="nofollow - http://www.tmz.com#ixzz31D6A1ZGc



Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:06am
I was just bout 2 post this WELP no matter what I said earlier its a wrap for his azz this here gal was on her game! umph umph umph I looked @ all the pictures & when I saw the one with the newspaper date *game over* yeap the lightbulb is on & properly working in her head she done check mated his azz ooooweeee!
 
sidenote: after going BAck & reading what I posted earlier I was pretty much on the money / he DEFINITELY needs Olivia pope to fix this sheitt!


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:21am
LOL ooops double posted carry on


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:32am
These new black tears finna be delicious

This is the same girl he defended after she said nigguh right?

Anyway, short of jail, Tetris has deep enough pockets to absorb the hit


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:37am
this the Chris brown effect snowballing through the entertainment industry / theses fools betta get a grip!


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:47am
Lol chris brown effect..

Lol

Nigguhs been beating their wives and gfs in the entertainment bizs way before Ike and will sadly continue to do so


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 5:48am
Originally posted by Bonjour baby ooowee Bonjour baby ooowee wrote:

this the Chris brown effect snowballing through the entertainment industry / theses fools betta get a grip!

but do they need to get a grip?  these heauxs are still team breezy and if the dream were more attractive he would have just as many defenders. 


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 11:56am
Its gonna be interesting to see this play out/ he DEFINITELY wasn't expecting those pix


Posted By: indiecat
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 12:03pm
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

lol @ avoiding deportation to Canada


lol, yah that doesn't make any sense. Hell, deport me to Canada, I wasn't even born there, please!


Just because it took her time to report him, doesn't mean it didn't happen. I don't think she would make this stuff up. some women don't speak up because the guy says he is sorry, that it's not gonna happen again, buys her stuff. you hold your tongue because once you tell someone, then you have opened up a can of worms and people don't believe you.


Posted By: indiecat
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 12:07pm
[QUOTE=ms_wonderland] <h1 ="hf1" style="color: rgb16, 98, 150; font-family: 'Source Sans Pro', arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: normal; margin-right: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding: 0px; font-weight: normal;">Th http://www.tmz.com/2014/05/09/the-dream-baby-mama-assault-photos/" rel="nofollow - e-Dream's Baby Mama </h1><h3 ="hf2" style="color: rgb16, 98, 150; font-family: 'Source Sans Pro', arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-weight: normal;"> http://www.tmz.com/2014/05/09/the-dream-baby-mama-assault-photos/" rel="nofollow - Photographed Injuries After Alleged Attack </h3>[URL=http://www.tmz.com/2014/05/09/the-dream-baby-mama-assault-photos/" rel="nofollow]<span style="font-family: 'Source Sans Pro', arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: normal;]</span>[/URL]<h5 ="article-posted-date" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal; color: rgb129, 128, 128; line-height: 15px; font-family: 'Source Sans Pro', arial, sans-serif;">60 minutes ago BY TMZ STAFF</h5><div ="article-" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-family: 'Source Sans Pro', arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: normal;"><div ="primary--swipe" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">EXCLUSIVE<p style="margin: 0px; padding: 11px 0px; font-size: 15px;"> http://www.tmz.com/photos/2014/05/09/lydia-nam-the-dream-injury-bruises-cuts-scabs-photos/" rel="nofollow">0508_lydia_nam_the_dream_pregnant_injury_photos_launch_v2 <span style="font-weight: 600;">The-Dream'</span>s baby mama photographed her injuries immediately following her alleged fight with him last year and the graphic pics are now part of the police investigation.

As TMZ first reported, <span style="font-weight: 600;">Lydia Nam</span> is accusing Dream of [URL=http://www.tmz.com/2014/04/30/the-dream-wanted-nypd-after-baby-mama-attack-lydia-nam/" rel="nofollow]<span style="font-weight: 600;]punching, kicking and strangling</span>[/URL] her during an argument when she was pregnant with his child. 

Now TMZ has obtained the photos, which show giant bruises on her arm and leg, as well as scratches on her neck and face. 

According to the criminal complaint, Dream pulled and dragged her by her hair, choked her with a necklace she was wearing by twisting it tightly around her neck, kicked and punched her in the head and then grabbed her by the neck, pinning her to the wall and choking her again. 

The complaint also alleged that when Nam tried to call 911, he violently twisted her arm and said he would kill her “like O.J. Simpson killed Nicole Brown."

Nam says she waited seven months to report the incident out of fear for her safety. The-Dream [URL=http://www.tmz.com/2014/05/08/the-dream-felony-arrest-assault-pregnant-girlfriend-charges-arraignment/" rel="nofollow]<span style="font-weight: 600;]denies the whole thing</span>[/URL].

<span style="font-family: 'Source Sans Pro', arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: normal;">

Read more:  http://www.tmz.com/#ixzz31D6A1ZGc" rel="nofollow - http://www.tmz.com#ixzz31D6A1ZGc </span>


Wow


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 12:08pm
Even with the pic, if the Dream didn't look like Grimace, he'd have a shot at public sympathy and the benefit of the doubt.

*waits for 'well, she must have done something to provoke him!'*


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: May 09 2014 at 1:05pm
Asian women act up? I thought they had the highest of personal conduct. Is it because she hangs around non Asian people?


Posted By: aNgElIc*SoUl
Date Posted: May 11 2014 at 6:52am
Hmm, I looked up his writing and producing credits, they keep getting longer and are hella impressive....I think Imma try to get pregnant next sheiiiiiit.


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 11 2014 at 1:02pm
LOL


Posted By: Majesty02
Date Posted: May 11 2014 at 2:05pm
Hmmm I wonder if DL Hughley is gonna say she should've kept her mouth shut? (Probably not)


Posted By: Journey94
Date Posted: May 11 2014 at 2:20pm
Originally posted by Bonjour baby ooowee Bonjour baby ooowee wrote:


this the Chris brown effect snowballing through the entertainment industry / theses fools betta get a grip!


Has nothing to do with Chris Brown. People keep saying he "got off easy" um he's one of the few that actually served the smallest about of time & consequences. Celebrity men have been beatingg the sh*t of out their women and walking away like nothing happen for decades. And nobody says a thing. I think the CB/Rih thing blew up because they were really young and rising stars. These men have always been crazy, but they're lives & situations are never focused on just swept under the rug. Most people's "faves" have domestic violence history


Posted By: NARSAddict
Date Posted: May 11 2014 at 3:50pm
Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Asian women act up? I thought they had the highest of personal conduct. Is it because she hangs around non Asian people?


Lawd I can tell you stories about this one Chinese chick who stayed on the same dorm floor as me when I was in college.  It included: eating disorders, domestic violence, noise disturbance, possible psych case.


Posted By: mzsophisticated
Date Posted: May 11 2014 at 4:48pm
this nigguh need a vasectomy fo' real since he refuses to use protection


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: May 11 2014 at 4:58pm
Originally posted by Journey94 Journey94 wrote:

Originally posted by Bonjour baby ooowee Bonjour baby ooowee wrote:


this the Chris brown effect snowballing through the entertainment industry / theses fools betta get a grip!


Has nothing to do with Chris Brown. People keep saying he "got off easy" um he's one of the few that actually served the smallest about of time & consequences. Celebrity men have been beatingg the sh*t of out their women and walking away like nothing happen for decades. And nobody says a thing. I think the CB/Rih thing blew up because they were really young and rising stars. These men have always been crazy, but they're lives & situations are never focused on just swept under the rug. Most people's "faves" have domestic violence history


so you saying Denzel/ Michael Jordan/ Shaq/ Wayne Brady/ &  Juicey J whuppin they chicks azzes but keepin it hush?Shocked



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