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Topic: Check this bullsh*t I received in my inbox
Posted By: Midna
Subject: Check this bullsh*t I received in my inbox
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 3:45am
Dudes are crazy. I log into my OKCupid account once in a blue freaking moon because I'm too busy with life and the online dating thing was never serious to me. This guy sent me one prior message and I never saw it. I logged in yesterday to delete my OKC account because I never use it and stumbled upon this mess. Dead





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Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:24am
Men make me sick with this whole I'm a good guy bullsh*t....Most "good guys" are ugly assholes.


Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:26am
Lol omg midna!
I went straight to your profile pic to see your cute face before reading his essay.
You are so pretty!

Damn, not even a fat white woman doesn't want him? I find that hard to believe!
Ha, no i guess i'm kidding.

Well umm...yeah I got nothin'.

Men don't realize that women get bombarded with 100s of msges online.
My sister dared me to open a POF once as a social experiment. In the first hour i had about 30 msges. Some men kept msging me impatiently. Then they got ruder and ruder. Chalk it up to the game and keep it moving, bro.

Online dating has spoiled men, as well.

These brothers do break my heart though. I don't have the answers, bro.



Posted By: missunfoolish
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:28am
sounds like this older guy i dont have interest in anymore making me feel bad i dont want him cause hes nice 



that guy just need to get some, he doing way too much


Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:37am
Also, a peeve of mine is when people use bigger words to sound intellectual yet when you read the sentence, it makes no sense!

"It's obvious that you're just not interested, but why convey that interest by simply ignoring??"

Dude, what?



Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:49am
ion see nuffin.  *logs in from phone*


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:50am
This Brotha said he is lonely and longitude.....Longitude. LMAAAO

He also doesn't know how to play the 'i'm a nice guy card'...you don't throw that sh*t out like that...


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:56am
Google search for nice guy. You should have sent him here.

Nice people are great. They bring joy and love into our lives.

13 Reasons Why Nice Guys Are The Worst
http://polandbananas20.tumblr.com/post/38326480412/oh-my-lord-the-bookchannel-just-hit-10-000-subscribers" rel="nofollow - polandbananas20.tumblr.com

Self-proclaimed “nice guys,” however, are kind of not like that at all.

13 Reasons Why Nice Guys Are The Worst
http://tiny-vessels.tumblr.com/post/39633132815/someone-tell-my-frenchton-to-stop-passing-gas-when-i-am" rel="nofollow - tiny-vessels.tumblr.com

1. “Nice guys” are always trying to convince you they are *such* nice people.

13 Reasons Why Nice Guys Are The Worst

2. “Nice guys” apparently aren’t listening to themselves when they speak.

"Nice guys" apparently arent listening to themselves when they speak.
http://sorryiamnotsorrydotcom.files.wordpress.com/2012/03/x.jpg" rel="nofollow - wordpress.com

3. It turns out there’s no such thing as the Nice Guy Card(TM).

 It turns out theres no such thing as the Nice Guy Card(TM).
http://callmekitto.tumblr.com/post/30009645589/this-comic-is-obvs-a-parody-no-one-remembers-to" rel="nofollow - callmekitto.tumblr.com

Comic by Callmekito

4. “Nice guys” think that all women owe them something.

"Nice guys" think that all women owe them something.
http://pictureswithinappropriatetext.tumblr.com/post/38973636545" rel="nofollow - pictureswithinappropriatetext.tumblr.com
http://wtfniceguys.tumblr.com/post/39076931477" rel="nofollow - wtfniceguys.tumblr.com
http://iloveniceguysokc.tumblr.com/post/39012721407" rel="nofollow - iloveniceguysokc.tumblr.com

9. …and all over pop culture!

...and all over pop culture!
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Qok2Bcwj2bg/TvNyDh6TgbI/AAAAAAAAAs8/Pf3dYoF-ZPo/s1600/-500-Days-of-Summer-500-days-of-summer-15955357-1024-683.jpg" rel="nofollow - blogger.com / Via http://www.grantland.com/story/_/id/7036489/your-deal%20" rel="nofollow - grantland.com

11. “Nice guys” sometimes evoke sympathy…

13 Reasons Why Nice Guys Are The Worst
http://strawberryfacee.tumblr.com/post/40508326008/i-miss-florida" rel="nofollow - strawberryfacee.tumblr.com

Because, let’s be honest, everyone just wants to be loved.

http://niceguysofokc.tumblr.com/post/38238310759/shakes-head" rel="nofollow - niceguysofokc.tumblr.com

12. “Nice guys” just miss so many things.

"Nice guys" just miss so many things.
Via http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2259582/Tumblr-exposes-Nice-Guys-OkCupid-looking-love.html" rel="nofollow - dailymail.co.uk

Courtesy of the now defunct Tumblr blog Nice Guys of OK Cupid.

13. And they’re always complaining about how “nice guys finish last.”

13 Reasons Why Nice Guys Are The Worst
http://gifsforthelulz.tumblr.com/post/38341108855" rel="nofollow - gifsforthelulz.tumblr.com

IT’S NOT A COMPETITION.




Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 5:17am
dang.  he just unloaded like all the way.


Posted By: missunfoolish
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 5:25am


Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 5:45am
Those gifs totally made my day. Thanks rt!
*wipes tears from cheeks*

I hate to be laughing at his misery, but he needs to evaluate some things, and hit up thesaurus.com, first and foremost.

And wait, why is he talking about teens and manners? Really, bro? A guilt trip? Or Is he stooping to teens to find a WOMAN?



Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 5:48am
Dude probably thinks I'm a teen hence why his creepy ass is "all over me" as he claimed.

This dude sent ONE MESSAGE prior!


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 5:59am
What did the other message say?


Posted By: NARSAddict
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 6:04am
Guys like this skeeve me out.  Nice to see there is a rational explanation on why I don't trust them. 


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 6:10am
He basically said she's acting like a teen by ignoring him instead of an adult.




Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 6:10am
Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

What did the other message say?


Lemme log in and screenshot it, I'm sure it was just the typical introductory message


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 6:14am
Jesus, no wonder I didn't even bother with this dude. He painted himself as desperate from the jump.

He suuuuuure messaged me a lot. Ermm



Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 6:17am
its so annoying when people try to make you feel bad for not liking them as if pity is a motivator. 


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 6:21am
Man, this dude does not sound interesting at aaaaaaall.
Self Proclaimed Nice/Good Men need to simply realize their niceness does not make them universally compatible nor deserving of every woman they are interested in.

Quote
My name is . I just moved here from salt lake city Utah. I used to make music, years ago, but I started my own business and left music alone. But my brother recently passed away, and because he loved and believed in my music so much, in his honor, I decided to move to Lancaster, California, where my best friend has a record label. Now here I am making music again and it's actually going VERY well. I'm NOT a "struggling artist", dont worry. lol

Anyway, about 16 months ago, I vowed not to have sex unless in a relationship, so you can trust that I'm ABSOLUTELY NOT looking for sex.

Also im NOT a thug, gangster, player, or anything even remotely relative.. I'm an educated, street smart, ambitious man who has a wonderful, loving personality. I'm also goofy, silly, funny and easygoing... I can SINCERELY say that i'm a good man, looking for a good woman. Someone who loves to cuddle and watch movies, travel, have insightful conversation, and although she knows that she's physically beautiful, her attitude shows that her physical beauty is but a reflection of the beauty she possesses inside. I'm affectionate and hoping for someone who loves the little kisses, hugs, and stuff like that all the time. I hate clubbing, but wouldn't mind being with someone who likes it, long as she never pressures me to go, and she does not like to go very often. I think couples should always show each other they're special to one another, no matter where they are or who's around. They share their dreams and aspiration and help each other realize them. Communication is of the utmost importance because without it, a relationship will always fail. Also, it's human nature to bump heads at times. I promise to try to understand your point of view, just as deeply is I'd like for you to understand mine.
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Twandaye?cf=messages#" rel="nofollow - What I’m doing with my life
Getting closer to God and learning more about what's going on with this world and working on a way to make a positive impact!
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Twandaye?cf=messages#" rel="nofollow - I’m really good at
Writing songs and getting along with all types of people.
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Twandaye?cf=messages#" rel="nofollow - The first things people usually notice about me
My intellect and boyish nature.
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Twandaye?cf=messages#" rel="nofollow - Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
80's music and movies, motivational speakers, art, interior design, traveling, cuddling, insightful conversation, UFO, conspiracy, what's going on with this world and other worlds, exercise, love, peace, friendly, social drinking, couples nights, board games, children, eating, beaches, holding hands, eye contact, talk radio, Parks, beautiful views and landscapes
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Twandaye?cf=messages#" rel="nofollow - The six things I could never do without
LOVE
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Twandaye?cf=messages#" rel="nofollow - I spend a lot of time thinking about
Honestly?... EVERYTHING. lol
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Twandaye?cf=messages#" rel="nofollow - On a typical Friday night I am
Sitting here by myself. I'm new to California and haven't made many friends yet
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Twandaye?cf=messages#" rel="nofollow - The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Well it's private, right? Lol
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Twandaye?cf=messages#" rel="nofollow - I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Twandaye?cf=messages#" rel="nofollow - You should message me if
If you've been through hard times in relationships and you'd actually love and appreciate a good man in your life and you wont take advantage of his good heart.


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 6:23am

I don't want no pussay, girl. I promise.



Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 6:25am
I just googled his name

He does do music.. and he sounds like a Tupac imitator



It's sad, the guy is physically attractive. But the desperation is not.


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 6:25am
Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:


I don't want no pussay, girl. I promise.




LMAO YOU GOOGLED HIM TOO
I don't feel bad anymore LOLLOLLOLLOLLOL


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 6:28am
How many times is he going to say he aint tryna bump uglies....


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 6:30am
Lol. He swear he Tupac.


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 6:33am
His flow ain't half bad.


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 6:34am
It's really not, he's not bad and he's not ugly

But a volatile dude like that ain't safe.


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 6:40am
Quote Ages 18–99



why do people do thisLOL


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 6:43am
He's old, lonely and desperate.
But maybe he's the answer to your prayers Midna. 


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 6:54am
if they act like this online, they'll be worse in person. Some women like it, they see it as attention and are flattered

I did the same thing Derri. One guy cursed me out saying tall women always act better than and i think im all of that. *Closed* i know the girl who did it witg me still has it cause i saw the app on her phone. That was like 2 years ago.


Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 7:01am
He's a good lookin brother!
Sucks!


Posted By: kfoxx1998
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 7:52am
Cute but crazy as Hayell!!  Your instincts probably saved you from some serious stalking.


Posted By: Fcgriffin
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 7:53am

"Longitude for companionship..."? Confused



Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 8:03am
Tragedy avoided.....


Posted By: leftywefty
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 8:08am
hilarious midna! 


Posted By: nala52808
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 8:21am
Midna, you really dodged a crazy retarded bullet right there, cus that dude is a pathetic pucci ass Brotha who aint worth anybody's time or energyErmm


Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 8:32am
Originally posted by Fcgriffin Fcgriffin wrote:

"Longitude for companionship..."? Confused



Y'all know that was auto correct and he meant "longing for a relationship..."

Evil

Really though he probably sent that message to 400 girls. Only pretty ones of course. He wouldn't possibly consider a normal woman. Good guys standards are always incredibly too high. I can not stand self proclaimed good guys with a passion.


Posted By: BeatriceBean
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 8:51am

What a sap.



Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 8:51am
That was all game that sad puppy dog bullsh!t. He even pulled the manipulative guilt card in hopes to get a reply and you did. Im sure he copy and paste that ish on the regular.As much as he says he not trying to smash means he is trying to smash asap. He look like the type to hit you with some spoken word on the first date in hopes of getting the floppy bird....lol


Posted By: Marcelo22
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 8:53am
Real talk that is a copy and paste and he did send it to a lot of women. Nobody online is that serious, men on there trying smash something and women on there for attention.


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 8:57am
I can't get over him explicitly stating how much he doesn't want to have sex, while simultaneously expressing desperation to meet women.

That's all types of creepy.




Posted By: Cocoa
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 9:02am
I wonder how many BHM poster and lurkers have secretly reached out to him?Disapprove


Posted By: BeatriceBean
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 9:02am
Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

Real talk that is a copy and paste and he did send it to a lot of women. Nobody online is that serious, men on there trying smash something and women on there for attention.
 
I'm sure that he has to send it to a lot of women with that tired ass rap. Wonder how many it's worked on, smh.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 9:05am
Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

Nobody online is that serious


Sheeeeeit... You'd be surprised.


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 9:07am
I died a little inside @ "dearie" LOL

well done.

#someoneneedsablowupdoll


Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 9:08am
Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

I can't get over him explicitly stating how much he doesn't want to have sex, while simultaneously expressing desperation to meet women.

That's all types of creepy.




For sure....

I know how to make a male profile to woo da ladies they love me he should let me rewrite his profile...i guarantee he would be getting more box than a FedEx hub in Nyc.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 9:26am
Most 'nice guys" are azzholes working a different angle cause his usual azzhat approach did not work .

I picture dinner with him sprinkled with words like irregardless being said over the all you can eat salad at Olive Garden...Dead


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 9:53am
Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

I died a little inside @ "dearie" LOL

well done.

#someoneneedsablowupdoll


ThisLOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOL


Posted By: JasmineE02
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 10:07am
Random's gifs reminded me of the1janitor's video. LOL




Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 11:07am
Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Twandaye?cf=messages#" rel="nofollow - Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
80's music and movies, motivational speakers, art, interior design, traveling, cuddling, insightful conversation, UFO, conspiracy, what's going on with this world and other worlds, exercise, love, peace, friendly, social drinking, couples nights, board games, children, eating, beaches, holding hands, eye contact, talk radio, Parks, beautiful views and landscapes
LOLCryLOLLOL


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 11:11am
He reminds me of someone............


Posted By: whosbotheringme
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 11:14am
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

He reminds me of someone............
 
 
I don't know why this made R. Kelly pop into my head.  Which just adds exponentially to the creepy factor.Confused


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 11:17am
im african and i cant even mouth his name

fucck you pronounce that sh*t?


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 11:20am
lol.. they really do stare like that tho. Most don't say anything either


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 11:21am
Cherry!CryLOL


Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 11:24am
Originally posted by CherryBlossom CherryBlossom wrote:

LOLCrywhat's wrong cc? you don't like a bit of healthy eye contact eh?

I thought everybody liked this?CryLOL



http://s1013.photobucket.com/user/123ilikefood123/media/Elmo-ROFL_big_zps40028103.gif.html" rel="nofollow">



Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 11:45am
That's some scary sh!t....the only thing worse is when you're ignoring a guys attempts of eye contact and he forces his face in your line of vision and try to communicate with you


Posted By: pebbles251
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 11:56am
It funny how these same not so attractive men go for the pretty women but get upset when they get rejected. Why dont they try reaching out to a fluffy or someone not so easy on the eyes. They are treating someone else the same way pretty women are treating them.... I would have told him go play in traffic......
ok maybe not but I would have ignored him.


Posted By: goodm3
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 12:26pm
Originally posted by Ming Ming wrote:

lol.. they really do stare like that tho. Most don't say anything either

men do this to me as well... and its very creepy. 

This one stares at me every time i see him...and he looks just a dusty as Sam Jackson in that pic. No hair cute...clothes don't fit right...and those eyes. 


Posted By: Benni
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 1:15pm
I don't like to hurt peoples feelings, so I will simply reply letting him know that I missed his messages.   I am currently in a relationship, and it was nothing personal.

That's just me.


Posted By: Majesty02
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 1:28pm
Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Jesus, no wonder I didn't even bother with this dude. He painted himself as desperate from the jump.

He suuuuuure messaged me a lot. Ermm

 
 
I can 100% guarantee she's not the only one he sent those messages to. Men like that usually post the same pathetic message to 10-20 + females just to see who bites. It’s almost like a dating lottery to them. And they try to play the victim role in order to get attention. This is a classic case of Histrionic Personality Disorder. (HPD)


Posted By: Majesty02
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 1:36pm
Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

That was all game that sad puppy dog bullsh!t. He even pulled the manipulative guilt card in hopes to get a reply and you did. Im sure he copy and paste that ish on the regular.As much as he says he not trying to smash means he is trying to smash asap. He look like the type to hit you with some spoken word on the first date in hopes of getting the floppy bird....lol
 
 
This. The OP should take his messages wit a grain of salt.  Shouldn't have even given him a response. Lol. I could say a lot of not so nice things but Ima be good today. Big smile


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 1:43pm
I would have responded with.....

Twandaye, if you have just said Look Bish you need to call a negro so I can get all up in them guts I would have given you my number. Aggressive rude men really get my hot!

He would have either ignored your ignorant crazy ass, dropped the nice guy routine, or never wanted to hear from you again. Either scenario I view as a win. 


Posted By: Ladycoils
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 1:46pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

I would have responded with.....

Twandaye, if you have just said Look Bish you need to call a negro so I can get all up in them guts I would have given you my number. Aggressive rude men really get my hot!

He would have either ignored your ignorant crazy ass, dropped the nice guy routine, or never wanted to hear from you again. Either scenario I view as a win. 

LOL

He was doing to much. Not authentic at all.


Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 2:05pm
I kinda feel sorry for the guy. Maybe he doesn't know how to express himself in writing and wrote all those lame things in his profile to catch a girl's eye but failed miserably.
I don't know why men can't just be themselves.

I have an account on Match.com that I just go on to check out hot guys in my area lol
The best profiles were the ones all over the place, because the guy was just writing what was coming up first in his mind, and it sounded authentic. The ones with the lame approach like this guy were trying too much.


***if he googles his username, he'll find this thread***


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 2:06pm
ROFL what a loser iit's part of the game and women get hit up so much they can't filter through every guy. Like wow dude persistence doesn't work get your ego in check and get some bigger world view on what goes in the lives of women. Some men have to get women easy and some don't. You have to be confident shyt.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 2:11pm
Going to see which online dating site will reject me....


Posted By: newin2009
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 3:02pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Most 'nice guys" are azzholes working a different angle cause his usual azzhat approach did not work .

I picture dinner with him sprinkled with words like irregardless being said over the all you can eat salad at Olive Garden...Dead
 
Yesssss!!! I dated a "nice guy" and our first date really was Olive Garden. He proclaimed to be so sweet and such a nice guy and he turned out to be a sweet-talking A-hole!!! I don't miss him in the least bit. Haven't spoken to him in forever and he managed to send me a text on Easter telling me he misses meDead
This negro was writing me poems and ish but was just looking for sex in the long run...


Posted By: QueenBee
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 3:11pm
Originally posted by pebbles251 pebbles251 wrote:


It funny how these same not so attractive men go for the pretty women but get upset when they get rejected. Why dont they try reaching out to a fluffy or someone not so easy on the eyes. They are treating someone else the same way pretty women are treating them.... I would have told him go play in traffic......
ok maybe not but I would have ignored him.


Wait so????? Fluffy and not so attractive girls have to settle for desperate dudes.   Regardless of looks, thirstiness isn't appealing.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 3:33pm
Originally posted by sexyandfamous sexyandfamous wrote:



***if he googles his username, he'll find this thread***


LOL 
You got me wondering, so I just did this and found another similar screen shot conversation with him


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 3:37pm
#1, You're so pretty
#2, damn dude, why is he so pressed


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 3:42pm
Originally posted by kfoxx1998 kfoxx1998 wrote:

Cute but crazy as Hayell!!  Your instincts probably saved you from some serious stalking.


yep
in the other screen shot that popped up when I googled (lol), after the lady said she wasn't interested, he offered her money to introduce him to one of her friends.

That kinda made me think  that she had  screen shot  the chat because  she was afraid she had a stalker. Like she wanted to create a paper trail to lead to him  and/or warn others LOL

eta (no offense Twandaye, when you find this thread)



Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 3:59pm
Wow Prurp! His thirsty conceited ass!LOL

http://www.connectingsingles.com/user/twandaye
https://www.facebook.com/hotnewmusic2014/posts/648735661846818?stream_ref=10
http://www.meetup.com/Romantiventure-Social-Group-Los-Angeles/members/123926172/




Posted By: BeatriceBean
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:01pm
Thirsty, conceited and potentially a stalker. What a catch!


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:06pm
He must not know that he can't be that crazy with such a distinct name. The innanets never forgets.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:12pm
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

He must not know that he can't be that crazy with such a distinct name. The innanets never forgets.


that's what I was thinking as I googled him. His name is too different to hide anything online LOL


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:13pm
eta: which is why he'll be here shortly LOL.

I hope he accepts my apology when he arrives.


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:14pm
It'll be interesting when he finds this thread...


Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:14pm

Twandaye

DON'T ASK FOR SEX

I am a:
35 yr-old man seeking women, 21-45
Location:
http://www.connectingsingles.com/listcities.aspx?t=33491&y=Lancaster&g=2&mg=1" rel="nofollow - Lancaster ,  http://www.connectingsingles.com/listcountries.aspx?r=1005&g=2&mg=1" rel="nofollow - California   http://www.connectingsingles.com/listcountries.aspx?c=1&g=2&mg=1" rel="nofollow - USA
Last Online:
Online over 1 month
Height:
5' 10"  (178 cm)
Body Type:
Fit/Athletic
Ethnicity:
Black/African
Religion:
Christian/Other
Smokes:
Never
Drinks:
Occasionally
Marital Status:
Never Married
Has Kids:
Yes, and they are far away
Wants Kids:
Not Sure
http://www.connectingsingles.com/user/twandaye#" rel="nofollow - Hide/Show

In my own words

About me:

No expectations. . I just moved to Lancaster 2 weeks ago (From Utah) and I REALLY need someone to hang out with. I'm open to the possibility of love, but just wanna entertain friendship and see how things naturally progress. I live very close to Lancaster Blvd, which is where I take daily strolls, by myself, hoping to meet new, interesting people. I enjoy traveling, cuddling up and watching movies, the theater, outdoor activities, mentally stimulating conversation, walks and drives (with or without a particular destination ), beautiful scenery, motivational speakers,... Well I can go on forever with this, so the following things are what I DON'T enjoy. I DON'T ATTEND NIGHT CLUBS (unless I'm performing)
I DON'T DANCE... I DON'T SKATE... I DON'T ASSOCIATE WITH VIOLENT OR NEGATIVE PEOPLE... MORE ABOUT ME: Intelligent, goofy, surprisingly boyish charm for my age, I'm a song writer /performer, pursuing a dream to contribute something positive and profound to this world, via music....

I’m looking for:

1. She does NOT refer to herself as a "Bad b*tch ", thinking it's cool... 2. She does NOT have a ghetto /Hood mentality.... 3. She's very affectionate... 4. She cares more about a man's character, personality, and overall quality, than his financial status and physical appearance... 5. She knows that she's beautiful, but she's modest and humble.... 6. She does not go to night clubs ALL the time... 7. She still believes in true love and would greatly appreciate finding a man who will show her the type of love she dreamt of, back in the PRINCESS BRIDE days.

http://www.connectingsingles.com/user/twandaye#" rel="nofollow - Hide/Show

More about me

Height:
5' 10"  (178 cm)
Body Type:
Fit/Athletic
Hair Color:
Black
Eye Color:
Brown
Ethnicity:
Black/African
Education:
High School
Religion:
Christian/Other
Occupation:
Internet / E-commerce
Promote products and services online
Income:
$50,000 to $75,000
Smokes:
Never
Drinks:
Occasionally
Marital Status:
Never Married
Has Kids:
Yes, and they are far away
Wants Kids:
Not Sure
Looking for:
Dating
Sign:


http://www.connectingsingles.com/user/twandaye


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:16pm
When midna didn't hide his name.. I knew this would happen lol

I see he changed up his occupation to promoting products/services online..


Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:17pm
Twandaye
Male 35
About Me
I just moved here to Lancaster, California, from Salt lake City, Utah....................About 16 months ago, I vowed not to have sex unless in a relationship, so you can trust that I'm not like most guys. Another thing that sets me apart is that I'm FAR FROM a thug, gangster, player, or anything else that usually follows the ghetto/Hood mentality, as far as my character and personality is concerned. I'm a self educated, street smart, ambitious man who has a wonderful, loving personality. I'm al...
Interests
Cooking, Gaming, Going Out, Health and Fitness, Movies, Music, Reading, Sports, Travel
Location
Lancaster, California , United States
http://www.oasisdating.com/en-us/member/twandaye



Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:19pm

Stern Smile


Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:20pm
This dude has a profile on every dating site.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:22pm
Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

This dude has a profile on every dating site.


how do we know that's him

that could be another twandayeLOL


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:22pm
Yall should be looking on the most wanted lists in Utah, he seem like he would "borrow" money and vanish, or steal a check out the back of your checkbook or some other phuckery.




Posted By: Meme0887
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:25pm
What's with the kids part 

"Yes, and they're far away"

Why? Whatchu do? Stern Smile


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:28pm
Aw he's actually kinda attractive.. What a shame..
He looks like he gets his eyebrows done.

He reminds me of a bhmer.




Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:30pm
It seems like his self esteem is really low. He's seeking reassurance.


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:31pm
And he's not cute to me.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:37pm
^^me either Lies. But my eyes are old LOL
sorry twanD.
eta *waves*  LOL


Posted By: BeatriceBean
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:45pm
He's a decent-looking man but being pressed and weird can turn the finest man into golem just that fast. I'm sure there's somebody out here who will appreciate his zealous shenaBrothans though. 


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:47pm
With the way he's typing and his desperation and his pic in the OP.. I thought he was ugly..
But in that vid he looks different to me.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:55pm
Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

He's a decent-looking man but being pressed and weird can turn the finest man into golem just that fast. I'm sure there's somebody out here who will appreciate his zealous shenaBrothans though. 


I agree. 


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 4:59pm
Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

This dude has a profile on every dating site.


how do we know that's him

that could be another twandayeLOL




Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 5:00pm
he has an eyebrow piercing tho.  all men with eyebrow or labret piercings suffer from desperate bitchassness...the type to pay for a nice date, beg to eat you out, then stalk you.


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 5:07pm
Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

That was all game that sad puppy dog bullsh!t. He even pulled the manipulative guilt card in hopes to get a reply and you did. Im sure he copy and paste that ish on the regular.As much as he says he not trying to smash means he is trying to smash asap. He look like the type to hit you with some spoken word on the first date in hopes of getting the floppy bird....lol


Oh he got a reply, but he got a reply that was nice, ignored his points, completely invalidated his anger, and from a dead account.

Probably pissed him off even more, but I'm fine with that. LOL


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 5:07pm
Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

Real talk that is a copy and paste and he did send it to a lot of women. Nobody online is that serious, men on there trying smash something and women on there for attention.


Marcelo... I have bad news...


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 5:08pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

he has an eyebrow piercing tho.  all men with eyebrow or labret piercings suffer from desperate bitchassness...the type to pay for a nice date, beg to eat you out, then stalk you.


Usually terrible... its worse if its good cause they wanna do it again cause you enjoyed it so much They wanna do it again either way


Posted By: JasmineE02
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 5:10pm
*snickers*


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 5:10pm
Do y'all consider Drake to be a nice guy?


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Apr 23 2014 at 5:11pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

Nobody online is that serious


Sheeeeeit... You'd be surprised.



INDEED!

He ain't ready for the truth



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