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Topic: OMG !! My only brother is fighting for his life .
Posted By: india100
Subject: OMG !! My only brother is fighting for his life .
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:13am
I need prayers guys . My sister just called . My only brother Eric colon burst last week and now they think it's cancer . He can't talk . My brother ask his daughter not tell anyone , but his life is in danger . I try to never put my personal bad news online , but just that quick my world change after loosing so many family members . I lost my mother due to colon cancer . I need to get another test . Thanks in advance for your prayers . I had to vent . I feel like screaming . I have to call my husband to leave work early . My daughter is at school . OMG HELP ME !!Cry

Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:15am
Praying for your brother and you and the family Hug

Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:18am
Oh Dear India. I'm praying for your brother. You need to be calm and strong for your brother. Everyone needs to get checked. Colon cancer is a sneaky little bastard.

Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:18am
It seems like youre always going through it. Im praying for you both

Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:18am

Posted By: danieb23
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:18am
I'm praying for you and your family, India && sending positive vibes your way!

Posted By: yurika975
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:19am
I am so sorry Miss India. Sending up prayers your way and pray that he lends you and your family strength at this difficult time. 

Posted By: kfoxx1998
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:21am
Hug India. 

Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:21am
Well wishes to you and your family during this difficult time.

Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:21am
Thank you ladies . My husband  is in a meeting , I just lost so many family members . I am going next door and ask my nieghbor to drive me to pick up my baby . God help me . OMG .

Posted By: *M. Gurl *
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:22am
I'm sorry to hear that India. You and your family are in my prayers. Stay strong! HugHug

Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:26am
i'm sorry this has happened.

praying for you, your brother and family Hug

Posted By: KeraNykole
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:35am
So sorry to hear about your brother India!!!
Prayers UP for you and your family! Wishing him a speedy recover. Please keep us posted. Cry

Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:38am
try to calm down. Disapprove

i'll pray.

Posted By: Cocoa
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:49am

Posted By: Brjasuga51
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:49am

Posted By: GoodGirlGoneGr8
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:49am
Prayers sent up for you and your family during this time. I'm really sorry to hear about your brother.

Posted By: whosbotheringme
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:49am
I'm sorry this is happening to your family.
Sending my positive energy and best wishes to you.Hug

Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:50am
Sorry to hear about it. Hopefully it is not cancer.
I will pray for you and your family.

Posted By: Katrenia
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 10:00am
Prayer sent.

Slow down and please take a deep breath and don't panic. Trusting in the Lord means we don't act in fear or panic but must use our faith as a source of strength.

I'll keep you and your brother in my prayers throughout the day.

Posted By: ThatGurlD
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 10:00am

Posted By: Ladycoils
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 10:02am
Keeping your Brother and family in my prayers.

Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 10:03am

Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 10:18am
Sending my prayers, India. So sorry to hear this

Posted By: rell85
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 10:21am
I hope all is well.

Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 10:58am
Sorry for your problems. I don't believe in prayer .. but I am hoping for the best.

Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 11:01am
Sending prayers your way India. I'm sorry to hear this

Posted By: AmiliaCabral
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 11:03am

Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 11:07am
Im so sorry to hear of that. I hope he will be able to pull through. your family is in my thoughts and prayers as are the medical staff.

Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 11:24am
hopefully everything turns out well for your brother. ill include him in a prayer

Posted By: Rumbera
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 11:34am

Posted By: Ds2nice
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 11:38am
Wish you and your family well.

Posted By: Faithfully2002
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 11:53am

Posted By: mommykat
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 11:57am

Lots of love to you and your family during this time...

MK and family   

Posted By: NuAttitude
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 11:58am
My prayers goes out to you and your family, may all the blessing come down!Hug

Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 12:00pm

Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 12:05pm
I hope he pulls thru...

Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 12:06pm

Posted By: Benni
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 1:05pm
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your entire family.
Keep the FAITH. There is power in positive thinking.
Medical Science has improved greatly.

God Bless   

Posted By: BeatriceBean
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 1:08pm

Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 1:09pm
I am very sorry to hear this news, India. Your brother, you and your family are in my prayers.

Posted By: Starrygurl
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 1:09pm

Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 1:13pm
I'm sending positive vibes to you & your family India.HeartHug

Posted By: Butta Cookie
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 1:47pm
Sending prayers up abd claiming the victory in advance for you and your family!

Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 1:50pm
I'm sorry to hear that! Hug

Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 1:50pm

Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 1:56pm
Hug Heart For you and family Ms. India.

Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 2:15pm
I'll pray for both you of you.Hug

Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 2:41pm
Originally posted by Ds2nice Ds2nice wrote:

Wish you and your family well.

me too hoping for your family to be well. 

Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 3:08pm
May the Lord Watch Over & Bless you all

Posted By: Tbaby
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 3:10pm
Oh IndiaHug, I'm so sorry to hear about your brother.  Be strong, stay prayerful, and know that God can be a healer even when the odds are great. Hug

Posted By: Angel2011
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 4:46pm
@India it is well.The lord is your strength.

Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 4:48pm

Posted By: Lilaca
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 4:55pm
I hope he gets better india and that your health remains as it is.

Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 6:37pm

Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 7:54pm
Sorry to hear this Hug

Posted By: Bored w/Out Me?
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 7:56pm
So sorry to hear this IM, Praying for Y'all

Posted By: TexturizedDiva
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 8:16pm
Hug Prayers going up Hug

Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 8:40pm
praying to brother and your family. CryCryCryCry

Posted By: maysay1
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:21pm
My goodness. Sending positive and healing thoughts your way.

Posted By: mzsophisticated
Date Posted: Apr 17 2014 at 9:48pm
Hug sending prayers

Posted By: QueenBee
Date Posted: Apr 18 2014 at 1:10am
India, I am praying that you find strength in this difficult time and your brother overcomes his health condition.

Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Apr 18 2014 at 2:29am

Posted By: indiecat
Date Posted: Apr 18 2014 at 3:24am
Praying for you, my daughters grandpa on her dads side has colon cancer currently. He is in his 60s. If is very important for men to get checked for cancer, her grandpa didn't ever get checked until his wife forced him to and that is when they found out he had cancer. he was uptight about getting checked. he wil be going through chemo soon. colon cancer runs in their family. it's very sad. it is good that your brother has you around and other family. I am praying he gets better .

Posted By: DiorShowGirl
Date Posted: Apr 18 2014 at 4:11am
I am so praying for you...please be strong for your brother.....God will heal him before you know it...
Keep your hands in God's hands and he will guide you and your family thru this ...

Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 18 2014 at 7:49am
Good morning . I would like to thank everyone for your kind words and prayers. Very long night without sleep. My brother Eric took a turn for the worse last night , but he is hanging . The bleeding came back after the surgery and he began to hulliucinate . We are waiting for the final pathologist report , but the doctor told me a a few moments ago he thinks it's colon cancer.  I am going to try and get off work and ask the school to give my daughter a few days off to fly home if possble .  
The drive would take 14 hours . PLEASE FORGIVE ME FOR MY TOPIC TITLE . I was on black hair media when the call came and lost it . I can't express how close i am to my only brother  He would help anyone . My niece will not leave her father side . Eric has a CL bag which will upset him more when he comes out of the morphine . I trust in God to help me and my family  Really hard when you have so many deaths and sickness month after month .. I finally was bless with a little piece of mind after loosing family last week. Now my brother . I will continue to trust in the lord .  I know he gave me a baby at my age for times like this .
I will be offline for a few days .but will never forget everyone kindness . My husband thinks i should be on BHM to take my mind off things , but i can't stop crying . I must to avoid making myself sick . I go in the basement to avoid my daughter getting upset  India is also very close to her uncle . I love you all ot matter what and thank you . Pleas forgive my typing errors . I am a nervous wreck . Please have your colon check. My mother was the first to die of the silent killer with no symptoms or family history until it was to late . I am going for a check soon . Hug Cry
PS . I will anwser my pm's  in a few minutes . Thank you so much .

Posted By: GoodGirlGoneGr8
Date Posted: Apr 18 2014 at 10:10am
I will continue to keep you in my prayers, you were on my mind heavily last night...

Posted By: MizzAmirah
Date Posted: Apr 18 2014 at 10:29am
Sending prayers your way.Heart

Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Apr 18 2014 at 11:09am
You and your family are in my prayers and positive thoughts, India and indiecat.

Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 18 2014 at 11:56am
So sorry you're going through this. Hoping he gets through this

Posted By: NARSAddict
Date Posted: Apr 18 2014 at 12:27pm

Posted By: honeyb87
Date Posted: Apr 18 2014 at 12:35pm
Sending hugs and prayers your way!! HeartHeartHeartHugHugHug

Posted By: sbrooke
Date Posted: Apr 18 2014 at 12:59pm
Praying for your family !

Posted By: DiorShowGirl
Date Posted: Apr 18 2014 at 1:04pm

India this is my ringtone when i was going thru a major situation with my daughter...i listen to this when i am going thru rough times....hope this song pulls you thru and make all of your situations right.....Love Dior..

Posted By: miana79
Date Posted: Apr 18 2014 at 5:18pm
Praying for your brother...

Posted By: Prtybrwneye_z
Date Posted: Apr 18 2014 at 5:39pm

Posted By: nemesis1
Date Posted: Apr 18 2014 at 5:40pm
So sorry. 

Posted By: Nisha
Date Posted: Apr 18 2014 at 5:51pm
I am praying for your brother India!

Posted By: noneyons
Date Posted: Apr 18 2014 at 6:30pm

Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 21 2014 at 8:53am

Update ... Thank you everyone for your kindness . I finally spoke to my brother Eric for a few seconds . God and all the prayers help . The docs gave him a 50 /50 chance the cancer was was caught in time before spreading over his entire body . We have a long way to go , but i pray the lord will continue his work . My brother must wear a Colonoscopy bag possibly for life , but i am thankful he made it through. Eric remains in ICU . I will never forget bhm kindness .. Thank you .Heart

Posted By: Tbaby
Date Posted: Apr 21 2014 at 9:13am
That's promising news!  I hope your brother will beat it!

Posted By: danieb23
Date Posted: Apr 21 2014 at 9:26am
So glad your brother is doing better!! I will continue to
pray for his healing!!

Posted By: alynxx
Date Posted: Apr 21 2014 at 9:35am
Just saw this thread. Glad that he is doing a little better but still praying for you....

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