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Topic: RIP Domin(longhairdontcare2011)
Posted By: macyscorner
Subject: RIP Domin(longhairdontcare2011)
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 10:51am
I am truly in a horrible place emotionally. My great friend, which many of you know as Domin, lhdc2011, and longhairdontcare2011 (YouTube) passed away yesterday, April 9th, 2014 due to Lupus complications. She was 27.
I am working directly with her spouse to make these arrangements and I will be flying out to California this weekend. I have just finished setting up a fundraiser (link below) to help with funeral and cremation costs. Any help will be greatly appreciated even if it's forwarding this link to others.
I will update this thread as more information becomes available and appreciate your help.


https://www.giveforward.com/fundraiser/rmd4/in-memory-of-domineque-banks" rel="nofollow - https://www.giveforward.com/fundraiser/rmd4/in-memory-of-domineque-banks



Replies:
Posted By: Lilaca
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 10:53am
Did she post in long hair care forum? I think i remember her from there

R.I.P 


Posted By: TokyoRose
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 10:53am
Cry


Posted By: macyscorner
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 10:54am
she posted on many hair forums. she's mostly known for her YouTube videos


Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 10:55am
Omg...nooo i am completely In utter shock by this..i dont want this to be true...omg


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 10:55am
Omg, very sad...RIP...she and her hair were beautiful.  She was so young, damn.


Posted By: Alias_Avi
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 10:55am
No way omg!

I didn't know her very well but damn Shocked

RIP wow, this sucks


Posted By: livi123
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 10:55am
This is so sad Cry


Posted By: macyscorner
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 10:58am
im posting from my phone so Im sorry for not quoting directly. I d on't want it to be true either, it's devastating.


Posted By: Rumbera
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:00am
Cry..RIP Domin


Posted By: Lilaca
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:01am
Lupus is a bish


Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:02am
WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAT?
NO, WHAT?

I am in utter shock! Omg omg

I am so sorry..like..ahh


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:03am
sleep in peace Domin


Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:04am


I am so sad right now, guys.


Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:06am
Im sorry its just hard to wrap my mind around it. She was truly a vibrant and genuinely nice person. Helpful in so many ways and a great loss to all of those who knew her. She was more than a beautiful black girl with amazing hair. Very funny and passionate for things close to her heart. My condolences to her spouse and family.


Posted By: KeraNykole
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:09am

Awwww...this is terrible Cry

May she rest peacefully Broken Heart


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:10am
omg......im in real tears.....like....I can't.....she made me want to pierce my septum......


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:13am
Rest in peace.
 
 
 
Lupus fcuking evil as hell.


Posted By: Cocoa
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:13am
CryOMG!

This is awful.  Im so sorry.


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:13am
OMG!!!!




Posted By: Butta Cookie
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:13am
RIP. My condolences to her family.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:15am
Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Im sorry its just hard to wrap my mind around it. She was truly a vibrant and genuinely nice person. Helpful in so many ways and a great loss to all of those who knew her. She was more than a beautiful black girl with amazing hair. Very funny and passionate for things close to her heart. My condolences to her spouse and family.


Don't forget the passion for teethCryCry.....she loved dental health......


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:15am
OMG i was wonder what happened to her page because she said she was sick.  i cant believe thisShocked


Posted By: Katrenia
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:16am
This is indeed sad news.

Is there a paypal link for donations??


Posted By: nala52808
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:16am
Nooooooooooooo! She was what inspired me to grow my hair long! CryCryCry She appeared so healthy and perfectly fine in her videos! Oh man, I just feel so bad for her family right now. I will definitely donate some money 


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:17am
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Im sorry its just hard to wrap my mind around it. She was truly a vibrant and genuinely nice person. Helpful in so many ways and a great loss to all of those who knew her. She was more than a beautiful black girl with amazing hair. Very funny and passionate for things close to her heart. My condolences to her spouse and family.



Don't forget the passion for teethCryCry.....she loved dental health......
and the morphthing website



Posted By: macyscorner
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:17am
when I got the call, I thought it was just her calling to talk- nothing out of the ordinary. besides we had just spoken a few days prior. I called back after work but that's when her SO told me she was on life support. a day later she left us..
how things drastically changed from one day to the next is truly heartbreaking


Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:20am
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Im sorry its just hard to wrap my mind around it. She was truly a vibrant and genuinely nice person. Helpful in so many ways and a great loss to all of those who knew her. She was more than a beautiful black girl with amazing hair. Very funny and passionate for things close to her heart. My condolences to her spouse and family.



Don't forget the passion for teethCryCry.....she loved dental health......




Girl...i can't stop the waterworks. Was hoping to meet up with her to take her to some vegan place up here..im like whoa... and yes she was serious about dental hygiene lol...


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:20am
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Im sorry its just hard to wrap my mind around it. She was truly a vibrant and genuinely nice person. Helpful in so many ways and a great loss to all of those who knew her. She was more than a beautiful black girl with amazing hair. Very funny and passionate for things close to her heart. My condolences to her spouse and family.



Don't forget the passion for teethCryCry.....she loved dental health......
and the morphthing website


Yep....Cry

I was just thinking of her the other day too.....she came across my yt dash yesterday.....


Posted By: macyscorner
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:21am
Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Im sorry its just hard to wrap my mind around it. She was truly a vibrant and genuinely nice person. Helpful in so many ways and a great loss to all of those who knew her. She was more than a beautiful black girl with amazing hair. Very funny and passionate for things close to her heart. My condolences to her spouse and family.


thank you.
she was amazing. best thing I got out of bhm..a true friendship,outside of here, with a genuinely great and hilarious person


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:21am
Originally posted by macyscorner macyscorner wrote:

when I got the call, I thought it was just her calling to talk- nothing out of the ordinary. besides we had just spoken a few days prior. I called back after work but that's when her SO told me she was on life support. a day later she left us..
how things drastically changed from one day to the next is truly heartbreaking

Im so sorry for you Macy....I know you guys were close.....Hug


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:23am
What?! I'm literally tearing up right now.Broken HeartCry

RIP. I had no idea she was sick. She was such a sweetheart. And her love of jelly shoes always made me giggle.


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:23am
Im devastated. I've met her before and was blown away by her gentle manner, her feminine grace, her inner beauty, her kindness and of course her physical beauty. This is so very sad.


Posted By: whosbotheringme
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:24am
This is so sad.  Cry  My condolences to her family and friends.


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:24am
what....no. Cry

she was always so sweet and just such a thoughtful person.

rip beautiful sweetheart. Broken Heart


Posted By: Meme0887
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:26am
Wow..had no idea she was sick. 

RIP 


Posted By: macyscorner
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:27am
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by macyscorner macyscorner wrote:

when I got the call, I thought it was just her calling to talk- nothing out of the ordinary. besides we had just spoken a few days prior. I called back after work but that's when her SO told me she was on life support. a day later she left us..
how things drastically changed from one day to the next is truly heartbreaking


Im so sorry for you Macy....I know you guys were close.....Hug[/
DIV]

*hugs*
last time we spoke (4/4) she told me even though she wasn't feeling very well she didnt feel guilty about tearing up the pizza pie that she was about to have delivered lolt


Posted By: Brjasuga51
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:27am
My condolences to her Family and friendsCry
Lupus is deadly


Posted By: HunnyB
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:28am
CryCryCry NOoooooo.


Posted By: macyscorner
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:29am
[QUOTE=carolina cutie] What?! I'm literally tearing up right now.Broken HeartCry

RIP. I had no idea she was sick. She was such a sweetheart. And her love of jelly shoes always made me giggle.



she had no shame in rocking her jellies with conviction


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:30am
Shockedwhhhaaaaat??? no wayy!!

geez...Disapprove


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:32am
Remember we said this was her gif?LOLLOLCryCryCryCryCry





Posted By: bunzaveli
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:33am
Disapprove she was one of the nicest people on here


Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:34am




Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:35am
wow, rip Cry


Posted By: Adinkrah
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:37am
What???? Nooooooo I can't believe this.


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:37am
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

What?! I'm literally tearing up right now.Broken HeartCry

RIP. I had no idea she was sick. She was such a sweetheart. And her love of jelly shoes always made me giggle.

this

*rocks a pair of jellies for domin* 


Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:38am
This can't be real. Cry She had such a sweet heart and way too young to go. RIP


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:39am
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Remember we said this was her gif?LOLLOLCryCryCryCryCry

yaaaassssss!! LOL i was looking for it!! 

it'show i'd always think of her on here!!


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:39am
Dang, just watched one of her videos the other day.

She seemed like a genuinely nice person, and both she and her hair were beautiful.

May she SIP.


Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:39am
I can't stop coming in here because..I don't even know why..I'm just sad.


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:41am
Life is so short . Domin was so kind to me when i first join . Weird i post a picture of her hairstyles in weaves yesterday  . RIP angel . CryBroken Heart


Posted By: tru_blu09
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:41am
This is so so sad. May she rest in peace


Posted By: 4shopiece
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:42am
wow this is shocking RIP


Posted By: macyscorner
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:44am
it's ok Derri, I truly understand the shock


Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:44am
Wow this is so sad. RIP Heart Still can't believe this is real. I feel for those that knew her personally, her family and friends. I never knew her personally, but from her posts, her youtube videos and the way people spoke about her I could tell she was a good person as well as beautiful.


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:47am
omg RIP


Posted By: femmemichelle
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:48am
Domin!??

Omg :((




Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:48am
How sad. R. I. P.


Posted By: macyscorner
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:49am
I will be in los Angeles until next Thursday


Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:52am
I am sorry Macy Stay strong in this difficult time...I know it isn't easy.

Sorry typo..too confused and sad to even type properly

I mean macyscorner


Posted By: macyscorner
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:52am
@keepgrowing
yes, truly great person who was funny, honest, smart, and fiesty.. like a true Virgo!


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:53am
Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

What?! I'm literally tearing up right now.Broken HeartCry

RIP. I had no idea she was sick. She was such a sweetheart. And her love of jelly shoes always made me giggle.

this

*rocks a pair of jellies for domin* 
Cry

Macy I use to tease her about those shoes but lo and behold, they came back in style just in time this year. I hope she got to rock all the styles she wanted to this year.


Posted By: Junior Jr
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:53am
WOW

Peace to Domin and her family Heart

jr.


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:54am
Domin was posting last month on bhm . You just never know . Cry


Posted By: macyscorner
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:56am
I wanted to be there to give her a final hug and tell her I love her but her SO told me she did it for me before she passed. I hope she felt it


Posted By: fckwitmeuknoigotit
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:58am
Wow. I remember Domin being a real chill and nice person with a loooot of hair. I'm sure she lived a full life full of no regrets.

Thoughts and prayers to her fam indeed.


Posted By: whosbotheringme
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:01pm

Cry



Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:01pm
Originally posted by macyscorner macyscorner wrote:

@keepgrowing
yes, truly great person who was funny, honest, smart, and fiesty.. like a true Virgo!


ShockedShockedShockedShocked A VirgoCryCryCryCry


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:04pm
Originally posted by macyscorner macyscorner wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by macyscorner macyscorner wrote:

@keepgrowing
yes, truly great person who was funny, honest, smart, and fiesty.. like a true Virgo!



ShockedShockedShockedShocked A VirgoCryCryCryCry
yep, an August Virgo


I gotta post in our thread


Posted By: macyscorner
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:05pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by macyscorner macyscorner wrote:

@keepgrowing
yes, truly great person who was funny, honest, smart, and fiesty.. like a true Virgo!



ShockedShockedShockedShocked A VirgoCryCryCryCry
yep, an August Virgo


Posted By: macyscorner
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:07pm
thank you guys! I will relay the thoughts of love to her SO and other loved ones.


Posted By: Cream1970
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:08pm
Shocked
Cry


Posted By: herwoman
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:09pm
Hi Macy it's good to see your font but what horrible circumstances.

This is so shocking, may you rest in perfect peace Domin


Posted By: reesegurl11
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:09pm
Wow I watched her videos on YouTube, so sad may she R.I.P


Posted By: macyscorner
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:09pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by macyscorner macyscorner wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by macyscorner macyscorner wrote:

@keepgrowing
yes, truly great person who was funny, honest, smart, and fiesty.. like a true Virgo!



ShockedShockedShockedShocked A VirgoCryCryCryCry
yep, an August Virgo



I gotta post in our thread


and I'm a September Virgo.
can you please help me link this post in that thread? it's a bit difficult dealng with this phone


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:12pm
Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:


Disapprove she was one of the nicest people on here
real talk


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:13pm
Originally posted by macyscorner macyscorner wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by macyscorner macyscorner wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by macyscorner macyscorner wrote:

@keepgrowing
yes, truly great person who was funny, honest, smart, and fiesty.. like a true Virgo!



ShockedShockedShockedShocked A VirgoCryCryCryCry
yep, an August Virgo



I gotta post in our thread


and I'm a September Virgo.
can you please help me link this post in that thread? it's a bit difficult dealng with this phone

http://f2.blackhairmedia.com/virgo-women-random-thoughts_topic351216_page362.html" rel="nofollow - http://f2.blackhairmedia.com/virgo-women-random-thoughts_topic351216_page362.html


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:16pm
Wow, RIP. You just never know.

Lupus is a terrible disease.


Posted By: macyscorner
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:17pm
Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

Hi Macy it's good to see your font but what horrible circumstances.

This is so shocking, may you rest in perfect peace Domin


thank you, it's good to see you too.. long time.
terrible circumstances


Posted By: mrshairdo
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:21pm
i am so sorry for your loss macy, as well as her family and partner
this is a really sad day..she was a beautiful person Heart


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:23pm
omg!  Cry

I am in shock right now! 

You will be missed, babygirl, you were always so sweet and helpful! 

Oh man


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:28pm
She was a very strong woman. My Thoughts and prayers to her friends and family.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:39pm
Sad news, and my condolences to her family and friends.


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:41pm
Hugmacy.


Posted By: macyscorner
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:41pm
again, if any of you are able to help/ pass on the link in the op, that would truly be appreciated. I will come back to the thread at a later time to update you.
Good seeing all of you


Posted By: Starrygurl
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:48pm
Omg no Domin, I remember she used to be on here, she's so sweet and had beautiful hair.CryCry R.I.P.HugMacy.


Posted By: maysay1
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:48pm
Like, I can't even. Can't even breathe.

My worst fear. My worst.

Lord.




Posted By: SeducTress
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:50pm
Cry....... I'm at a complete loss for words.

So I let my fingers do the talking instead. 

I'm beyond mortified and sorry...so incredibly sorry that she's gone.

RIP beautiful♥


Posted By: maysay1
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:52pm
Macy if I can help with ANYTHING let me know. I'm here in LA.

I had been dragging my feet about calling my doc about my kidneys...but I'm on the phone right now.

Jeezus. I can't even.


Posted By: Adinkrah
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 12:56pm
May she rest in peace much love and payers for her family and loved ones.

I just can't believe it :(


Posted By: MsBMW
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 1:02pm
BHM lost another good sister so sad My prayers are with her familyHeart


Posted By: tasty0619
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 1:04pm
I logged in just to post in here.

She touched many lives on the internet during her life. It's so beautiful and refreshing that all of these people have come in here and said how pleasant, nice and helpful she was. 

RIP Domin


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 1:07pm
this is so sad. She had a great spirit and I know she will be missed. My condolences to her family and friends.

.......sad


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 1:08pm
Macy ^^^ Can you post the topic in the hair forum she would frequent ? I think most of the ladies never post in TTT . I remain in shock . CryHug


Posted By: GoodGirlGoneGr8
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 1:09pm
I have chills through my entire body right now. My prayers are with her loved ones. RIP Angel Domin...


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 1:10pm
Originally posted by macyscorner macyscorner wrote:

when I got the call, I thought it was just her calling to talk- nothing out of the ordinary. besides we had just spoken a few days prior. I called back after work but that's when her SO told me she was on life support. a day later she left us..
how things drastically changed from one day to the next is truly heartbreaking


sending you hugs Macy. I'm so sorry for your loss.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 1:13pm
Originally posted by macyscorner macyscorner wrote:

I wanted to be there to give her a final hug and tell her I love her but her SO told me she did it for me before she passed. I hope she felt it


I'm sure she felt it and knew you loved her.Hug

*crying now*CryHug


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 1:14pm
WOWWWWWWUnhappy 

OMG life is so short
This is so unreal, i didnt know she was sickCry


Posted By: joileprincess
Date Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 1:14pm
This truly makes me sad. May she RIP.

I've been dragging my feet about making up with an old friend who was also diagnosed with lupus last year. I'm going to give her a call. I would hate to lose the chance.



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