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Topic: How many long term relationships have you been in
Posted By: india100
Subject: How many long term relationships have you been in
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 9:41pm
I thought about what would i do if we ever broke up . I only have my first love and husband . I would never marry again . I may date after 10 years for a good time traveling around the world . I can't see myself with another man . I think it's hard to start over and learn a new person ways . I plan to never leave my husband . Just a thought . Smile



Replies:
Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 9:43pm
Define long term for a g.


Posted By: GoodGirlGoneGr8
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 9:43pm
2. I'm in my second one now and it hasn't been nearly as long as my first...


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 9:43pm
Hey Ms. Indi and thats all I have for this thread Heart. I hope all is well with you...


Posted By: NadiaPost
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 9:43pm







Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 9:44pm
this one


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 9:44pm
1


Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 9:45pm
Is long term more than a year?
Because in that case I have only been in one.



Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 9:45pm
define relationship

(for a g)


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 9:48pm
2


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 9:50pm
LOL . ^^^^ I would say 2 years to start .


Posted By: HeyBeautiful18
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 9:51pm
One

It was like 2.5 years in high school


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 9:52pm
if two years is long term then 1


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 9:54pm
2


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 9:56pm
Smile     we met in college and were together 7 years.

it was actually the only relationship i've ever been in. 


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 9:58pm
Just one. It was for 3 years and honestly it should have lasted that long LOL


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 9:59pm
2 years? 0
1 year? 0

I can't keep a man for some reason.


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:07pm
Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

Smile     we met in college and were together 7 years.

it was actually the only relationship i've ever been in. 
Heart


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:08pm
Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Just one. It was for 3 years and honestly it should have lasted that long LOL
lol


Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:08pm
The one I'm in.
And I don't want to find out if you get more than one soul mate in a lifetime.
I hope we have a long enlightened life together until we die.


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:09pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

2 years? 0
1 year? 0

I can't keep a man for some reason.
Are you looking for serious relationship ? You are a beautiful young woman .


Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:13pm
Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

LOL . ^^^^ I would say 2 years to start .


2 years means long term?
Still only one. And that one shouldn't have lasted that longLOLConfusedOuch


Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:14pm
Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

The one I'm in.
And I don't want to find out if you get more than one soul mate in a lifetime.
I hope we have a long enlightened life together until we die.


nooooo please don't think like that
it will hurt more if you two break upCry


Posted By: pinkdiemond
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:15pm
1st was 5 yrs
2nd was 13 yrs


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:16pm
Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

Heart
it was nice while it lasted. *shrug* we grew apart.  

but we're still on good terms. so that's good.  


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:16pm
Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

The one I'm in.
And I don't want to find out if you get more than one soul mate in a lifetime.
I hope we have a long enlightened life together until we die.
I feel the same way . I told hubby we should have the same grave . He said you are not going to fuss at me in the after life lol .


Posted By: maysay1
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:19pm
Let's see...4 I guess.

It's enough to know that I'm better suited to long term relationships with animals. Can't wait to get me a great dane or saint bernard.

I could see myself being in a long term platonic relationship, either with a man or a woman. Life partners but not married or sexually involved.


Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:19pm
Originally posted by sexyandfamous sexyandfamous wrote:

Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

The one I'm in.
And I don't want to find out if you get more than one soul mate in a lifetime.
I hope we have a long enlightened life together until we die.


nooooo please don't think like that
it will hurt more if you two break upCry


Lol we've been through a lot. We've broken up etc. and i am not emotionally attached, as in, he is not my identity, but he is my soul mate if we ever divorce...I think we would just remarry each other tbh lol



Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:22pm
@Derri, in that case, that's good. Being emotionally attached is the worst!


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:23pm
I meant shouldn't but im too lazy to go back...meh lol


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:24pm
Long term casual or long term committed lol 4 a g


Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:26pm
Yes to seek yourself in another person or thing is dangerous.
I recognize that he is an extension of me, but our source is not in each other. Our strength does not come from each other, but we share the strength that we get and we make ourselves one vessel to receive this strength at the same time to benefit our relationship.



Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:29pm
I think India wants us all to be good married womenz Smile


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:29pm
Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Long term casual or long term committed lol 4 a g
 Comitted if possible .  LOLLOLCry


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:30pm
Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

Yes to seek yourself in another person or thing is dangerous.
I recognize that he is an extension of me, but our source is not in each other. Our strength does not come from each other, but we share the strength that we get and we make ourselves one vessel to receive this strength at the same time to benefit our relationship.

Heart


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:30pm
most of my relationships have been around 2-3 yrs, but i've been in love twice. those are the only 2 relationships that count imo.


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:32pm
Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Let's see...4 I guess.

It's enough to know that I'm better suited to long term relationships with animals. Can't wait to get me a great dane or saint bernard.

I could see myself being in a long term platonic relationship, either with a man or a woman. Life partners but not married or sexually involved.
Thank you for your honesty . You soud like oprah .


Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:34pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

I think India wants us all to be good married womenz Smile



LOL


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:44pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

I think India wants us all to be good married womenz Smile
LOLHeart
Thay would be great if you are ready , but i made the topic after a random thought .


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:49pm
All of them....you fuqq with me you stuck with me....lmao.....


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 10:50pm
1 that was 5+ and I used all my fcks on him, I don't have anymore to give.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 11:14pm
Sandra Im wit you, once I make you some gravy from scratch we together Cry I used to tell JR daddy , the reason why I didnt leave was because he seemed slightly happy bout the shyt and I could not have that !

So we together Cry


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 11:16pm
LOLLOLLOL



Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 11:21pm
Gurrl he tried it, talking bout he needed his space and wanted to Find himself Confused. Im like what you want a man cave??? We call call the people about redoing the basement cause thats all the space he was getting.

Negro tried getting all brand new, it was his bright idea to want kids, now he needed to FIINNND himself. Boy bye,  I went and got him a big tv and a blue ray player, find out how to work that mf, find that. 

Our last two years he was miserable as hell and phucks by me was never given. 


Posted By: NadiaPost
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 11:23pm
I like getting to that stage in a relationship where you can just pass gas and not worry about not appearing beautiful to him. It's hard holding in a fart and looking beautiful at the same damn time. Can I still be sexy with a bad smelling fart. I hold my fart in for dear life. I want to fart freely


Posted By: Cream1970
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 11:26pm
4


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 11:27pm
Those farts will be used as receipts in a argument with him, just like these relationship receipts. As soon as you make someone mad they gone be like thats why you aint had no man, cant keep one and no one is ever gonna marry you.

mark my words.....No one ever listens to crazy Grace though, but I fry chicken and know to ball my fist to reduce gagging so whatevs.


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 11:29pm
Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

2 years? 0
1 year? 0

I can't keep a man for some reason.
Are you looking for serious relationship ? You are a beautiful young woman .

I'm scared I'm gonna miss out if I get serious with one guy.
I just want them all. 


Posted By: herwoman
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 11:30pm
Originally posted by NadiaPost NadiaPost wrote:

I like getting to that stage in a relationship where you can just pass gas and not worry about not appearing beautiful to him. It's hard holding in a fart and looking beautiful at the same damn time. Can I still be sexy with a bad smelling fart. I hold my fart in for dear life. I want to fart freely
Oh my fuccin

When me and the boo started dating we were together everyday and she finally said look I have to shyt and I can't keep holding it in so we need to go ahead and get comfortable now.


Posted By: NadiaPost
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 11:30pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Those farts will be used as receipts in a argument with him, just like these relationship receipts. As soon as you make someone mad they gone be like thats why you aint had no man, cant keep one and no one is ever gonna marry you.

mark my words.....No one ever listens to crazy Grace though, but I fry chicken and know to ball my fist to reduce gagging so whatevs.

People act like they dont fart. I heard if you hold in a fart it will go to your brain and turn into cement


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 11:31pm
To this day my ex husband jokes that I dont poop so I dont know about that....


Posted By: NadiaPost
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 11:32pm
Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

Originally posted by NadiaPost NadiaPost wrote:

I like getting to that stage in a relationship where you can just pass gas and not worry about not appearing beautiful to him. It's hard holding in a fart and looking beautiful at the same damn time. Can I still be sexy with a bad smelling fart. I hold my fart in for dear life. I want to fart freely
Oh my fuccin

When me and the boo started dating we were together everyday and she finally said look I have to shyt and I can't keep holding it in so we need to go ahead and get comfortable now.


See I like that stage in a relationship. The stage where you can make a deposit in the toilet and still be attractive. Don't get me wrong I love the courting stage with the flowers, a long phone convos, but I want to fart and release my bowels and be loved all at the same damn time


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 11:34pm
Originally posted by NadiaPost NadiaPost wrote:

I like getting to that stage in a relationship where you can just pass gas and not worry about not appearing beautiful to him. It's hard holding in a fart and looking beautiful at the same damn time. Can I still be sexy with a bad smelling fart. I hold my fart in for dear life. I want to fart freely

I do this after the first date.
I'm sh*ttin' with the bathroom door open and all that. 


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 11:36pm
Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Long term casual or long term committed lol 4 a g
 Comitted if possible .  LOLLOLCry


LOL
that didn't happen til I got married




Posted By: Qualified
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 11:39pm
Love the categories NJHairluv lol. Long term casual two... Long term committed, three.


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 11:41pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Gurrl he tried it, talking bout he needed his space and wanted to Find himself Confused. Im like what you want a man cave??? We call call the people about redoing the basement cause thats all the space he was getting.

Negro tried getting all brand new, it was his bright idea to want kids, now he needed to FIINNND himself. Boy bye,  I went and got him a big tv and a blue ray player, find out how to work that mf, find that. 

Our last two years he was miserable as hell and phucks by me was never given. 
LOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOL

CryCryCryLOLLOLLOL


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 12:19am
Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

1 that was 5+ and I used all my fcks on him, I don't have anymore to give.
totally. the concept and idea of a relationship sounds nice. 

however, don't know if i have that kind of energy in me anymore though.  


Posted By: reesegurl11
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 12:28am
My first was 4yrs and was a waste of time and energy. Second is now and has been 10 1/2yrs if I find myself single again I plan to stay single.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 12:32am
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

 

I'm scared I'm gonna miss out if I get serious with one guy.
I just want them all. 


this is a legitimate fear IMO


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 12:33am
Originally posted by Qualified Qualified wrote:

Love the categories NJHairluv lol. Long term casual two... Long term committed, three.

She's a g!StarClap

Nadia, Let fart be free
         For it caused the death of poor mary leeCry


Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 1:11am
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

2 years? 0
1 year? 0



I can't keep a man for some reason.
Are you looking for serious relationship ? You are a beautiful young woman .


I'm scared I'm gonna miss out if I get serious with one guy.
I just want them all. 



one of my biggest fears. but they stay trying to keep a good player down. ive been in 3 long term relationships. that shyt is so hard. they lasted a long time because we had special arrangements. ive dodged 4 proposals thus far. idk if i can ever be with one person for the rest of my life.




Posted By: el_bandido
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 8:46am
anything past a year


Posted By: MsBMW
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 9:07am
Been in two long term...I'm in the 2nd one now and we would be married for 20 years...


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 9:45am
been in only 1


Posted By: BeatriceBean
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 9:45am
2
 
I can't see myself getting into another one either. If it happens, it happens, I guess.


Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 9:49am
1 for almost 3 years. Besides that none.


Posted By: Katrenia
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 9:53am
I've been in two, with the same person.
We were together during HS which totaled 3yrs, 
broke up in HS 
that brake lasted for two years, 
got back together in college for two years 
and during our last break, I married someone else. 
I had to get off that emotional roller-coaster.

One, with my husband so I've been in three.


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 10:41am
Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

2
 
I can't see myself getting into another one either. If it happens, it happens, I guess.
How you doing Beatrice ? Happy to see you . Hug


Posted By: rell85
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 10:42am
2


Posted By: BeatriceBean
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 10:47am
Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

2
 
I can't see myself getting into another one either. If it happens, it happens, I guess.
How you doing Beatrice ? Happy to see you . Hug
 
Hey India Hug I'm okay. Good to see you too.


Posted By: mangachan
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 11:50am
I'm in my 1st relationship now (less than 6 mo).  I hope this lasts because this whole relationship thing is not something I want to keep repeating with different people.


Posted By: Ladycoils
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 12:02pm
On my 3rd


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 12:17pm
Some of my most serious relationships that were headed towards marriage were not long at all. The gents knew what they wanted and were ready to move towards marriage in a less than a years time. Some of the long term relationships were just chillin til something better comes along. That is something to think about when it comes to long term relationships...


Posted By: lanae
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 12:28pm
Just one for 2.5 yrs. Ive been in my current for 9 months so far . I dont usually give men many chances to f*ck me over so yeah usially around one-two months its dumpsville


Posted By: naturesgift
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 12:38pm
Wait how is it that some people in here were in the MAN PlAN thread who have very little experience with MEN in general giving advice on how to get a Husband when they themselves don't have husbands!~ I should have started this thread first! "eye opening"


Posted By: HunnyB
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 12:45pm
I've only had to real boyfriends

5 years the first one

married the 2nd one.....been together 6 years


Posted By: Journey94
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 12:49pm
Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

Wait how is it that some people in here were in the MAN PlAN thread who have very little experience with MEN in general giving advice on how to get a Husband when they themselves don't have husbands!~ I should have started this thread first! "eye opening"


Lmao welp. This is why you take advice with a grain of salt, everybody claims to know everything over the internet


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 1:00pm
Nature for the record even crazy Grace has been married and I now know it aint for everyone. 


Posted By: naturesgift
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 1:09pm
Grace are you saying that you DON't Want to get married again? What's wrong with it IYO?


Posted By: bigsexylisa
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 1:15pm
If long term is two years, then none.  Actually--I've done the off and on thing for about four years...but never two straight years.  


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 1:53pm
2


Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 2:00pm
2
the 2nd is current.





Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 2:01pm
Originally posted by NadiaPost NadiaPost wrote:







LMAO!!!


Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 2:04pm
Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

Yes to seek yourself in another person or thing is dangerous.
I recognize that he is an extension of me, but our source is not in each other. Our strength does not come from each other, but we share the strength that we get and we make ourselves one vessel to receive this strength at the same time to benefit our relationship.


IA
To think you cant live without another person is very dangerous too. 
Ive seen people utterly destroyed by this
Things and time and situations change, and change people. Make sure you still have enough of you, left for you, to survive whether a breakup, a breakaway, or the death of your SO


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 8:46pm
Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

Wait how is it that some people in here were in the MAN PlAN thread who have very little experience with MEN in general giving advice on how to get a Husband when they themselves don't have husbands!~ I should have started this thread first! "eye opening"
You lost me ? ????


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 9:12pm
Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

Wait how is it that some people in here were in the MAN PlAN thread who have very little experience with MEN in general giving advice on how to get a Husband when they themselves don't have husbands!~ I should have started this thread first! "eye opening"


Chicken in blow jobs not looking like bad advice now huh?


LOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOL


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Apr 07 2014 at 9:44pm
4


Posted By: melly
Date Posted: May 07 2014 at 4:47pm
1


Posted By: JulieGianni
Date Posted: May 07 2014 at 4:55pm
Two. One wanted to marry me.  The second one did.


Posted By: Marcelo22
Date Posted: May 07 2014 at 5:58pm
0


Posted By: Meme0887
Date Posted: May 07 2014 at 6:02pm
Zero



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