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Topic: What do you find attractive in a mate?
Posted By: iliveforbhm
Subject: What do you find attractive in a mate?
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 2:41pm
Me - Light skin, long hair, pretty face, big butt, a nice rack, pretty teeth, a lil big arrogance, funny, dim witted, a lil materalistic, doesn't eat too much, knows when to shut up, and when the game is on knows it's time to hang out with her girls.
 
 
GO!!!



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Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 2:49pm
The first thing I fall for is the guy's personality, so I would say that. I find a sense of humor, laid back attitude, and kindness all attractive.


Posted By: Katrenia
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 2:49pm
Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Me - Light skin, long hair, pretty face, big butt, a nice rack, pretty teeth, a lil big arrogance, funny, dim witted, a lil materalistic, doesn't eat too much, knows when to shut up, and when the game is on knows it's time to hang out with her girls.
 
 
GO!!!
I like all the same but we can scatch the dim witted and light skin.


Posted By: nala52808
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 2:50pm
Tall, athletic/muscular build, Dark skint Medium skint or Samoan, intelligent, nice big smile, thoughtful, funny, sexy voice, is the boss of the relationship but listens and considers my opinions, playful, energetic, family oriented, likes cooking, Rich, well groomed, patient


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 2:53pm
Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Me - Light skin, long hair, pretty face, big butt, a nice rack, pretty teeth, a lil big arrogance, funny, dim witted, a lil materalistic, doesn't eat too much, knows when to shut up, and when the game is on knows it's time to hang out with her girls.
 
 
GO!!!
I like all the same but we can scatch the dim witted and light skin.
 
I can't have her playing chess with me in terms of the relationship flow. Shiieeet!!!!! Let her play candy land.


Posted By: HunnyB
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 3:04pm
Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Me - Light skin, long hair, pretty face, big butt, a nice rack, pretty teeth, a lil big arrogance, funny, dim witted, a lil materalistic, doesn't eat too much, knows when to shut up, and when the game is on knows it's time to hang out with her girls.
 
 
GO!!!

Confused


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 3:05pm
HunnyB what's your type?


Posted By: HunnyB
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 3:06pm
Everything that Mr. HB embodies. Good husband, good dad, cleans everything, juices for me, does my laundry, smart, intellectual, nice build, slightly abrasive w/ a soft side.........JESUS....Love me some himHeart


Posted By: fckwitmeuknoigotit
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 3:38pm
must be a slow day at work?


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 3:44pm
...like first thing i'll notice is the face then personality. anybody that can click with me is alright with me. long hair and glasses is a plus. sigh....someone who knows how to take orders and follow directions correctly. tall is good...at least taller than me.a smart/think/drawing /reader. cooking is a plus. doesnt have to be fit. i like chubby guys too....other than that i dont know..maybe i'll think of something later.


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 3:46pm
Tall (or at the very least taller than me!), intelligent and well read without being arrogant and imbued with a false sense of superiority, spiritual and introspective, funny, willing to do things (no couch potato), compassionate and kind, not dressed like a bum. I don't have any set in stone physical characteristics except tall and in reasonable shape. If I like your personality, it's enough for me to be attracted.

Ps: I do like when they smell good



Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 4:27pm
Originally posted by fckwitmeuknoigotit fckwitmeuknoigotit wrote:

must be a slow day at work?


Yup, lmao


Posted By: femmemuscleisback
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 6:36pm
good looks, tall, muscles, money, well-roundedness, intelligence, spontaneity, a gentleman, protective of his mate, monogamous..





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Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 9:18pm
Dead


Posted By: atexaschick
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 9:55pm
light skin or brown skin, tall, low cut hair, athletic build, nice teeth (pretty boy without the attitude), someone that keeps me in my place (I hate passive men I can run over), great sense of humor-makes me laugh, laid back, family person, something other girls like to look at even though he belongs to me


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 10:32pm
Kindness. Calm, warm spirit,patient,willing to help others, mature, courteous, nice.


Posted By: atexaschick
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 10:36pm
I forgot to add has money and preferably no kids, but if he does have 1 or 2 (max) I can deal with it.


Posted By: missdeeluxe
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 10:50pm
Athletic, handsome, funny, and goal-oriented.
No kids.




Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 10:51pm
Do you not notice women unless theyre light?


Posted By: mangachan
Date Posted: Mar 24 2014 at 10:59pm
I don't have a physical type really, I just have to think he's attractive. Personality can be laid back or a little more on the outgoing side as long as he conveys confidence in the way he carries himself.  We also have to share conservative, decent values.  I'm partial to at least moderate levels of physical activity, I can't do couch potatoes.

Oh yeah, no kids at all.


Posted By: Ds2nice
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 12:01am
His generously large bank account, his high credit score, and his power.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 12:36am
I love how loving he his he has a kind heart.
That's first....


I love how he is such a family man.
I could not be with someone who barely talked and isn't close with their family.
I love that both of our families like the other

And I love how responsible he is...
He gets ish done


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 5:21am
Originally posted by Ming Ming wrote:

Do you not notice women unless theyre light?

Nope, why would I since they aren't my type. I just view them as another brother.


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 6:30am
What's your type Cherry?


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 7:44am
Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Originally posted by Ming Ming wrote:

Do you not notice women unless theyre light?


Nope, why would I since they aren't my type. I just view them as another brother.
didn't you post up with some questionable looking brownies in ya avi a few times?


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 7:59am
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Originally posted by Ming Ming wrote:

Do you not notice women unless theyre light?


Nope, why would I since they aren't my type. I just view them as another brother.
didn't you post up with some questionable looking brownies in ya avi a few times?
 
They always been light skinnneded(extra "ed" for emphasis) Sleepy


Posted By: HeyBeautiful18
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 8:00am
Tall

Ambition and goals

Nice teeth

Not too serious but not crazy overly out going either

No kids!! I'm too young to be playin step mama

I would like a guy that's in school or has a decent paying paying already

Puerto rican/black mix with dark skin. Mmm

Artsy and creative. Not a musician!!




Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 8:25am
Physically?

Attractive/good looking

In decent physical condition but as long as they are active and working towards a healthy goal/

Slim-mediumish

Prefer a natural but not bothered

Skin tone not an issue

Some curves ..

Smells great

Other attributes,

Financially astute and goal orientated

Educated

Driven/ambitious

Adventurous and outgoing

Generous





Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 10:34am
I forgot to add and African..


Posted By: goodm3
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 10:54am
Good physical health... (if a man takes care of himself physically its usually is means his skin, teeth, and gut are all in check)

Hard worker/Bout his business ....i can't stand a man who is always just chillin or in the street. If he makes more time to watch the football/basketball/etc game than working on taking his career or business (or both) to the next level....that's not the guy for me. I have no time for Mr. I'mgettingreadyto/I'mworkingonit.

And believes in Jesus...I don't want no "i'm spiritual"  or "God's knows my heart" or "Can't nobody judge me"...Naw playa...i need you be a BELIVER


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 11:03am
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

I forgot to add and African..


we all African tho



Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 11:17am
Originally posted by Ming Ming wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

I forgot to add and African..


we all African tho



Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 11:27am
Originally posted by goodm3 goodm3 wrote:

Good physical health... (if a man takes care of himself physically its usually is means his skin, teeth, and gut are all in check)

Hard worker/Bout his business ....i can't stand a man who is always just chillin or in the street. If he makes more time to watch the football/basketball/etc game than working on taking his career or business (or both) to the next level....that's not the guy for me. I have no time for Mr. I'mgettingreadyto/I'mworkingonit.

And believes in Jesus...I don't want no "i'm spiritual"  or "God's knows my heart" or "Can't nobody judge me"...Naw playa...i need you be a BELIVER
 
I hope you find him. Embarrassed


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 11:28am
Originally posted by Ming Ming wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

I forgot to add and African..


we all African tho

 
I ain't. Sleepy
 
I'm American and all humans come from the continent of USA not Africa, that's a false theory.


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 11:46am
afro


Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 11:56am
Built like a soccer player with a nice ass
Intelligent/driven/ambitious
Funny
Makes enough money so I can spend it without leaving him broke
Not too religious or religious
Great in bed
Enjoys spoiling me


Posted By: Marcelo22
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 12:12pm
nayboo1


Posted By: nala52808
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 2:02pm
Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Originally posted by Ming Ming wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

I forgot to add and African..


we all African tho

 
I ain't. Sleepy
 
I'm American and all humans come from the continent of USA not Africa, that's a false theory.

This nicca stay talkin crazyWacko


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 2:05pm
Originally posted by nala52808 nala52808 wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Originally posted by Ming Ming wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

I forgot to add and African..


we all African tho

 
I ain't. Sleepy
 
I'm American and all humans come from the continent of USA not Africa, that's a false theory.

This nicca stay talkin crazyWacko
 
I'm the most sane human being on this forum.


Posted By: OoDles O
Date Posted: Mar 25 2014 at 2:28pm
I can't really put it into words.
Its like I could LOVEeee something about a girl Im with, but her complimentary trait is something that I can't seem to get comfortable with.

for example.. 
She's liberal and easy going, Great.. but on the flip side, she's a drifter with not much focus… and sometimes I don't know what really makes her happy cause she always "down for whatever".
or
She's focused an always grinding, Beautiful I say,  but she's always busy and always in a rush and kind of bossy to. 




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