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Topic: are you happy?
Posted By: Josephuss
Subject: are you happy?
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 8:37pm
Cry if not what would make you happy?



Replies:
Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 8:39pm
yess 5 star thread!!





Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 8:42pm

i found joy in my life no person can or will ever steal a long time ago..


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 8:43pm

why Joe whats wrong?




Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 8:48pm
i understand how you feel joe. 


to answer your question though, no.. not quite. 


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 8:48pm
Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:


why Joe whats wrong?


I dont know, happiness seems like a mirage to me. just wanna know what others would define as happy.


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 8:52pm
I'm happy. Kind of. I would more happier I had a fridge full of delicious food that no one tried to eat #firstworldproblems *sigh*


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 8:54pm
Most of the time.....I just decided to stop caring so much.....My head is on board......my heart is a lil slow to get with the program.....Im working on it tho.....


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 8:57pm
Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:


why Joe whats wrong?


I dont know, happiness seems like a mirage to me. just wanna know what others would define as happy.

Hug 

i think what you want is joy.....joy is permanent.....happiness to me comes and goes 




Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 8:59pm
Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:


why Joe whats wrong?


I dont know, happiness seems like a mirage to me. just wanna know what others would define as happy.

Hug 

i think what you want is joy.....joy is permanent.....happiness to me comes and goes 


well I want being happy or joyful to be my emotional state the majority of the time and not depressed. I just wanna feel like everything is gonna be ok.


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 9:06pm
Joe do you talk to anyone on a regular basis about how you feel?

...i think that can help some...holding things in are never good...



Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 9:09pm
Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Joe do you talk to anyone on a regular basis about how you feel?

...i think that can help some...holding things in are never good...

no. most people probably think im a brain dead moron who doesnt have the mental capacity to be depressed and doesn't mind having an empty life. my interaction level with actual people is very low.


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 9:33pm
Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Joe do you talk to anyone on a regular basis about how you feel?

...i think that can help some...holding things in are never good...

no. most people probably think im a brain dead moron who doesnt have the mental capacity to be depressed and doesn't mind having an empty life. my interaction level with actual people is very low.

Disapprove

no family to talk to?


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 9:34pm
Extremely

Having a merry heart is something I'm thankful for.


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 9:38pm
Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

I'm happy. Kind of. I would more happier I had a fridge full of delicious food that no one tried to eat #firstworldproblems *sigh*
I hope you juice and fruit remains untouched from now on.Hug


Posted By: HeyBeautiful18
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 9:38pm
I have my good days and the occasional blue days

Thankfully I have more good days though

I'm not exactly where I want to be just yet but I'm hopeful and optimistic about my future.



Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 9:39pm
and you should keep a little diary/journal, writing things help too...


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 9:39pm
Originally posted by HeyBeautiful18 HeyBeautiful18 wrote:

I have my good days and the occasional blue days

Thankfully I have more good days though

I'm not exactly where I want to be just yet but I'm hopeful and optimistic about my future.

That's good, HB.Smile

I'm getting there. Things are certainly better up here.Big smile


Posted By: HeyBeautiful18
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 9:41pm
Joe, you need a therapist and some positive affirmations


Posted By: noneyons
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 10:03pm
your posts make my heart hurt sometimes. 
i wanna come visit you one day so we can do lunch. you live in cali or something right?


Posted By: noneyons
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 10:19pm
my daddy was in a wheelchair for several years. he was a brilliant man. i think you have some brilliant qualities. you're smart. i think i would enjoy hanging out with you. i don't want to make promises but i'ma make a mental note to meet with you and chat before the year is out. hold me to it. call me out if i don't. i aint scared of you, joeApprove


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 10:42pm
Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

what would make you happy?

$$$$$$$ & =======||>>


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 11:01pm
noneyons is so sweet.Heart


Posted By: noneyons
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 11:11pm
i'm a sour patch kid in real life. not really but i want to be. thanks, mixer. 


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 11:14pm
You're welcome, noneyons. You'll get there one day.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Mar 09 2014 at 11:15pm
i would hang out with joe too… 

he seems like a swell guy 


Posted By: rell85
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 4:03am
Yes took years though got sick of feeling sorry for myself.


Posted By: missunfoolish
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 4:17am
not really but making more effort in trying to stop feeling sorry for myself


what would make me happy:
my mom to stop drinking
getting better grades/better school
CRAWFISH CRAWFISH CRAWFISH
and someone that actually gets me Cry




Posted By: Adrian
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 10:09am
No - a hot tub, a massage, 5 star meals, a comfty bed, and sex all day with a different person each day (assuming they have no STD's)


Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 10:44am
LOL @ crawfish ..me too. Hmmm maybe tonight

But yes, overall I'm happy and feel blessed

I've been a bit overwhelmed lately by a bunch of sh*t going on..I would be happier if they were all resolved..But I'm pretty sure this is going to continue forever. I'll have to deal.


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 10:45am
Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

your posts make my heart hurt sometimes. 
i wanna come visit you one day so we can do lunch. you live in cali or something right?
lol I live in Delaware but we can always talk on the phone


Posted By: YoursTruly
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 12:49pm
No not really, but I'm just fakin' it til I make it!


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 3:12pm
Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Joe do you talk to anyone on a regular basis about how you feel?

...i think that can help some...holding things in are never good...

no. most people probably think im a brain dead moron who doesnt have the mental capacity to be depressed and doesn't mind having an empty life. my interaction level with actual people is very low.

Disapprove

no family to talk to?
as far as talking goes 95% of my talking is requesting things like can  I have  some water


Posted By: blackarosoe
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 3:24pm
Since friday i am not my sister needs new lungs due to sarcoidoces i am so sad


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 3:33pm
Hugmissunfoolish.


Posted By: Dapheny
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 3:40pm
nah.


Posted By: noneyons
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 3:42pm
let's chat on friday night or saturday, joe. 

ps. i don't know what i just assumed you live in cali. for some reason i think you look like someone who lives in cali lol. weird. 

i'd come to delaware too though.


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 4:15pm
Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

let's chat on friday night or saturday, joe. 

ps. i don't know what i just assumed you live in cali. for some reason i think you look like someone who lives in cali lol. weird. 

i'd come to delaware too though.
ok  just tell me when youre ready


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 4:19pm

i'm f*cking ecstatic!!!!



Posted By: noneyons
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 4:19pm
will do. 

in the mean time, do something crazy today like dye your hair with kool aid or paint your pinky nail green or something. it feels good to get out your habits every now and then. just a suggestion lol.


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 5:08pm


Posted By: aNgElIc*SoUl
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 5:14pm
No and I hate that damn song.


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 5:18pm
Originally posted by aNgElIc*SoUl aNgElIc*SoUl wrote:

No and I hate that damn song.
Angry


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 6:05pm
Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

will do. 

in the mean time, do something crazy today like dye your hair with kool aid or paint your pinky nail green or something. it feels good to get out your habits every now and then. just a suggestion lol.

agreed. try something different


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 6:11pm
Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Joe do you talk to anyone on a regular basis about how you feel?

...i think that can help some...holding things in are never good...

no. most people probably think im a brain dead moron who doesnt have the mental capacity to be depressed and doesn't mind having an empty life. my interaction level with actual people is very low.

Disapprove

no family to talk to?
as far as talking goes 95% of my talking is requesting things like can  I have  some water

why dont you try holding a deeper conversation with one of them?

"Are you busy? I just wanted to say a few things"

talking to your family if they are willing go listen should be your first choice, they know you better than any other people do...



Posted By: naturesgift
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 6:17pm
NO ONE on BHM is happy. obviously? they wouldn't be here looking for DRAma


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 6:32pm
Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

NO ONE on BHM is happy. obviously? they wouldn't be here looking for DRAma

I was gonna agree until I saw you said no one....

oh.


Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 6:36pm
Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Joe do you talk to anyone on a regular basis about how you feel?

...i think that can help some...holding things in are never good...

no. most people probably think im a brain dead moron who doesnt have the mental capacity to be depressed and doesn't mind having an empty life. my interaction level with actual people is very low.

Disapprove

no family to talk to?
as far as talking goes 95% of my talking is requesting things like can  I have  some water

why dont you try holding a deeper conversation with one of them?

"Are you busy? I just wanted to say a few things"

talking to your family if they are willing go listen should be your first choice, they know you better than any other people do...

im not condition to talk like that talking to  my  dad like that would serve no purpose. not to mention talking is the main problem.


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 6:38pm
Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

im not condition to talk like that talking to  my  dad like that would serve no purpose. not to mention talking is the main problem.

what do you mean by this?




Posted By: Josephuss
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 6:48pm
Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

im not condition to talk like that talking to  my  dad like that would serve no purpose. not to mention talking is the main problem.

what do you mean by this?


people talk to their parents, siblings, etc, the way they been condition to based on the type of relationship they have with them. and even though my dad sees how I am and talk he seems oblivious  to my mental well  being.


Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 6:49pm
Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

i'm f*cking ecstatic!!!!


LOL


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 7:12pm
Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

NO ONE on BHM is happy. obviously? they wouldn't be here looking for DRAma


Everything isn't a drama thread with ya dramatic ass



Posted By: naturesgift
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 8:42pm
Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

NO ONE on BHM is happy. obviously? they wouldn't be here looking for DRAma


Everything isn't a drama thread with ya dramatic ass

There you Go! lol


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 8:43pm


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 10:54pm
Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

im not condition to talk like that talking to  my  dad like that would serve no purpose. not to mention talking is the main problem.

what do you mean by this?


people talk to their parents, siblings, etc, the way they been condition to based on the type of relationship they have with them. and even though my dad sees how I am and talk he seems oblivious  to my mental well  being.

this is hurts me to hear.Disapprove

what about your extended family?

any cousins your age? or other relatives?




Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 11:32pm
im happy. i'd be happier if i were paid to travel.Disapprove


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Mar 11 2014 at 1:01am
I'm content for the time being.


Posted By: dOLLish.
Date Posted: Mar 11 2014 at 8:45pm
Not really, but I'm taking the steps that I feel I need to take in order to find peace and happiness. 


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Mar 11 2014 at 8:55pm
Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

NO ONE on BHM is happy. obviously? they wouldn't be here looking for DRAma


Everything isn't a drama thread with ya dramatic ass



LOL



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