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Topic: She said I overreacted
Posted By: f8dagrate
Subject: She said I overreacted
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:22pm
I will try to make this as concise as possible. A little background on her and I. I'm a very outspoken individual, I can be quite foul sometimes(but I'm working on thatEmbarrassed) Anywho I have been relatively "nice" with her, let's call her Sandy, (no relation to Mizzsandr00). Anywho, are views differ in many ways but I still try to work with her. She says things like, "If black people want white people to stop being racist, we should be more open with them"Sleepy. I usually give her the side eye because of her ignorance. Okay the other day she texts me asking how I was and yadda yadda yadda.
 But my spidey senses were tingling for some weird reason, and here it comes. She asks me if I have been speaking to her ex:Kay. Me: Who is Kay?. As soon as I texted her that I realized who she was talking about. Then she said, "remember yall exchanged numbers when he came and picked me up. Me: Oh, your ex Keyonte, why what he ask about me, did he say how is your friend doing?. (I said this just to see what she was leading up with). She said, "no he said that one of my friends texted him that, she doesn't like him and has been texting him; and sending him pictures with sexual content in it, and that this friend had sexual encounters with a lot of men.

Me:Ouch I was thinking in my head, why the hell is she asking me this bullish, I don't have friends who ask me stupid azz questions like this. So I got irradiated as hell. And answered why, it is true isn't, you don't like him.

Her: Just answer the question yes or no.
Her: you're the only one who has his number

Me: I answered, "I would never ask this question to anyone I considered a true friend, this really make me think. And NO I have never spoke to him from that day, not interested in him either".

Her: Why are you getting all defensive, yaddda yadddaa

Me: ( I really tried to be at least a good acquaintance with her, because were in the same field and other stuff. But I'm not used to insecure ish like this). She said she doesn't care about him and she isn't worried about females yadda yadda, and how secure she is. I call bullish, because she has done some real desperate stuff in the past. 

But I don't think I overreacted at all, I didn't curse her out or anything. She said she had to ask because she didn't want to remain suspicious. The hell she got to suspicious for, her ex isn't cute at all and she clowns the shat out of him and says he got a small penis. 






Ugh this sounds like some basic bish problems. LOL



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Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:27pm
She insecure as and that question is disrespectful as hell....bish if you didn't you wouldn't ask....


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:29pm
Disrespectful...


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:31pm
She tried it and was brave about it LOL.

She said, "no he said that one of my friends texted him that, she doesn't like him and has been texting him; and sending him pictures with sexual content in it, and that this friend had sexual encounters with a lot of men.

So your the woman that she thinks he is referring to out of all the friends because you fit the description that didn't piss you off???


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:33pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

She insecure as and that question is disrespectful as hell....bish if you didn't you wouldn't ask....

Thank you, I'm trying this new thing called being "nice". But nah you aren't going to make me feel like I'm in the wrong. I'm not used to this type of ish at all, never in my life. She kept saying, "I'm secure, I'm secure". I said I'm happy for you, but I never said anything about you not being secure. I just can't, I will probably cut her off real soon. I already don't hang out with her, I feel she might act out in public. We have a mutual friend so that is why we started talking.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:34pm
Plus she let dude send her dumb ass off...he told her that but didn't tell her who....and she real thinks she knows if your number is the only number he has......chile that some high school bullshyt.....


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:34pm
Originally posted by thewonderfulwa thewonderfulwa wrote:

She tried it and was brave about it LOL.

She said, "no he said that one of my friends texted him that, she doesn't like him and has been texting him; and sending him pictures with sexual content in it, and that this friend had sexual encounters with a lot of men.

So your the woman that she thinks he is referring to out of all the friends because you fit the description that didn't piss you off???

Man, when I read what she forwarded to me, I was in disbelief, believe me. I she said it's just a question.


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:35pm
She called you a ho f8. Overreacting would have been beating that bish with a bottle, word to Da Brat.


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:36pm
If y'all speak again, you should bring up keyonte without being prompted. That will mess with her mind. Let her disrespectful behind stew in her insecurity.LOL



I had something similar happen where a friend/now acquaintance tried it. She was engaging in trifling behavior with a trifling man and tried to get every damn one involved in her messiness. Soon after it all crashed down on her and she is back to making sense.Dead


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:36pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Plus she let dude send her dumb ass off...he told her that but didn't tell her who....and she real thinks she knows if your number is the only number he has......chile that some high school bullshyt.....


exactly he knew what he was doing


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:36pm
Originally posted by thewonderfulwa thewonderfulwa wrote:

She tried it and was brave about it LOL.

She said, "no he said that one of my friends texted him that, she doesn't like him and has been texting him; and sending him pictures with sexual content in it, and that this friend had sexual encounters with a lot of men.

So your the woman that she thinks he is referring to out of all the friends because you fit the description that didn't piss you off???


Yes... the boldness of her to think of you


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:37pm
you're GOOD cuz that been me that chick would be on full mental breakdown in 4 3 2 1LOL chile id keep the hair on her neck up/ she'd be past 10 goin on blast off/  umph umph umph she's a markLOL


sidenote: she's blatantly set herself up for failure/ you have the right to mentally screw her mind up  the fukkk up on ALL levels ...


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:37pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Plus she let dude send her dumb ass off...he told her that but didn't tell her who....and she real thinks she knows if your number is the only number he has......chile that some high school bullshyt.....
Man, even in high school I even didn't deal with basicness, this is some middle school shat. I would've chin checked a bish for less. Man I'm, trying to be nice, but THE DEVIL IS A LIECry


Posted By: gemini1591
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:38pm
She was disrespectful and low key calling you a hoe. Why is she asking you anyway? Why couldn't she just ask him directly what friend of hers is texting him


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:39pm
Originally posted by gemini1591 gemini1591 wrote:

She was disrespectful and low key calling you a hoe. Why is she asking you anyway? Why couldn't she just ask him directly what friend of hers is texting him


She was scurred you know some of these women wouldn't dare ask the man any questions but then have the nerve to start investigating everyone but the main suspect


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:40pm
Originally posted by gemini1591 gemini1591 wrote:

She was disrespectful and low key calling you a hoe. Why is she asking you anyway? Why couldn't she just ask him directly what friend of hers is texting him

The funny thing about it, is that she knows I'm the exact opposite when it comes to my ill nana, Negros, have to cross oceans to get to thisLOL

She said, that this friend was anonymousSleepy, but pretty sure that she could just check the caller ID right?


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:42pm
Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

She called you a ho f8. Overreacting would have been beating that bish with a bottle, word to Da Brat.

I could be a hoe, but even if I was a hoe, I wouldn't disrespect girl code for some ol' no neck, short niqqa with a small dack. NO ma'am even a hoe got standards.



Not a hoe btwLOL


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:45pm
I have to run some errands, but I will be back I need to let some more shat off my bra. BHM low key therapeutic sometimes.LOL


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:46pm
I was ton say good dick have a bish like that but its small......her life's a L


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:48pm
get yourself some air on that one girl ... roll out/ listen to some music/ then your next move gon come to you likeLamp  yeeeeeeaaaaaahhhhhhWink


Posted By: gemini1591
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:51pm
He's probably messing around with someone super close to her but she's too dumb to see it. Anonymous my ass


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:54pm
Originally posted by gemini1591 gemini1591 wrote:

He's probably messing around with someone super close to her but she's too dumb to see it. Anonymous my ass


Yes Keyonte is smashing someone acting like the deed hasn't been done.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:57pm
Name like Keyonte.....chile please.....


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 8:05pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

I was ton say good dick have a bish like that but its small......her life's a L


btw he probably packin like a mofo, cause aint not bish makin all this rukkus about a no packin manWinkWink girl he threw that daddy long dack on her becky azz like "you my bish for life" LOL ummmhuh i know it happens cause it almost just recently happened to meLOL girl you gotta watch these ones that want a heirom/ alotta chicks to choose from them the ones know how to throw it downWink oh bests believe becky wants that dack hunty she aint foolin meLOL


sidenote: see this how you do it so one of yo girls/associates dont get curious n try his big dack azz out, you say, " sheitt that little dack mofo wasnt sheitt no way" LOL  see that way none of em try him


Posted By: zolloh
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 10:16pm
Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Ugh this sounds like some basic bish problems. LOL
i'm so glad you ended it with this coz i was drifting in and out of that OP while thinking "this some basic bish bullshat" LOL


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 11:39pm
Originally posted by zolloh zolloh wrote:

Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Ugh this sounds like some basic bish problems. LOL
i'm so glad you ended it with this coz i was drifting in and out of that OP while thinking "this some basic bish bullshat" LOL

Lol you already, know sheit like this doesn't happen to me, it is like a foreign concept. But something in me just wants to go off on her and tell her about herself. But I don't want to end it that way. 


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 11:41pm
Originally posted by gemini1591 gemini1591 wrote:

He's probably messing around with someone super close to her but she's too dumb to see it. Anonymous my ass

That is exactly what I told her. I told her there is a snake in her bushes keep your eyes open. I just feel sorry for her, something about a man can women act stooopid. 


Posted By: yayatheprincess
Date Posted: Mar 07 2014 at 2:50am
lawdddd i really cannot believe this is not a 9th grade story. she real petty for that. why she soo pressed on what her supposed EX is doing? she lucky you didn't snap at her.


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Mar 07 2014 at 3:04am
You should ask " so how small is small"

Fuuuuck her up real good

I wish a nigguh wooooould call me on some sh*t like that



Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Mar 07 2014 at 3:45am
I'm lost. 

When and why did y'all exchange numbers? When they were together?


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Mar 07 2014 at 8:26am
That is VERY disrespectful and the only reason why she said you overreacted is because she's afraid SHE'S overreacting and trust me- she is.

IT'S CALLED PROJECTION! She projecting her insecurities onto you! She doesn't care about said dude but here she is tracking who has his number and asking you rude questions like that. Psh!


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Mar 07 2014 at 8:28am
Is the dick even bomb???


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Mar 07 2014 at 5:13pm
Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

I'm lost. 

When and why did y'all exchange numbers? When they were together?
Long story short she went into a pseudo-shock like stage and needed to go the hospital. He came and picked her up and was to text me any details of how she was doing. When she is getting a procedure done MRI, etc. Yes they were semi-together, meaning even though they spent all there time together she never truly claimed him.


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Mar 07 2014 at 5:15pm
Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Is the dick even bomb???

nope, I won't even go into how non-bomb she tells us it isLOL


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Mar 08 2014 at 2:53am
Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

I'm lost. 

When and why did y'all exchange numbers? When they were together?
Long story short she went into a pseudo-shock like stage and needed to go the hospital. He came and picked her up and was to text me any details of how she was doing. When she is getting a procedure done MRI, etc. Yes they were semi-together, meaning even though they spent all there time together she never truly claimed him.

Oh so you got his number for a reason. Oh yeah she trippin then. Straight out the blue.


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Mar 08 2014 at 2:57am
So this heifer is accusing you of all this because you got his number through CHECKING FOR HER WELFARE WHEN SHE WAS IN THE HOSPITAL?

What kind of friend is this? Is she bipolar?? Serious question!



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