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Topic: Do you tell you SO when you have a yeast infection
Posted By: HowardAlumAKA
Subject: Do you tell you SO when you have a yeast infection
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:09pm
My coworker didn't tell her mate and he is furious. Is he over reacting??? She said she just wanted to get rid of it and keep it moving but now he's accusing her of all kinds of cheating because he doesn't understand that even soap can give you a yeast infection.



Do you tell your SO? I kinda feel he should know...



Replies:
Posted By: HaitianDiva64
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:12pm
Lmao, he sounds dumb


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:13pm
what does he think shes baking bread without him???
these ninjas are crazy
She needs to break up with him.


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:16pm
how does he know she had one if she didn't tell him?
i thought yeast infections last only a couple of days, does she have a chronic condition where they keep coming back?


Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:16pm
lol he is mad? that's like getting mad that she got a cold.


Posted By: shellbee823
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:16pm
dump him and get monistat. STAT!


Posted By: Meme0887
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:17pm
Lmao wtf..so ignorant

I got that just from scented soap..

And he may be projecting..he's probably the one cheating


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:18pm
Originally posted by Meme0887 Meme0887 wrote:

Lmao wtf..so ignorant

I got that just from scented soap..

And he may be projecting..he's probably the one cheating




Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:22pm
Originally posted by Meme0887 Meme0887 wrote:

Lmao wtf..so ignorant

I got that just from scented soap..

And he may be projecting..he's probably the one cheating


THIS!


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:31pm
I get yeast from wearing thongs and panties not made from 100% cotton it never fails. I be telling hubby not to waste his money at Victoria Secrets on those silk ones but he never listens.  

The guy in the OP is very immature and the girl needs summers eve's and monistat in her bathroom closet. Now there's a difference between someone having yeast and someone having a yeast infection. A yeast infection is brown, yellow or green and has a STANK smell. Which one did she have OP?


Posted By: maysay1
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:36pm
Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

I get yeast from wearing thongs and panties not made from 100% cotton it never fails. I be telling hubby not to waste his money at Victoria Secrets on those silk ones but he never listens.  

The guy in the OP is very immature and the girl needs summers eve's and monistat in her bathroom closet. Now there's a difference between someone having yeast and someone having a yeast infection. A yeast infection is brown, yellow or green and has a STANK smell. Which one did she have OP?


Actually, a yeast infection can have different symptoms for different people. That's why it's really important to see a doctor...they can make sure it's actually a yeast infection and rule out other issues like BV, bladder infections, chlamydia, and other STI's.




Posted By: maysay1
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:37pm
I would think it's common courtesy to tell your SO about any infection that could have possibly spread to them.

But if y'all ain't having sexual relations then it's your vagina and your business.


Posted By: GoodGirlGoneGr8
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:56pm
Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

I would think it's common courtesy to tell your SO about any infection that could have possibly spread to them.

But if y'all ain't having sexual relations then it's your vagina and your business.


This. It's just polite...and after all, he can get it.

It's like telling someone you have a cold before you kiss them...


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:57pm
I wouldn't tell him.
I wouldn't have sex during that time and a time after


Posted By: Cream1970
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:58pm
Bacterial Vaginitis usually has the foul smell and discharge. Yeast infection doesn't usually have a really foul smell.
She needs to make sure it's a yeast infection and nothing else.
And yes, I'd tell my man. Some ninja I occasionally fuhque? None of his business.
Me and my SO have sex about 4-6 days a week, it would be impossible to hide it from him. But I have no reason to.


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:58pm
Originally posted by keepgrowing keepgrowing wrote:

Originally posted by Meme0887 Meme0887 wrote:

Lmao wtf..so ignorant

I got that just from scented soap..

And he may be projecting..he's probably the one cheating


THIS!


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:59pm
Dead


Posted By: Wik3ddd_Fr3shh
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 7:01pm
Originally posted by keepgrowing keepgrowing wrote:

Originally posted by Meme0887 Meme0887 wrote:

Lmao wtf..so ignorant

I got that just from scented soap..

And he may be projecting..he's probably the one cheating


THIS!


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 7:01pm
I'd def hide it.
I would make up an excuse.
I would just tell him I have a yeast infection.
I would say I'm tired or not now or something.

He doesn't need to know every damn thing.
Especially if I'm positive it's a yeast infection


Posted By: Wik3ddd_Fr3shh
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 7:02pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I'd def hide it.
I would make up an excuse.
I would just tell him I have a yeast infection.
I would say I'm tired or not now or something.

He doesn't need to know every damn thing.
Especially if I'm positive it's a yeast infection
this too


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 7:02pm
I wouldn't hop to he's cheating.
She maybe stinks and is acting weird so it may make him wonder .

Seems like a logical conclusion


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 7:11pm
you can get a yeast infection from a man. especially if he isnt circumsized. Her so sounds like an idiot though.


Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 7:12pm
lol...situations like this is when i appreciate SO so much. being in the medical field nothing grosses him out. he always know when i have a yeast infection. he's even gone to my gyn appointments with me and i have him come in the room when i'm getting my exams. hell he even helps me insert the medications when i have a yeast infection and i don't feel like doing it myself. 

that nicca in the op sounds dumb as hell. i can't stand men like that. 


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 7:13pm
I wouldnt hide it. I would be thinking he gaveit to me.


Posted By: Ladycoils
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 7:15pm
He is dumb and needs a lesson in the biology of a women's body. I also agree with everyone else he is cheating.

As for me, its on a need to know basis. If my s/o hears me complaining about the itch I will tell him. If he wants to get some personal time I'll tell him my vayjayjay is out on sick leave.


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 7:15pm
yeah i'd tell my dh being nig.gas and all 


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 7:34pm
yes


Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 7:42pm
for those that wouldn't tell their SO is it because you think yeast infection is gross and you're uncomfortable having the discussion or is it because you think it's a woman's issue (private) and men do not need to know? 

cuz i'll be damn if you phucking me and i can't have a convo about yeast infection with you or any convo for that matter. 


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 7:46pm
just don't see why I need to tell him.
its my puss anyway does he need to know the inner workings,of everything ..i don't believe so.
 
I'm pretty sure my sister would tell her husband though she's one of those who feel like her husband has to know every single stupid thing always.
My mama wouldn't.Shes one of those secret bank account women.
I'm like her.
our bond isn't scaled on a yeast infection.
Hell be alright .
 


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 7:48pm
I don't understand hiding it.



Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 7:53pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

I don't understand hiding it.


i dont understand it either. 


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:01pm
My body isn't his body.
This is wierd coming from the pro choice/pro abortion crowd.

I know no one is trying to make it big deal about it but it's weird that you guys don't quite understand why a woman feels certain things about her own body can be kept to herself at her own discretion,

Giving her access to my vagina doesn't mean he owns it .
I'll tell him what I want to ...not including when it's his own right to know like an std or his baby.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:02pm
Sang didn't you say in a thread that if you were having an abortion you wouldn't let him know you were pregnant or was that another poster?


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:07pm
Lol yeah we have.
She wanted me to look at hers and make sure she was good.
She looked at mine .
Never had a yeast infection before that,
She knew about them.

My negro ain't no doctor he wouldn't be able to tell me ish


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:09pm
This is weird. If they talk about everything I don't see why she wouldn't mention this.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:09pm
If I'm dying from cervical cancer or some other kind of disease or infection related to my reproductive organs fine.

But I just don't understand why I would need to .
He'll be fine.

Whatever though .
Y'all free to tell y'all menz whatever


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:10pm


Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


but don't you and your friend look at each others' vaginas?

no really, you have intrigued me


bhm and science/medical degrees...i tell ya



Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:10pm
Hmmms


Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:11pm
you stay doing too much. 


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:12pm
Originally posted by smaison smaison wrote:

you stay doing too much. 


Same


Posted By: uppitynegroid
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:13pm
I would tell mine because we just have that kind of relationship.  I do know of BHMers who believer you shouldn't tell SOs everything.  Like the ones who post about not letting SOs see them w/o weave, or smell their shyt, etc.  I can't be bothered with all that extra work. 


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:14pm
I'd tell, I have. If we weren't in the same place, and wouldn't be for a while, probably wouldn't.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:14pm
Would y'all tell if he or you were on a trip somewhere?
Even if nothing would be going down anyway?

Bae I got a yeasty?


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:15pm
when I was young I would hide this sort of thing but when you get older....I mean if he had something wrong w/his dick even if it WAS going to clear up, I would want to know. We fuggin' and I need to know the state of your dick on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday

eta: I just also realized BHM hates safari


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:15pm
Coo'


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:17pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Would y'all tell if he or you were on a trip somewhere?
Even if nothing would be going down anyway?

Bae I got a yeasty?


why can't you have sex on a trip?

why can't you get a cream on a trip?


A trip as in you were separated from each other anyway.


Posted By: Bonjour baby ooowee
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:18pm
see here's my thinking bout this/ tell him because he may be a avid eater and that ain't coolOuch


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:19pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


I realized you meant that after I posted lol

um, why you going on a trip with a yeast infection?

sounds terrible


Work trip , got it while you were there...



Posted By: Meme0887
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:22pm
Aint no way I'm having sex while all that is going on..BV..UTI..Yeast

None of those feel good doing it

So yeah he would have to know if something is about to go down..especially if he eat the cat too


Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:22pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

when I was young I would hide this sort of thing but when you get older....I mean if he had something wrong w/his dick even if it WAS going to clear up, I would want to know. We fuggin' and I need to know the state of your dick on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday

eta: I just also realized BHM hates safari


LOL


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:24pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Sang didn't you say in a thread that if you were having an abortion you wouldn't let him know you were pregnant or was that another poster?

Pretty sure I wasn't talking about someone I was in a relationship with.




Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:24pm
the fuk?


Posted By: maysay1
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:25pm
I thought the point of having an SO was so that you could talk about all that stuff. I mean especially if he's gonna put his penis in there...he should always be aware of the current state of the vagina.

I couldn't be with a man who isn't interested in my periods, ph, and other vagina related issues.


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:25pm
the fuk?


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:27pm
Yes the point of an SO is to gossip about yeast infections.

He understands periods.


Don't know why I don't equate yeast infections just don't.
Again our bond isn't weighed on telling him about my yeast,

Especially after the things that get said here and the minor things that some ppl don't tolerate.
This is wierd


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:27pm
sometimes i say i have it just so i can get a break...


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:30pm
Him: How was your day babe?
Me: I think I got the hemorrhoids bae. 


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:31pm
She should have told him....men can get genital yeast infections from intercourse......cause we all know these nasty heifer still sexing with the cottage cheese cooch.

I tell Mr00....he goes to the ob/gyn with me also.....

TBH it sounds like he started an argument to go fuk a non yeasty chick lmao


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:34pm
Originally posted by Meme0887 Meme0887 wrote:

Aint no way I'm having sex while all that is going on..BV..UTI..Yeast

None of those feel good doing it

So yeah he would have to know if something is about to go down..especially if he eat the cat too


Disrespectful


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:38pm
no i dont want him to know im a moron


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:39pm
If I had to go to the hospital and I wasn't feeling well because of it.

But to say oh I left my tampon in allllll day and night is just weird to me.

He's my boy too but for what.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:39pm
Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

I thought the point of having an SO was so that you could talk about all that stuff. I mean especially if he's gonna put his penis in there...he should always be aware of the current state of the vagina.

I couldn't be with a man who isn't interested in my periods, ph, and other vagina related issues.


*nods*


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:39pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


if you accidentally left a tampon in yourself, would you tell your man?

like after you realized it or after you went to the doctor and they took it out


Shade?

Should I sit?




Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:43pm


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:44pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


lol

what if yall have hemorrhoids?
LOL

Um, I would say something just in case, well, y'know...lol.

I would tell an SO I have a yeast infection so he knows he better watch some PICS or take a cold shower for a few days.

ETA: Plus you can spread yeast infections to your SO so it's best y'all chill a little bit anyways.



Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:47pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Yes the point of an SO is to gossip about yeast infections.

He understands periods.


Don't know why I don't equate yeast infections just don't.
Again our bond isn't weighed on telling him about my yeast,

Especially after the things that get said here and the minor things that some ppl don't tolerate.
This is wierd




Interesting word choice. Weird indeed.

BHM is so interesting to me, between this and the drinking thread I've learned so much about people today.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:49pm






Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:50pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:



Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Yes the point of an SO is to gossip about yeast infections.

He understands periods.


Don't know why I don't equate yeast infections just don't.
Again our bond isn't weighed on telling him about my yeast,

Especially after the things that get said here and the minor things that some ppl don't tolerate.
This is wierd




Interesting word choice. Weird indeed.

BHM is so interesting to me, between this and the drinking thread I've learned so much about people today.


Ok


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:51pm




Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:51pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Yes the point of an SO is to gossip about yeast infections.

He understands periods.


Don't know why I don't equate yeast infections just don't.
Again our bond isn't weighed on telling him about my yeast,

Especially after the things that get said here and the minor things that some ppl don't tolerate.
This is wierd




Interesting word choice. Weird indeed.

BHM is so interesting to me, between this and the drinking thread I've learned so much about people today.

I did scrunch up my face to the word gossip.....chile what till you get pregnant.....but Jones you seem like the type to confide in your siblings about your personal business instead of the person directly effected....like your mate.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:57pm
And damn you for catching my typo.

We wouldn't have sex for that time period so it wouldn't have an effect on him really.
He'd be in the delivery room too to see it all.
He knows I would possibly poop while pushing.

I want to give birth in one of those tubs and I want him to be in there with me...

I just don't see why I would have to tell him about a yeast infection.

Like I don't think it has any weight on our bond .

He knows about periods and I'm not ashamed to talk about it.
But just see no need to tell him about a yeast infection especially if it's gone soon and we wouldn't be having sex.


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:58pm
Actually I was downstairs. But no I don't care, I can't manage all these separate people on BHM trying to get my attention lately.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:01pm
Yes I would have sex while pregnant.
Sex while pregnant is perfectly healthy


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:01pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


were you summoned when I mentioned rhoids too?


LOLLOLLOLLOLCryDead


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:03pm
Kay.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:05pm
I don't think birth is disgusting .
The entire process is beautiful to me.

Yeast doesn't have that same magnitude to me.



Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:05pm
You keep talking about your bond not being destroyed by this but I don't see anyone saying that.  Just that if your bond is so strong and he can see you sh*t while giving birth, what's a lil yeast and some vinegar gonna hurt? A yeasty seems less.....gross? Giving birth is disgusting lol.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:06pm
Has nothing to do with him.
Has everything to do with me and the ish I choose to say.



Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:08pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I don't think birth is disgusting .
The entire process is beautiful to me.

Yeast doesn't have that same magnitude to me.


You've seen the birth process live?\

Shyt actually comes out your butt.....an actual head stretches someones poor vagina.....and let not discuss afterbirth




Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:09pm
I skimmed the thread but didn't see it.

Did anyone chime in 'Thank goodness I have a clean cooch. I never get yeast infections so this doesn't apply to me.'

It' not a BHM thread until it happens.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:10pm
I wish......Ive only had one.....I called in my diflucan so fast


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:10pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I don't think birth is disgusting .
The entire process is beautiful to me.

Yeast doesn't have that same magnitude to me.



You've seen the birth process live?\

Shyt actually comes out your butt.....an actual head stretches someones poor vagina.....and let not discuss afterbirth




Not live but I've watched youtube videos.
I'm gonna be in the room when my older sister has her second child.


I've seen a girl I'm cool with birth process.

I find the whole thing beautiful.


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:12pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I don't think birth is disgusting .
The entire process is beautiful to me.

Yeast doesn't have that same magnitude to me.


You've seen the birth process live?\

Shyt actually comes out your butt.....an actual head stretches someones poor vagina.....and let not discuss afterbirth




I seent it twice. I was like omg it's real...this really happens?!! I thought it was a myth, a lie, a social constructCry

I did get to play w/the afterbirth...that was kinda cool. Looked like liver.


Posted By: ThatGurlD
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:14pm
Tell him unless you want to pass it back and forth.  Both should get treated.  Flucanozole/Diflucan tablets work well for men and women.  

Sex during pregnancy is amazing.  Get some.

Many, many, MANY women misdiagnose themselves as having yeast when they really have bacterial vaginosis.  Bacterial vaginosis is treated with an antibiotic, or better yet, over the counter RePhresh which is an approved treatment in the UK.  They also have tablets, RePhresh B which help prevent BV and yeast infections.  

ThatGurlD, RN


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:14pm
That would be a reason I tell him.
I know you can pass yeast infections back and forth .
So I would give him a heads up for that reason bc maybe we've been giving it back and forth and I would want him to get treated


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:19pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I don't think birth is disgusting .
The entire process is beautiful to me.

Yeast doesn't have that same magnitude to me.


You've seen the birth process live?\

Shyt actually comes out your butt.....an actual head stretches someones poor vagina.....and let not discuss afterbirth




I seent it twice. I was like omg it's real...this really happens?!! I thought it was a myth, a lie, a social constructCry

I did get to play w/the afterbirth...that was kinda cool. Looked like liver.

Me too.....I walked in on my cousin being born when I was 8......and was there for my BF.


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:24pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Yes the point of an SO is to gossip about yeast infections.

He understands periods.


Don't know why I don't equate yeast infections just don't.
Again our bond isn't weighed on telling him about my yeast,

Especially after the things that get said here and the minor things that some ppl don't tolerate.
This is wierd




Interesting word choice. Weird indeed.

BHM is so interesting to me, between this and the drinking thread I've learned so much about people today.
LOLYeah.


Posted By: ThatGurlD
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:28pm
^^^I need to check out the drinking thread...


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:30pm
Watched my mom get an epidural and give birth...that sh*t was not beautiful

she told me years later she made me stay in the room so i'd be scared to have sex and get pregnant...

at age 12 i asked if i could get my tubes tied...i was that f*cked up by the experience



Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:31pm
Yes, I would tell him. Knowing him he would want to apply the medication himself. He asked if he can put a tampon in for me. He's fascinated by my vag.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:33pm
Y'all doing this too BHM?
I can get reasons for telling your man about a yeast .
But are y'all ok with him inserting the tampon too bc y'all cool like that ?


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:36pm
I didn't say I let him do it, I said he wanted to(I'm sure he was half joking). He's watched me insert before bc he was curious.


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:37pm
Originally posted by femmefatale85 femmefatale85 wrote:

Watched my mom get an epidural and give birth...that sh*t was not beautiful

she told me years later she made me stay in the room so i'd be scared to have sex and get pregnant...

at age 12 i asked if i could get my tubes tied...i was that f*cked up by the experience



that sh*t worked for me and it ain't beautiful to me either
all those women screaming in the wardLOL
I was like jeezus get me the f*ck outta here!!
The first time my mother did not use drugs. That sh*t was carnal.


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 10:06pm
you seemed embarrassed/ashamed.. that's why it is weird to me.


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 10:13pm
Hmm...I don't think I would tell but then again I'm single so hmph


Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 10:24pm
It depends on the relationship and what all youre  cool with sharing at that point....

of course a yeast infection is, unfortunately, an inevitable experience in most women's lives.. but so is defecation, and some women may not be comfortable with telling their boyfriend "Aye, lemme call you back in a few, stomachs bubbling, gotta take a massive dump.... ok hey boo, I'm back, now what was you saying about wanting to lick my kitty ?"

That's extreme, but the point is.. to some women it's a private event (and has negative connotations to some), and IF they're not going to be f*cking him while they're yeasty, it's ok to not tell him.

One of my old relationships, I wouldn't have brought it up (if not necessary), and another ..sure, I would have loved to describe the matter in details for sh*ts and giggles. It just depends.



Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 10:25pm
Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

It depends on the relationship and what all youre  cool with sharing at that point....

of course a yeast infection is, unfortunately, an inevitable experience in most women's lives.. but so is defecation, and some women may not be comfortable with telling their boyfriend "Aye, lemme call you back in a few, stomachs bubbling, gotta take a massive dump.... ok hey boo, I'm back, now what was you saying about wanting to lick my kitty ?"

That's extreme, but the point is.. to some women it's a private event (and has negative connotations to some), and IF they're not going to be f*cking him while they're yeasty, it's ok to not tell him.

One of my old relationships, I wouldn't have brought it up (if not necessary), and another ..sure, I would have loved to describe the matter in details for sh*ts and giggles. It just depends.

LOLI love imagining voices during your posts.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 10:26pm
Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

It depends on the relationship and what all youre  cool with sharing at that point....

of course a yeast infection is, unfortunately, an inevitable experience in most women's lives.. but so is defecation, and some women may not be comfortable with telling their boyfriend "Aye, lemme call you back in a few, stomachs bubbling, gotta take a massive dump.... ok hey boo, I'm back, now what was you saying about wanting to lick my kitty ?"





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Posted By: Im_oh_so_hott
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 10:31pm
Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

It depends on the relationship and what all youre  cool with sharing at that point....

of course a yeast infection is, unfortunately, an inevitable experience in most women's lives.. but so is defecation, and some women may not be comfortable with telling their boyfriend "Aye, lemme call you back in a few, stomachs bubbling, gotta take a massive dump.... ok hey boo, I'm back, now what was you saying about wanting to lick my kitty ?"

That's extreme, but the point is.. to some women it's a private event (and has negative connotations to some), and IF they're not going to be f*cking him while they're yeasty, it's ok to not tell him.

One of my old relationships, I wouldn't have brought it up (if not necessary), and another ..sure, I would have loved to describe the matter in details for sh*ts and giggles. It just depends.



Posted By: HunnyB
Date Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 10:34pm
This threadLOL

....juice grapefruits for 3 weeks straight once a day and that will get the flora in your body straightBig smile





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