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Topic: Tying down your hair at night
Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Subject: Tying down your hair at night
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 2:47pm
I know it's probably been done before, but how do you manage to look cute at bedtime? Pics? Solange's thread prompted this



Replies:
Posted By: tropical-punch
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 3:21pm
Cute for what?


Posted By: Meme0887
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 3:23pm
Cute for sex?

Men don't care lol





Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 3:23pm
Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

Cute for what?


To remain coquettish at all times and in all circumstances???


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 3:24pm
Originally posted by Meme0887 Meme0887 wrote:

Cute for sex?

Men don't care lol





Sex may or may not ensue but I gotta maintain.


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 3:25pm
Originally posted by thewonderfulwa thewonderfulwa wrote:

I wear a hair net at night.


Every single night? Oy.


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 3:26pm
I wear a hair net at night.


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 3:31pm
Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

Originally posted by thewonderfulwa thewonderfulwa wrote:

I wear a hair net at night.


Every single night? Oy.


It keeps up the curls in my weave I cant keep a scarf on my head it always ends up somewhere else


Posted By: Yardgirl
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 3:33pm
Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

Cute for what?


To remain coquettish at all times and in all circumstances???

You did not use the word "coquettish" LOL  Lawd


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 3:33pm
Originally posted by thewonderfulwa thewonderfulwa wrote:

Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

Originally posted by thewonderfulwa thewonderfulwa wrote:

I wear a hair net at night.


Every single night? Oy.


It keeps up the curls in my weave I cant keep a scarf on my head it always ends up somewhere else


Well, that's a given that the scarf's gonna end up in the living room at one point. But I can't fall asleep already looking a mess


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 3:34pm
Originally posted by Yardgirl Yardgirl wrote:

Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

Cute for what?


To remain coquettish at all times and in all circumstances???


You did not use the word "coquettish" LOL  Lawd


   Yes, yes I did


Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 3:40pm
a hair bonnet ain't never stopped me from giving no head or riding no dack
hell pull it off when we getting it popping
put it back on when we finish
he know what the fcuk it is to maintain black hair
he black as well LOL


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 3:42pm
if im home my hair is tied up.  if youve seen me at home then youve seen my hair tied up.  i didnt know black women lived any differentlyLOL


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 3:45pm
A bonnet WHILE riding? Lawd, the visual!


Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 3:49pm
Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

A bonnet WHILE riding? Lawd, the visual!

shiet I ain't trying to be like the sista in this movie

neck got a crook it in because she trying to sleep cute and not tie her hair up
if that brotha come in late or when I am wrapped up for the night and want to get it popping
yes I may be wearing a bonnet




Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 3:55pm
oh, this conversation is about sex.

man, just put the scarf on when you go get your orange juiceLOL


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 3:57pm
^^@ AA, I would never go without a scarf once I'm ready to actually go to sleep, though. Just looking for ways to tie it cute, nice fabrics and such. But the idea of licking the popsicle clean while he has a overhead view of my bonnet... It just ain't right

Now I gotta see that movie to see if I can relate


Posted By: Meme0887
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 3:58pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


I should probably care but I don't

a single friend was shocked when I told her I don't sleep in lingerie every night
 
LOL Why tho???..it's just unnecessary 

It's easier when ur damn near naked or naked anyway 


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 3:59pm
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

oh, this conversation is about sex.

man, just put the scarf on when you go get your orange juiceLOL


Not necessarily about sex per say, just if you're not sleeping alone that night...


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 4:01pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


I should probably care but I don't

a single friend was shocked when I told her I don't sleep in lingerie every night


Now that's over the top. I can do casual. But if I'm sleeping in sweats, it's not gonna be the most raggedy one. I still gotta be cute.


Posted By: miana79
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 5:08pm
Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

A bonnet WHILE riding? Lawd, the visual!


Lol


Posted By: harley_quinn
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 5:10pm
I usually wear a scarf...and I think it's cute lol. Sometimes I walk around the house with my scarf on. I need to get one of those satin bonnets tho because my scarf always end up on the floor.


Posted By: miana79
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 5:11pm
I usually wrap with a silk head scarf..if things are going to pop off I take it off.


Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 5:12pm
Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

^^@ AA, I would never go without a scarf once I'm ready to actually go to sleep, though. Just looking for ways to tie it cute, nice fabrics and such. But the idea of licking the popsicle clean while he has a overhead view of my bonnet... It just ain't right

Now I gotta see that movie to see if I can relate


that brotha betta not be worrying about my bonnet while I am giving head
ole ungrateful ass brotha
here I am sacrificing my fresh wrap or weave to get hot and sweaty with you
and you worried about my bonnet LOL
the nerve Angry


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 6:40pm
bonnetsssss! Cool
But if im not alone, then i'll just make sure my pillow has a satin case on it
I wish i was one of those ppl who can go to sleep with a scarf and wake up with it intact Disapprove


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 6:42pm
Good puss trumps everything
It's nice to look sexy and cute sometimes though.


Posted By: Brjasuga51
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 6:46pm
Silk bonnet...with or without company.


Posted By: TOUSHA11
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 6:51pm
[QUOTE=SamoneLenior]
I agree meme

maybe I'll buy some cute stuff over the weekend meh

oh and I celie plaits or a small bun before I go to sleep every night

what kind of lingerie goes with celie braids?
[/QUOTE) LMAO LOL


Posted By: TOUSHA11
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 6:51pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Good puss trumps everything
It's nice to look sexy and cute sometimes though.
THIS RIGHT HERE


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 7:00pm
If he can focus on the fact that I'm wearing my bonnet and actually CARE in the middle, I must not be doing something right.

I'm one of those people who ties my hair as soon as I get home. A few years ago, my boyfriend at the time used to ask me to "take that Marines beret off" .


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 7:19pm
Relaxed/weaved girl problems...


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 7:21pm
I get it girl, maintain the mystery Wink

When I wear my crotchless boyshorts to bed, I dont wear a scarf, I just let my tresses fall on my pillow.Cry

if I do wear my scarf, It does not have that I'm gang banging red bandana look to it. I made some cute ones from some fabric I picked up at Hobby Lobby and I match them with my nighgowns. 


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 7:21pm
Idk lies.

Your for doesnt get mushed and bent?

My wash and go pony looks nice still just needs a quite aloe spritz to refresh.
But let me have a twist out....no mam


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 7:24pm
I sleep naked with a bonnet


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 7:30pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Idk lies.

Your for doesnt get mushed and bent?

My wash and go pony looks nice still just needs a quite aloe spritz to refresh.
But let me have a twist out....no mam

Well my hair isn't long/loose enough to do a pineapple. I have a afro-y twist out now and I just sort of lift the side and sleep on it and when I wake up I just pull it back down. I don't have a defined twist out though or else I'd probably be able to pineapple.


Posted By: Bored w/Out Me?
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 7:31pm
Coming to bed w/pannies on is more detrimental to my DH...


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 7:31pm
And jones if it were a regular fro all I'd really need is an afro pic. My hair is really thick though.


Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 8:26pm
Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

I sleep naked with a bonnet

basically, who can be bothered with clothes 


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 8:34pm
i don't have sex with my hair wrapped...i put it on afterwards.  i've never found it to be a problem if it happens spontaneously once it is wrapped but i like riding the dack and having some hair swangin, i like gettin it hit from the back and having my hair wrapped around his hand while he pulls himself into me...idk, hair is a sex accessory as far as im concerned, weave or not.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 8:37pm
I can't describe my hair as swanging anyway though so meh.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 8:40pm
lol well swangin or not, even when the weave's out and it's in like a bun, i still want him touching my head directly.  i wouldn't want to fck a nga with a du rag on...well first off du rags are totally banned from my life period...but secondly, i don't like socks, hats, wraps, etc, anything on during sex.


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 8:42pm
buckin nekkid sex Clap


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 8:43pm
Damn not even socks lol

I can understand no timberlands like justin slayer but you want that man completely bare.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 8:46pm
lol @ timbs during sex.Dead  im convinced their feet stink

but idk, socks just seem to mess up the body to body flow.  i want it all, or nothing at allllllll


Posted By: mzsophisticated
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 8:50pm
Originally posted by Bored w/Out Me? Bored w/Out Me? wrote:

Coming to bed w/pannies on is more detrimental to my DH...
 
LOLLOL this all day. It is so funny because my friend just asked me the other day what does my hubby say when I take my wigs off at night.  I try to leave my wigs on if I buy a sexy lingerie outfit. If I am wearing the norm like booty shorts, tank, tight fit night gown, I will put on a bonnet. I do that because it's better than looking at my jailhouse braids I wear under this wigLOL


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 8:54pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Good puss trumps everything
It's nice to look sexy and cute sometimes though.

Alladis


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 8:58pm
a few years ago the bonnet to bed was a big topic over at LHCF and i think it filtered here too. hilarity. both sides of the arguments and the menses just going hard lol

My GF says, you know its love when you can take your wig off at night and hang it on his bedpost and then put it right back on in the morning LMAOOOOO. She and I effed up too many good wigs trying to be cute and sleeping in them. Man one time that thing slid clean off ( i live dangerously no bobby pins) and bf was like no problem no need to be embarrassed and kept on grinding LMAOEmbarrassed another time it came off and i screamed and hollared for him to get out/made up some excuse for him to leave the room and re-applied it SMDH


Posted By: Petty LaBelle
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 9:42pm
Bonnet.


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 9:51pm
Originally posted by AwesomeAries AwesomeAries wrote:

a hair bonnet ain't never stopped me from giving no head or riding no dack
hell pull it off when we getting it popping
put it back on when we finish
he know what the fcuk it is to maintain black hair
he black as well LOL
Real post.




I've asked him to leave his on.Embarrassed


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 10:18pm
Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

a few years ago the bonnet to bed was a big topic over at LHCF and i think it filtered here too. hilarity. both sides of the arguments and the menses just going hard lol

My GF says, you know its love when you can take your wig off at night and hang it on his bedpost and then put it right back on in the morning LMAOOOOO. She and I effed up too many good wigs trying to be cute and sleeping in them. Man one time that thing slid clean off ( i live dangerously no bobby pins) and bf was like no problem no need to be embarrassed and kept on grinding LMAOEmbarrassed another time it came off and i screamed and hollared for him to get out/made up some excuse for him to leave the room and re-applied it SMDH
LOL


Posted By: HeyBeautiful18
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 10:50pm
You better get your self a .99 satin bonnet and stop trying to be fancy



Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Feb 19 2014 at 11:59pm
Sometimes I wrap my hair and sleep with a full wig on. Im ashamed.


Posted By: yayatheprincess
Date Posted: Feb 20 2014 at 2:47am
Originally posted by Mixer Mixer wrote:

Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

a few years ago the bonnet to bed was a big topic over at LHCF and i think it filtered here too. hilarity. both sides of the arguments and the menses just going hard lol

My GF says, you know its love when you can take your wig off at night and hang it on his bedpost and then put it right back on in the morning LMAOOOOO. She and I effed up too many good wigs trying to be cute and sleeping in them. Man one time that thing slid clean off ( i live dangerously no bobby pins) and bf was like no problem no need to be embarrassed and kept on grinding LMAOEmbarrassed another time it came off and i screamed and hollared for him to get out/made up some excuse for him to leave the room and re-applied it SMDH
LOL

LOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOL this just killed me at almost 4am


Posted By: yayatheprincess
Date Posted: Feb 20 2014 at 2:50am
i personally hate tying my hair up at night. i need a new bonnet cus i had one that was giving my big head a headache.but i prefer to sleep with nothing just because i'm lazy and don't feel like taking the time to tie it up. i live with my boyfriend and he'll tell me at night "don't forget to wrap your hair or else you're gona be complaining in the morning" LOL


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Feb 20 2014 at 3:16am
Nigguhs tie their hair down too.


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Feb 20 2014 at 3:27am
Originally posted by yayatheprincess yayatheprincess wrote:

Originally posted by Mixer Mixer wrote:

Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

a few years ago the bonnet to bed was a big topic over at LHCF and i think it filtered here too. hilarity. both sides of the arguments and the menses just going hard lol

My GF says, you know its love when you can take your wig off at night and hang it on his bedpost and then put it right back on in the morning LMAOOOOO. She and I effed up too many good wigs trying to be cute and sleeping in them. Man one time that thing slid clean off ( i live dangerously no bobby pins) and bf was like no problem no need to be embarrassed and kept on grinding LMAOEmbarrassed another time it came off and i screamed and hollared for him to get out/made up some excuse for him to leave the room and re-applied it SMDH
LOL

LOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOL this just killed me at almost 4am
LOLStory of the month.


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Feb 20 2014 at 3:32am
Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

a few years ago the bonnet to bed was a big topic over at LHCF and i think it filtered here too. hilarity. both sides of the arguments and the menses just going hard lol

My GF says, you know its love when you can take your wig off at night and hang it on his bedpost and then put it right back on in the morning LMAOOOOO. She and I effed up too many good wigs trying to be cute and sleeping in them. Man one time that thing slid clean off ( i live dangerously no bobby pins) and bf was like no problem no need to be embarrassed and kept on grinding LMAOEmbarrassed another time it came off and i screamed and hollared for him to get out/made up some excuse for him to leave the room and re-applied it SMDH



CryCryCryCry


Posted By: herwoman
Date Posted: Feb 20 2014 at 7:17am
Originally posted by yayatheprincess yayatheprincess wrote:

i personally hate tying my hair up at night. i need a new bonnet cus i had one that was giving my big head a headache.but i prefer to sleep with nothing just because i'm lazy and don't feel like taking the time to tie it up. i live with my boyfriend and he'll tell me at night "don't forget to wrap your hair or else you're gona be complaining in the morning" LOL
All of this lol


Posted By: whitrhymes
Date Posted: Feb 20 2014 at 7:30am
Usually when I have a weave I don't tie it up, I'll just put it in a ponytail or a few twists.If my hair is out, I'll definitely tie it down. Either way I do something to keep it out of the way. I hate hair around my face when I'm trying to sleep.


Posted By: nemesis1
Date Posted: Feb 20 2014 at 9:00am
I just wear a scarf & make sure my whole head's covered, then I wear a bonnet over it, 'cuz my scarf sometimes slips off at night. I don't care too much about looking cute at night. Once my scarf & bonnet are on, I ain't going nowhere so it's not like anyone's seeing me.


Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Feb 20 2014 at 10:01am
Cute for bed?

wheredeydodat?ConfusedConfused






ikidLOL
Depends. If we are just plain going to sleep, who cares...but if i suspect it might be on, or i know imma want some, silk scarf stays in the drawer and i make sure that my brows are groomed. 

ya'll know some nice brows pulls it together no matter how much the rest of your face looks like shredded cabbage, yes?


Posted By: Tbaby
Date Posted: Feb 20 2014 at 10:13am
Originally posted by Meme0887 Meme0887 wrote:

Cute for sex?

Men don't care lol


and

Originally posted by Meme0887 Meme0887 wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


I should probably care but I don't

a single friend was shocked when I told her I don't sleep in lingerie every night
 
LOL Why tho???..it's just unnecessary 

It's easier when ur damn near naked or naked anyway 

IA
Meme's posts pretty much closed the thread
!


Posted By: SeducTress
Date Posted: Feb 20 2014 at 3:16pm
I coordinate my scarfs with my t-shirt and pannies.

Not matchy matchy red on red on red.

I typically wear playful victoria secret(pink) draws to bed with a fitted tank. Or cute booty-do's.

I wore "party mode" last night. Embarrassed

When I'm not in the mood my panties reflect such. They won't say sh*t. Just the standard solid color.

He caught on pretty quick

IA with wildfire. A fierce arch will bring the look together. Gawd I love being blackLOL



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