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Topic: Yall better get it right, shes NOT a baby mama
Posted By: mizzsandra00
Subject: Yall better get it right, shes NOT a baby mama
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:01pm
Lank



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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:02pm
You get right TP!


Posted By: tropical-punch
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:02pm
lol




Posted By: miana79
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:03pm
I don't see anything


Posted By: slayfresh
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:03pm
I understand her gripe about this and even women that aren't ex-wives don't like it either. It carries such a negative connotation.


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:04pm
Originally posted by miana79 miana79 wrote:

I don't see anything


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:04pm
Who is she?Confused


Posted By: tropical-punch
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:08pm
I can see it see. Here's the link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dXMkzwXcF9I" rel="nofollow - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dXMkzwXcF9I



Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:09pm
But you are the momma of his babies......dont like the titles shoulda stayed married.......meh.....


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:09pm
Before I click I'm gonna take a guess.
Is this Toya? Lil Wayne's ex wife?


Posted By: dOLLish.
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:12pm
I stopped listening after she said they exchanged vowels LOL  However, from what I heard, I can see her point.  I don't like the term "baby mama."


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:12pm
Oh , Toya says the same thing.

I giggled @ "after we said our vowels"
They are different .
But it's usually to make baby mamas look bad but there is a difference.

C'mon now


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:13pm
Originally posted by dOLLish. dOLLish. wrote:

I stopped listening after she said they exchanged vowels LOL  However, from what I heard, I can see her point.  I don't like the term "baby mama."

Girl I thought I was the only who noticed that girl. Eff buying a "vowel" she exchanged "vouwlessss". LOL


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:13pm
Y'all trying it......that term is accurate tho....needing to hear someone call you the ex wife is just to make you feel better......but at the end of the day you're still a divorcee.....


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:14pm
she's absolutely right and everyone know the difference between a wife and mother and a baby's momma.  the only people pretending there is no difference are baby mommas.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:14pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Y'all trying it......that term is accurate tho....needing to hear someone call you the ex wife is just to make you feel better......but at the end of the day you're still a divorcee.....


You know what she means and you know there is a difference.
I agree it's just to make baby mamas look bad but yes there is a difference.

You trying it Sandy

Connotations ppl....


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:15pm
<------Has no kids feels that after the divorce there is pretty much no difference......ask a man 


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:18pm
I asked.
It's not the same

They would call her his ex wife.

Baby mama has different connotations


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:18pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Y'all trying it......that term is accurate tho....needing to hear someone call you the ex wife is just to make you feel better......but at the end of the day you're still a divorcee.....


You know what she means and you know there is a difference.
I agree it's just to make baby mamas look bad but yes there is a difference.

You trying it Sandy

Connotations ppl....

Getting up in your feelings about a term that applies to your situation is trying it.....forget connotations.....these chicks just want validation......worry about your kids broken home and not a datum titles.....


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:20pm
I agree it's all about them feeling like they are better than baby mama.
But...I do think there is a difference.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:21pm
So if you and Mr00 get married have kids and divorce you would refer to him as your baby daddy and not ex husband?


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:21pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

So if you and Mr00 get married have kids and divorce you would refer to him as your baby daddy and not ex husband?

We won't....Big smile


But lets be be clear what I refer to him as and what other do is different.....He would be my ex husband to me but to everyone else he would currently be the father of my children. aka my baby daddy....I feel like the only connection that would be acknowledged after a divorce is the children.....if no one knew I had children initially and asked I would say he is the father of such and such......the fact we were married wouldn't even matter....imho......




Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:22pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:


It's not the same

They would call her his ex wife.

Baby mama is different


Posted By: GoodGirlGoneGr8
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:26pm
But she's both...you're an ex-wife and a current baby mama.

An ex-wife doesn't denote the fact that you have a child, and a baby's mama doesn't denote the fact that you've been married...so why isn't she equally upset that the term ex-wife is a dis to her child?

If you're no longer his wife, why is hanging on to that title so important?


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:27pm
Originally posted by slayfresh slayfresh wrote:

I understand her gripe about this and even women that aren't ex-wives don't like it either. It carries such a negative connotation.
Yep. But shaming women is nothing new in deez skreets.




Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:28pm


i agree with sandra....

this is a validation issue


yes ex-wife is different than just a regular "babymama"

but at the end of the day thats what she is..no matter how she wants to dress it....... his baby's momma

i would hate to be called so and so's ex-wife for the rest of my life, especially since you're expected to move on









Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:28pm
i have heard ignant married people use that term


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:29pm
Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

But she's both...you're an ex-wife and a current baby mama.

An ex-wife doesn't denote the fact that you have a child, and a baby's mama doesn't denote the fact that you've been married...so why isn't she equally upset that the term ex-wife is a dis to her child?

If you're no longer his wife, why is hanging on to that title so important?


Oh I like you you get it......LOLLOLLOL


And at the red.....cause some women aint got shyt else going for them......aka Toya Wright.....


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:29pm
Baby mama has that tried to skeet her and delete her but couldn't bc I fuked up kinda vibe.
Ex wife and mother of my kids has that we tried to build a life together but we didn't work out but still made these beautiful kids kinda vibe.


Y'all know that.
I don't make up the rules but those are the supposed connotations


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:33pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Baby mama has that tried to skeet her and delete her but couldn't bc I fuked up kinda vibe.
Ex wife and mother of my kids has that we tried to build a life together but we didn't work out but still made these beautiful kids kinda vibe.


Y'all know that.
I don't make up the rules but those are the supposed connotations


The assumptions are the real issue in our community......





Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:34pm
Skeet & delete...Imma steal this saying.LOL


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:34pm
That lady don't care bout all that.
She just don't want y'all to get it twisted.


Nvm


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:35pm
So jones if your boo knocks you up and y'all aint married I can assume you're nothing more that a skeet and delete fail......good to know......I will write that in the BHM Never Forgets: Guide to SHADE.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:36pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

That lady don't care bout all that.
She just don't want y'all to get it twisted.


I don't think the assumptions are the problem in our community moreso the reality

She's cares if we get it twist but she don't care......giiiiiiiirl.....


Posted By: bunzaveli
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:37pm
is her baby daddy white ?


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:38pm
i think people use it to be disrespectful. 
i wonder how many would call bey jay's baby momma if they divorced?


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:38pm
I ain't say that's what unwed mothers are I said that the connotations are such.

I put nevermind bc I didn't want this convo to turn into a community convo.
But yeah I think the attitude men have about sex and their sexual partners and the after math is a problem.

If me and my sugar pop cantaloupe were expecting a baby today I would be his baby mama and that negro would be my baby daddy and I'd have to claim it.
We ain't married.



Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:39pm
Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

is her baby daddy white ?


I was getting to this.....LOL


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:39pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

That lady don't care bout all that.
She just don't want y'all to get it twisted.


I don't think the assumptions are the problem in our community moreso the reality


She's cares if we get it twist but she don't care......giiiiiiiirl.....
naw she doesn't care about the problems in the community as far as assumptions go.
Sandy you trying it?


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:40pm
Sandy distracted me I was gonna ask if there was anybody on youtube without a white man


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:41pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I ain't say that's what unwed mothers are I said that the connotations are such.

I put nevermind bc I didn't want this convo to turn into a community convo.
But yeah I think the attitude men have about sex and their sexual partners and the after math is a problem.

If me and my sugar pop cantaloupe were expecting a baby today I would be his baby mama and that negro would be my baby daddy and I'd have to claim it.
We ain't married.



Skeet and delete fail is the correct term.....your words.....

Y'all wasn't on shyt cause y'all aint make it to the alter......fukk yo relationship....youre just a fuk that he regrets.......which is basically what you were saying....





Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:43pm
In before things get messy I get skeeted and deleted on. 

#TeamJonesLOL


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:43pm
Yes bc those are the connotations of baby mama right or wrong ;, true or false those are the negative things that come yo mind.


Huh, you disagree with that,
This thread isn't about what I think it's about what ppl generally think of when they use that term...
Cmon


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:45pm
Girl you calling me sandy like you know me.....Mz00 is fine.




Posted By: Oladunni
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:45pm
She is not a baby mama..
She did not have her children out of wedlock.


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:45pm
Hmmm.

http://24.media.tumblr.com/430f2b763ddcfe8149067ad635f09f64/tumblr_mkbvs0wPPZ1qcps22o1_500.gif" rel="nofollow">


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:45pm
Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

who cares


Someone who clearly hasn't completely moved one.....


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:46pm
who cares


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:46pm
if a man referred to a woman as his baby momma, most people wouldn't consider that he was once married to that woman..
or might still beDead



Posted By: Oladunni
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:46pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

who cares


Someone who clearly hasn't completely moved one.....

not true.. it's just seen as a disrespectful term tbh..




Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:48pm
smh..


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:48pm
Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

who cares


Someone who clearly hasn't completely moved one.....

not true.. it's just seen as a disrespectful term tbh..



It doesn't matter how its seen thats just what it is.....


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:49pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Girl you calling me sandy like you know me.....Mz00 is fine.





Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:51pm
Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

She is not a baby mama..
She did not have her children out of wedlock.
lol


Posted By: Oladunni
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:52pm
n let's keep it all the way funky certain terms can't be applied to certain ppl
e.g.

a child born out of wedlock= bastard ( hate the word)
If i have a child within wedlock and i divorce my husband my child is still not a bastard.

She is not a baby mama...


Posted By: tropical-punch
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:53pm
she had the babies (or at least one) before they were married tho....so at one point she was what she so much "disgusts".


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ox3w3ZWUmmE" rel="nofollow - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ox3w3ZWUmmE


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:53pm
oh wait,
jay does call bey his baby momma

"my baby momma harder than a lot of you ni99as"Dead


final conclusion, baby momma is a term used by hood as ni99as regardless of current or previous marital status.

the end.


Posted By: Oladunni
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:53pm
Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

she had the babies (or at least one) before they were married tho....so at one point she was what she so much "disgusts".


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ox3w3ZWUmmE" rel="nofollow - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ox3w3ZWUmmE


See that is different. she didn't say that in the vid.. she said we exchanged vows and raised these children together..
She def was a baby mama b4....!


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:53pm
Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

she had the babies (or at least one) before they were married tho....so at one point she was what she so much "disgusts".


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ox3w3ZWUmmE" rel="nofollow - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ox3w3ZWUmmE


I wish I had enough seats for y'all to have........LOLLOLLOLLOLLOL




Posted By: bunzaveli
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:54pm
Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

she had the babies (or at least one) before they were married tho....so at one point she was what she so much "disgusts".


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ox3w3ZWUmmE" rel="nofollow - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ox3w3ZWUmmE





Posted By: GoodGirlGoneGr8
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:55pm
But the term ex-wife is neglecting the fact that she has a child...

So if I understand correctly, y'all find it more important to be associated with a former husband than your current child...


Muy interesante.



Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:56pm


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:57pm
Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

n let's keep it all the way funky certain terms can't be applied to certain ppl
e.g.

a child born out of wedlock= bastard ( hate the word)
If i have a child within wedlock and i divorce my husband my child is still not a bastard.

She is not a baby mama...

Dang that hurt my feelings Ouch


Posted By: Oladunni
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:57pm
Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

But the term ex-wife is neglecting the fact that she has a child...

So if I understand correctly, y'all find it more important to be associated with a former husband than your current child...


Muy interesante.


It's not that serious.. n
let's be real.. ANY1 can be a baby momma , everyone won't become a wife..


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:57pm
Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

n let's keep it all the way funky certain terms can't be applied to certain ppl
e.g.

a child born out of wedlock= bastard ( hate the word)
If i have a child within wedlock and i divorce my husband my child is still not a bastard.

She is not a baby mama...

She is a baby mama. The other is a bastard mama. 


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:59pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

But the term ex-wife is neglecting the fact that she has a child...

So if I understand correctly, y'all find it more important to be associated with a former husband than your current child...


Muy interesante.



I don't really see what that has to do with anything

so she she be called an ex-wife baby momma?

b/c without the ex-wife we are neglecting the fact that they were married

is ex-wife baby momma the best compromise?


Their divorce neglected the marriage tho LOL


Posted By: slayfresh
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 7:59pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

So if you and Mr00 get married have kids and divorce you would refer to him as your baby daddy and not ex husband?

We won't....Big smile


But lets be be clear what I refer to him as and what other do is different.....He would be my ex husband to me but to everyone else he would currently be the father of my children. aka my baby daddy....I feel like the only connection that would be acknowledged after a divorce is the children.....if no one knew I had children initially and asked I would say he is the father of such and such......the fact we were married wouldn't even matter....imho......




and this is what it boils down to. now the only time someone has ever used the terms BM/BD around me is to try to get a rise out of me or to be nosy as to my marital status or if my fiance is the father of my daughter or not. so maybe whoever this coworker is was trying to start some sh*t.


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:00pm
Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

oh wait,
jay does call bey his baby momma

"my baby momma harder than a lot of you ni99as"Dead


final conclusion, baby momma is a term used by hood as ni99as regardless of current or previous marital status.

the end.
He also refers to her as a b!tch in some songs but in a good way!Big smileDeadLOL


Posted By: bunzaveli
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:00pm
Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

lol




based off the fact she was a baby momma, her whole video turns into a cluster fcuk after 2:00


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:01pm
I would agree with her if she hasn't had kids BEFORE the marriage.

If you get married, have kids, and THEN things don't work out you're an ex wife/mother of his children.

If you get knocked up at any point before you get that ring and jump the broom, then you're a baby mama.

Nothing wrong with that. It is what it is. Women shouldn't let the term "baby mama"effect and offend them.


Posted By: GoodGirlGoneGr8
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:01pm
Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

But the term ex-wife is neglecting the fact that she has a child...

So if I understand correctly, y'all find it more important to be associated with a former husband than your current child...


Muy interesante.


It's not that serious.. n
let's be real.. ANY1 can be a baby momma , everyone won't become a wife..


What good is claiming wife status when you're divorced?


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:02pm
Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

But the term ex-wife is neglecting the fact that she has a child...

So if I understand correctly, y'all find it more important to be associated with a former husband than your current child...


Muy interesante.


It's not that serious.. n
let's be real.. ANY1 can be a baby momma , everyone won't become a wife..


What good is claiming wife status when you're divorced?




Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:03pm
Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

But the term ex-wife is neglecting the fact that she has a child...

So if I understand correctly, y'all find it more important to be associated with a former husband than your current child...


Muy interesante.


It's not that serious.. n
let's be real.. ANY1 can be a baby momma , everyone won't become a wife..


What good is claiming wife status when you're divorced?
What about Step brothers and sisters. Are they automatically regular individual after a divorce?


Posted By: bunzaveli
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:03pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

But the term ex-wife is neglecting the fact that she has a child...

So if I understand correctly, y'all find it more important to be associated with a former husband than your current child...


Muy interesante.


It's not that serious.. n
let's be real.. ANY1 can be a baby momma , everyone won't become a wife..


What good is claiming wife status when you're divorced?




she holds her failed marriage in very high regard


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:03pm
I understand transsexuals .
"Tranny" isn't offensive on its face but when you get down to it they take it as disrespect.
Baby mama is meant to be offensive you know what ppl mean with they say it especially in regards to black ppl.
Even the grammar of it...

Baby mama and mother of my children are different not because of the words but what ppl intend when they say it.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:04pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

But the term ex-wife is neglecting the fact that she has a child...

So if I understand correctly, y'all find it more important to be associated with a former husband than your current child...


Muy interesante.


It's not that serious.. n
let's be real.. ANY1 can be a baby momma , everyone won't become a wife..




Not true.....both aren't difficult to achieve some will never achieve both....


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:04pm
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

oh wait,
jay does call bey his baby momma

"my baby momma harder than a lot of you ni99as"Dead


final conclusion, baby momma is a term used by hood as ni99as regardless of current or previous marital status.

the end.
He also refers to her as a b!tch in some songs but in a good way!Big smileDeadLOL


Of course.
He can't lose credibility with his fan base


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:05pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I understand transsexuals .
"Tranny" isn't offensive on its face but when you get down to it they take it as disrespect.
Baby mama is meant to be offensive you know what ppl mean with they say it especially in regards to black ppl.
Even the grammar of it,

Baby mama and mother of my children are different not because of the words but what ppl intend when they say it.

Let's leave the trans people out of it. Because I'm pretty sure that word is offensive periodLOL


Posted By: tropical-punch
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:06pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

So jones if your boo knocks you up and y'all aint married I can assume you're nothing more that a skeet and delete fail......good to know......I will write that in the BHM Never Forgets: Guide to SHADE.
lol. damn.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:06pm
Yeah I know ppl are cool with it too.
I was gonna type more but I got tired


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:08pm
Nvm


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:10pm
its not hard to be a BM.. all you have to do is lay down. 

there was most likely some love and honor that came with making someone your wife..
regardless of when the ring came.. it came. 

she is more than a BM... she is also his ex-wife. 


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:10pm
Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

But the term ex-wife is neglecting the fact that she has a child...

So if I understand correctly, y'all find it more important to be associated with a former husband than your current child...


Muy interesante.


It's not that serious.. n
let's be real.. ANY1 can be a baby momma , everyone won't become a wife..


What good is claiming wife status when you're divorced?
What about Step brothers and sisters. Are they automatically regular individual after a divorce?

Yep......and they can legally marryLOL




Posted By: Oladunni
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:11pm
Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

But the term ex-wife is neglecting the fact that she has a child...

So if I understand correctly, y'all find it more important to be associated with a former husband than your current child...


Muy interesante.


It's not that serious.. n
let's be real.. ANY1 can be a baby momma , everyone won't become a wife..


What good is claiming wife status when you're divorced?

sheyatt ... if his last name was mine for seven years.. nicca i was his wife. not his bm...
don't like the term point blank...


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:12pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

its not hard to be a BM.. all you have to do is lay down. 

there was most likely some love and honor that came with making someone your wife..
regardless of when the ring came.. it came. 

she is more than a BM... she is also his ex-wife. 


Interesting.....


Posted By: Oladunni
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:13pm
dp


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:13pm
Should I wait for y'all to compare baby momma to nigger?


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:14pm
Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

But the term ex-wife is neglecting the fact that she has a child...

So if I understand correctly, y'all find it more important to be associated with a former husband than your current child...


Muy interesante.


It's not that serious.. n
let's be real.. ANY1 can be a baby momma , everyone won't become a wife..


What good is claiming wife status when you're divorced?

sheyatt ... if his last name was mine for seven years.. nicca i was his wife. not his bm...
don't like the term point blank...

Stop holding on to the pastLOL


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:14pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

But the term ex-wife is neglecting the fact that she has a child...

So if I understand correctly, y'all find it more important to be associated with a former husband than your current child...


Muy interesante.


It's not that serious.. n
let's be real.. ANY1 can be a baby momma , everyone won't become a wife..


What good is claiming wife status when you're divorced?

<span style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 1.4;">What about Step brothers and sisters. Are they automatically regular individual after a divorce?</span>


Yep......and they can legally marryLOL

see and this is why oversimplifying things don't always make sense.




In a twisted way this is how woody allen oks his bull.
He just says oh she's of no blood relation and we started when she was grown.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:15pm
TP messy as hell


Posted By: Oladunni
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:15pm
not all bm's are created equal..
we got couples who been together forever and had a good relationship had a child and just grew apart
we got the never wanted to get married but want some kids couples
n we got the just *&%^$#@Eed and she got knocked up bm's..

but they all bm's at the end of the day


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:15pm
TP messy as hell


Posted By: tropical-punch
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:15pm
So she has a formspring so you can ask her anything you want, see if she'll answer.

http://new.spring.me/#!/user/starsince1987/timeline" rel="nofollow - http://new.spring.me/#!/user/starsince1987/timeline


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:16pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

But the term ex-wife is neglecting the fact that she has a child...

So if I understand correctly, y'all find it more important to be associated with a former husband than your current child...


Muy interesante.


It's not that serious.. n
let's be real.. ANY1 can be a baby momma , everyone won't become a wife..


What good is claiming wife status when you're divorced?

<span style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 1.4;">What about Step brothers and sisters. Are they automatically regular individual after a divorce?</span>


Yep......and they can legally marryLOL

see and this is why oversimplifying things don't always make sense.




In a twisted way this is how woody allen oks his bull.
He just says oh she's of no blood relation and we started when she was grown.


So now we're comparing this to blatant pedophilia?

I can't....yall love to try it......


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:16pm
lol at more than a baby's mom.

Lawd...BHM and arbitrary terms. 


Posted By: Oladunni
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:17pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

But the term ex-wife is neglecting the fact that she has a child...

So if I understand correctly, y'all find it more important to be associated with a former husband than your current child...


Muy interesante.


It's not that serious.. n
let's be real.. ANY1 can be a baby momma , everyone won't become a wife..


What good is claiming wife status when you're divorced?

sheyatt ... if his last name was mine for seven years.. nicca i was his wife. not his bm...
don't like the term point blank...

Stop holding on to the pastLOL

LOL


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:18pm
Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

not all bm's are created equal..
we got couples who been together forever and had a good relationship had a child and just grew apart
we got the never wanted to get married but want some kids couples
n we got the just *&%^$#@Eed and she got knocked up bm's..

but they all bm's at the end of the day

The fact that it means that much to break it down is sad. 


Posted By: tropical-punch
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:18pm
http://www.google.com/url?sa=i&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=images&cd=&docid=xPYFR5soH0dE3M&tbnid=-bSmJA3ufz4sQM:&ved=0CAUQjRw&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.lipstickalley.com%2Fshowthread.php%3Fp%3D14870503&ei=lpP1UoDUEOvw2gWQ8oHQDA&bvm=bv.60983673,d.b2I&psig=AFQjCNFRsPLQRoBvaFqBc3B2hZTxGYHONQ&ust=1391912211441534" rel="nofollow">http://img195.imageshack.us/img195/6073/tumblrmmup7qlhrh1ryreuj.gif


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:18pm
So you wouldn't find it weird if step brothers and sisters get married?
Or if someone just anyone marries their ex wife's adopted daughter?

Forget Woody specifically.
Honestly you would shrug and say it's all the same?


Posted By: Oladunni
Date Posted: Feb 07 2014 at 8:19pm
Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

not all bm's are created equal..
we got couples who been together forever and had a good relationship had a child and just grew apart
we got the never wanted to get married but want some kids couples
n we got the just *&%^$#@Eed and she got knocked up bm's..

but they all bm's at the end of the day

The fact that it means that much to break it down is sad. 

it's not that serious i chose to post it. cuz i could and it took me a couple of secs..
what's so sad?



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