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Posted By: Alias_Avi
Subject: White escort talks about Black Male clients
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 10:56am
Black Men

by http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/author/maggiemcneill/" rel="nofollow - Maggie McNeill

http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/author/maggiemcneill/" rel="nofollow -

Even now, now, very now, an old black ram is tupping your white ewe. -  William Shakespeare, Othello (I, i)

I couldn’t continue to call myself honest if I avoided a subject merely because it isn’t politically correct, and since I raised the subject in yesterday’s column it’s time to talk about it in full.  Though I cannot speak for escorts in other cities, it is a fact that most of them in New Orleans dislike seeing black men.  Please put aside your tired stereotypes about Southern racism before reading any further, because this aversion has nothing to do with bigotry and everything to do with the way many black men behave toward prostitutes.  The strongest proof of this I can offer you is that while most white girls can be persuaded to see a black client if he is well-spoken and/or lives in an affluent neighborhood or stays in an expensive hotel, many black escorts will not see a black man under any circumstances; in the words of Tina (a simply gorgeous black girl who was Flavor of the Month for quite a while), “They’re too cheap, too rough and too full of themselves.”

Obviously, this isn’t true of all black men; I had several black regulars over the years (including a salesman who saw me about once a week for quite a while), and the only complaint I ever had about any of them was that one poor guy tried so hard to make himself agreeable to me that his skin always smelled and tasted like soap!  But what about the rest of them?  I’m afraid I have to agree with Tina; the majority do tend to be exactly as she described, and I think the reason they are that way has to do with their subculture. For reasons http://thenewblackmagazine.com/view.aspx?index=537" rel="nofollow - others are more qualified to analyze than I, the typical male role model for young black men is exaggeratedly masculine, physical rather than intellectual and tends toward violence; he is a sports star, a “gangsta” or a “bad-ass” action hero.  And one doesn’t need to be a sociologist to recognize that this self-inflicted stereotype is related to a deep current of misogyny in the black community;


 

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it has become fashionable in recent years to blame “hip-hop” culture for all this, but that’s utter nonsense.  The stereotype of black male physical prowess goes back as far as the legend of John Henry, the myth of the Negro as sexual superman goes back long before Mandingo, and the breakdown in gender relations in the black community started many years before anyone ever heard of “hip-hop”.

Because these warped ideals instill in young black men the notion that women will crawl to a “real man”, they come to believe that their maleness and sexual potency should be enough to attract all the women they want; this of course results in deep feelings of resentment when they find that it is no more true for them than for men of any other color.  So when a black man (especially a young one) finds himself in the position of actually having to pay for sex, he is bound and determined to get as much for his money as possible in order to justify the expenditure.  Their attitude is basically “If I’m going to pay for coochie, it had better be good!”  Consequently, black men are well-known for trying to talk girls’ prices down and/or time requirements up, for trying to get every service they can think of included, and for using every last minute of the call in active sexual activity.

This resentment no doubt also fuels their excessive roughness; a man who is angry at a woman isn’t likely to treat her gently.  The very fact that a woman has charged him is perceived as an insult to his masculinity and sexual potency, and this in turn engenders an “I’ll show her!” mentality.  The typical black man seems to believe that the point of intercourse is to damage a woman’s sexual equipment as much as possible; I’ve heard more than a few of them say “I’m going to bust that coochie up!” and they constantly attempt to raise one’s legs up so as to penetrate as deeply as possible even if they’re already bottoming out.  The most egregious example of this behavior is the bizarre technique I already mentioned in my column of http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2010/08/16/aversions/" rel="nofollow - August 16 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2010/08/16/aversions/" rel="nofollow - th , which involves the man constantly moving his hips from side to side, trying to enter the woman from as many different angles as possible, as though he were trying to distend or even puncture the vaginal walls.  When the man who does this is of average size it’s merely uncomfortable, but if he is well-endowed it can be excruciating.  And this, of course, brings us to Tina’s third complaint; if a woman can’t tolerate the pain of this strange activity and pulls away or asks him to stop, he concludes he is “too much man for her” and his ego is restored from the damage dealt by having to pay for what he needed.

I mentioned above that few black escorts would consent to see a black client, but it was rare that one ever got the chance to anyway; in the entire time I owned my service, I only once had a black client ask specifically for a black girl.  Most of the time they ask for white girls, often for blondes, and occasionally for Asians, but never black girls.

 

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To a large degree white women represent a “forbidden fruit” to black men, something that was off-limits to them for a long time; and though society no longer prohibits interracial relationships a white sex partner still spells success to many black men, which is why so many wealthy ones (such as O.J. Simpson and Tiger Woods) marry white, usually blonde, women.  Those who don’t request white women generally express no color preference at all; I suspect these are mature and experienced enough to have learned of the way hookers feel about black men and don’t wish to limit their chances of getting a woman to see them.

In my experience, intelligent black men do their best to offset the stereotype by being as generous and appreciative as possible; one of my favorite mid-career regulars was such a man.  When I first spoke to him I was not even aware that he was black; he lacked either the dialectal accent or the characteristic vocal timbre of a black man.  He lived in a large and beautiful house in an affluent section of town, and when he opened the front door the first words out of his mouth were, “I forgot to mention on the phone that I’m black, so if you don’t want to stay I’ll understand and pay your cancellation fee.”

I replied, “There’s a vast difference between a gentleman who happens to be black and a hoodlum from the projects.”

He was visibly relieved and said “I’m glad you feel that way; a lot of escorts don’t.”

Since it was obvious to me that he was an intelligent, reasonable man who would not be offended, I explained why many of them felt that way and added, “But you accepted my price without argument and it’s clear you don’t have an overinflated ego, so I don’t think you’ll be rough either.”  He promised he would not be, and indeed he wasn’t.

As his house suggested, he was quite wealthy; he owned several fast-food restaurants around town, so he could afford to call me fairly often, and sometimes he tipped me with certificates for free food at his restaurants (which I appreciated, since I enjoyed that chain).  He was a gentle, considerate lover who never did that weird hip-swiveling thing, and rather than insist on filling every minute with physical activity he enjoyed lying with me and talking afterward.  There was not a trace of misogyny in his character, either; he respected my intelligence and would talk to me about an independent study he was making in order to expand into another business.  He even took the trouble to let me know when he became seriously involved with a woman so I wouldn’t wonder why he had stopped calling me, and though I always hated to lose a good client I was certainly happy he had found someone to share his life with.

Whores are the most pragmatic of all women; I can assure you that if more black men were like this client most of them would have no more issue with black men than with white ones.  I said at the beginning that I don’t know for sure that working girls in cities other than New Orleans feel the same way about black clients, but I suspect they do because the norms of American black culture which give rise to the offensive behaviors are the same all over this country, and I never noticed a difference between locals and tourists.  If New Orleans Ladies are more sensitive to the problem than our sisters elsewhere, it is most likely because the city had a black majority and thereby offered more opportunity to discover it.


*taken from LSA*




Replies:
Posted By: DiorShowGirl
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 11:12am
*pulls up a chair and gots my snacks and kool-aid ready*


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 11:15am
So prostitutes/escorts want to be treated with respect & fair pay some of his complaints seems to come with being in that industry. Im sure there are LEVELS to selling your ass if you are on a corner a dollar is a dollar can you afford to refuse someone based on their race...lmao.


Posted By: K_Camille
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 11:18am
I read this and I just stared.  Even as a prostitute, bish feels entitled.  I'm not mad; this sh*t is rich.


Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 11:18am
lol @ OJ & Tiger Woods.....At least Tiger still has money and is not in jail....


Posted By: Over_all
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 11:23am
But your a prostituteStern Smile

I never understood buying a prostitute.. They have alot of rules about the sex for a service being paid for.. 


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 11:24am
that was not worth my time.


Posted By: Alias_Avi
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 11:28am
Noticed how she basically said, in so many words, that the "best" Black male client she had was practically White (physically and otherwise)


Posted By: IslandSuga
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 11:32am
Shut yo ho ass up bish.


Posted By: Marcelo22
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 11:38am
didnt read but i have seen escort ads bluntly saying "NO BLACK MEN" lmaooo....and not only from white escorts 


Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 11:39am
Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

didnt read but i have seen escort ads bluntly saying "NO BLACK MEN" lmaooo....and not only from white escorts 

that's racist


Posted By: Over_all
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 11:40am
Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

didnt read but i have seen escort ads bluntly saying "NO BLACK MEN" lmaooo....and not only from white escorts 
Lol I've seen this on the craigslist posting 


Posted By: mrshairdo
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 11:46am
I see the point, unfortunately


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 11:50am
I read it. I have nothing intelligent to add.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 11:53am
I mean, I believe her.  


Posted By: MinnyMiss16
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 12:05pm
Daaang, whats wrong with a little "hip swivel"?


Posted By: noneyons
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 12:27pm
Originally posted by Alias_Avi Alias_Avi wrote:

Noticed how she basically said, in so many words, that the "best" Black male client she had was practically White (physically and otherwise)

I'ma have to pull a you and give you one of theseConfused


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 12:28pm
Didn't read but oh well.


Posted By: sunshine321511
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 12:38pm
Here we go again, another story about negative "black" men and positive "white" attributes.  I'm tired of it, you a HOE, shut up and fuxk and go.
 
That is what her ROLE is so stay in your lane and get your MONEY!!!


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 12:42pm
Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

didnt read but i have seen escort ads bluntly saying "NO BLACK MEN" lmaooo....and not only from white escorts 

Where have you seen these so called ads from?Geek


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 12:42pm
i didnt read… 

but if what I'm gathering from the responses is correct.. 

hos can't choose to not accept super rough, crazy shiit? 

if thats not the consensus can i get a summary or bold the main parts..? 


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 12:48pm
Interesting. .
I'm guessing I got better treatment in my sex life from black men because I was giving it away for free? Lol

What I don't like about her article is the extremely flawed assumption that black men who pay for sex are representative of black men as a whole.


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 12:50pm
Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

Didn't read but oh well.



Posted By: HaitianDiva64
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 12:57pm
Ive head the cheap thing with a lot of sex workers


Posted By: Yardgirl
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 12:58pm
I don't see what was so wrong with what she said. 


Posted By: kfoxx1998
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 12:59pm
I read the first two paragraph and was already mad so that's a little effort at leastBig smile

I simply cannot do it. 


Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:00pm
Interesting.


Posted By: Marcelo22
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:02pm
Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

didnt read but i have seen escort ads bluntly saying "NO BLACK MEN" lmaooo....and not only from white escorts 

Where have you seen these so called ads from?Geek

backpage, craigslist....they be scared of that mandingo..they ain't trying fall in love...they want clients to get in and 5 mins later be done


Posted By: csungrl09
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:11pm
Originally posted by mrshairdo mrshairdo wrote:

I see the point, unfortunately



glad im not the other one.


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:18pm
*I believe it.

*I also believe it when i hear that WOC & Transgender of Color in sex work are treated excessively aggressively by men of all ethnic groups than white female sex workers.

There is an article that I will post in a few that explains it, but think of the men that go the the caribbean (espec Dominican Republic) for sex and how they want 'around the world' and underage sex, rough sex, group sex for $20. Type amateur thai sex into any of those sex sites of your choice and you will see things like what that woman described, but the man flying to Thailand is normally not a black man...


Posted By: Jewelsnyc
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:19pm
Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

i have seen escort ads bluntly saying "NO BLACK MEN" lmaooo....and not only from white escorts 




*side eye activated*


Posted By: GG
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:21pm
I've heard amongst sex workers sexual stereotypes are blaringly true. White guys tend to be small, don't require much effort. Black men can last too long and will dig a hole to China in your stuff.


Posted By: briany
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:24pm
Damn BHM ate my post.

I see her point purely from a business standpoint, any damage sustained to her equipment could mean a loss a income.
Different types of prostitutes and rates for different services; you want to get rough you pay for it, and haggling is just a waste of their time. Find a cheaper hooker.

I also side-eye any man who thinks they can be cruel and violent towards a woman just because she is a prostitute, unless this is the service they paid for.


Posted By: Jewelsnyc
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:25pm
Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

didnt read but i have seen escort ads bluntly saying "NO BLACK MEN" lmaooo....and not only from white escorts 

Where have you seen these so called ads from?Geek

backpage, craigslist....they be scared of that mandingo..they ain't trying fall in love...they want clients to get in and 5 mins later be done
so you be scopin the back-pg of craiglist for action tho?



*creep nicca alter*


Posted By: Marcelo22
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:28pm
Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

I've heard amongst sex workers sexual stereotypes are blaringly true. White guys tend to be small, don't require much effort. Black men can last too long and will dig a hole to China in your stuff.

Brothas want their moneys worth

"Now she said its $40 a nut but I like to nut bout 3, 4 times"


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:30pm
Here is the article:

@BWofBrazil: Sex, racism and stereotypes. On reality show white guy says he "went all the through a black woman" in sex and is... http://t.co/DvPVhIwuAr

BBB14: Cássio generates controversy after saying that he “went all the way through” an “African descendant” woman


Courtesy of BOL

The gaúcho Cássio Lannes, 22, became a topic on social networks and was one of the most reverberated participants on this week’s debut of the 14th edition of BBB14.

In brief exchange with Tatá Werneck on the house of the reality show, Cássio told a story that sparked controversy. In one of the moments of relaxation with the actress and his brother Allison, the advertising student said that he was responding to criminal proceedings after “went all way through” an “afrodescendente (African descendant)” woman during a sexual act:

Cássio – It happened to me.  I’m responding to charges. Seriously, don’t laugh, it’s true. I’ve been responding to charges up to now, for murder, do you understand? Look at me and don’t laugh. You think it’s funny but I think it’s sad. I almost didn’t come in the house because of the charges. I say nega, nego (1) , because that’s what I went through…that I…sorry. Seriously. She was afrodescendente. And I thought like this, an afrodescendentes (1) is accustomed to having relations with..? With afrodescendentes. And I thought: hold up, she can handle everything. And I went all the way through her and today I’m accused of murder, you understand?”


Note from BW of Brazil: As we can see, the comment made by the reality show participant made a clear play on the stereotype of the hot, sexually insatiable http://blackwomenofbrazil.co/2012/07/01/the-brazilian-mulata-black-woman-or-something-entirely-different-2/" rel="nofollow - black/”mulata” woman . In fact, his comments touch upon images of both http://blackwomenofbrazil.co/2012/10/20/why-is-the-black-woman-seen-as-a-sex-object/" rel="nofollow - black women and http://blackwomenofbrazil.co/?s=neg%C3%A3o+sexuality" rel="nofollow - black men because, in his “joke”, he assumed that the black woman could “handle” him because, as she’s probably accustomed to being with black men sexually, and as black men are thought to be “packing”, surely she could handle what he had to offer. To be sure, his “joke” wasn’t anything that any man hasn’t heard before when just “kicking it” with his boys. Not to excuse the joke, but again, when the only image one has of women of African descent in Brazil’s mass media is the http://blackwomenofbrazil.co/?s=globeleza" rel="nofollow - Globeleza , the http://blackwomenofbrazil.co/?s=Carnaval+photos" rel="nofollow - Carnaval dancer or the http://blackwomenofbrazil.co/?s=maid+cook" rel="nofollow - maid or cook ,  these types of comments, as crude as they may be, are “acceptable” for many people. After all, an old saying in Brazil is “white woman for marriage, mulata for fornication and black woman for work.” The difference here is that he said it on TV and thus, people have to at least pretend that it is “unacceptable.” Also considering this wasn’t his first “joke” about “afrodescendentes”, you can surely believe it won’t be his last.






Posted By: Marcelo22
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:31pm
Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

didnt read but i have seen escort ads bluntly saying "NO BLACK MEN" lmaooo....and not only from white escorts 

Where have you seen these so called ads from?Geek

backpage, craigslist....they be scared of that mandingo..they ain't trying fall in love...they want clients to get in and 5 mins later be done
so you be scopin the back-pg of craiglist for action tho?



*creep nicca alter*
I'm 100% against tricking although I have been to brothels before in Brazil to see the business side of it (I never spend any money while I'm there, a friend pays for me to get in). But other sites got threads about the escort world and u learn a lot about it. 



Posted By: Jewelsnyc
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:32pm
Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

I've heard amongst sex workers sexual stereotypes are blaringly true. White guys tend to be small, don't require much effort. Black men can last too long and will dig a hole to China in your stuff.

Brothas want their moneys worth

"Now she said its $40 a nut but I like to nut bout 3, 4 times"


you nasty...



& you a cheap ass trick too?


Posted By: Marcelo22
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:36pm
That quote was from a Devin The Dude song


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:39pm
there have been countless threads on how this occurs... with black men against black women that they are 'dating'...that is how the original BHM hot pocket thread come about. Dude doesnt want to pay for a date, but wants to 'wear it out', 'beat it up', 'hit the sides', 'break the back', 'bang that back out' and send the girl off with a microwave hot pocket for her ride home and call it a date. Yes, there are people out there that want to see how rough and violent they can get away with being sexually just to say that they did it.


Posted By: GG
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:42pm
People need to stop this stereotype that all black people like it rough. I bruise and hurt too...


Posted By: kfoxx1998
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:49pm
Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

People need to stop this stereotype that all black people like it rough. I bruise and hurt too...


It never gets tired so I'll say it again - There is no man more disrespectful and harmful to a woman's body physically than a white man.   Matter of fact when a mass prostitute murder spree is going down the likely suspect is NEVER a black man. 

I have my own issues with  SOME black men and their sexual intelligence but WE know they are all talk most of the time.   Can they be loud and arrogant, hell yes.  Is there an epidemic of black men running around making sex workers lives harder.  I don't buy it. 

She wasn't being biased AT ALLConfused


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:51pm
Ain't nobody trying to pay for coochie to make love to with a chick they have no feelings for.

That's why they have wives and girlfriends at home.


Posted By: kfoxx1998
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:52pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


are they okay with white men that will pay more for rough sex?


And do they just prefer the yt men who want to be beaten and dominated because they are so used to having every gotdamn thing handed to them that they just want to feel like the pieces of sh*t that they are sometimes.  Are they suffering in their yt privileged hells and need relief before they go home and call their wife a stupid cunt

We can do stereotypes tooBig smile


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:56pm
Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

People need to stop this stereotype that all black people like it rough. I bruise and hurt too...

Clap


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 1:58pm
I needed the laugh.LOL


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 2:07pm
Originally posted by IslandSuga IslandSuga wrote:

Shut yo ho ass up bish.
LOL


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 2:10pm
Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

Ain't nobody trying to pay for coochie to make love to with a chick they have no feelings for.

That's why they have wives and girlfriends at home.


Word!


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 2:20pm
Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

Ain't nobody trying to pay for coochie to make love to with a chick they have no feelings for.

That's why they have wives and girlfriends at home.


I don't think she's asking to be made love to, just not abused.
The general detachment of meaningless sex isn't too much too ask. From her account these men are engaged and violently passionate about spending money.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 2:33pm
I used to answer the phones for a company that booked waitresses & dancers, and from what I noticed not ALL black guys but 80% would try and book a 90 minute bachelor party then try and get the girls to stay for 3 hours with the pay of "we got that purp and Remy" offers and acted like every dancer or waitress was Ronnie and them off of Players club.

The girls had to check in after the party was done and they would be like this is too much, and this wasn't from just white girls this was from the black ones too. It didn't even have to be a stripper involved some of them would do the fool on waitresses at a poker party. 

Sometimes the new girls would hear bad stories from other girls and then would say No Black Parties. I'm not defending the "policy" but all it takes is one bad apple.


Posted By: Jewelsnyc
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 2:36pm
Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

That quote was from a Devin The Dude song
still applies being that you admit going to get pum...but didn't break pockets to get it...that's like going to eat, knowing damn well you ain't got the ends to pay for the meal...trif.


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 2:37pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

I used to answer the phones for a company that booked waitresses & dancers, and from what I noticed not ALL black guys but 80% would try and book a 90 minute bachelor party then try and get the girls to stay for 3 hours with the pay of "we got that purp and Remy" offers and acted like every dancer or waitress was Ronnie and them off of Players club.

The girls had to check in after the party was done and they would be like this is too much, and this wasn't from just white girls this was from the black ones too. It didn't even have to be a stripper involved some of them would do the fool on waitresses at a poker party. 

Sometimes the new girls would hear bad stories from other girls and then would say No Black Parties. I'm not defending the "policy" but all it takes is one bad apple.

Truth...nothing but the truth. BHM aint trying to hear you though.


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 2:45pm
I'm trying to read and contemplate this white woman's words but sh*t sprinkled onto this article like this
Quote When I first spoke to him I was not even aware that he was black; he lacked either the dialectal accent or the characteristic vocal timbre of a black man.


makes it reeeeeally hard to want to read this. Black people are another species to her. She has a mixture of valid and invalid points so my reaction to this is pretty mixed but the funk of the typical ignorance of an entitled white person makes my general reaction more negative.


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 2:49pm
Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

I'm trying to read and contemplate this white woman's words but sh*t sprinkled onto this article like this
Quote When I first spoke to him I was not even aware that he was black; he lacked either the dialectal accent or the characteristic vocal timbre of a black man.


makes it reeeeeally hard to want to read this. Black people are another species to her. She has a mixture of valid and invalid points so my reaction to this is pretty mixed but the funk of the typical ignorance of an entitled white person makes my general reaction more negative.
And yet some people are agreeing with this horse sht...


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 2:52pm
Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

I used to answer the phones for a company that booked waitresses & dancers, and from what I noticed not ALL black guys but 80% would try and book a 90 minute bachelor party then try and get the girls to stay for 3 hours with the pay of "we got that purp and Remy" offers and acted like every dancer or waitress was Ronnie and them off of Players club.

The girls had to check in after the party was done and they would be like this is too much, and this wasn't from just white girls this was from the black ones too. It didn't even have to be a stripper involved some of them would do the fool on waitresses at a poker party. 

Sometimes the new girls would hear bad stories from other girls and then would say No Black Parties. I'm not defending the "policy" but all it takes is one bad apple.

Truth...nothing but the truth. BHM aint trying to hear you though.

It never made sense to me since they would be cutting $$ from their own pocket, they got a cut of the fee plus kept all their tips. Why would they stay for just tips or weed? If you paid them they could buy their own weed if that is what they chose to do. 



Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 2:54pm
I don't like this article. At all.




Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 2:54pm
Sigh...

She's not fully wrong though.. there is a huge issue with our culture and the cartoon idea of masculinity we uphold as the standard in a male. It's rampant in America's patriarchal society but I think it's WORSE in the black community because of how black men are hypermasculinized!

Should it be a shock, though? In slavery, black men were valued for their masculinity by their strength and stamina. This was coveted by slave owners (and possibly secretly their women too) and these same masculine black men reproduced.

This masculinity, though profitable for the plantations, ultimately lead to the further demonization of black men by weaponizing their masculinity. This high standard of masculinity gets adopted into black culture as the norm and of course males live a literally magnified life of patriarchy despite socioeconomic oppression.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 2:54pm
Lort if you wanna rent your cooch you can rent it to whoever you like. Are we implying racial equality on something illegal and morally wrong??


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 2:56pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


most view blacks as another species

that's why they have such a hard time having a regular conversation with you

you aren't human to them


Ouch


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 2:57pm
Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

I don't like this article. At all.


Damn, articles like this usually make you laugh. She must have struck a cord.LOLTongue


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 2:58pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Lort if you wanna rent your cooch you can rent it to whoever you like. Are we implying racial equality on something illegal and morally wrong??
LOLThis is actually a good point.


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 3:00pm
Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Sigh...

She's not fully wrong though.. there is a huge issue with our culture and the cartoon idea of masculinity we uphold as the standard in a male. It's rampant in America's patriarchal society but I think it's WORSE in the black community because of how black men are hypermasculinized!

Should it be a shock, though? In slavery, black men were valued for their masculinity by their strength and stamina. This was coveted by slave owners (and possibly secretly their women too) and these same masculine black men reproduced.

This masculinity, though profitable for the plantations, ultimately lead to the further demonization of black men by weaponizing their masculinity. This high standard of masculinity gets adopted into black culture as the norm and of course males live a literally magnified life of patriarchy despite socioeconomic oppression.
This message has been black man approved.Thumbs Up


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 3:01pm
Originally posted by Mixer Mixer wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

I don't like this article. At all.


Damn, articles like this usually make you laugh. She must have struck a cord.LOLTongue


I only laugh if it's funny...this article was not




Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 3:02pm
I recently listened to an interview by Evanni Solei...she's a black p.orn star. She had some choice words about doing black p.orn; mostly how some of the black male p.orn directors/talents are unprofessional, ghetto acting, and wanting to chill off-set instead of just paying up and going on about their day. She does both black and white p.orn but is more selective with the black p.orn.


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 3:05pm
Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Originally posted by Mixer Mixer wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

I don't like this article. At all.


Damn, articles like this usually make you laugh. She must have struck a cord.LOLTongue


I only laugh if it's funny...this article was not


So you aren't completely evil.ShockedLOL


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 3:05pm
Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

didnt read but i have seen escort ads bluntly saying "NO BLACK MEN" lmaooo....and not only from white escorts 

Where have you seen these so called ads from?Geek


http://i.imgur.com/7hw5eoW.gif


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 3:07pm
Originally posted by csungrl09 csungrl09 wrote:

Originally posted by mrshairdo mrshairdo wrote:

I see the point, unfortunately



glad im not the other one.


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 3:07pm
Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

didnt read but i have seen escort ads bluntly saying "NO BLACK MEN" lmaooo....and not only from white escorts 

Where have you seen these so called ads from?Geek

backpage, craigslist....they be scared of that mandingo..they ain't trying fall in love...they want clients to get in and 5 mins later be done


So those are all your boos and ex-girlfriends that get you scared when you can't resist going in raw and we hear all about it here. LOL


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 3:11pm
Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

I recently listened to an interview by Evanni Solei...she's a black p.orn star. She had some choice words about doing black p.orn; mostly how some of the black male p.orn directors/talents are unprofessional, ghetto acting, and wanting to chill off-set instead of just paying up and going on about their day. She does both black and white p.orn but is more selective with the black p.orn.


23:00 is when she starts talking about black and white p.orn. She mentions it some more throughout but ion feel like looking for it.




Posted By: kfoxx1998
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 3:11pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Sigh...

She's not fully wrong though.. there is a huge issue with our culture and the cartoon idea of masculinity we uphold as the standard in a male. It's rampant in America's patriarchal society but I think it's WORSE in the black community because of how black men are hypermasculinized!

Should it be a shock, though? In slavery, black men were valued for their masculinity by their strength and stamina. This was coveted by slave owners (and possibly secretly their women too) and these same masculine black men reproduced.

This masculinity, though profitable for the plantations, ultimately lead to the further demonization of black men by weaponizing their masculinity. This high standard of masculinity gets adopted into black culture as the norm and of course males live a literally magnified life of patriarchy despite socioeconomic oppression.


great post


Yes!!!!!! Clap




Posted By: kfoxx1998
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 3:15pm
I honestly could care less whether she has any valid points at all.  I was done when she used the word 'articulate'.  I literally said nope, no thanks, I'm done, can't take you seriously, nope. 


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 3:20pm
when i first read the article, the 1st thing that came to mind was 'daggering' videos. they want alla this from the escort for $20 and she aint trying to hear it lol (FF to 08:50)






Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 3:25pm
^^Dead


Posted By: GG
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 3:28pm
Damn Caribbeans!!!

The woman from the article does come off a bit entitled...


Posted By: HaitianDiva64
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 3:31pm
Love a good da


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 3:52pm
ok i read it… 

i agree with midna and PG 

there were some things that turned me off.. but i see her overall point. 

and idgaf if I'm a ho.. i won't deal with certain things and ill bluntly state who i choose not to see 


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 4:14pm
I didn't read the article but today my son told me that he doesn't like White girls, only Black girls. It was so out of the blue. I did smile a little on the inside.


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 4:29pm
I'm supposed to be upset that she doesn't wanna black men?


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 4:51pm
Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

I didn't read the article but today my so told me that he doesn't like White girls, only Black girls. It was so out of the blue. I did smile a little on the inside.


awww… kids are cute. LOL

i know your son is young though.. i wonder if he'll stay that way.

my 12 yr old cousin said she doesnt really like black guys… only white. Sleepy
she loooves harry from one direction. its like forreal..? you couldn't eem like zayn though? the one half ethnicish? 

but i think she's changing a bit.. she likes chris brown now 


Posted By: Over_all
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 5:01pm
Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

Ain't nobody trying to pay for coochie to make love to with a chick they have no feelings for.

That's why they have wives and girlfriends at home.


I don't think she's asking to be made love to, just not abused.
The general detachment of meaningless sex isn't too much too ask. From her account these men are engaged and violently passionate about spending money.

Truth.... From what I've heard from my pimp cousin women try to make the session hella quick.. for instance she doesn't want to be touched a certain way, she only wants to ride to get the nut done so they can either work on the next "client"..  


Posted By: Over_all
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 5:02pm
Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

I recently listened to an interview by Evanni Solei...she's a black p.orn star. She had some choice words about doing black p.orn; mostly how some of the black male p.orn directors/talents are unprofessional, ghetto acting, and wanting to chill off-set instead of just paying up and going on about their day. She does both black and white p.orn but is more selective with the black p.orn.


23:00 is when she starts talking about black and white p.orn. She mentions it some more throughout but ion feel like looking for it.


I always wondered how come the black women in white p.orn are so much freakier or nastier in those vs black p.orn


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 5:31pm
@Coco hope he doesn't grow out of it. I'm trying to instill self-confidence and Black Pride in to them at an early age.


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 5:34pm
Congrats on your new relationship, Ash.


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 6:01pm
@Mixer I'm on my phone so I tend to make tons of spelling errors. I was talking about my son.


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 6:05pm
lol oh


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 6:26pm
soooo, she just gonna ignore how black female slaves suffered unwanted brutal sexualization by stank, greedy white men for hundreds of years with not a towel to wipe with afterwards, let alone a few coins? That having a slave woman in the 1600's was a sign of success and achievement?
Boy, Im glad she conveniently forgets, as most whites do, how brutal and terrible white men were way back then and how we should "get over" that stuff because it was "soo long ago" and white men things are "different" now. SleepyErmm
fck dat hoe
does she not understand that everything she has said can be paralleled with what black female slaves went through for nothing? She crying cuz the way she gotta make income doesnt always satisfy her mood and expectations of the client? Get a regular job bish where HR will give a fck about ur boohoo stories


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 6:35pm
eh forgive my grammar/syntax errors Disapprove, Brothas be busy mayne


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 6:39pm
Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

I recently listened to an interview by Evanni Solei...she's a black p.orn star. She had some choice words about doing black p.orn; mostly how some of the black male p.orn directors/talents are unprofessional, ghetto acting, and wanting to chill off-set instead of just paying up and going on about their day. She does both black and white p.orn but is more selective with the black p.orn.



23:00 is when she starts talking about black and white p.orn. She mentions it some more throughout but ion feel like looking for it.





You can't tell a chick in a p0rn0 to bounce her ass off your wood?!

Man, what is this world coming to?


Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 6:54pm
Girl bye, you a hoe. Niccas have no love for hoes, thats why they fck you roughly. They cant do that to their wives or gfs, thats what you're here for.  If I was a prostie I would not take hood niccas as clients either because I'm not at all surprised at what she said.

Personally I like rough sex but only after foreplay, but who is gonna foreplay with a paid escort?Confused The "wealthy black men from nice neighborhoods" that she talks about are just weirdo simps who's only interaction w/ women is a prostitute so of course they are gonna make believe for 30 mins that they finally got a girlfriend. It's bad enough if your man frequents hoes in the first place, but I would be embarassed if I found out my man called a prostitute to tell her why he wouldnt be coming around anymore lmao


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 7:18pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


are they okay with white men that will pay more for rough sex?

former ny governer spitzer was banned from the escort service for a while for forcing rough sex on the women (and for refusing to use condoms).


ETA: lank & quote below:
http://www.nydailynews.com/news/madam-tell-all-book-reveals-eliot-spitzer-prostitute-scandal-dirt-article-1.374880" rel="nofollow - http://www.nydailynews.com/news/madam-tell-all-book-reveals-eliot-spitzer-prostitute-scandal-dirt-article-1.374880

Spitzer, a client of her escort service, was "good for a call at least once a week" from 2004 to 2006 - when she cut him off because he liked it too rough.

Spitzer meant "thousands of dollars of steady income for me and my ladies," wrote Davis, "that is, until the complaints began coming in hot and heavy" about the client who gave the phony name "James."

"James was getting rough and too aggressive with the girls - repeatedly pressuring them to do things they didn't want to do."

She also said Spitzer tended to obsess about a girl, would want to see her every day and was pushy and whiny with her."

But his biggest problem, she said, was that he didn't want to use a condom, and "he'd be a real weasel about it, too."

"Eventually, this is what I told 'James,'" she writes. "'I no longer feel comfortable with you as a client. You are blacklisted. Please don't ever call me or my other phone bookers again. Thank you and good luck.'"

She later dropped the ban.


Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/madam-tell-all-book-reveals-eliot-spitzer-prostitute-scandal-dirt-article-1.374880#ixzz2sJRhQJKJ" rel="nofollow - http://www.nydailynews.com/news/madam-tell-all-book-reveals-eliot-spitzer-prostitute-scandal-dirt-article-1.374880#ixzz2sJRhQJKJ



Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 7:24pm
Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


are they okay with white men that will pay more for rough sex?

former ny governer spitzer was banned from the escort service for a while for forcing rough sex on the women (and for refusing to use condoms).


Say it aint so not a white man


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 7:27pm
I clicked on the link in the OP and here is more of her commentary on the black men's gyrations:

http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2010/08/16/aversions/" rel="nofollow - http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2010/08/16/aversions/
Pelvic Gyrations:  Some men (especially of one particular ethnic group) seem to believe that moving their bodies from side to side and thus entering a woman from various angles like some kind of eccentric crankshaft is an advanced and effective sexual technique, but it’s so silly-looking and uncomfortable that even when it isn’t actually painful I have to fight back laughter.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 8:17pm
I simply am not at the point in my life where I'm giving damns to yt hoes.
I'm just not the yet


Posted By: Findingmyme
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 9:22pm
Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

That quote was from a Devin The Dude song


"She want that money!!!" Lol! That's my song


Posted By: Marcelo22
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 9:24pm
Originally posted by Over_all Over_all wrote:

Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

Ain't nobody trying to pay for coochie to make love to with a chick they have no feelings for.

That's why they have wives and girlfriends at home.


I don't think she's asking to be made love to, just not abused.
The general detachment of meaningless sex isn't too much too ask. From her account these men are engaged and violently passionate about spending money.

Truth.... From what I've heard from my pimp cousin women try to make the session hella quick.. for instance she doesn't want to be touched a certain way, she only wants to ride to get the nut done so they can either work on the next "client"..  

This Nigerian dude in Brazil I met whose a big trick broke the game down to me from a trick's perspective one time LOL. Told me all this too how the white brazilian hookers be pressuring dudes to hurry up and cum so they can move on to the next person. That whole world is crazy tho.


Posted By: Marcelo22
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 9:28pm
Originally posted by Findingmyme Findingmyme wrote:

Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

That quote was from a Devin The Dude song


"She want that money!!!" Lol! That's my song




Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 9:58pm
Originally posted by IslandSuga IslandSuga wrote:

Shut yo ho ass up bish.


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 10:05pm
Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

Originally posted by Findingmyme Findingmyme wrote:

Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

That quote was from a Devin The Dude song


"She want that money!!!" Lol! That's my song




Is that you in high school in your avi? Lookin extra hood, sir.


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 10:07pm
I've only read half and I'm sorry to say I don't feel she is entirely wrong. Just because you're a prossie doesn't mean u have to accept any and everything. I mean...if so are we now saying prossie's can't be raped. After all it's their job?

I'll read the rest and try to find the wrong but...so far I got nuthin.


Posted By: Miss SDY
Date Posted: Feb 03 2014 at 10:21pm
Originally posted by IslandSuga IslandSuga wrote:

Shut yo ho ass up bish.


Lmfao!!!!

Well I don't think she should accept just anything bc she's a ho but...

I'm not really here for the white ho's plight in life and will not at any point be hitting the streets to join the "white ho's are people too" march.




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