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Am I the only one who feels this way?

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Topic: Am I the only one who feels this way?
Posted By: B3llaCatastrofe
Subject: Am I the only one who feels this way?
Date Posted: Jan 22 2014 at 2:34pm
Okay so I feel the need to vent after seeing a horrible hair tragedy. Ladies, like anyone else on here I love to see laid hairstyles, I LOVE IT. BUT I'm tired of seeing these chicks out here with edges and leaveout nappy as ever with silky "virgin" Brazilian weave. OR these chicks with curly "virgin" Malay in their heads with leaveout that looks like it's about to start it's own fire. Invest in a CLOSURE! Apply it correctly, it shouldn't be sitting on your forehead introducing itself. Also, this blonde hair fad, it's not suitable for everyone, just like colored lipstick, not every complexion can wear it!! Oh, and stop with the eyelashes that look like your about to take off and fly at any second. I'm tired of seeing black women look foolish!

That is all



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Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: Jan 22 2014 at 3:01pm
I need a closure. Haha.  I don't want to be another girl with the Kunta Kente edges and the Ming Lee hair.  I don't want it done if it aint done right.


Posted By: Luvmyson2008
Date Posted: Jan 22 2014 at 3:18pm
Lol I concur.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 22 2014 at 3:32pm
Indian/Brazilan/Polynesian/Malaysiian  in the back with all kinds of deep deep African  kanky origins all up and through the front talking bout you blending and whatnot is not whats hot nor will it ever be. Also edge control/ gel of any sort usually is not the solution to that equation either. Cry
Did they stop making pressing combs??????
I am going to need for some coin to be saved and a closure to be bought, let some 30 volume and a bleach pack to marinate and apply as needed. 

I see them threads and do this....

Followed by this.....




Posted By: B3llaCatastrofe
Date Posted: Jan 22 2014 at 3:36pm
LOL!! OMG! GIRL YOU TOOK IT THERE FOR REAL! That is hilarious but you're telling the truth. Don't get me started with that damn edge control that works for about 10 minutes and as soon as they hit that humidity (I love in Mississippi) it's like POOF! And that brown gel, that's a no no hunty. These girls need to get on Bhm more often and get some tips from you ladies! I know I've been reading these threads for a while and have learned a whole lot!


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 22 2014 at 3:43pm
Who the hell left the gate open?!


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 22 2014 at 3:53pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Who the hell left the gate open?!

Don't judge me the door was unlocked and I tiptoed in with my thigh high boots on. I decided this was my type of party and decided to stay.Cry

I also have on pink lipstick but it is lined to perfection anor does it look like I dipped my lips in  pink frosting so its good.





Really, thats you color??? Ok Smile

Tiptoes back downstairs.. 


Posted By: B3llaCatastrofe
Date Posted: Jan 22 2014 at 4:08pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Who the hell left the gate open?!
is this for me ma'am?


Posted By: Cream1970
Date Posted: Jan 22 2014 at 4:14pm
I think they WANT to look like that.
In their social circle, it's a desired look.
They'll get more compliments looking like that than they will from a realistic weave and complimentary make up.


Posted By: miiszjanae
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 2:12am
How are you able to post in this section? Did they change the rules?Confused


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 9:05am
Originally posted by miiszjanae miiszjanae wrote:

How are you able to post in this section? Did they change the rules?Confused

It is not just in this sectionConfusedOuch, coughs some of these New posters not new just too much time and wifi and alt handles.


Posted By: B3llaCatastrofe
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 9:58am
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Posted By: miiszjanae
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 10:20am
Wtf are you talking about?? Idk about everyone else but I asked because you're a new member posting in this section.


Posted By: danieb23
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 10:26am
Originally posted by B3llaCatastrofe B3llaCatastrofe wrote:

You women have issues, instead of coming at someone DIRECT and saying "hey you can't post here" you females like to talk around a mf in circles. Grow up! I'm sure you all are grown enough to simply tell someone that they're doing something wrong, but nope! It always has to be some smart ass response leading to bickering.... I didn't even mean to post here, just couldn't figure out how to delete it. Lol you all act like this is high school, how old are you all again? Black women and their damn attitudes ugh, you know that you DON'T have to have an attitude 24/7 right? It's always a problem with you people!


You seem to be the only one that is mad though. Shoot, you started this thread because you were mad. If anyone feels any kinda way, it's towards the mods.


Calm down with all that. You are doing the most for no reason.


Posted By: B3llaCatastrofe
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 10:27am
Originally posted by miiszjanae miiszjanae wrote:

Wtf are you talking about?? Idk about everyone else but I asked because you're a new member posting in this section.
did you make a smart comment? Ummm no, you asked ME. I'm talking about the few people who instead of saying "you can't POST HERE" made a smart as$ remark. I'm sure you knew I wasn't talking about you due to me speaking about smart comments that were not direct to me.


Posted By: B3llaCatastrofe
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 10:29am
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Posted By: danieb23
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 10:31am
Originally posted by B3llaCatastrofe B3llaCatastrofe wrote:

Originally posted by danieb23 danieb23 wrote:

Originally posted by B3llaCatastrofe B3llaCatastrofe wrote:

You women have issues, instead of coming at someone DIRECT and saying "hey you can't post here" you females like to talk around a mf in circles. Grow up! I'm sure you all are grown enough to simply tell someone that they're doing something wrong, but nope! It always has to be some smart ass response leading to bickering.... I didn't even mean to post here, just couldn't figure out how to delete it. Lol you all act like this is high school, how old are you all again? Black women and their damn attitudes ugh, you know that you DON'T have to have an attitude 24/7 right? It's always a problem with you people!


You seem to be the only one that is mad though. Shoot, you started this thread because you were mad. If anyone feels any kinda way, it's towards the mods.


Calm down with all that. You are doing the most for no reason.
oh I'm not mad, just sayin though. I don't let or like people talk circles around me. I'm on my phone and currently trying to figure out how to delete this post.


No one got smart with you, boo! Like I said, if anyone feels some kind of way it's towards the MODS. There was maybe one comment that can be misconstrued as slick but you went in every chick on this board


Posted By: B3llaCatastrofe
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 10:34am
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Posted By: B3llaCatastrofe
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 10:45am


Right, I guess I worded my paragraph wrong, this wasn't directed towards everyone boo but I apparently I can't delete everything so everyone pleasejust ignore this post. Sawwwwi! Didn't know the rules, clearly. I know now though, Good day everyone!


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 11:32am
I think we have a system problem , unless the rules change . The spammers are getting on my nerves posting crazy messages about football in the hair forums .
Posting
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Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 12:15pm
LortUnhappy


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 12:44pm
BHM has paid "premium" subscriptions now?Shocked


Posted By: keelolo1
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 2:34pm
Im stressed out.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 2:35pm
It's always a problem with you people!

Confused
Who are these "you people" you speak of????




Posted By: B3llaCatastrofe
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 2:49pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

It's always a problem with you people!

Confused
Who are these "you people" you speak of????



Black chicks, it seems like someone always has to be catty instead of addressing an issue directly. Tis all. It's been addressed though from what i see. Now I know


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 3:00pm
Originally posted by B3llaCatastrofe B3llaCatastrofe wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

It's always a problem with you people!

Confused
Who are these "you people" you speak of????



Black chicks, it seems like someone always has to be catty instead of addressing an issue directly. Tis all. It's been addressed though from what i see. Now I know

Sighs, Lort. Women are catty in general so I'm clearly confused how women of color have the patent on that. Since I am sure you have never met ALL black women it would make more sense to say the black women who I have encountered have been catty towards me. I believe some black women can be more upfront with the "cattyness" cause I know plenty of white women who are just as catty they just go the sneaky route with those tears and followed by I dont know what I could have done to make her so mad while sitting up in HR but that is a whole other issue.Cry

I responded in your thread before it all went to hell and it was back spacing and deleting going on so I have no idea of what you said. I also didn't even look at your post count until after it was brought up. Its funny you bring up catty because your post could be viewed as that since it was about US people are kinky hairlinesConfused.

Care to explain that???




Posted By: B3llaCatastrofe
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 3:14pm

I've been on here on several occasions reading threads where SOME are roasting people about blending issues and wearing straight silky with kinky hair. Sooooo don't act like what I said in my original post was so bad and wrong. I'm black, 100% actually no mixture here in me. But since we're talking about it, I come across a sh*t ton of unnecessary attitudes and eye rolling, I'm a very well mannered and polite person and I get more sh*t from black folks than clear folks. I posted in here without the knowledge of rules and my bad. BUT like I keep saying, it's not hard to say "CANT POST HERE" I would've been like oh my bad, but instead of saying that so someone had to talk circles around me and I was lost for a minute until someone said "how were you able to post here"


Posted By: B3llaCatastrofe
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 3:17pm
And I was taking about OUR people and kinkiness because that's what I've been seeing a lot of lately, and it looks a hot mess!


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 4:19pm
That it does , Indian in the front and African in the back will never be whats up but I made a thread recently about people all up in their feelings and how if you say anything besides your hair looks nice its shade or a read or plain bytchery.

 If someone pms me about hair I give them my honest opinion but some folk you can't help. 

 You cant get silky texture hair if that is not your natural texture without a closure, there is not enough CONTROL in any edge control to make that happen. 

People used to come here for help, it seems now people just wanna post pics like this is their personal Instagram and side eye anyone who says they aint beat .


Posted By: B3llaCatastrofe
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 4:24pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

That it does , Indian in the front and African in the back will never be whats up but I made a thread recently about people all up in their feelings and how if you say anything besides your hair looks nice its shade or a read or plain bytchery.

 If someone pms me about hair I give them my honest opinion but some folk you can't help. 

 You cant get silky texture hair if that is not your natural texture without a closure, there is not enough CONTROL in any edge control to make that happen. 

People used to come here for help, it seems now people just wanna post pics like this is their personal Instagram and side eye anyone who says they aint beat .
sorry ladies, I honestly mean no harm to you and anyone else. But princess I missed that post, I want to read it. So this was just a repeat post, sorry about that. People can't get mad though if someone is trying to help by saying "your leaveout and the weave don't match" it's just a heads up, people need to learn how to take criticism. I know I would want to be informed if my hair looks a mess.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 4:29pm
http://f2.blackhairmedia.com/hair-diplomacy_topic367627.html

^^^^ Thread I mentioned.




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