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Topic: slut shaming? Michael B Jordan
Posted By: afrokock
Subject: slut shaming? Michael B Jordan
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 11:59am
thoughts?



Michael B. Jordan Says He Can’t Respect a Woman Who Has Sex on First Date



Michael B. Jordan launched into stardom after his breathtaking performance in “Fruitvale Station”, the purportedly true story of Oscar Grant III, a 22-year-old Bay Area resident who was shot and killed by police in 2008. Since then Jordan seems to be everywhere. His newest film, “That Awkward Moment“, was the center of an interview in GLAMOUR magazine with his co-stars Zac Efron and Miles Teller.
The interview focused on the actors’ opinions on the many aspects of intimate relationships. In the interview Jordan shared his thoughts on dating, what he looks for in a woman, and whether or not sex on a first date is a good idea.

Glamour magazine asked the stars, ” So let me ask you the eternal ‘are you going to respect me if we have sex on the first date?’ question.” Jordan differed from his co-stars Efron and Teller, and said no. The 27-year-old actor, who is single and describes himself as “old school,” said he’s attracted to women with a sense of humor and who are “comfortable in the kitchen.”

In the interview, Jordan also offered some great advice to women aspiring to be in a lasting relationship. ”Don’t try too hard. Either you’re the right girl or you’re not.” he said.
Catch the full interview in the latest issue of GLAMOUR.



Replies:
Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:00pm
He look fruity as hell, first of all.

But nothing's wrong with what he said.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:01pm
i don't think thats slut shaming...he doesn't want the clap.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:03pm
Isn't he too having sex on the first date though?

I can't respect you if you let me fuk you .
It just sounds weird lol

It takes me awhile and I would tell my little sis and little cousins not to but it sounds weird when he says it.
But I don't see why anyone man or women fuks on the first date.
You don't know these ppl


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:07pm
I'd the sh*t outta MBJ on the second date.


Posted By: AmiliaCabral
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:13pm
Wassup with the term slut shaming? I get fat shaming and that shyt but are we supposed to accept slut now? I don't get it and I'm not a fan...

And eh...can't say I care.


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:14pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Isn't he too having sex on the first date though?

I can't respect you if you let me fuk you .
It just sounds weird lol



Lol. First time we meet and you fucc ME? How low are your standards to choose ME to fucc!


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:21pm
Quote ”Don’t try too hard. Either you’re the right girl or you’re not.”


i never understood people not being themselves.  please dont let me find out youre somebody else 6 months from now.LOL you just wasted both our times.


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:24pm
is he saying he doesnt have sex on the first date or that after he has sex with you on the first date dont expect a phone call?


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:33pm
this was news last week on...

nvmd


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:33pm
Lmao

So he doesn't respect himself either after he has sex on date one? He needs to learn better self control so this doesn't happen.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:35pm
It takes TWO people to have first date sex, how in da hell he know she sitting ova there respecting his tight suit wearing self? People get a movie role and start feelin demselves.


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:36pm
i didnt read but maybe he means if the woman makes the first sexual move he's turned off by it. Or if the woman automatically assumes he will expect sex OTFD andbe willing to oblige. No actual sex happens.


Posted By: Alias_Avi
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:39pm
Only the first date, huh?


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:40pm
Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

this was news last week on...

nvmd


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:41pm
What it means is that he doesn't respect you enough to make you his main squeeze.
But he gone doe.



Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:41pm
Quote Glamour magazine asked the stars, ” So let me ask you the eternal ‘are you going to respect me if we have sex on the first date?’ question.” Jordan differed from his co-stars Efron and Teller, and said no.


#yeahwereallthinkingit


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:42pm
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Lmao

So he doesn't respect himself either after he has sex on date one? He needs to learn better self control so this doesn't happen.
Preach sister CC .
preach


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 1:25pm
I feel him though, but he done it too. So he should have waited as well.


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 1:27pm
White men don't care if their women are hos.
They know white women ain't loyal anyway.


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 1:37pm
Sounds like he's saying he'll fck an easy girl but he won't wife her. I don't see anything wrong with his statement.


Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 1:40pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

What it means is that he doesn't respect you enough to make you his main squeeze.
But he gone doe.



Exactly. If u dtf, do it. But he's not into that. That's his prerogative.

It's slut shaming to me if u do it unsolicited to someone in particular. It's ur opinion if asked.

I'm not a reliable source though. To b honest, I didn't take guys seriously that can't at least wait for the next date either. Its too thirsty. But that's my choice.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 1:40pm
Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

Sounds like he's saying he'll fck an easy girl but he won't wife her. I don't see anything wrong with his statement.

cus he said he doesnt respect her.. 

why have sex and spend time with someone you dont respect?

also, why is it okay for him to do it, but not the girl..? he shouldnt be respected either 


Posted By: Bored w/Out Me?
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 1:42pm
Men have been saying this for years, just cause he's a star I guess he wants all his groupies to know to hold out so they could possibly be fortunate enough to be wifed....NOT


Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 1:42pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

Sounds like he's saying he'll fck an easy girl but he won't wife her. I don't see anything wrong with his statement.


cus he said he doesnt respect her.. 

why have sex and spend time with someone you dont respect?

also, why is it okay for him to do it, but not the girl..? he shouldnt be respected either 


Some men's idea on sex and marriage greatly differ from women's. he's really just saying how a lot of men feel. With the year of the ho's supposedly catching w's, one would think this would b a tad...never mind lol

Men normally don't marry women that they think r easy. Normally. But if ur passing it out, they'll take it.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 1:44pm
I want to see this because he's in it and Efron is ok...the third guy was very annoying in 21&over and thinks he's Vince Vaughn who is already annoying... hopefully a DVD copy will be online soon.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 1:45pm
That whole thinking makes men look stupid too.

Hopefully I raise my future sons and daughters to have a respectable sense of self and sex.

I wouldn't want my son effing someone just because he thinks she's easy but other than that she's worthless.

Ugh what do ppl teach their sons.
Don't give it out and don't take it either


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 1:49pm
But I mean...if a man tried to you on the first date would you respect him?


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 1:54pm
But if I effed him what the hell could I say?

I hope my sister isn't this crazy now that she's at uni :(
I make sure to give her a dose of slut shaming all the time to keep her in check.

I don't think she would though


Posted By: ragincajin
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 1:57pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

White men don't care if their women are hos.
They know white women ain't loyal anyway.


Au contraire my cold blooded one.
All over the globe, white women are loyal... to cash.
No matter the man, they bend to currency. They'll bend anyway you like.
The more massive the amount, the better.
They are the original flat-backers.
Yeah I said it! And I am not known for stuttering.
Enough said.


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 2:12pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

But if I effed him what the hell could I say?

I hope my sister isn't this crazy now that she's at uni :(
I make sure to give her a dose of slut shaming all the time to keep her in check.

I don't think she would though

Ermm......Stern Smile



Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 2:15pm
Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

But if I effed him what the hell could I say?

I hope my sister isn't this crazy now that she's at uni :(
I make sure to give her a dose of slut shaming all the time to keep her in check.

I don't think she would though

Ermm......Stern Smile


Do what you please with your own family.

I let my lil sister know...
Y'all will not see her giving neck to the team in the name of a college good time


Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 2:18pm
College coupled with the excuse of youth and no real attachment to anything is a great time to explore ones sexuality Jones lol. Don't have her get married, have kids, turn another year older and then decide that she needs to explore.

Or whatever u wanna do


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 2:19pm
Tell her suck all the dicks she wants....just don't let anybody record her.


Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 2:22pm
Jones u should teach her integrity and respect. No husbands, or boyfriends unless she speaks to the other woman and she confirms that its all good. Always use protection, keep ur business to urself, if u feel pressure, don't do it. Stuff like that.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 2:24pm
I do all that.
She knows that in the end all she has is her name and not to sully that.
She knows to respect herself and she knows all about dignity and integrity
I tell her about condoms .
I taught her well and I trust her.


Plus I read her text messages ..

But a little slut shaming ain't never hurt nobody

She tells me everything though we are all up in each other's business .
She has my passwords and I have hers


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 2:24pm
*takes the plastic wrap off the corn*


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 2:27pm
It's weird that I didn't have sex with a bunch of Howard guys.



Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 2:29pm
That's what's up then. As long as she gets it in the right way


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 2:29pm
Jones why are you reading her text messages?


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 2:31pm
@AshBash: Because she trusts her.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 2:32pm
Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

Jones why are you reading her text messages?
lol
Bc she makes me.
She said she didn't know what to say to her boyfriend bc she gets so anxious so she makes me text him something to make her look like she wasn't sweating them getting back together.


I have her text my man too when I need to make up something .
It's not as invasive as it sounds.

She goes on my Facebook to look at her boyfriend when she blocked him and went through my messages to laugh at me
Plus she shows us all her text messages anyway

It's hard to explain our relationship.
Were open books to each other.


It's not in a threatening or controlling way.
When I read something I message her and call her a whore and we giggle.

But I be serious though


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 2:37pm
Lol okay it doesn't sound as invasive as I thought. I pictures you snooping.


Posted By: petiteone29
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 2:38pm
Y'all know there are double standards.Shoot,  alot of men have and would partake in running a train on a willing girl but she would be the one considered to have issues or be a slut. The guy is just having fun.


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 2:41pm
To me his statement isn't about double standards. There are guys that I have considered sleeping with but had no intentions on dating and I definitely wouldn't date a guy that tried to hit it on the first date.


Posted By: zolloh
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 2:45pm
did i miss where he said its ok for him to fcuk on the 1st night? good for me, bad for you? Geek



Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 2:47pm
I've had sex with guys I can't stand...so I really can't say anything about what he said.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 3:08pm
Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

*takes the plastic wrap off the corn*


I don't even know why I'm laughing so hard at this tho


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 3:22pm
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

this was news last week on...

nvmd
but you gave enough of a fucc to respond bhm STAYS late as hell


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 3:23pm
That's why I wait til the second date to have sex lol I usually know by the first date if I want to f*ck or not. 


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 3:58pm
Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

this was news last week on...

nvmd
but you gave enough of a fucc to respond bhm STAYS late as hell
it boggles the mind why you even hang out here if bhm is so outdated, lated as hell and boring as fucck



Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 4:02pm
bunny loves us 

home is where the heart is 


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 4:07pm
I'm only here to laugh at you Afro. As soon as you die or retire, I'll leave ;)


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 4:15pm
well lemme turn to my good side then chick..



Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 7:45pm
kind of OT but i like this guy better when he wasnt in character for a wonder bread film...you can tell from the trailers his acting is forced and unauthentic...black token looks bad, he isnt cut out for it imo
He was more attractive to me in Fruitvale station


Posted By: crzyabthair
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 9:38pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

I'd the sh*t outta MBJ on the second date.



yea he is fine as hellEmbarrassed


Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 10:52am
but isnt he a a slut too then?
i dont hear him saying he wont have sex with someone who's willing on the first date



Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 10:54am
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

But I mean...if a man tried to you on the first date would you respect him?


lol
no but I might marry himLOL


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 10:55am
Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

*takes the plastic wrap off the corn*


don't ask? LOL


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 10:56am
lol. this thread was full of THANKS


Posted By: Yardgirl
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 11:05am
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

But I mean...if a man tried to you on the first date would you respect him?

No I would not. I would think he was just out to get some pumpum and stop communicating with him.


Posted By: Yardgirl
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 11:12am
There's this guy who I've known for a long time, hadn't see him in about 10 years. One week after we reconnected he was asking me about what colour panties I'm wearing. 

Then after I stopped responding to him and initiating contact, that fool had the nerve to text me suggesting that we go on a date. LOLLOLLOL *sigh*


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 11:23am
yall can be so uptight 


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 11:26am
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

yall can be so uptight 

What you mean Coco.
In what way


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 11:34am
i just probably wouldnt react the some way as some of yall... 

like if i thought a guy was trying to have sex with me early on.. id frown, check him, and shut that down real fast.. but continue on.. not necessarily never speak to him again because of some flirting or 1 comment. many many many girls fck first day.. its not some crazy/odd thing that never occurs.

i wouldnt kiss on the first day either.. never have.. but am i supposed to never speak to him again cus he insinuated/seemed that he wanted that..? 
i know kissing and sex are different (for some.....) but same difference.. theyre both hell no's to me.  


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 11:40am
now if he continued to make comments/try... thats completely different.. we'd be done. 

but after 1 comment if im like, nah... i dont appreciate type comments like that.. and he respects it and/or apologizes (which is what usually happens) why get up and storm out and never speak to him again..? 

idk its just not the biggest deal to me.. 
guys are hornballs and a lot of girls are sluts.. when would it be okay for a guy to make comments/insinuate to yall..? 5th date? 10th? thats still way too early for many girls.. and way too late for some girls (many would call him gay cus he hasnt tried anything with them yet..)




Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 11:46am
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

now if he continued to make comments/try... thats completely different.. we'd be done. 

but after 1 comment if im like, nah... i dont appreciate type comments like that.. and he respects it and/or apologizes (which is what usually happens) why get up and storm out and never speak to him again..? 

idk its just not the biggest deal to me.. 
guys are hornballs and a lot of girls are sluts.. when would it be okay for a guy to make comments/insinuate to yall..? 5th date? 10th? thats still way too early for many girls.. and way too late for some girls (many would call him gay cus he hasnt tried anything with them yet..)








Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 11:48am
Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

Sounds like he's saying he'll fck an easy girl but he won't wife her. I don't see anything wrong with his statement.


Correct.

This is the way men think in general.

I don't know why people keep pretendng that men and women are ' the same'. Men and women are not the same .. I have yet to see a man give birth.

Men CAN sleep around with every alleycat that comes his way and be socially accepted

But when a woman lays up with any random dude .. she would be nothing more than a whore. :(

Every generation trys to re-engineer this basic construct and never works. Some things NEVER change.


Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 11:51am

you dont need a pucci to be a slut.

smh @ men passing judgement on anyone.


if a man wants to sleep on first date, i assume he's nasty as fvck and a ho...prolly beating every fleabag pumpum he comes in contact with....


 



Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 11:53am
it is my opinion that the Brotha wasnt really that into you if he doesnt respect you after sex on the first date.
what does "i cant respect her" mean anyway?
I wont date?
I wont wife?
Im not gonna call her back tomorrow?
I'll only call her for sex?




Posted By: pebbles251
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 11:57am
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

it is my opinion that the Brotha wasnt really that into you if he doesnt respect you after sex on the first date.
what does "i cant respect her" mean anyway?
I wont date?
I wont wife?
Im not gonna call her back tomorrow?
I'll only call her for sex?


 
agree 100%


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 11:59am
Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

Sounds like he's saying he'll fck an easy girl but he won't wife her. I don't see anything wrong with his statement.


Correct.

This is the way men think in general.

I don't know why people keep pretendng that men and women are ' the same'. Men and women are not the same .. I have yet to see a man give birth.

Men CAN sleep around with every alleycat that comes his way and be socially accepted

But when a woman lays up with any random dude .. she would be nothing more than a whore. :(

Every generation trys to re-engineer this basic construct and never works. Some things NEVER change.

Being socially accepted doesn't make it less depraved.

I know a guy who seriously has a number above 200.
I thought he was lying but I see it too consistently for it to be a lie.

We should slut shame men and maybe get std's and fatherless children rates in check

We're doing it wrong.

Get these hoes in check



Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 12:00pm
BINGO!

It means ... 'I'll only call her for sex'


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 12:27pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

Sounds like he's saying he'll fck an easy girl but he won't wife her. I don't see anything wrong with his statement.


Correct.

This is the way men think in general.

I don't know why people keep pretendng that men and women are ' the same'. Men and women are not the same .. I have yet to see a man give birth.

Men CAN sleep around with every alleycat that comes his way and be socially accepted

But when a woman lays up with any random dude .. she would be nothing more than a whore. :(

Every generation trys to re-engineer this basic construct and never works. Some things NEVER change.

Being socially accepted doesn't make it less depraved.

I know a guy who seriously has a number above 200.
I thought he was lying but I see it too consistently for it to be a lie.

We should slut shame men and maybe get std's and fatherless children rates in check

We're doing it wrong.

Get these hoes in check


this this this!


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 12:57pm
But ain't he easy too???? Im so confused....


Posted By: NARSAddict
Date Posted: Jan 20 2014 at 1:42pm
He is entitled to those opinions.  I wonder what folks think if he said the opposite like "I can't get with a girl if she doesn't put out on the first date, or even give head on the first date". 


Posted By: NJHairLuv
Date Posted: Jan 24 2014 at 10:36pm
He is from Northern NJ. Guys here are still very traditional in certain ways - they like to put in work, pursue and brag about women being a challenge.  Just accept that all men have their own preferences in the same way that women have their preference. I dont respect men that try to get at me on the 1st date. I put them in a certain category - thirst. To each his own.


Posted By: uppitynegroid
Date Posted: Jan 25 2014 at 9:57am
Guys do this all the time.  You obviously don't have morals, because if you did you with live by those morals.  No, you just enjoy making women feel bad about themselves by creating a list of standards for them that YOU don't have to live up to.  FOH.


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Jan 25 2014 at 10:03am
I don't want relations, I just want one night.


Posted By: HeyBeautiful18
Date Posted: Jan 25 2014 at 10:45am
Okay so there's nothing wrong with a guy that doesn't want a girl who fcks on the first date

But its those guys that are like "ohh I'm gonna try and make a move and if she gives in ima go ahead and fck her....but then label her a whore after it happens" that I dislike

If you don't want an easy girl that's understandable but on the flip side you can't be an easy guy either!! Sadly don't think that way though...




Posted By: trudawg
Date Posted: Jan 25 2014 at 10:59am
IMO, if she fcks on the first date, she's not automatically labeled a whore, you just make a mental note of it and factor it into the overall score.


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jan 25 2014 at 10:59am
Originally posted by HeyBeautiful18 HeyBeautiful18 wrote:

Okay so there's nothing wrong with a guy that doesn't want a girl who fcks on the first date

But its those guys that are like "ohh I'm gonna try and make a move and if she gives in ima go ahead and fck her....but then label her a whore after it happens"
that I dislike

If you don't want an easy girl that's understandable but on the flip side you can't be an easy guy either!! Sadly don't think that way though...


this was my understanding of his comments


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jan 25 2014 at 11:05am
Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

IMO, if she fcks on the first date, she's not automatically labeled a whore, you just make a mental note of it and factor it into the overall score.
same difference bruh

why should her stock decrease value because she chose to smash on the first night?

furthermore, if we really wanna microanalyse this to the inner workings of the guy's psych, we can deduce that this guy has an ultra low opinion of himself. like she's a whore because she chose to fucck you on the first night??!! what does that say about oneself? i mean, i'm of the opinion that you are who you fucck.

sh*t, if a broad wants to smash on me the first night i actually find that very flattering, i mean sh*t.. like she just couldnt wait for a second date

but then again, i'm more of a well bred quality over quantity kinda guy when it comes to my bedfellows


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Date Posted: Jan 25 2014 at 8:04pm
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Whos the lady? The actor was seen with a bikini-clad female friend
 
More than a friend? The mystery girl showed off quite a bit of her derriere
 


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jan 25 2014 at 8:05pm
Didn't see that one coming


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 25 2014 at 8:08pm
Cute white girl.

These famous black dudes don't surprise me.
Not at all


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 25 2014 at 8:15pm
I just dislike how YTs and Latinas get beaux passes with brothas.....


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 25 2014 at 8:18pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

I just dislike how YTs and Latinas get beaux passes with brothas.....

this.


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 25 2014 at 8:19pm
shes a cute yt girl. nice bod too


Posted By: trudawg
Date Posted: Jan 25 2014 at 11:30pm
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

IMO, if she fcks on the first date, she's not automatically labeled a whore, you just make a mental note of it and factor it into the overall score.
same difference bruh

why should her stock decrease value because she chose to smash on the first night?

furthermore, if we really wanna microanalyse this to the inner workings of the guy's psych, we can deduce that this guy has an ultra low opinion of himself. like she's a whore because she chose to fucck you on the first night??!! what does that say about oneself? i mean, i'm of the opinion that you are who you fucck.

sh*t, if a broad wants to smash on me the first night i actually find that very flattering, i mean sh*t.. like she just couldnt wait for a second date

but then again, i'm more of a well bred quality over quantity kinda guy when it comes to my bedfellows


Exactly. Depending on your own personal point system, it could represent a positive or negative thing. Kinda reminds me of the Morning After from Outkast

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ALlgfbeVhtM" rel="nofollow - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ALlgfbeVhtM


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jan 26 2014 at 2:41am
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Didn't see that one coming


you didn't?


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jan 26 2014 at 2:41am
Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

Guys do this all the time.  You obviously don't have morals, because if you did you with live by those morals.  No, you just enjoy making women feel bad about themselves by creating a list of standards for them that YOU don't have to live up to.  FOH.


thanks


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Jan 26 2014 at 3:00am
So.. he's making these judgements after fucking said women on the first date?

I can't.


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Jan 26 2014 at 5:29am
Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Didn't see that one coming


you didn't?
nope,

i mean its wallace though



Posted By: juniper angel
Date Posted: Jan 26 2014 at 5:55am
If a women is a hoe she a hoe keep your legs closed on the first date if you want a call back . If women and men should be equal than let everything be equal you cant choose .


Posted By: femmemichelle
Date Posted: Jan 26 2014 at 7:45am
I'm really trying to figure out the mentality of a woman/man who would have sex on the first date. I don't even kiss on the first date. That desperation must be burdensome.

I cannot be as PC as yall, so if anyone admitted doing that to me I would think they 

1. Have low self esteem
2. Are naive
3. Are hos

And in that order.




Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jan 26 2014 at 7:48am
Well I think most people talk for a while before a date...well I do anyway.
I've never met someone on the street then just went out with them later.
So having sex ain't really a big deal on the first date to me.


Posted By: femmemichelle
Date Posted: Jan 26 2014 at 7:51am
I personally just don't understand the logic. In my mind it wouldn't matter how long we talked. The fact of the matter is I would still be ruminating over the fact that this is our first official date and we are having sex. Respect lost on both sides.  


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jan 26 2014 at 7:53am
I guess that's cool.
Sex really isn't that important to me.
It's like....playing golf or monopoly. 


Posted By: trudawg
Date Posted: Jan 26 2014 at 10:41am
I see Personal Pedestals are Pretty Plentiful in thread LOL



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