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Topic: Simple Hypothetical Question... Be honest.
Posted By: coconess
Subject: Simple Hypothetical Question... Be honest.
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 4:47pm
Say.. someone sends you to pick up a few lotto tickets for them... 

you forget to give them to the person right away... 
later that day you realize that their ticket won something.. 

do you give them their winning ticket? or give them your losing ticket? 

lets say.. the prize is 100k. 




Replies:
Posted By: beebeexx
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 4:50pm
is this a real question? duh


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 4:50pm
Yes they will get the losing ticket.





Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 4:52pm
Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

is this a real question? duh

 

maybe cus im picturing is being a family member... 

id consider giving them their ticket. 

yall love to talk about karma and all that... -eyeroll!-


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 4:53pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

is this a real question? duh

 

maybe cus im picturing is being a family member... 

id consider giving them their ticket. 

yall love to talk about karma and all that... -eyeroll!-


Id spend that money and wait for Karma to get my ass.....LOL


Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 4:54pm
Half or nothing. Shoulda took yo butt to play ur own numbers


Posted By: Katrenia
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 4:55pm
I'd give them their winning ticket. 
Chances are I wouldn't have even checked the numbers.


Posted By: _ConcreteRose_
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 4:55pm
depends on what I think of the person.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 5:03pm
Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

Half or nothing. Shoulda took yo butt to play ur own numbers

this is a kinda nice.. happy medium.. like you wouldnt need to feel guilty. 

although i couldnt imagine you being like, 'look.. your numbers hit... youre gonna give me half or get nothing though' 

i guess you could just act like you didnt know which ticket was which... but you might still feel guilty.. and they'll always feel like you definitely knew.. 


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 5:05pm
give them to the person who asked and picked the numbers
and take a percentage 


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 5:09pm

sooo all this time passes and they never called/asked if i had gotten their ticket or not?


Posted By: Katrenia
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 5:12pm
Where is Mr. Iliveforbhm. . .
we all know what his answer would be.
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Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 5:13pm
Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:


sooo all this time passes and they never called/asked if i had gotten their ticket or not?

i think im picturing it being a family member... 

im always forgetting to give my gram her card or whatever she asked for back.. 

kir i have before.. and im probably about to right now go get her some lotto tickets. she nor my other fam members would think to ask for them right away.. and the drawing is at about 8pm that night. (not that far away.. she probably wouldnt ask until later the next day) 


but for the sake of the thread... and karma which yall are so big on.... lets just say it was any old friend OR fam member... and they just.. for whatever reason.. forgot to ask you for their ticket... 


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 5:17pm
Is it quick picks or their own numbers they picked?
Cause I'm sure they'd remember their numbers.


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 5:18pm

oh ok coco...

well all i know is if im sending somebody to buy lotto tickets im calling about an hour later to see if they bought them or not

which wouldn't happen anyway because i wouldn't trust anybody to buy tickets for me...family or not

money changes people






Posted By: petiteone29
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 5:19pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

is this a real question? duh

 

maybe cus im picturing is being a family member... 

id consider giving them their ticket. 

yall love to talk about karma and all that... -eyeroll!-


Id spend that money and wait for Karma to get my ass.....LOL

LOLLOLLOL


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 5:24pm
How would anyone decide which one's which?


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 5:31pm
im trying to figure out what the hell did this person do so bad to me that im stealing from them and if so why am i doing favors for them.  i guess my answer is that id give them their tickets.


Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 5:41pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

Half or nothing. Shoulda took yo butt to play ur own numbers


this is a kinda nice.. happy medium.. like you wouldnt need to feel guilty. 

although i couldnt imagine you being like, 'look.. your numbers hit... youre gonna give me half or get nothing though' 

i guess you could just act like you didnt know which ticket was which... but you might still feel guilty.. and they'll always feel like you definitely knew.. 


I have integrity. I'd tell the truth. But I know that I would feel entitled since I bought the ticket. I'm on camera buying the ticket, so this mofo would have to b happy. Because there's no other choice. That's y I don't buy lotto tix for people. They know the deal lol


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 6:02pm
I'd give it to them.


Posted By: Im_oh_so_hott
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 6:06pm
Did they pick the #'s ? If they pick the #'s i can't give them the losing ticket ? Was it random #'s ? Who is this person ?


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 6:11pm
^^^^ IOSH i was imagining it being random... but say... you got your ticket earlier that day.. then later that day you got their ticket.... so you knew who's was who's. 





but anywho... i just went and got my grams tickets  

she picked her own numbers for 1... then got 4 quick picks... but her own numbers are her kids bdays (plus hers, mines and her husbands) so its possible we could have both picked the same numbers... hers happen to be similar to the numbers i picked out earlier (i also use her husbands, mines, and hers.. but not her other kids bdays.. although somtimes i randomly pick theirs.. plus a few quick picks..) 

she wouldnt think to ask me for this ticket back.. although she did ask for the ticket that i dotted the numbers out on.. but i told her that i wanted to enter in the 2nd chance code online and would bring it back (which is 100% true and im going to give her the ticket back...) 




Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 6:42pm
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

im trying to figure out what the hell did this person do so bad to me that im stealing from them and if so why am i doing favors for them.  i guess my answer is that id give them their tickets.

i dont think its about hating them.. i guess its about greed... 

i asked because bhm is all about karma half of the time.. 

but i think that karma is more 'relevant' (to some) when its about love... vs. money... 

i think id be more willing to sh*t on ppl for true love... vs. money though... 

idk though honestly.. idk how i really feel about it.. which is why i wanted others opinions. 


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 6:46pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

im trying to figure out what the hell did this person do so bad to me that im stealing from them and if so why am i doing favors for them.  i guess my answer is that id give them their tickets.

i dont think its about hating them.. i guess its about greed... 

i asked because bhm is all about karma half of the time.. 

but i think that karma is more 'relevant' (to some) when its about love... vs. money... 

i think id be more willing to sh*t on ppl for true love... vs. money though... 

idk though honestly.. idk how i really feel about it.. which is why i wanted others opinions. 


no, im talking about me here.  i just cant imagine stealing from someone just for greed but hate...sh*t i might *shrugs*


Posted By: NARSAddict
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 6:55pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Say.. someone sends you to pick up a few lotto tickets for them... 

you forget to give them to the person right away... 
later that day you realize that their ticket won something.. 

do you give them their winning ticket? or give them your losing ticket? 

lets say.. the prize is 100k. 




I would give it to them.  I rather avoid unnecessary drama than to keep about 50% of 100K or even less.


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Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 7:01pm
I'[d give it to them.


Posted By: Princess_S
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 7:04pm
I would honestly give it to them. I just dont see how anyone would feel ok with that situation. I wouldnt sleep at night


Posted By: khivey
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 7:24pm
I'd go in on the ticket for one and be on some let's split it 50/50 


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 7:42pm
Id give them the ticket but i want my damn cut.
 


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 8:10pm
Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

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we all know what his answer would be.
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Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 8:58pm
If I can't have some, then we both can't have it Stern Smile


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 9:00pm
Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

If I can't have some, then we both can't have it Stern Smile

lol u aint bout that life


Posted By: Ladycoils
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 9:03pm
I don't check my own tickets. I would give them their tickets.


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Jan 18 2014 at 9:37pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

If I can't have some, then we both can't have it Stern Smile

lol u aint bout that life


I'm not LOL I probably would give in


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:07am
I would be ghost and I would be on TV spending their money.


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:08am
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

If I can't have some, then we both can't have it Stern Smile

lol u aint bout that life
Read this while looking at your avi.LOL


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:22am
Never happen, I aint bout that life of standing in those long ass lottery lines for other people. 


Posted By: browneyez4548
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:38am
Any family member/friend that I'd be running "errands" for, would break me off anyways...so yeah...I'd hand them their ticket.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:40am
I can see y'all do gooding asses now....handing over 100,000 and them giving maybe 5,000......making threads titled "Ungrateful Heaux and the Lotto"......

Ima be like you gave away 100,000? Kill yaself!





Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:45am
^^ Girl you know it would be a lawsuit. Cry


Posted By: browneyez4548
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:51am
LOL It really just depends on who the ticket is for....in the unlikely chance that I'm running errands for someone I don't really vibe with like that...I'd have absolutely no problems handing them their money and telling them I forgot to get the ticket LOL

But close family member/friends..nah...


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 12:54am
With my family.....chile in a second.


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 1:08am
I tell them the news, give them the lotto ticket and say look out for family members that will suddenly need money or they'll be homeless by tomorrow.


Posted By: browneyez4548
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 1:19am
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

With my family.....chile in a second.


LOLLOL


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 1:21am
^^^ What kind of adult Avi is that?Stern Smile


Posted By: browneyez4548
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 1:26am
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

^^^ What kind of adult Avi is that?Stern Smile


Stern Smile









well.....Embarrassed







Cool











BeerEvil Smile


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 5:46am
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

^^^ What kind of adult Avi is that?Stern Smile

oh, its highly accurate ClapEvil Smile


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 6:06am
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

^^ Girl you know it would be a lawsuit. Cry

they cant sue you.. 

you have the ticket in your possession.. you bought it... 
even if they picked out their own numbers... 




i must say im kinda surprised by bhm... either a lot of good ppl.. or a lot of liars. 


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 6:21am
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

^^ Girl you know it would be a lawsuit. Cry


they cant sue you.. 

you have the ticket in your possession.. you bought it... 
even if they picked out their own numbers... 




i must say im kinda surprised by bhm... either a lot of good ppl.. or a lot of liars. 
guuurrrll, we've had so many threads on this. The lost money in a cab, the returning a cell phone, etc. And if you want to see who the liars are, take a look. I have stayed consistent with returning stuff and helping ppl.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 6:25am
theres a difference between finding money... 
and going to buy a ticket for someone else.. 

ive found wallets and seen ppl drop money and returned them (most of the time.. i didnt once when i was a kid)
but buying a ticket feels different.. although yes.. you would know you kinda 'stole' from them.. you might feel guilty. 


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 6:26am
Let's not forget the hypocrites who try to use the fake gods to justify their thievery. Talking about if he doesn't want me to have it, he would not have put it in my path.

Shameful!!!


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 6:30am
Bunny you on 10 kinda early...que paso mami? Geek


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 6:39am
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Bunny you on 10 kinda early...que paso mami? Geek
I was gonna make one more comment and log off


Posted By: HaitianLuv
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 7:36am
ill take the winning. How would they know that i have a winning ticket? not everybody in the world gotta know when you pull a fast one. what they dont know cant hurt 'emWink.


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 7:56am
MINE.

Motherfuckers wouldn't even know that was the winning ticket. NOPE


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 8:08am
If I'm buying tickets it's because its for gramma. I don't buy for no one else. And yes I'd give her the ticket and yes she'd break me off without me having to say nuffin.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 8:22am
Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

^^ Girl you know it would be a lawsuit. Cry


they cant sue you.. 

you have the ticket in your possession.. you bought it... 
even if they picked out their own numbers... 




i must say im kinda surprised by bhm... either a lot of good ppl.. or a lot of liars. 
guuurrrll, we've had so many threads on this. The lost money in a cab, the returning a cell phone, etc. And if you want to see who the liars are, take a look. I have stayed consistent with
returning stuff and helping ppl.


Not really surprised, you know how folks do find justifications when they want to do some stuff that is wrong, while they walk around humming Negro spirituals and posting Church quotes. When they really somewhere getting turnt up, while they practice shaking it like a red nose in da mirror until the doorbell rang and some man who ain't
they husband blow they back out.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 8:22am
if they picked the numbers then i would give them their ticket.  if it was a quick pick and i also had quick picks then we're going 50/50.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 8:23am
Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

Let's not forget the hypocrites who try to use the fake gods to justify their thievery. Talking about if he doesn't want me to have it, he would not have put it in my path.

Shameful!!!


They at church right now.... .


Posted By: iliveforbhm
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 8:42am
I would take the money and throw them in a pit


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 8:49am
The measure of a mans character is what he would do if he thought no one would find out.


Thomas B. Mccauly


Posted By: Krystal Klear
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 9:00am
What about if it's stealing from our oppressors who exploit, tear down, and hinder black people?  Like the Asians, Jews, Whites, etc...  They make money off of us, but dont help us.  We buy their goods, rent their apartments, eat their foods, etc. They don't do sh*t for us.  If I see a shoplifter in the BSS, I dont say anything.  The koreans dont care about us


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 9:05am
You don't think we play apart in oppressing ourselves? Just asking? I mean in Lee Beauty supply risking your freedom for some edge control is just plain stupid. End up with a petty theft record under the guise that you getting the man back??

These same ninjas talking about someone holding them back kids got Jordons in 22 colors but have $0.00 dollars in a college fund.


Posted By: Krystal Klear
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 9:18am
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

You don't think we play apart in oppressing ourselves? Just asking? I mean in Lee Beauty supply risking your freedom for some edge control is just plain stupid. End up with a petty theft record under the guise that you getting the man back??

These same ninjas talking about someone holding them back kids got Jordons in 22 colors but have $0.00 dollars in a college fund.
I didn't say I was stealing, I said if I saw someone shoplifting, I'm not saying anything.   anytime I go to a BSS, Chinese food store, Nail salon, liquor store, etc, I never see a black person behind the counter.  They can hire us, teach us, mentor us, give back in scholarships or other charitable events, but nooooo.  All they do is take our money.  

Blacks try to start up their own businesses, but the operating costs are too high. The prices are always favorable for the asians because they have connections.  Everytime I go to a hair show in ATL and see a non-black person trying to sell their product TO US, I get sooo madAngry


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 9:19am
I know you didn't say YOU was stealing, I was saying for the people in their putting they hands on stuff they ain't pay for.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 9:25am
A black girl did my nails yesterday, patronizing Koreans for nails is a choice.


That is all.


Posted By: Lilaca
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 9:53am
I would give them the ticket, i wouldn't disclose they won though and act all cool and ish.


Providing lottery ticks have an expiry date....after that date knowing they haven't claimed i would mention that the ticket they had, had the winning numbers whilst standing next to the nearest exit.



But then again they could be willing to share....But i'd rather them suggest sharing it than me. 


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 9:54am
Why we running errands fo folks weon like???Unhappy


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 9:54am
I don't eff with no Korean nail or BSS.
My eyebrows have looks a straight fool for month bc I wouldn't go to them.
I found me a black shop who threads magnificently .
I don't do nails though that ain't me


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 9:57am
Idk know what I'd do though.
I like to think I have decent morals when it comes to looking out for my people but I'm not sure what I'd do in this circumstance.
Hopefully I'd give them their ticket.
Everyone has their due as my granny says...


Posted By: zolloh
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 10:39am
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

You don't think we play apart in oppressing ourselves? Just asking? I mean in Lee Beauty supply risking your freedom for some edge control is just plain stupid. End up with a petty theft record under the guise that you getting the man back??

These same ninjas talking about someone holding them back kids got Jordons in 22 colors but have $0.00 dollars in a college fund.
LOL Cry LOL
 
this ish is amazing tho, my 4zz edges get laid to the gawds! Shocked

buttermm i aint giving you your $100k lotto ticket though, possession is nine tenths of the law and all that


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 10:41am
Originally posted by zolloh zolloh wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

You don't think we play apart in oppressing ourselves? Just asking? I mean in Lee Beauty supply risking your freedom for some edge control is just plain stupid. End up with a petty theft record under the guise that you getting the man back??

These same ninjas talking about someone holding them back kids got Jordons in 22 colors but have $0.00 dollars in a college fund.
LOL Cry LOL
 
this ish is amazing tho, my 4zz edges get laid to the gawds! Shocked

buttermm i aint giving you your $100k lotto ticket though, possession is nine tenths of the law and all that

I will have to check that out, Paid for at the counter of course.


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 1:30pm
I can't steal from fam or friends...I can't do that.


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 1:31pm
It's not stealing...it's withholding. 


Posted By: AmiliaCabral
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 3:48pm
give it to em

this dude on my block got stabbed 32 times over a lottery ticket. people know what numbers they pick and aint nobody gonna take my life over no sh*t like that

but ima go in with a gun and demand that they give me a cut


Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: Jan 19 2014 at 4:43pm
I would give them their winning ticket and tell them that they won.
But I would be disappointed if they didn't even offer to take me out on a celebratory dinner for their win (and my good luck that rubbed on them).



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