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Topic: You guys were right
Posted By: Diane (35)
Subject: You guys were right
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 7:45pm
Diane is here for you. Come get your hug Hug
 
How are you feeling now? Sad angry relieved? MurderousEvil Smile



Replies:
Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 7:45pm
Ugh so you guys were right.

I came in here seeking advice from the start of our now over relationship, and ya'll tried to warn me.

I became defensive and didn't want to see the truth. I should have listened. An immature jerk he was as I was stupid and blind.

I should have ran for the hills when I was 40 days in.

I appreciate ya'll for giving it to me real... I'ma listen to the masses next time.

I apologize for being defensive about a no good Brotha.

#notrolling #realshxt


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 7:46pm

i dont remember


Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 7:47pm
I like how BHM changed my nixxa to a Brotha.


Posted By: YoursTruly
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 7:47pm
Can we get a link for a refresher....


Posted By: GG
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 7:47pm
Making mistakes is how you learn. Don't feel too bad.


Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 7:48pm
Someone will be in here with receipts. smh @ me


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 7:50pm
JustMe never mind the receipts and lank dropping and the "we told you so"s that may come. We're glad you saw the situation for what it really was and hope you get over this creep quickly. *hands you a drink and some tissues*
 
ETA Naah bunny Im being nice tonight.Smile


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 7:50pm
Originally posted by YoursTruly YoursTruly wrote:

Can we get a link for a refresher....
Diane will get that 4 uLOL


Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 7:55pm
Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:


Diane is here for you. Come get your hug
Hug
 
How are you feeling now? Sad angry relieved? MurderousEvil Smile


Hopeful. Trying to pick up the pieces. A little broken, extremely low

blows were thrown, the situation became violent. Cop were called. My

phone is broken. The situation just became completely out of control in

a matter of days. I'm trying to cope with the damage to my self esteem

and move on. I just moved to a new neighborhood. wooooosahhh. I had to

get that out.

Happy it ended sooner than later. A complete recipe for disaster.


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 7:55pm
That's big of you to admit. You were definitely showing your ass in that thread, but we all live and learn.

Kudos to you cuz I don't think I could have admitted I was wrong after the way you got ran thru.

Be glad you're free.


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 7:56pm
Originally posted by JustMe90 JustMe90 wrote:

Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:


Diane is here for you. Come get your hug
Hug
 
How are you feeling now? Sad angry relieved? MurderousEvil Smile


Hopeful. Trying to pick up the pieces. A little broken, extremely low

blows were thrown, the situation became violent. Cop were called. My

phone is broken. The situation just became completely out of control in

a matter of days. I'm trying to cope with the damage to my self esteem

and move on. I just moved to a new neighborhood. wooooosahhh. I had to

get that out.

Happy it ended sooner than late. A complete recipe for disaster.
oh wow, I hope ur ok & not hurt too bad.  Get some brothers or uncles to fucc him up


Posted By: yaya24
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 7:56pm
Because I'm bored, never read it and nosy-

lank:
Topic: http://f3.blackhairmedia.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=366696&KW=&title=he-cheated-and-i-want-him-to" rel="nofollow - He cheated and I want him to


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 7:57pm
Mercy! the man put his hands on you. I'm very glad you out and alive. And you were able to move somewhere else. He doesn't know your new address does he? If yes can you please get a restraining order?
 
You're self esteem will be repaired with time. Don't beat yourself up too bad about it all. He was the bad person here.


Posted By: OrriannaRose
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 7:58pm
Originally posted by yaya24 yaya24 wrote:

Because I'm bored, never read it and nosy-

lank:
Topic: http://f3.blackhairmedia.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=366696&KW=&title=he-cheated-and-i-want-him-to" rel="nofollow - He cheated and I want him to

Summary for the lazy:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

rumby...i'll do my best...
 
* op asked should she ask her bf to call the other woman and dead things so she can hear it
 
* most told her to save her energy for more important activities
 
* some asked deeper questions and got a lil jiggy with it
 
* op caught feelings and announced that he agreed to do it but she didn't require it.  she also said that he was willing to move her into a new home and take care of her to show her that he means bizness and also spend his whole check to get her some chanel boots
 
* some told her not fall for the okie doke
 
* some told her to get dat money hunty
 
* one asked her to clarify if, in fact his check = a pair of chanel boots and the frequency of said check
 
* op indicated that chanel boots = 2 hours of his pay
 
* loads of questions commentary and side eyes ensued (becky dropped her resume)
 
* more feelings caught...op made a few slick comments in ref to BLACKhm and BLACK women in general...op matched and raised becky's resume...she has a few aas, bas, masters and will have her phd at 23.
 
* gkisses drove by and dropped reciepts on op's previous posts regarding this same man indicating that he currently lives with her...and was cheating 40 days in
 
* more side eyes, commentary and additional feelings caught (maysay said she may as well gone head and add std to that list of letters behind her name)
 
* op claims to be black/white/asian/hatian/trini...ect ect ect...and color blind...yet coincidently several shades lighter than a paper bag...
 
* more side eyes...commentary...jokes...
 
* and so here we are...
 
 
 


Posted By: AmiliaCabral
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:00pm
girl put on "I will survive" and you will be aight

Don't let a ain't sh*t nicca stop your shine, live and learn




Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:00pm
Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

That's big of you to admit. You were definitely showing your ass in that thread, but we all live and learn.

Kudos to you cuz I don't think I could have admitted I was wrong after the way you got ran thru.

Be glad you're free.


Ya'll couldn't tell me nothing!

He told me flat out he don't wanna be with me because he wants to fu*k other women

And then expected us to be friends??


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:01pm
Damn he cheated then dumped you.....you need crazy girl friends......


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:02pm
Did he ever make that call?

Did you fight back?

You shoulda called him momma?


Key his car!



Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:02pm
Yes he knows and I have a police report.

Busted my lip and all, and said it was because I didn't shut up when I begged him to GET THE F**K OUT!!


Posted By: HowardAlumAKA
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:03pm
Get chu a white man


Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:04pm
I'm shocked...never thought it could escalate to this, but the signs were definitely there. Biggest lesson of all. Never, ever, ever ignore the signs.....


Posted By: AmiliaCabral
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:04pm
He live in the ny tristate???


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:07pm
Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Get chu a white man


You got one?




Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:07pm
I can't recall most topics or if i post in your first one . Thank God you made it out alive . I hope a few other members will read your update and leave .


Posted By: HowardAlumAKA
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:09pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Get chu a white man


You got one?





Yes.


Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:10pm
Never made the call....


Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:11pm
Thanks...I appreciate this....


Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:12pm
[QUOTE=AmiliaCabral] He live in the ny tristate???[/QUOTE

Yes


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:14pm
Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Get chu a white man


You got one?





Yes.


The coon counsel will be in touch....


Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:15pm
I was unbelievably blind....

He really told me whatever he thought I wanted to here and used me. Never loved me. NO way. As much as I wanna say he did I can't see it..

Sad part is I still have feelings for him. I'll never act on them because I realize it's just the rejection and self esteem messing with me. It will pass and I came here to stay focused.

This happened last night. So much has happened.


Posted By: yaya24
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:18pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:



The coon counsel will be in touch....


LOL omg lol


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:18pm

Y'all don't have any kids right?



Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:21pm
Noooo kids.


Posted By: HowardAlumAKA
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:22pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Get chu a white man


You got one?





Yes.


The coon counsel will be in touch....




I've mentioned this before I date them all. Asian, black Hispanic, Muslim, purple, white, alien....I have some Muslim Indian men who love them some black women to go around if the coon counsel will convert....




Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:22pm
Originally posted by yaya24 yaya24 wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:



The coon counsel will be in touch....


LOL omg lol


Tameeera got us backed up..and...the penguin on vacation.


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:24pm
Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Get chu a white man


You got one?





Yes.


The coon counsel will be in touch....




I've mentioned this before I date them all. Asian, black Hispanic, Muslim, purple, white, alien....I have some Muslim Indian men who love them some black women to go around if the coon counsel will convert....



what that paper lookin like tho? Geek


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:27pm
that's good news OP!

you can cut him loose and never have to look back!!

be grateful your eyes were opened before things went any further. some people don't see the light until they've gotten married/had a child

you might be upset or hurt right now but count your blessings honey


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:28pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Get chu a white man


You got one?





Yes.


The coon counsel will be in touch....




I've mentioned this before I date them all. Asian, black Hispanic, Muslim, purple, white, alien....I have some Muslim Indian men who love them some black women to go around if the coon counsel will convert....



what that paper lookin like tho? Geek



Prolly much less then their wives get......



Posted By: Gia2009
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:29pm
I was about to say you must be from my city, because I heard today that this same thing happened to a girl I know just yesterday or a few days ago. Anyway, never give your heart to a man until you know for sure that he is into you! You got to go into relationships with a heart of stone. That is the only way you can maintain your self-esteem.

Don't worry about him, he's a loser and didn't deserve you and just wants to whore around. You don't need that type of man in your life. Only "boys" do what he does. Take time for yourself for a while and when you're ready find you a real man, just make sure you don't start catching feelings early in the game. I don't give a damn if he buys you roses and takes you to dinner and buys you what ever you want. Rule #1 Never catch feelings unless you know his feelings are real and not lies.


Posted By: Butta Cookie
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:30pm
*stomps in thread with my chanel boots on*

WELL WELL WELL LOOKA WHAT WE GOT RIGHTS HUR!

*Edited to add*

Told you you weren't bout that lyfe!


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:31pm
Butta, dont Cry


Posted By: HowardAlumAKA
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:31pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Get chu a white man


You got one?





Yes.


The coon counsel will be in touch....




I've mentioned this before I date them all. Asian, black Hispanic, Muslim, purple, white, alien....I have some Muslim Indian men who love them some black women to go around if the coon counsel will convert....



what that paper lookin like tho? Geek




Software programmers, application developers, you know, those techies at work who head up the larger funded projects with the thick ass accents who piss you off cause you can't understand them. Looking pretty swell if I say so myself.




Induct me if you want coon counsel, but I didn't meet too many black men while traveling for work and if I did they said I "won't let a man be a man" or was on the road too much. If I got an assignment in a small ass hick town with a population of 200 Imma go out and mingle.

Now let me go make him his sammich right quick.


Posted By: NARSAddict
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:32pm
Originally posted by JustMe90 JustMe90 wrote:

Ugh so you guys were right.

I came in here seeking advice from the start of our now over relationship, and ya'll tried to warn me.

I became defensive and didn't want to see the truth. I should have listened. An immature jerk he was as I was stupid and blind.

I should have ran for the hills when I was 40 days in.

I appreciate ya'll for giving it to me real... I'ma listen to the masses next time.

I apologize for being defensive about a no good Brotha.

#notrolling #realshxt



Considered it a life lesson and hopefully you will see the signs and have your exit strategy in place.


Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:38pm
Originally posted by Butta Cookie Butta Cookie wrote:

*stomps in thread with my chanel boots on*

WELL WELL WELL LOOKA WHAT WE GOT RIGHTS HUR!

*Edited to add*

Told you you weren't bout that lyfe!


Never even got the boots.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:38pm
Originally posted by Butta Cookie Butta Cookie wrote:

*stomps in thread with my chanel boots on*

WELL WELL WELL LOOKA WHAT WE GOT RIGHTS HUR!

*Edited to add*

Told you you weren't bout that lyfe!



You ain't chit.....but I laughed at Chanel boots tho....


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:40pm
Originally posted by Butta Cookie Butta Cookie wrote:

*stomps in thread with my chanel boots on*

WELL WELL WELL LOOKA WHAT WE GOT RIGHTS HUR!

*Edited to add*

Told you you weren't bout that lyfe!




Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:40pm
Originally posted by JustMe90 JustMe90 wrote:

Originally posted by Butta Cookie Butta Cookie wrote:

*stomps in thread with my chanel boots on*

WELL WELL WELL LOOKA WHAT WE GOT RIGHTS HUR!

*Edited to add*

Told you you weren't bout that lyfe!


Never even got the boots.



Dayum he duped you.....it's okay.....what happened with the apartment?


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:43pm
Indians have teeny tiny dicks.
Go to one of the NSBE conventions if you wanna look at black engineers. 


Posted By: danieb23
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:45pm
Originally posted by Butta Cookie Butta Cookie wrote:

*stomps in thread with my chanel boots on*

WELL WELL WELL LOOKA WHAT WE GOT RIGHTS HUR!

*Edited to add*

Told you you weren't bout that lyfe!




Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:46pm
On the day that I'm to sign the lease he tells me he's not moving in with me...I go ahead with it.

We break up two days later and all hell broke loose.

I'm happy to rebuild my life by myself. I need to be stronger.


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:46pm
Originally posted by JustMe90 JustMe90 wrote:

Originally posted by Butta Cookie Butta Cookie wrote:

*stomps in thread with my chanel boots on*

WELL WELL WELL LOOKA WHAT WE GOT RIGHTS HUR!

*Edited to add*

Told you you weren't bout that lyfe!


Never even got the boots.


Butta, you bout to get Sandra's Tupac gif. I knew you were gonna come show your ass.

JM...shhhhhh...just quit. Trust me girl.


Posted By: danieb23
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:47pm
Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Get chu a white man


You got one?





Yes.


The coon counsel will be in touch....




I've mentioned this before I date them all. Asian, black Hispanic, Muslim, purple, white, alien....I have some Muslim Indian men who love them some black women to go around if the coon counsel will convert....



what that paper lookin like tho? Geek




Software programmers, application developers, you know, those techies at work who head up the larger funded projects with the thick ass accents who piss you off cause you can't understand them. Looking pretty swell if I say so myself.




Induct me if you want coon counsel, but I didn't meet too many black men while traveling for work and if I did they said I "won't let a man be a man" or was on the road too much. If I got an assignment in a small ass hick town with a population of 200 Imma go out and mingle.

Now let me go make him his sammich right quick.



Girrrlll,

You better not be the chick in that one topic that was making sandwiches for a ring


Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:49pm
It's okay..I reaaallly need to laugh. Even if it's at my own expense. This nucca broke my phone I can't even call a friend right now.


Posted By: Butta Cookie
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:51pm
1 mo thang before I take my seat: was I right when I said he was in the "pharmaceutical" industry?


Posted By: danieb23
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:56pm
Originally posted by JustMe90 JustMe90 wrote:

No. He's on that scammer wave. The reason why Barney's target young AA's..


This sh*t just gets worse and worse.

Did you know this while y'all were dating/fcking?


Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:56pm
No. He's on that scammer wave. The reason why Barney's target young AA's..


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:57pm
Originally posted by JustMe90 JustMe90 wrote:

It's okay..I reaaallly need to laugh. Even if it's at my own expense. This nucca broke my phone I can't even call a friend right now.
 
JustMe meet the INSTANT mood lifter. Start at a random page and keep going.
http://f2.blackhairmedia.com/pure-lols_topic341537.html" rel="nofollow - http://f2.blackhairmedia.com/pure-lols_topic341537.html  
 
School start back as yet? Try to focus on that not him ( much easier to say than do I know)
 
LAAAAWWWWWDDDDDD him bruck (break) your phone and bust up your mouth?!. Man if you lived here we could gather a couple of my hot head peeps and slaughter that fool!AngryAngryAngryAngry Just done him entire bloodline!
 
Butta's comment was nutten. lol


Posted By: Butta Cookie
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 8:59pm
Ok *takes seat*


Posted By: AmiliaCabral
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 9:00pm
Originally posted by JustMe90 JustMe90 wrote:

No. He's on that scammer wave. The reason why Barney's target young AA's..


Damn ma...you're better off. If you stayed with him you'd only be a prison wifey.


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 9:02pm
Originally posted by Butta Cookie Butta Cookie wrote:

Ok *takes seat*


Man, I told her ass to stop sharing.



Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 9:03pm
Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

Originally posted by JustMe90 JustMe90 wrote:

It's okay..I reaaallly need to laugh. Even if it's at my own expense. This nucca broke my phone I can't even call a friend right now.

 
JustMe meet the INSTANT mood lifter. Start at a random page and keep going.
http://f2.blackhairmedia.com/pure-lols_topic341537.html" rel="nofollow - http://f2.blackhairmedia.com/pure-lols_topic341537.html  
 
School start back as yet? Try to focus on that not him ( much easier to say than do I know)
 
LAAAAWWWWWDDDDDD him bruck (break) your phone and bust up your mouth?!. Man if you lived here we could gather a couple of my hot head peeps and slaughter that fool!AngryAngryAngryAngry Just done him entire bloodline!
 
Butta's comment was nutten. lol


Thanks Boo


Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 9:06pm
I'll be starting soon. I need to unpack and put my bed together.


Posted By: ThatGurlD
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 9:08pm
Shoot, you made it out with no children and your youth?  Clap


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 9:09pm
Rough few months for you.
Hope you're done.
We already have a DV update thread from another member and don't need another.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 9:10pm
Originally posted by JustMe90 JustMe90 wrote:

No. He's on that scammer wave. The reason why Barney's target young AA's..



Guuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurl


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 9:11pm
Oh and stay away from aspiring rappers/artists


Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 9:11pm
I remember you!
Glad you are out. Take your time to heal, and enjoy your single days, they can be funTongue


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 9:49pm
We usually are.

That being said, I don't recall the original thread, but I'm glad you got out of the situation safely.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 1:21am
did he ever buy the boots


Posted By: danieb23
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 1:46am
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

did he ever buy the boots


She said no


Posted By: Jewelsnyc
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 3:22am
Originally posted by JustMe90 JustMe90 wrote:

Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

That's big of you to admit. You were definitely showing your ass in that thread, but we all live and learn.

Kudos to you cuz I don't think I could have admitted I was wrong after the way you got ran thru.

Be glad you're free.


Ya'll couldn't tell me nothing!

He told me flat out he don't wanna be with me because he wants to fu*k other women


And then expected us to be friends??

that's kinda cold...on the one hand at least he was honest & didn't continue to put you through the bullshyt of the cheating & lying...but on the other hand he could've told you that shyt prior to you getting in a relationship & getting your feelings all involved...I hope this experience hasn't scarred you too badly...take it as a lesson learned.

guess he ain't wanna buy them boots....
.Stern Smile


Posted By: Ms_Kudos
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 8:45am
Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:



I've mentioned this before I date them all. Asian, black Hispanic, Muslim, purple, white, alien....I have some Muslim Indian men who love them some black women to go around if the coon counsel will convert....


what that paper lookin like tho? Geek


Software programmers, application developers, you know, those techies at work who head up the larger funded projects with the thick ass accents who piss you off cause you can't understand them. Looking pretty swell if I say so myself.

PM me Stern Smile

Oh, and JustMe90...you'll be alright.  We all make man mistakes.  


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 9:20am
Originally posted by danieb23 danieb23 wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

did he ever buy the boots


She said no


According to this thread he was never going to buy themConfused. He was waiting on that moment to scam them for OP. They will be hot on his arse since they are trying to control the scamming. Can I get his nationality please?

Sorry you had to go through that. I'm guessing you didn't have a pot or frying pan unpacked at the time of this incident cos lawdddddddddd.


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 9:22am
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Indians have teeny tiny dicks.
Go to one of the NSBE conventions if you wanna look at black engineers. 


Sang she gotta work with what she got around her....I do agree with Sang on the teeny d**k comment.


Posted By: hauteshellbi
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 9:45am
is the op the woman that graduated with her masters at 15 or some sht like that?


Posted By: Butta Cookie
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 9:47am
Originally posted by hauteshellbi hauteshellbi wrote:

is the op the woman that graduated with her masters at 15 or some sht like that?


Yep. She has her GED, PHD, ABC &123 @ 20.


Posted By: Princess_S
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 9:49am
Originally posted by hauteshellbi hauteshellbi wrote:

is the op the woman that graduated with her masters at 15 or some sht like that?

yeah...something like that


Posted By: hauteshellbi
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 9:53am
lmfaooo butta ___/\_____
 
meh op is messy


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 9:57am
Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Originally posted by danieb23 danieb23 wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

did he ever buy the boots


She said no


According to this thread he was never going to buy themConfused. He was waiting on that moment to scam them for OP. They will be hot on his arse since they are trying to control the scamming. Can I get his nationality please?

Sorry you had to go through that. I'm guessing you didn't have a pot or frying pan unpacked at the time of this incident cos lawdddddddddd.

lol wtf...i guess i need to read this. 


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 10:01am
Where the lank to the original thread at BHM?!


Posted By: GoodGirlGoneGr8
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 10:04am
^^Right?!


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 10:05am
You can always be a petty bish and call them people on his ass...what stores are his fave??


Posted By: GoodGirlGoneGr8
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 10:13am
Is it this one?

http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/he-cheated-and-i-want-him-to_topic366696_post10635163.html?KW=#10635163" rel="nofollow - http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/he-cheated-and-i-want-him-to_topic366696_post10635163.html?KW=#10635163


Posted By: Tbaby
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 10:13am
Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

Where the lank to the original thread at BHM?!


here it is.  I didn't read all of it either...

Originally posted by yaya24 yaya24 wrote:

Because I'm bored, never read it and nosy-

lank:
Topic: http://f3.blackhairmedia.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=366696&KW=&title=he-cheated-and-i-want-him-to" rel="nofollow - He cheated and I want him to



Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 10:14am
Originally posted by danieb23 danieb23 wrote:

Originally posted by JustMe90 JustMe90 wrote:

No. He's on that scammer wave. The reason why Barney's target young AA's..


This sh*t just gets worse and worse.

Did you know this while y'all were dating/fcking?

right, i thought he had some legit profession where he made tons of money.  ah, well.  the relationship ended quickly just like it needed to. 


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 10:18am
Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Get chu a white man


You got one?

Yes.


The coon counsel will be in touch....

I've mentioned this before I date them all. Asian, black Hispanic, Muslim, purple, white, alien....I have some Muslim Indian men who love them some black women to go around if the coon counsel will convert....



what that paper lookin like tho? Geek




Software programmers, application developers, you know, those techies at work who head up the larger funded projects with the thick ass accents who piss you off cause you can't understand them. Looking pretty swell if I say so myself.

Induct me if you want coon counsel, but I didn't meet too many black men while traveling for work and if I did they said I "won't let a man be a man" or was on the road too much. If I got an assignment in a small ass hick town with a population of 200 Imma go out and mingle.

Now let me go make him his sammich right quick.

whats your location?


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 10:22am
THX G4 & Tbaby! 78 pages though, lawdamursy!

Is there a summary? If not, which 5 pages should I read? TIA!

eta: And she was makin sammiches too....bacon, lettuce & tears....smh


Posted By: Katrenia
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 10:34am
You can have all those book smarts but in relationships, nothing beats the school of hard knocks.
Use it as a learning experience.
Move-on and be wiser.
Hug


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 10:45am
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by danieb23 danieb23 wrote:

Originally posted by JustMe90 JustMe90 wrote:

No. He's on that scammer wave. The reason why Barney's target young AA's..


This sh*t just gets worse and worse.

Did you know this while y'all were dating/fcking?

right, i thought he had some legit profession where he made tons of money.  ah, well.  the relationship ended quickly just like it needed to. 


I can't remember who it was but a member was calling out w2's and tax forms talking about OP's boo is either in illegal business or she is lying cos ain't no way even an IT person can make that kinda chanel boot money in 2 hours like she said. She was like he was self employed business person or some shytt like that. I like how his profession was buttered up during the story....until the butter melted. Now I see the hard work he put into those 2 hours. 1.5 hours scouting the stores, 10 mins stealing and swiping fake CC's, then the rest 20 minutes running for his life. Then put your life in danger cos you were dumb enough to want to move in with him-an accessory to a CRIME!!!


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 10:52am
I'm mad he didn't steal those boots for her at least


Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 11:22am
Niccas ain't s.hit. hug to u.

That's what me and my friends say at the end of bad situations. Niccas, not men.


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 11:45am
Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by joileprincess joileprincess wrote:


Or if they had a contingency plan she (the actual chick) was going to be choking back laughter talking about "Ok baby." Knowing damn well she was going to see him very soon lol.
 
oh yes...he probably offered chicky poo the same "deal"...op...she got yo boots gurl!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL
 
Hug


Posted By: tropical-punch
Date Posted: Jan 15 2014 at 5:33pm
oh



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