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Topic: Call the police! Parenting fail .WHOLE family fail
Posted By: Krystal Klear
Subject: Call the police! Parenting fail .WHOLE family fail
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 12:13pm
they are fking ANIMALS and BULLIES!!CryCry



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Posted By: Krystal Klear
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 12:15pm
somebody has to know where these savages are.  I want to report them to the police asap!AngryCry

I cant believe what I just saw!


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 12:17pm
not going to watch


Posted By: Im_oh_so_hott
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 12:21pm
The only problem is that it was recorded and uploaded, the reaction isn't a problem for me. If my little brother or cousin risked jail time for stealing some sh*t that cost $2 i'd flip and if my little brother went into a store with someone and they stole something while they were with him, he'd want to fight.


Posted By: blaquefoxx
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 12:22pm
I don't expect anything less from momma's boysSleepy


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 12:25pm
i had to stop watching.
So they going off cuz he stole $2?
And then dumb enough to film it?
Yeah, now they all going to jail
dumb asses


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 12:27pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

i had to stop watching.
So they going off cuz he stole $2?
And then dumb enough to film it?
Yeah, now they all going to jail
dumb asses


no, he stole $2 headphones and put them and his friends mother's purse and let her walk out the store with them. 


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 12:29pm
youtube will flag the sh*t out of videos with white people being violent but when its black people it's just called entertainment.


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 12:29pm
oh, okay, thanks for the clarification.
welll...in that case...it should have been a 1 on 1 and not filmed Stern Smile


Posted By: beautiful-stranger
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 12:30pm
let me watch, but my initial thoughts if he stole headphones and put them in someone elses purse, guess what he is practicing to be a thief and I am going to let him have it. End. Of. Story. 

Are we supposed to pacify our children when they exhibit behaviors that could turn into terrible and dangerous characteristics later in life


Posted By: Krystal Klear
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 12:30pm
Originally posted by Im_oh_so_hott Im_oh_so_hott wrote:

The only problem is that it was recorded and uploaded, the reaction isn't a problem for me. If my little brother or cousin risked jail time for stealing some sh*t that cost $2 i'd flip and if my little brother went into a store with someone and they stole something while they were with him, he'd want to fight.
you condone that level of violence?Shocked my God! Were you raised in a similar household where these actions are acceptable?  It is TOTALLY inappropriate!  My goodness I started to shake as he was beating him up.  Where is the humanity?CryConfused


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 12:31pm
Im not sure how one could "properly" handle something like this tbh...
should she have just called his mother and told her what happened and banned him from the home?
There is no lesson to be learned from that imo
Some ppl gotta learn the hard way


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 12:32pm
I didn't watch but $2 and getting your arse whopped by a relative is better than petty thief stealing and getting your arse whopped and tore open in jail.


Posted By: Krystal Klear
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 12:35pm
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

i had to stop watching.
So they going off cuz he stole $2?
And then dumb enough to film it?
Yeah, now they all going to jail
dumb asses


no, he stole $2 headphones and put them and his friends mother's purse and let her walk out the store with them. 
I think they are family, like aunt, cousins, etc... because they talked about telling the mom and idk who the hell beats someone like that if they aren't related.   They seemed real familiar with each other like they grew up together.  And she was talking about her real son as opposed to the one who she cares for occasionallyCry


Posted By: Krystal Klear
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 12:36pm
I think my calling in life is to help boys and girls going down the wrong path or in bad environments.  My heart goes out to him.  I want to rescue that boy so badBroken Heart


Posted By: Krystal Klear
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 12:39pm
Originally posted by beautiful-stranger beautiful-stranger wrote:

let me watch, but my initial thoughts if he stole headphones and put them in someone elses purse, guess what he is practicing to be a thief and I am going to let him have it. End. Of. Story. 

Are we supposed to pacify our children when they exhibit behaviors that could turn into terrible and dangerous characteristics later in life
they could have just yelled at him, not abuse and assault him.  idc what anyone says, what they did was CRIMINAL, not disciplineThumbs Down


Posted By: GG
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 1:22pm
Why do all these people need to post things online?!?! What if they arrest them all for assault?


Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 1:48pm
smh....... I'm conflicted.....Sometimes people act like they don't have any sense and literally need to be punched upside the head........How could he put that lady in danger of getting a shoplifting charge......depending on her type of employment she could lose her job etc......

I think the guy getting hit may be some type of orphan or he was staying with the lady (in a type of child/guardian relationship)......


Posted By: Qualified
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 1:55pm
Qualified is on the fence on this one. It takes a village! Now idk if it should have been a round-robin on his ass while recording it but, I would have whooped his ass too.


Posted By: Katrenia
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 2:03pm
As a child/young teen I was often beat down because I stole from clothing stores but there is a difference between terrorizing and getting a whoopin. 
They went way beyond, that was intimidation, humiliation and they brutalized that young man. 
Family or not they went about it the wrong way. 

That was hard to watch.


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 2:05pm
Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

As a child/young teen I was often beat down because I stole from clothing stores but there is a difference between terrorizing and getting a whoopin. 
They went way beyond, that was intimidation, humiliation and they brutalized that young man. 
Family or not they went about it the wrong way. 

That was hard to watch.


LOL you dont learn


Posted By: yaya24
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 2:06pm
IA. (Didn't watch the video)

Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Why do all these people need to post things online?!?! What if they arrest them all for assault?


Posted By: Katrenia
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 2:15pm
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

As a child/young teen I was often beat down because I stole from clothing stores but there is a difference between terrorizing and getting a whoopin. 
They went way beyond, that was intimidation, humiliation and they brutalized that young man. 
Family or not they went about it the wrong way. 

That was hard to watch.


LOL you dont learn
My Granny would whoop my butt in the police station and dare any of them to say anything.
I learned. LOL


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 3:04pm
pure violent ratchet nigguh behavior


Posted By: fckwitmeuknoigotit
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 3:09pm
Fatherless Brothas


Posted By: HowardAlumAKA
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 5:32pm
I'm on the fence too.....because what IF she would have went to jail and got prosecuted over some damn headphones? They don't wanna hear sh*t about that boy put it in her purse because he could deny it.


Have any of y'all ever got in trouble for your friend stealing at the mall? Even today if someone with you is caught stealing, you are going down too. I know because I bailed out a friend over this and she had to get the damn case sealed. Her record was squeaky clean. My friend even tried to go as far as suing the woman over the situation


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 5:35pm
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

i had to stop watching.
So they going off cuz he stole $2?
And then dumb enough to film it?
Yeah, now they all going to jail
dumb asses


no, he stole $2 headphones and put them and his friends mother's purse and let her walk out the store with them. 
He used someone's mama in a crime? Pause.Shocked

KIR, I can't see the video but from the sounds of it, they went waaaay overboard and made the mistake of uploading it on youtube.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 5:40pm
This is way overboard.
The way that lady curses is disgusting.
He comes from a family of filth.
I can hear it from her own mouth.

I hate these ppl.
Ugh, I hate ppl who curse like that.
9 times of out 10 I already know what type of filth they are. I hate it.


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 5:43pm
i aint gon' lie...my cousin when we were young needed slaps like that upside the head.
i understand moms reaction.

was dude in the blue a grown man? i feel like its better to get that beating at home instead of the streets...

shut up ice...idk what to say really. lol that vid was kinda intense. my head hurts now from them slaps.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 5:43pm
The du rags were all I needed to see.
I hate this family.


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 5:47pm

I  guarantee he wont do this again!! Guarantee!!

Even though it was a bit excessive, especially from that guy, he needed to be put in his place

I sure wish a lot more of these children these days were


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 5:51pm
This was not a bit excessive .
This was abuse.

Plenty of negroes running amuck got their asses beat and it resulted in utter failure.
Who talks like this to a human being?

We need less of this bs.
This is NOT an example of good parenting .
This is not what our black men need.

Ugh I'm totally disgusted. I want to gag


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 5:51pm
for the folk who were vehemently against the way the family decided to handle the situation, what would yall have done if you were in the same situation?


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 5:52pm

harsh but this could have saved his life

2$ can easily turn into 20$ and then 200$

and then years locked away behind bars

i'd rather face that once than lose precious years of my young life in prison




Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 5:53pm
Jones & Modeless, how bad is this video?! I cain't seeeee.Cry


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 5:55pm

not only did he steal but he tried to pin it on the momma by putting it in her purse

had they busted her, i doubt he would have came clean and said he did it

he needed that


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 5:57pm
They were punching him in the face.
Straight face shots.

It's horrendous .


I cannot believe anyone would be for this.
No one needs this.
Don't tell me this is the way for our children to thrive.
This is absolutely disgusting and should be reported


These ppl are not welcome in magic negro land.

Trash


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 5:59pm
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Jones & Modeless, how bad is this video?! I cain't seeeee.Cry


you might want to listen with headphones/aloneLOL

it gets excessive towards the end when the son steps in

but the momma was right to be upset




Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:01pm
Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

i aint gon' lie...my cousin when we were young needed slaps like that upside the head.
i understand moms reaction.

was dude in the blue a grown man? i feel like its better to get that beating at home instead of the streets...

shut up ice...idk what to say really. lol that vid was kinda intense. my head hurts now from them slaps.
there is never a reason for wtf just happened.  that ni99er needs a bullet thru his chest. everybody in that vid was scum.  The nerve of them acting like they were doing that poor boy a favor with that "discipline" talmbout be glad that its slaps & he aint punching you & smile.  wtf!??!

its infuriating


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:01pm
I can tell she is a terrible parent.
All that cursing .
Ugh

If they are brothers I can guarantee none of them have the same father ole ho ass .


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:02pm


im also inclined to believe he might have been staying with them?

i noticed she kept saying "my real sons" , that sounds like he was more than just company of the evening

sounds like she might have taken him in or allowed him to stay with them







Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:04pm
Thanks y'all!

Well, lucky for the kid the family posted it on YT so it is easy & obvious evidence for law enforcement.


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:05pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

for the folk who were vehemently against the way the family decided to handle the situation, what would yall have done if you were in the same situation?

In case yall missed it.
Bunny, Jones, care to tackle?


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:05pm
YouTube is saying it's her step son.


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:06pm
modelless is sick in the head.  You have no compassion or empathy


What I woulda done was sream on him, reprimand w/o cursing or hitting.  My parents would never curse at us or lay hands in that manner.  may they burn in hell


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:07pm
She reminds me of my aunts...on my mama's side.
My dad's family has a lil' more sense.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:08pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

for the folk who were vehemently against the way the family decided to handle the situation, what would yall have done if you were in the same situation?


In case yall missed it.
Bunny, Jones, care to tackle?


So you for this ish? Getting punched in the face like that?

This is not punishment .
She could have spanked him with a belt and take away privileges .

A whole list of things.
I'm not really for spankings but I don't think it's necessarily traumatizing .

This was.


No one should confuse this with a spanking or punishment.

This was pure abuse.

No one is saying the boy was right but this ish was above and beyond comprehension.


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:09pm
Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

modelless is sick in the head.  You have no compassion or empathy


What I woulda done was sream on him, reprimand w/o cursing or hitting.  My parents would never curse at us or lay hands in that manner.  may they burn in hell



LOLyou're right.

now will you be bailing him out of prison or still giving e-diagnosis over bhm






Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:10pm
Look how she talks about her " real sons" .
She probably treats him like ish anyway.

I'd try to set the bish up too


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:10pm
Lol @ spanking.
That looks like a grown ass boy.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:12pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Lol @ spanking.
That looks like a grown ass boy.


So what you can be grown and get the belt.
Or other types of punishments not of the carnal variety but to gang up on this boy like that is ridiculous.


Do some scared straight ish , something.

The next step from spankings is to get punched?

Y'all better gon


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:13pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I can tell she is a terrible parent.
All that cursing .
Ugh

If they are brothers I can guarantee none of them have the same father ole ho ass .
LOL u know I'm thanking all ur posts JonesHeart


most of the times when u read bad news, its ppl in broken homes, no bio dad around, etc...
Cuz there sure didn't seem like there was any family stucture or love in that home.  Some ppl carry on like savages cuz they were raised by wolves.  When u know better, u do better.   Clearly, these nigguhs dont know sh*t!Thumbs Down


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:13pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

for the folk who were vehemently against the way the family decided to handle the situation, what would yall have done if you were in the same situation?


In case yall missed it.
Bunny, Jones, care to tackle?


So you for this ish? Getting punched in the face like that?

This is not punishment .
She could have spanked him with a belt and take away privileges .

A whole list of things.
I'm not really for spankings but I don't think it's necessarily traumatizing .

This was.


No one should confuse this with a spanking or punishment.

This was pure abuse.

No one is saying the boy was right but this ish was above and beyond comprehension.

Im conflicted tbh
I myself didnt care to watch till the end because it was very difficult to watch
but the magnitude of his actions and the consequences that could have followed...im not exactly sure how something like that could have been handled more positively in such a way that the young man would have gotten the point.
If that makes sense


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:13pm
...Embarrassed


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:16pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Lol @ spanking.
That looks like a grown ass boy.

LOL exactly.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:17pm
Calling him a piece of sh*t?
"My real kids ain't going to jail over a piece of sht"

I need to calm down.


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:19pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Lol @ spanking.
That looks like a grown ass boy.


So what you can be grown and get the belt.
Or other types of punishments not of the carnal variety but to gang up on this boy like that is ridiculous.


Do some scared straight ish , something.

The next step from spankings is to get punched?

Y'all better gon

Lol. I didn't say I agree with the video.
Spanking IMO is reserved for the 4-9 yo kids. 
You have to be a bit more creative with the older ones. 


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:20pm
Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Lol @ spanking.
That looks like a grown ass boy.


LOL exactly.


So instead of that he needs a full on gang fight and to be punched in the face and call a piece of sh*t?

You ain't being serious.

I didn't know on the hierarchies ass cuttings Skorpion like upper cuts were next up.

They might as well had call that bus driver


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:20pm
Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

i aint gon' lie...my cousin when we were young needed slaps like that upside the head.
i understand moms reaction.

was dude in the blue a grown man? i feel like its better to get that beating at home instead of the streets...

shut up ice...idk what to say really. lol that vid was kinda intense. my head hurts now from them slaps.
there is never a reason for wtf just happened.  that ni99er needs a bullet thru his chest. everybody in that vid was scum.  The nerve of them acting like they were doing that poor boy a favor with that "discipline" talmbout be glad that its slaps & he aint punching you & smile.  wtf!??!

its infuriating
my cousin was nicknamed the neighborhood terrorist. by the neighborhood/our family/and the cops. he needed it...wont go into details why. just know to this day he is not allowed in my home...and he lives around the block.CryCry

i still understand the moms reaction. had my child stole..im not giving a pat on the back talkin bout at least you didnt get caught.LOL i always joke about it..but i would rko/stone cold stunnerLOL!! the heck outta my child for stealin..especially since i know ive taught them better. 


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:21pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Lol @ spanking.
That looks like a grown ass boy.


So what you can be grown and get the belt.
Or other types of punishments not of the carnal variety but to gang up on this boy like that is ridiculous.


Do some scared straight ish , something.

The next step from spankings is to get punched?

Y'all better gon


Lol. I didn't say I agree with the video.
Spanking IMO is reserved for the 4-9 yo kids. 
You have to be a bit more creative with the older ones. 


I'm just saying If you're going to result to corporal punishment at this age this ain't the way.
Sure be creative .
But not this Django style bloodbath

This sht was crazy


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:22pm
I'm actually more concerned with the way she interacts with that kid more so than the whooping. She's got a filthy mouth, calling the kid a muthafucca every damn minute. What adult speaks to a kid like this on a regular basis and yet expect him to grow up into an upstanding citizen with boundaries, who recognizes right from wrong? Are families that broken out there that basic communication cannot even happen? What kind of family does one expect to raise in that environment? Words can be very damaging. She needs to clean her damn mouth with soap. Generation lost.


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:24pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Lol @ spanking.
That looks like a grown ass boy.


LOL exactly.


So instead of that he needs a full on gang fight and to be punched in the face and call a piece of sh*t?

You ain't being serious.

I didn't know on the hierarchies ass cuttings Skorpion like upper cuts were next up.

They might as well had call that bus driver


breathe jonesy.

i said in my OP that this was a bit excessive, it could have been toned down a little but at least he learned his lesson: either pay for it or dont touch it





Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:24pm
Her cursing was disgusting.
How can you even recover from that ish as a person.
I would hate her and that is NOT a whooping.

They rouundhoused his ass ...several times


Posted By: Jewelsnyc
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:25pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

for the folk who were vehemently against the way the family decided to handle the situation, what would yall have done if you were in the same situation?


In case yall missed it.
Bunny, Jones, care to tackle?


So you for this ish? Getting punched in the face like that?

This is not punishment .
She could have spanked him with a belt and take away privileges .

A whole list of things.
I'm not really for spankings but I don't think it's necessarily traumatizing .

This was.


No one should confuse this with a spanking or punishment.

This was pure abuse.

No one is saying the boy was right but this ish was above and beyond comprehension.
LOLLOLLOLLOL Sorry Jones I busted out laughing...that bearded boy would've laughed inside if she whopped him with a belt...


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:26pm
Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Lol @ spanking.
That looks like a grown ass boy.


LOL exactly.


So instead of that he needs a full on gang fight and to be punched in the face and call a piece of sh*t?

You ain't being serious.

I didn't know on the hierarchies ass cuttings Skorpion like upper cuts were next up.

They might as well had call that bus driver



breathe jonesy.

i said in my OP that this was a bit excessive, it could have been toned down a little but at least he learned his lesson<b style="line-height: 1.4;">: either pay for it or dont touch it
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I ned to breathe
This video has me hyped.
We can't be too sure he learned his lesson.

That ish seems traumatizing might escalate to something else


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:27pm
Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

for the folk who were vehemently against the way the family decided to handle the situation, what would yall have done if you were in the same situation?


In case yall missed it.
Bunny, Jones, care to tackle?


So you for this ish? Getting punched in the face like that?

This is not punishment .
She could have spanked him with a belt and take away privileges .

A whole list of things.
I'm not really for spankings but I don't think it's necessarily traumatizing .

This was.


No one should confuse this with a spanking or punishment.

This was pure abuse.

No one is saying the boy was right but this ish was above and beyond comprehension.

LOLLOLLOLLOL Sorry Jones I busted out laughing...that bearded boy would've laughed inside if she whopped him with a belt...
fine take away privileges.
Do a whole list of things but don't tell me he should have been repeatedly punched in the face and derided like that.



Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:27pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Lol @ spanking.
That looks like a grown ass boy.
Even so, If I have to spank/slap my boys... its on the legs  with an opened hand thru their pants.  Very little impact is felt.  Never EVER to the face EVER!! what kind of monsters are u ppl that think this sh*t is even CLOSE to ok??????Angry


just disgusting!!


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:29pm
I think the cussing is worse than the physical.
Man she reminds me of my great aunt.
All her kids were sellin' drugs and havin' babies at 15.


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:30pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

I think the cussing is worse than the physical.
Man she reminds me of my great aunt.
All her kids were sellin' drugs and havin' babies at 15.

IA


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:31pm
The whole thing was bad.
I don't see how he stands to be there.
Being punched in the face and being told you're not apart of the family and just being talked to like a dog.

Lord...


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:32pm
Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

for the folk who were vehemently against the way the family decided to handle the situation, what would yall have done if you were in the same situation?


In case yall missed it.
Bunny, Jones, care to tackle?


So you for this ish? Getting punched in the face like that?

This is not punishment .
She could have spanked him with a belt and take away privileges .

A whole list of things.
I'm not really for spankings but I don't think it's necessarily traumatizing .

This was.


No one should confuse this with a spanking or punishment.

This was pure abuse.

No one is saying the boy was right but this ish was above and beyond comprehension.
LOLLOLLOLLOL Sorry Jones I busted out laughing...that bearded boy would've laughed inside if she whopped him with a belt...




Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:33pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

for the folk who were vehemently against the way the family decided to handle the situation, what would yall have done if you were in the same situation?


In case yall missed it.
Bunny, Jones, care to tackle?


So you for this ish? Getting punched in the face like that?

This is not punishment .
She could have spanked him with a belt and take away privileges .

A whole list of things.
I'm not really for spankings but I don't think it's necessarily traumatizing .

This was.


No one should confuse this with a spanking or punishment.

This was pure abuse.

No one is saying the boy was right but this ish was above and beyond comprehension.

"She could have spanked him with a belt and take away privileges ."

lol this is a teenager not a 6 year oldLOLLOLLOL


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:36pm
Whatever that doesn't mean your square up and punch this boy in the mouth,
I don't know what kinda rough necks y'all dealing with but it don't take all this to raise a good young man.


If you're doing this
You have failed


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:37pm
The mere fact that she's calling the boy a muthafucca like this suggests that this is the kind of language that she uses on a regular basis. Which means that this kid is probably never exposed with any form of decent discipline (rewards and taking away from privileges when he messes up. He's used to getting straight to the cursing and blows. I couldn't imagine talking to a child/teenager like this, even if the kid lives in the hood. I understand that this is some World Star hip hop shyt and I'm holding on to the idea that this is not representative of a substantial segment of AA families in the hood behaving like this because if it is (or getting any type of expansion), I'm starting to think that the community is too broken on the inside for anything effective to be done to alter the course of events. This is fucced up.

Now although I'm anti-hitting, I recognize that when you live in rough communities as a black person, you can't afford so much as a single fucc up. But this is not the way to bring about change.


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:37pm


 
...I sure hope some of yalls children dont stick their chests out and walk all over you when they become teenagers....


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:37pm
The boy stealing from the store is a fail as well.
Someone failed him long before this beat down


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:37pm
Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:




 
<span style="font-weight: bold;">...I sure hope some of yalls children dont stick their chests out and walk all over you when they become teenagers....</span>


Please don't procreate if you think this is the way to go.

I have plenty make cousins and other young men who are on successful paths and they were not treated like this.

Abandon your uterus if you're planning this ish


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:37pm
yall saddown & get off of jonesy!!  She is RIGHT!!  That poor boy feared for his life & it was heartbreaking to watch him flinch in fear & have to eat those punches.   If my boy stole, I'd make him bring it back to the store & confess to the manager, then we'd threaten him with jail if it happens again.  U can also yell at them & say how disappointed u r,  That you didn't raise them to be a jailbird cuz that's where he'll end up with actions like that.


I am SSSSSSSSOOOOOOOOOOOOO glad I dont have these ghetto ass problems


Posted By: harley_quinn
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:39pm
They are some punk ass bullies. I bet they wouldn't have tried that on somebody who would fight back.


What the young guy did was wrong but they could've gone about this in a whole different route.


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:40pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

 


 
<span style="font-weight: bold;">...I sure hope some of yalls children dont stick their chests out and walk all over you when they become teenagers....</span>
 

Please don't procreate if you think this is the way to go.

I have plenty mail cousins who are on successful paths and they were not treated like this.

Abandon your uterus if you're planning this ish


LOL oh but keep reaching

where did i say this would be my method of discipline?

ill wait






Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:40pm
Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:



 
...I sure hope some of yalls children dont stick their chests out and walk all over you when they become teenagers....
They aren't.  They are mild mannered, soft spoken, well behaved young gentlemen.  Because they were raised right by a woman who has the intelligence, compassion, patience & reasoning to mold them into productive human beings.  not ghetto hoodrat trash!!


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:40pm
I don't know why ppl think they key to raising upstanding men is to beat their asses young.

You don't think these negros you avoid in certain neighborhoods got beatings?

That ain't the way


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:42pm
[QUOTE=Senior Detective]   If my boy stole, I'd make him bring it back to the store & confess to the manager, then we'd threaten him with jail if it happens again.  U can also yell at them & say how disappointed u r,  That you didn't raise them to be a jailbird cuz that's where he'll end up with actions like that.

[/DIV

I agree. But the aunt does not seem like the type to have a wholesome approach to parenting anyway. Even if you're team corporal punishment, it shouldn't be like this and it should not be undermined by all this cussing. The cussing and violence are what they're teaching him about life, not how to navigate the world as a young black man with a future.

I'm sick of seeing these kinds of displays


Posted By: K_Camille
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:43pm
Jones is right.  I'm not up for that vid tonight.


Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:47pm
There is this saying....."those that wont hear will feel"......

Now I am sure that kid heard that shoplifting/setting someone up is wrong.......and hearing did not aid his decision making process......now with these punches upside the head maybe he will know to not shoplift/set someone up........


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:49pm
Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:



 
...I sure hope some of yalls children dont stick their chests out and walk all over you when they become teenagers....
They aren't.  They are mild mannered, soft spoken, well behaved young gentlemen.  Because they were raised right by a woman who has the intelligence, compassion, patience & reasoning to mold them into productive human beings.  not ghetto hoodrat trash!!

LOL


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:49pm
I doubt any responsible parenting goes on in that house..
You have to be crazy to believe it does


Posted By: Jewelsnyc
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:50pm
This starts when they're very young, and unfortunately he obviously practiced this type of behavior before. I didn't condone the level of violence, but I can understand the frustration and tremendous amount of pisstivity I would've felt if someone detained me for some cheap ass headphones someone planted on my person.

When my daughter was about 5 yrs old, my girlfriend and her daughter went to the mall. we went into a shoe store and the kids wandered over & some kinda was found these little skate board charm/toys that came with the purchase of these specific shoes. I had no clue they took the toys. We're walking around & I see them giggling and whispering...I turn around and see them with these little charms & I snatch my daughter up..and told her that she's going to jail....I promise you that little girls eyes got as big as saucer plates...She begged me not to take her back to the store.My girlfriend thought I was over reacting..I said oh hell no if I"m going to allow you to become a criminal at 5!! Well we go back to the store and tell the manager that these were taken, and he started to laugh...he goes, these are free ma'am they come inside the shoe box..

My point in saying allll of that is, if you don't nip certain behaviors in the bud, your child will be doomed to suffer a life full of hardship....which might included gettin yo head buss or a bullet.


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:50pm
Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

There is this saying....."those that wont hear will feel"......

Now I am sure that kid heard that shoplifting/setting someone up is wrong.......and hearing did not aid his decision making process......now with these punches upside the head maybe he will know to not shoplift/set someone up........
thanked.

ia.


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:51pm
Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

 


 
<span style="font-weight: bold;">...I sure hope some of yalls children dont stick their chests out and walk all over you when they become teenagers....</span>
 

Please don't procreate if you think this is the way to go.

I have plenty mail cousins who are on successful paths and they were not treated like this.

Abandon your uterus if you're planning this ish


LOL oh but keep reaching

where did i say this would be my method of discipline?

ill wait




but u cosigning it mughty hard al up & thru this thread.  tsk tsk tsk, ur fellow virgo Nitabug will not approve of ur shenani99ans

@ eanaj, that ppl failed hi stuff is bs cuz i know plenty of ppl that stole small stuff from the grocery store or dollar store & turned out fine,  when kids are teenagers, they petty theif for the adrenaline rush & to get what they want but cant afford.  It aint like they are career criminals like Bout that life.  But even she doesnt deserve to get punched up in her face & stomped on the ground for stealing her true religions.  not at all!!!


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:52pm
Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

This starts when they're very young, and unfortunately he obviously practiced this type of behavior before.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:53pm
Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

This starts when they're very young, and unfortunately he obviously practiced this type of behavior before. I didn't condone the level of violence, but I can understand the frustration and tremendous amount of pisstivity I would've felt if someone detained me for some cheap ass headphones someone planted on my person.

When my daughter was about 5 yrs old, my girlfriend and her daughter went to the mall. we went into a shoe store and the kids wandered over & some kinda was found these little skate board charm/toys that came with the purchase of these specific shoes. I had no clue they took the toys. We're walking around & I see them giggling and whispering...I turn around and see them with these little charms & I snatch my daughter up..and told her that she's going to jail....I promise you that little girls eyes got as big as saucer plates...She begged me not to take her back to the store.My girlfriend thought I was over reacting..I said oh hell no if I"m going to allow you to become a criminal at 5!! Well we go back to the store and tell the manager that these were taken, and he started to laugh...he goes, these are free ma'am they come inside the shoe box..

My point in saying allll of that is, if you don't nip certain behaviors in the bud, your child will be doomed to suffer a life full of hardship....which might included gettin yo head buss or a bullet.


These are not the actions of a caring guardian or of a solid household.
I cannot even believe a human being talks to anyone like this.

This video makes everything very clear .
That teenager is the least of the problems.
You can tell by the ppl who he grew up with.

He didn't rape or kill someone.
A reasonable person can tell these are not reasonable reactions by reasonable people.

Only certain type of ppl engage in these types of behaviors


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:54pm
Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

There is this saying....."those that wont hear will feel"......

Now I am sure that kid heard that shoplifting/setting someone up is wrong.......and hearing did not aid his decision making process......now with these punches upside the head maybe he will know to not shoplift/set someone up........


Well, was this kid ever sat down and told of all the expectations he would be breaking and the disappointment it would cause by stealing? I somehow doubt this, seeing that she spent her time calling him a muthafucca and lord knows what else (like a dumb nicca that will never amount to anything, for example)

I've stolen in my childhood before due to peer pressure. Was never caught but I just KNEW that if I had been caught, what I would fear the most is the shame that they would feel (and yes, the beating I would get). But a brutal reckless beating without setting up a dialogue to guide a kids' moral compass is useless. That woman's language... She needs child-rearing classes


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:55pm
Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

 


 
<span style="font-weight: bold;">...I sure hope some of yalls children dont stick their chests out and walk all over you when they become teenagers....</span>
 

Please don't procreate if you think this is the way to go.

I have plenty mail cousins who are on successful paths and they were not treated like this.

Abandon your uterus if you're planning this ish


LOL oh but keep reaching

where did i say this would be my method of discipline?

ill wait




but u cosigning it mughty hard al up & thru this thread.  tsk tsk tsk, ur fellow virgo Nitabug will not approve of ur shenani99ans



bunny. hunny.LOL

stop.

thanks.Heart




Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:56pm
Their reaction (the beating) is not due to the theft........their reaction is due to him putting the stolen item in the mother's purse (or whatever).....

How would you feel if someone caused you (or your elderly mother) to be arrested due to something you had no knowledge of?


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:56pm
Im still on the fence.
I will say that what is in the video is excessive. The language and the hitting.
I'd never do something like that, nor would I allow it in my home or between family members.
However, that boy is past the age where he only gets a sit down about why stealing/setting someone up is wrong. He has got to be older than 16.
That woman could have lost her job, for all we know she is the bread and butter of the home.

He put their way of life in jeopardy. Ya'll cant tell me that you wouldnt be just as pissed if someone did the same to yall.



Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 6:57pm
Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

Their reaction is not due to the theft........their reaction is due to him putting the stolen item in the mother's purse (or whatever).....

How would you feel if someone caused you (or your elderly mother) to be arrested due to something you had no knowledge of?


That ho ain't elderly.
And by the way she treats him I see why he put it in her purse.

Y'all think this type of behavior from the family just erupted from no where?

This family is horrendous


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 7:00pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:


However, that boy is past the age where he only gets a sit down about why stealing/setting someone up is wrong. He has got to be older than 16.
That woman could have lost her job, for all we know she is the bread and butter of the home.





I understand that at 16, he's done that type of shyt before but my point is did she or the mother EVER sit down with him in his life to even discuss this, like when he was 5 or 10? Because that type of atmosphere displayed on the tape does not just come along. They've been interacting with the kid with the foul language and the violence their whole lives. No way you can tell me that this is not their default method of child rearing...


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 7:01pm
Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

This starts when they're very young, and unfortunately he obviously practiced this type of behavior before. I didn't condone the level of violence, but I can understand the frustration and tremendous amount of pisstivity I would've felt if someone detained me for some cheap ass headphones someone planted on my person.

When my daughter was about 5 yrs old, my girlfriend and her daughter went to the mall. we went into a shoe store and the kids wandered over & some kinda was found these little skate board charm/toys that came with the purchase of these specific shoes. I had no clue they took the toys. We're walking around & I see them giggling and whispering...I turn around and see them with these little charms & I snatch my daughter up..and told her that she's going to jail....I promise you that little girls eyes got as big as saucer plates...She begged me not to take her back to the store.My girlfriend thought I was over reacting..I said oh hell no if I"m going to allow you to become a criminal at 5!! Well we go back to the store and tell the manager that these were taken, and he started to laugh...he goes, these are free ma'am they come inside the shoe box..

My point in saying allll of that is, if you don't nip certain behaviors in the bud, your child will be doomed to suffer a life full of hardship....which might included gettin yo head buss or a bullet.
we are >>>>>here<<<<Clap  u see modeless, she brought her back to the store like I would've.  Jewels didnt bash her face in

@ bindy ,, my dad ALWAYS said "if u cant hear, ur gonna feel"  but our beatings/ spankings were few & far between, very mild, and was discipline, not abuse.  sh*t like this would NEVER cross his mind.  Even if he hit us with the belt, 1-3 whacks on the leg, then he'd walk away.  he never did what that dad did to that girl that was making a video.  smh.  yall ppl are lost.   There is a better way of life that yall know nothing about.  It doesn't have to be this way.  We should not accept this 


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 7:01pm
*Bites tongue*



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