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Topic: Women Are Better at Hiding Affairs
Posted By: PurplePhase
Subject: Women Are Better at Hiding Affairs
Date Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 1:57pm
(just saw this on The View)

since it's BHM cheating theme week (month, year) LOL:

is this true?


Women Are Better at Hiding Affairs

'Women are better at having affairs.. they cover their tracks': Sexpert TRACEY COX says wives are playing away more than ever

  • 1.4m women in relationships will seek out affair online this year
  • They use sites Illicit Encounters, Adult Friend Finder and Shagaholic
  • Affairs are less about 'emptiness' in marriage and more about sexploration

By http://www.dailymail.co.uk/home/search.html?s=&authornamef=Tracey+Cox" rel="nofollow - Tracey Cox

The first week of January is when affairs are most likely to happen with lots of marriages stretched to the limit over the Christmas break.

Used to be women had affairs if they fell out of love with their husbands and in love with someone else.

Are you one of the many women in the UK tempted to start an affair this week?
The first week of January is when its most likely to happen with lots of marriages stretched to the limit over the Christmas break


These days, a woman can be blissfully happy with her 2.5 children, in love with her husband and reasonably sexually satisfied - and still feel justified having more than a bit on the side

These days, a woman can be blissfully happy with her 2.5 children, in love with her husband and reasonably sexually satisfied - and still feel justified having more than a bit on the side

Then it became pseudo-acceptable (between friends and as much as affairs ever are accepted), to have If-only-I-hadn't-drunk-so-much-or-I'd-never-have-done-it one-night-slip-ups, if you weren't getting any at home.

Illicitencounters.com - the UK's largest and longest running dating site for married people - has 750,000 members. A high proportion are women. Other sites like Adult Friend Finder and Shagaholic are also boasting soaring female memberships.


Women are better at keeping secrets and covering their tracks, so less likely to be discovered

There's been a massive shift in women's attitudes towards affairs. Some of it is the 'Fifty Shades of Grey' effect: women feel they've been given permission to push boundaries and try things they wouldn't dare to before. If their husbands don't want to, they'll go elsewhere.

The guilt most feel doing this is minimal: 'I deserve it.' 'It makes me feel alive.' 'I'm a great wife and mother, this is for me'. 'He'll never find out - who am I hurting?' 'Why give up something which gives me intense pleasure?'

Women are better at having affairs, says Tracey Cox, pictured

Women are better at having affairs, says Tracey Cox, pictured


Affairs are becoming less about filling an 'emptiness' in the marriage and more about sexploration. A case of wanting the cake and eating it too.

It's about having the basics (long-term security) as well as the trimmings (exciting bits). .

But here's the irony: turns out women aren't just playing men at their own game of cheating, they're better at it. Women are better at keeping secrets and covering their tracks, so less likely to be discovered.

The old perception about affairs was that women didn't have as many as men because they're in control of themselves sexually and men aren't.

The uncomfortable truth is, given half the chance, women cheat as much as men do. The difference now is we've got just as many opportunities as he had.





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Posted By: trudawg
Date Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 2:00pm
Not really surprised. Women want the Provider & the Lover.


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 2:02pm
Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:


'Women are better at having affairs.. they cover their tracks': Sexpert TRACEY COX says wives are playing away more than ever

  • 1.4m women in relationships will seek out affair online this year
  • They use sites Illicit Encounters, Adult Friend Finder and Shagaholic
  • Affairs are less about 'emptiness' in marriage and more about sexploration

 
i giggled...


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 2:03pm
yes.




Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 2:04pm
Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:


'Women are better at having affairs.. they cover their tracks': Sexpert TRACEY COX says wives are playing away more than ever

  • 1.4m women in relationships will seek out affair online this year
  • They use sites Illicit Encounters, Adult Friend Finder and Shagaholic
  • Affairs are less about 'emptiness' in marriage and more about sexploration

 
i giggled...

LOL me too. Whoopie had a hard time getting that name out w/out breaking down LOL.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 2:05pm
Originally posted by femmefatale85 femmefatale85 wrote:

yes.



quite simply, huh LOL


Posted By: blaquefoxx
Date Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 2:06pm
I thought this was common knowledge.

Affairs surrounding women only gets sloppy once the baby comes out looking negropeanStern Smile



Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 2:07pm
Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

negropeanStern Smile
 
Dead


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 2:09pm
I'm no supporter of infidelity, but I'm amused.

Women are playing what was traditionally/stereotypically a "man's game" in even higher numbers and are beating men at it? Damn.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 2:13pm
I remember it came out after she died that Farrah F had a long time affair years ago but *no one knew about it. Meanwhile her partner Ryan O's affairs (some) were well published LOL

eta: *no one except her best girlfriend. Who never said a word. I think it came out from the guy.


Posted By: decemberdiamond
Date Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 2:18pm
Not surprised at all, go get that d*ck lmaoo


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 2:19pm
Duh!
 
ETA I swear they give the wickedest/worst/coldest type of bun too I swear. Cuckolding negroes with brothers and bestiesCryCryCryCryCry So many stories I don't even know which one to post
 
Michelle who is cheating with her good male friend Alex and her hubby Jack has no clue. They're both friends with April (alex's wife). Alex be paying for all sorts of trips, giving spending money gym membership for her daughter (my friend) and food for even Jacks bday parties. Everybody just at the party all clueless. Carrying Diane to dinner and brunch too LOLOL. I Am not above benefitting from that ish at all. Wish he would pay for my gym membership


Posted By: yaya24
Date Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 2:36pm
Yup.


Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 2:53pm
pretty much.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 2:56pm
Only if we care about the relationship ending, Shrugs shoulders.



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