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Topic: Photo of dad with his kids sparks controversy
Posted By: blaquefoxx
Subject: Photo of dad with his kids sparks controversy
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:18pm

Awesome Dad Styles Daughter's Hair, Breaks Internet

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Daddy Doin' Work


Daddy Doin' WorkCall it the "Daddy Wars." One Los Angeles blogger sparked them when a photo he posted http://goodmenproject.com/families/i-have-a-dream-that-people-will-view-a-picture-life-this-and-not-think-its-a-big-deal-gmp/" rel="nofollow - of himself and his two daughters on Twitter and Facebook quickly went viral. A father of two Doyin Richards (pronounced Doe-ween), 39, is currently taking a paternity leave of absence from his job in learning development to care for his daughters, ages 6 months and 2 years. He http://daddydoinwork.com/dreamin/#more-3120" rel="nofollow - described the incident on his blog.

"One morning, [my wife] was running late for work and was worried that she wouldn't be able to get [my daughter's] hair done before I had to take her to school. I told her that she could leave and I'd handle it. She countered by saying that doing her hair requires attention and the baby would get upset if I left her alone while I played the role of stylist. Again, I told her that I'd handle it. On the way out she said, 'I'll believe it when I see it.'" Still determined, Richards placed his infant into her carrier and "worked my hair magic." He also set up his camera, enabled its 10-second timer, and snapped a photo to prove to his wife that he could handle the job.

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Richards had originally posted the photo on his website back in October, with an accompanying post titled, "I Have a Dream: That People Will View a Picture Like This and Not Think It's a Big Deal." But in late December, he reposted it, and on Monday, the fatherhood blog The Good Men Project picked it up.

In a matter of hours, the photo went viral, quickly amassing nearly 5,000 shares, 3,000 comments, and 190,000 likes, along with a slew of mean-spirited remarks, such as "He probably rented those kids. They don't even look like him," and "I would bet anything that you're a deadbeat."

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Although to Richards, the photo is simply an accurate reflection of his daily life, he understands the scrutiny — to a degree. "The picture stirs emotion for a few reasons," Richards tells Yahoo Shine. "The media doesn't portray fathers as caregivers. We're seen as bumbling fools trying to figure out parenthood, or macho men pushing their kids into the NFL. The other issue is that there's a stereotype that black fathers are deadbeats."

Despite what Richards calls "haters," he sees his role as a father as no different from that of a mother. He http://daddydoinwork.com/dreamin/#more-3120" rel="nofollow - writes , "Memo to the small pocket of male haters I have: Why don't you put big boy shorts on and get in on the revolution of good fathers? It's not a good look to tear down dads for doing the work your wives wished you were man enough to do on your own. If you don't believe me, just ask your spouses. They'll tell you."

At the same time, he outright rejects any hero worship: "Don't get me wrong here — it's a very cute picture, and it's cool when people say so. However, I start to get a little uncomfortable when people want to start planning parade routes for me because of it. Somewhere there's a dad doing the exact same thing for his daughters. Somewhere there's a dad who put his foot down with his boss and refused to attend an 'urgent staff meeting' so he could leave work early to attend his daughter's dance recital. Somewhere there's a single dad successfully getting his three sons ready for school."

According to family and relationship expert Laurie Puhn, author of http://www.amazon.com/Fight-Less-Love-More-Conversations/dp/1609618890" rel="nofollow - Fight Less, Love More , Richard's post packs a triple-punch that makes him a target for attention. "This is a handsome man with a good job — that offers paternity leave, no less — and he seems happily married," Puhn tells Yahoo Shine. "If he were a stay-at-home father, this might not be so noteworthy, but he's taking voluntarily paternity leave. What's more, he obviously enjoys it. Unfortunately, if a woman were doing the same job, no one would talk about it."

Richards agrees, http://daddydoinwork.com/dreamin/#more-3120" rel="nofollow - writing , "Until we can get to the point where men and women can complete the same parenting tasks and the reactions are the same, we will have problems. If you want to create a statue for me for taking care of my daughters, create one for the moms who are doing the same damn thing every day for their kids without receiving a 'Thank you' or an 'Ooooh' or 'Ahhhh.' These behaviors should be expected of moms and dads. No exceptions."




Replies:
Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:21pm
im here.


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:23pm
his arms look a lil nice...


Posted By: BrownQtee
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:24pm

So cute. Look at the little chubby baby Embarrassed



Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:25pm
is it hard to do 2b/3a hair?


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:27pm


Bet his ass wouldn't be at home twisting out some 4b naps!!!!







Posted By: whitrhymes
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:27pm
There's a video on youtube of a dad putting his daughter's hair in a ponytail using the vacuum. It was quite effective.


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:28pm
lol pity...
 
i have no comment on dem babies...him toggling carrying one around in the sling holder whilst styling the others silky wilky locks...


Posted By: whitrhymes
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:28pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

is it hard to do 2b/3a hair?
Maybe for her mother... ... ...


Posted By: blaquefoxx
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:29pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

is it hard to do 2b/3a hair?
ask beyonce


Posted By: Jewelsnyc
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:31pm
I don't see the problem? Is it cause they mixed it went viral?


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:31pm
Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

is it hard to do 2b/3a hair?
ask beyonce

LOLLOLLOL

In all fairness....that heifer was pretty busy this yearLOL


Posted By: Princess_S
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:31pm
tough crowd!! lol 


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:31pm
Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

is it hard to do 2b/3a hair?
ask beyonce
 
LOLDead


Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:32pm
Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

lol pity...
 

i have no comment on dem babies...him toggling carrying one around in the sling holder whilst styling the others silky wilky locks...

Loooool
I wasn't gon say nothin'


Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:38pm
Originally posted by whitrhymes whitrhymes wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

is it hard to do 2b/3a hair?
Maybe for her mother... ... ...


ya'll ain shaaat. Sandy didnt even wait or nuffin...LOLCry


Its nice of him to do that for his kids.Clap

But yeah, aint much to caring for 3a hair IMO.



Posted By: blaquefoxx
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:38pm
So no one read the article. Okay, cool   -_____-


Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:39pm
Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

I don't see the problem? Is it cause they mixed it went viral?


of courseLOL


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:41pm
Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

is it hard to do 2b/3a hair?
ask beyonce
baaaaaaaaaaaaa-zing!! LOL


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:42pm
blaque i read it.  the photo looks overly staged to me...


Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:43pm
I read the article!


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:44pm
is this another faux controversy.  i now realize that controversy on the internet means 1 voice of opposition.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:47pm
Im going to go with NOT.....


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:47pm
Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

I read the article!
ditto 

and yeah, people only care because his chilluns are mixed 

also his point stands-- it's a shame that people are living a stereotype and basic fathering actions are causing such a hullabaloo.  


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:47pm
Type 3 hair can be harder to do believe it or not.


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:48pm
I saw this a coupla hours ago.  I started to post it but tbh...I had snarky comments so I said i'd leave it.


Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:48pm
Who took the pic?

And my daddy (bogusly) did my 4a hair too. Where's his award?


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:50pm
I read the article.  the man did say that what he did was basic parenting...sh*t you're supposed to do.  He didn't expect it to go viral...especially since the picture was taken some time ago.


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:50pm
Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

<font size="3" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">So no one read the article. Okay, cool   -_____-
I read it,dh job gave him paternity leave too. I like when dh combs her hair, bathes and brushes her teeth. Our baby adores him.


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:51pm
Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

Who took the pic?

And my daddy (bogusly) did my 4a hair too. Where's his award?
 
 
 
he did. he set it up to prove to his wife that he could handle getting the girls ready for the day.  mom's was running late for work.


Posted By: yaya24
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:53pm
Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

people only care because his chilluns are mixed 



Right IA. The pic below was online 4 years ago. Where is his recognition? 
Gym shorts, ashy knees and Tims.
He did that.LOL



Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:54pm
I agree with what he said...it's basic...but it went viral for other reasons


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:56pm
Originally posted by yaya24 yaya24 wrote:

Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

people only care because his chilluns are mixed 



Right IA. The pic below was online 4 years ago. Where is his recognition? 
Gym shorts, ashy knees and Tims.
He did that.LOL


Awwwww


Posted By: Princess_S
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:57pm
Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

Who took the pic?

And my daddy (bogusly) did my 4a hair too. Where's his award?
 
 
 
he did. he set it up to prove to his wife that he could handle getting the girls ready for the day.  mom's was running late for work.
smh. Lmao i guess very few read the article. sh*t at least the highlighted parts. 


Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:57pm
Cute children, great dad.
We need more humble men like that, who don't go around expecting a freaking medal because "I take care of my kids".


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 1:59pm
Originally posted by sexyandfamous sexyandfamous wrote:

Cute children, great dad.We need more humble men like that, who don't go around expecting a freaking medal because "I take care of my kids".
total chris rock moment-- people really do have to stop wanting medals for sh!t they're supposed to do. LOL


Posted By: maysay1
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 2:00pm
He's right, we shouldn't praise people for fulfilling their basic duties.

On the other hand, maybe if we did throw a parade for people doing basic stuff like taking care of their kids, not going to jail, getting A's and B's, not getting pregnant, etc then more people would actually be inclined to do it.




Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 2:01pm
He's acting a lil brand new though.
Meh.


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 2:01pm
Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

So no one read the article. Okay, cool   -_____-

i read it but i mean i didn't know how to react....maybe it's bc i am used to seeing men as fathers so i decided to discuss the hair on bhm

my daddy don't do hair though...he'll hook you up with a jaunty hat though to hide the mess underneathLOL


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 2:01pm
Originally posted by yaya24 yaya24 wrote:

Right IA. The pic below was online 4 years ago. Where is his recognition? 
Gym shorts, ashy knees and Tims.
He did that.LOL

awww!! bless!! 


Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 2:03pm
Sigh
Now I miss my papa bear


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 2:04pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:



Bet his ass wouldn't be at home twisting out some 4b naps!!!!










Posted By: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 2:05pm
Awww @ the fluff monster in the cuddle carrierHeart


Posted By: blaquefoxx
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 2:07pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

So no one read the article. Okay, cool   -_____-


my daddy don't do hair though...he'll hook you up with a jaunty hat though to hide the mess underneathLOL
LOL
I remember when my eldest brother visited and brought my niece over. When I took her little baseball cap off her head I damn near fainted.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 2:09pm


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 2:09pm
Ironically, the ONLY reason I want a kid is to do their hair.  2b, 3b, 4b, w.e.  Ain't that some ish?


Posted By: HaitianDiva64
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 2:10pm
Meh. Do all of that with a black women and you can get my awws, lols and claps.



Posted By: Rumbera
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 2:17pm
Originally posted by yaya24 yaya24 wrote:

Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

people only care because his chilluns are mixed 



Right IA. The pic below was online 4 years ago. Where is his recognition? 
Gym shorts, ashy knees and Tims.
He did that.LOL

 
YAsss ClapLOL


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 2:18pm
Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

 
haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!! LOL!!


Posted By: Rumbera
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 2:19pm
Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

He's acting a lil brand new though.
Meh.
 
yep


Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 2:20pm
Originally posted by Princess_S Princess_S wrote:

Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

Who took the pic?

And my daddy (bogusly) did my 4a hair too. Where's his award?

 
 
 
he did. he set it up to prove to his wife that he could handle getting the girls ready for the day.  mom's was running late for work.

smh. Lmao i guess very few read the article. sh*t at least the highlighted parts. 


Whaaaaaaat?! People didn't read the article...ON BHM?!!! That never happens...


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 3:08pm

lmao "he must have rented those kids"

why would a man want or need to rent kids

for why?


Posted By: Ds2nice
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 3:14pm
I like that he's a caring dad.  However, its getting attention because of his mixed babies.  Also, I still think he did it all for the attention because it shouldn't take no more than 3 minutes to fix that little girl's hair.  It probably took longer for him to set up the damn camera. LOL


Posted By: femmemichelle
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 3:33pm
Please. I wasn't impressed for obvious reasons. I would be if the baby girl had hair like his...but I guess that was what he wanted to avoid so he got his wish!


Posted By: femmemichelle
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 3:35pm
Originally posted by yaya24 yaya24 wrote:

Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

people only care because his chilluns are mixed 



Right IA. The pic below was online 4 years ago. Where is his recognition? 
Gym shorts, ashy knees and Tims.
He did that.LOL


Oh and Clap


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 3:45pm
Originally posted by femmemichelle femmemichelle wrote:

Please. I wasn't impressed for obvious reasons. I would be if the baby girl had hair like his...but I guess that was what he wanted to avoid so he got his wish!


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 3:49pm

my daddy never combed my hair.  and...i'm absolutely ok with that...



Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 3:51pm
My dad did for a whole summer I lived with him.....well almost he stop torturing me and had his girlfriend do it.....must have been the shyt cause me momma really liked her.....still talks about the girl to this day....


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 3:57pm
lol @ torture.  my daddy would have tortured me and had me looking a hot mess...


Posted By: tropical-punch
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 3:57pm
Dads are supposed to take care of their kids.




Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 3:59pm
of course they are.  he clearly wanted a cookie.  he got it.


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:00pm
My dad had custody of me and before he married step-mom he would do my hair when his sisters were busy. He used to braid it and everything. I used to go to school looking like Ms. Cellie . My homeboy on the other hand did his daughter's hair one day and it looked really good.


Posted By: tropical-punch
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:01pm
LOL. My dad did a struggle ponytail on my hair one morning for school.
Dead


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:04pm
lol @ struggle pony tail.  men don't really get alot of practice doing womens hair.  my dad could bust out a mean high top fade for my step bro tho...lmaooooo


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:07pm
Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

Dads are supposed to take care of their kids.




Especially since he's the stay at home parent. Shoulda been doing that *shrug*.


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:20pm
Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

taking a paternity leave of absence from his job in learning development to care for his daughters, ages 6 months and 2 years.

According to family and relationship expert Laurie Puhn, "This is a handsome man with a good job — that offers paternity leave, no less — and he seems happily married," Puhn tells Yahoo Shine. "If he were a stay-at-home father, this might not be so noteworthy, but he's taking voluntarily paternity leave. What's more, he obviously enjoys it. Unfortunately, if a woman were doing the same job, no one would talk about it."

unless he works for google...in the us...paid maternity/paternity leave of absence is typically 8 weeks paid...otherwise and after that...you use vacation/sick time and then...fmla (no pay) which i believe they have to hold your job for is up to 3 mos....


Posted By: HaitianDiva64
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:23pm
Part of me believes he didn't want to be at work and jumped up to stay at home. Wonder if he became a blogger before or after


Posted By: mrshairdo
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:40pm
the picture is so cute...it's showing a parent juggling two kids
if it were a mom, it would be just as cute 

*goes back to read comments*


Posted By: mrshairdo
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:41pm
Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

blaque i read it.  the photo looks overly staged to me...

technically he did stage it, he put a timer on the camera and took the pic for his wife...


Posted By: mrshairdo
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:44pm
i dont understand why ppl are saying he's getting attention cuz the kids are mixed...wtf?
personally, i would be just as inclined to love the picture with un-mixed black babies..

i loved it cuz it was a cute pose and showed him juggling things on his own

ppl are so extra


Posted By: mrshairdo
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:46pm
damn, why are u guys so negative?
the comments are so catty


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:48pm
Originally posted by mrshairdo mrshairdo wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

blaque i read it.  the photo looks overly staged to me...

technically he did stage it, he put a timer on the camera and took the pic for his wife...
 
i know.  by overly i meant doing the most...


Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:49pm
i dont understand why people in here are mad/snide...the rest of nutties on the interwebs i can understand...but aint bhm supposed to be proud of black folk taking care of their kids?


Posted By: mrshairdo
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:49pm
Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

i dont understand why people in here are mad/snide...the rest of nutties on the interwebs i can understand...but aint bhm supposed to be proud of black folk taking care of their kids

guuuurll...


Posted By: fckwitmeuknoigotit
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:51pm
Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

i dont understand why people in here are mad/snide...the rest of nutties on the interwebs i can understand...but aint bhm supposed to be proud of black folk taking care of their kids
its because the kids are liteskinned/mixed
 


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:51pm
Majority of use are trolling.....yall been here long enough to know that......


Posted By: harley_quinn
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:56pm
So what style did he do in her hair???? It's a cute pic tho. The baby cheeks are so chunky but its nog that hard to brush a toddler's hair back in a pony.


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:56pm
Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Richards had originally posted the photo on his website back in October, with an accompanying post titled, "I Have a Dream: That People Will View a Picture Like This and Not Think It's a Big Deal." But in late December, he reposted it, and on Monday, the fatherhood blog The Good Men Project picked it up.

 
he's the one who seems a lil extra...but i'm ok with him combing the babies hair even tho his wife doubted him as well.  anyway...i wanna see a after photo tho...his technique looks a lil sussy...LOL


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:57pm
Originally posted by harley_quinn harley_quinn wrote:

So what style did he do in her hair???? It's a cute pic tho. The baby cheeks are so chunky but its nog that hard to brush a toddler's hair back in a pony.


It is when you using a brush from that newborn grooming kit on a preteen 


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 4:59pm
Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

is it hard to do 2b/3a hair?
ask beyonce
goodness.LOL

so what happened in this thread?LOL


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 5:01pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by harley_quinn harley_quinn wrote:

So what style did he do in her hair???? It's a cute pic tho. The baby cheeks are so chunky but its nog that hard to brush a toddler's hair back in a pony.


It is when you using a brush from that newborn grooming kit on a preteen 
 
girl.  i thought i was the only one to notice that lil azz soft bristle newborn brush...sussy...LOL


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 5:01pm
This is the most basic thing to be celebrating


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 5:01pm
Originally posted by yaya24 yaya24 wrote:

Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

people only care because his chilluns are mixed 



Right IA. The pic below was online 4 years ago. Where is his recognition? 
Gym shorts, ashy knees and Tims.
He did that.LOL

i still see folks pass this around on fb. all comments are "great dad" and "respect"Smile


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 5:04pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

This is the most basic thing to be celebrating
 
he has a dream!


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 5:16pm
I like his attitude


Posted By: blaquefoxx
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 5:27pm
Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

Originally posted by yaya24 yaya24 wrote:

Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

people only care because his chilluns are mixed 



Right IA. The pic below was online 4 years ago. Where is his recognition? 
Gym shorts, ashy knees and Tims.
He did that.LOL

i still see folks pass this around on fb. all comments are "great dad" and "respect"Smile
I also remember a photo of a white man doing his daughter hair being passed around on FB like a coupon lol. I wonder if we ever did a thread on that...


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 5:32pm
Yep....but I will give that white man props....his reggy was solid as hell.....that yt was taking good care of that babies hair....look at it....he had her hair laidLOL looks all moisturized too and she's adopted....





Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 6:01pm
Damn he did a good job on those twists


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 6:40pm
Ok, I don't want this to turn into a "praise yt" moment, but them twists is looking luxurious and supple though.


Posted By: OrriannaRose
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 6:46pm
Originally posted by CherryBlossom CherryBlossom wrote:

meh

why are we mad at this again?

That damn baby brush!! LOLLOL


Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 9:09pm
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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 9:11pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Yep....but I will give that white man props....his reggy was solid as hell.....that yt was taking good care of that babies hair....look at it....he had her hair laidLOL looks all moisturized too and she's adopted....





that white man deserves a round of applause
bc my momma can't do this and she is 100% negroid


Posted By: Tbaby
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 9:27pm
Cute pic above and the OPs.

OPs pic isn't viral worthy IMO.



Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 08 2014 at 9:30pm
Im telling you tho....


Posted By: aNgElIc*SoUl
Date Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 4:26pm
Guess who's on "Katie" today?


Posted By: blaquefoxx
Date Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 5:37pm
Originally posted by aNgElIc*SoUl aNgElIc*SoUl wrote:

Guess who's on "Katie" today?
LOL


Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Jan 09 2014 at 5:55pm
Ion care bout that nicca and his mixed kids.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 10 2014 at 7:24am
He brushing that hair with a baby brushWink, real hard task I tell ya!


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 10 2014 at 7:56am
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Yep....but I will give that white man props....his reggy was solid as hell.....that yt was taking good care of that babies hair....look at it....he had her hair laidLOL looks all moisturized too and she's adopted....



 
 
 
 
right?  ion give a fucc. I give that man props for taking the time. We've spoken about it on here a couple of times of some black parents to this day don't know how to take care of black hair and don't care to. 


Posted By: indiecat
Date Posted: Jan 10 2014 at 8:31am
Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

Ion care bout that nicca and his mixed kids.





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