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Topic: Should Weight Be a Dealbreaker?
Posted By: Princess Grace
Subject: Should Weight Be a Dealbreaker?
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:03pm
My girlfriends man left her, he basically said it was due to her size. We were discussing it over lunch today and they all gave me the side eye because of my stance on the topic. Most were like "If he really loved you he would have stayed" , I said well if he is not physically attracted to you how long were you guys supposed to stay in a sexless relationship? She had already discussed with me that it was NOTHING happening in their bedroom. 

Now I know others who were Team Eat Cupcakes (in her face anyway) have pulled shade about her weight but I just sat there like Are yall bishes fo real?ConfusedConfused . They left me to look like the devil when I know one of them hoez is taking ADHD pills to stay skinny.Confused


So should weight be a deal breaker or was he just shallow?






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Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:04pm
yes


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:05pm
It wasn't just 5lbs either, she went from maybe a 12 when they met to I am guessing at least a size 22.


Posted By: OrriannaRose
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:05pm
How much did she weigh when they got together?

Nevermind. LOL

From 12 to 22 is a big difference. 


Posted By: GG
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:05pm
Unless you both grew fat and comfortable together it's gonna be a problem.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:06pm
Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Unless you both grew fat and comfortable together it's gonna be a problem.

Her man was fine!


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:06pm

im hurrrr for this thread and the numbers its gonna dew


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:06pm





Waits.....



Posted By: OrriannaRose
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:07pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Unless you both grew fat and comfortable together it's gonna be a problem.

Her man was fine!

So he's not fine anymore and she's gained weight?


Posted By: GG
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:07pm
Some people just expect certain things no shade.


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:08pm
if youre not happy dont stay


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:08pm
I am pissed at all them fake hoez who was sitting at that table.... Mind you no one eating that spinach and artichoke dip with all creamy cheese and tortilla chips while they was sitting there talking about Love yourself and and this bullshyt!


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:08pm
is she trying to lose the weight?  how long did it take her to put it on?  if he loved her he would've tried to work through it with her, but if they were just in it for the puppy love and lust then it makes sense to leave.


Posted By: OrriannaRose
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:08pm
Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:






Waits.....


Stolen!!!!! That face CryCryCry


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:08pm
at least you kept it 100 OP


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:09pm
Originally posted by OrriannaRose OrriannaRose wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Unless you both grew fat and comfortable together it's gonna be a problem.

Her man was fine!

So he's not fine anymore and she's gained weight?

naw he still fine and fit as a fiddle she the one over there alone looking like Rasputia!


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:10pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

So should weight be a deal breaker or was he just shallow?
without even reading: 

should be? no. people are more than their looks/weight. 

could be? yes. that's the prerogative of the person. i feel they should make that known up front to whom they date though. 

is he shallow? yes. however, that's his right to be. he should just be honest upfront about it though. 


Posted By: OrriannaRose
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:10pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Originally posted by OrriannaRose OrriannaRose wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Unless you both grew fat and comfortable together it's gonna be a problem.

Her man was fine!

So he's not fine anymore and she's gained weight?

naw he still fine and fit as a fiddle she the one over there alone looking like Rasputia!

Dead *Puts away cape.*


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:10pm
i dont know.. i like fat guys so its not an issue for me.. i honestly think its a silly reason to leave. like..if theres a problem in the relationship you work on it and fix it. why couldnt they work out together or something? you dont just walk away unless...they tried all that and it failed?

idk its silly to me.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:10pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

is she trying to lose the weight?  how long did it take her to put it on?  if he loved her he would've tried to work through it with her, but if they were just in it for the puppy love and lust then it makes sense to leave.

It got to be uncomfortable, her man and my ex husband were best friends, he tried the nice way he tried the mean way. He bought a treadmill and offered coins for plastic surgery. I mean damn how many ways do your man have to tell you he aint for that Big Girl stuff?


Posted By: GG
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:11pm
Too many options out here


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:12pm
jesus op ...why you talkin about your friend like that? You gonna try to snatch up her man now?

typooo


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:12pm
Meh.....that's a big jump....sad part is she prolly accepted his flaws and he left her for hers....


Posted By: OrriannaRose
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:12pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

is she trying to lose the weight?  how long did it take her to put it on?  if he loved her he would've tried to work through it with her, but if they were just in it for the puppy love and lust then it makes sense to leave.

It got to be uncomfortable, her man and my ex husband were best friends, he tried the nice way he tried the mean way. He bought a treadmill and offered coins for plastic surgery. I mean damn how many ways do your man have to tell you he aint for that Big Girl stuff?

Maybe this is the push she needs to get back in shape. 


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:12pm
Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:






Waits.....


Lmao, what you waiting on?Confused 


Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:12pm
Some men don't mind - but some me do. I don't think it is shallow though.

If she went from a 12 to a 22 .. umm that's a big jumb and if he tells her he is not turned on by her sexually .. well, that's the way he feels.

I think she should try to lose the weight if it's a problem for the relationship. Yes it would be hard but he can help her and make it fun if he really wants it to work out.

On the other hand ... I know women that have gotten that big ... but their man is still attracted to them and they still have good sex.

Just depends - but NETHER of them should be stuck in a sexless marriage. :(


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:12pm
how big we talkin? give us a before and after image, before her man and after her man


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:13pm
my friend gained a lot of weight, like 60 lbs.  she started noticing that he would invite her out with his friends less often...he was a "producer" d-boy so i guess his image was more important.  he paid for an expensive personal trainer and she lost it all(+ more) within 6 mths.  she stayed with him.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:14pm
Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

jesus op ...why you talkin about your friend like that? You gonna try to catch up her man now?

I swear I would never, he is my sons Godfather been knowing him forever. I love my friend BUT I dont think being a real friend is lying to her. Dont do it for a man then , do it for yourself so you can get up the stairs without being out of breath.


Posted By: GG
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:15pm
All a matter of what you're willing to accept...


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:17pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

how big we talkin? give us a before and after image, before her man and after her man

Okay Lets say Chrissy on Love and Hip Hop first Season to Monique pre gastric bypass.


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:20pm
How is calling her rasputia helping though.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:22pm
i'm all about being honest during conversations like this so i don't fault you for that buttttttt it does kinda seem like you're gloating...as if maybe she was the hot one of the group before she gained all the weight.


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:22pm
to?
accurate or no?


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:22pm
Absolutely. I cannot get with a jiggly stomach. However, I would try to encourage my so to lose weight and eat healthier. If he refused, then I would leave.0


Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:22pm
Its sad, did he try to tell her multiple times it was time to hit the gym.. or was the lack of sex supposed to be the hint?

I would want someone who is at least trying to work on the things that take away from his attractiveness. It might be shallow, but ..


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:23pm
Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

How is calling her rasputia helping though.



Them bishes prolly wanted her man from jump.....


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:24pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

jesus op ...why you talkin about your friend like that? You gonna try to catch up her man now?

I swear I would never, he is my sons Godfather been knowing him forever. I love my friend BUT I dont think being a real friend is lying to her. Dont do it for a man then , do it for yourself so you can get up the stairs without being out of breath.


Nothing wrong with the truth but the negative way you talk about her makes me side eye you a little...


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:24pm
well tbh, she didnt get that way over night, he should have said something while it was creeping up on her. find out why she was eating extra


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:25pm
Waits for the stones to be thrown but here is my stance on it.....


I think if you let yourself go like that then you are not the same person he fell in love with. In her case she was almost twice the size of when they met. 

I know its supposed to be whats on the inside that counts and in a perfect world it would be BUT your man has to have some type of attraction to the physical you or it wont work.

Once your man starts making comments its a problem.

If all you get for your birthday is a treadmill he is trying to tell you something.

He would give her the side eye at restaurants.Cry

Every time I would bring up the gym she would say my man had me brainwashed, well brainwashed or whatever my man was still having sex with me.




Posted By: Jewelsnyc
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:25pm
Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

jesus op ...why you talkin about your friend like that? You gonna try to snatch up her man now? too...


corrected...


Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:25pm
I keep picturing OP looking like her avi during the conversation LOL


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:26pm
Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

if youre not happy dont stay


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:26pm
Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

How is calling her rasputia helping though.


I didnt call her Rasputia, her BF did that. I have offered to walk the track with her, gave her a gym pass, invited her over to do Tae Bo when she would mention that she wanted to lose weight. 

What more could I have done?


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:28pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Originally posted by OrriannaRose OrriannaRose wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Unless you both grew fat and comfortable together it's gonna be a problem.


Her man was fine!


So he's not fine anymore and she's gained weight?


naw he still fine and fit as a fiddle she the one over there alone looking like Rasputia!



But ok


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:28pm
I know Grace has her Jezebel antics but I do not want her ex man, he left.  Will I lie to her and say that he is 100% at blame , nope.


Posted By: GG
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:31pm
Don't let them end up like Sheila and Mike from Why Did I Get Married? Suddenly he missed all her fluff when the next chick turned out to be sh*t.


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:31pm
How many kids does she have


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:33pm
i still wanna know if she was the hot one before all this went down...she had to be somethin to pull this "shallow" man of hers.  


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:33pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

is she trying to lose the weight?  how long did it take her to put it on?  if he loved her he would've tried to work through it with her, but if they were just in it for the puppy love and lust then it makes sense to leave.

What irks me is she talks about losing the weight, she asks questions but when it comes time to do it she never does. Then if I keep asking her I feel like Im pressuring her so I quit bringing it up. Then she makes comments to me like I would not be getting up at 6am to go workout. 

She has tried some over the counter diet pills before thats all I know about.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:35pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

i still wanna know if she was the hot one before all this went down...she had to be somethin to pull this "shallow" man of hers.  

She is a attractive girl, she just gained weight. Their child is 13 so.......


Posted By: Jewelsnyc
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:35pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

I know Grace has her Jezebel antics but I do not want her ex man, he left.  Will I lie to her and say that he is 100% at blame , nope.
I think you're a fake friend. Even though you claim you're only doing this because your friend needs to hear the truth, you a little to happy too speak so negatively about your "friend"...if your friend was thin & has gained a tremendous amount of weight, most likely she's emotionally eating...being called Resupia by your man just might be the cause?...but you probably didn't think of that cause the mans so damn fine...


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:35pm
I think it's stupid to say she's not the person he fell in love with.....that shyt is shallow and stupid.....she is she's just fat now....y'all betta stop playing into that bullshyt......cause when a nicca leave you at your worst.....prolly bald from chemo....missing a breast.....hell it's plenty of shyt that alters physical appearances......hell what y'all gon do come old age? Better hope you're with a nicca that loves you for real past that pretty face and lil waist.....

dude.....he was never loving her....not her lost.....


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:36pm
Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

How many kids does she have

1, and she is 13 yo.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:36pm
they have a child together...13 yrs old...13 plus years together?!


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:37pm
OP, does your friend steal?

Is she light or dark?

Is dude old?



Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:39pm
Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

I know Grace has her Jezebel antics but I do not want her ex man, he left.  Will I lie to her and say that he is 100% at blame , nope.
I think you're a fake friend. Even though you claim you're only doing this because your friend needs to hear the truth, you a little to happy too speak so negatively about your "friend"...if your friend was thin & has gained a tremendous amount of weight, most likely she's emotionally eating...being called Resupia by your man just might be the cause?...but you probably didn't think of that cause the mans so damn fine...

I didnt even bring up the man leaving, cause I know it hurts her. For the last time I aint checking for her damn man, someone asked was he fat too and what did he look like. He is attractive, do I want him Nope.


Posted By: iSMILE13
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:40pm
It don't seem like they were married....so ummm the for better or worse part doesn't apply.

He obviously wasn't attracted/in love with her anymore....nothing wrong with that.


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:41pm
Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

OP, does your friend steal?

Is she light or dark?

Is dude old?

dont even answer this, it's got nothing to do with sh*t


Posted By: Jewelsnyc
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:42pm
don't get mad cause someone saw through your fake ass friendship bullshyt...you admitted to and gloated about stealing men in the past...so don't act like that sh!t ain't in your damn character...you sitting there listening to that girl acting like you gaf...


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:42pm
Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

OP, does your friend steal?

Is she light or dark?

Is dude old?

dont even answer this, it's got nothing to do with sh*t

lol i think she's implying that OP's friend is a poster here.


Posted By: NARSAddict
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:43pm
In before the lock. 


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:43pm
Originally posted by LovesHim LovesHim wrote:

wait after 13 years... he left and pulled the you gained weight card????

its something else here 



Right.....her friends ain't shyt....and he's a straight bytch....


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:44pm
Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

I know Grace has her Jezebel antics but I do not want her ex man, he left.  Will I lie to her and say that he is 100% at blame , nope.
I think you're a fake friend. Even though you claim you're only doing this because your friend needs to hear the truth, you a little to happy too speak so negatively about your "friend"...if your friend was thin & has gained a tremendous amount of weight, most likely she's emotionally eating...being called Resupia by your man just might be the cause?...but you probably didn't think of that cause the mans so damn fine...


Yes, I am shallow and all of that. Next time I will say eat the cupcakes and porkrinds, you cant go up the stairs without getting out of breath but thats okay. 


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:44pm
matter in fact op, just abort thread.  I see the big girls in here already coming for ur neck.  When they unite like voltron, they leave a path of destruction,  nobody is safe


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:44pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

lol i think she's implying that OP's friend is a poster here.

Not quite MsW, but you're getting better. Thumbs Up


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:45pm
Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

don't get mad cause someone saw through your fake ass friendship bullshyt...you admitted to and gloated about stealing men in the past...so don't act like that sh!t ain't in your damn character...you sitting there listening to that girl acting like you gaf...

Aint nobody mad, you seem all up in your feelings. 


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:45pm
I know not everyone believes in marriage but they were together for 13 years and were still boyfriend and girlfriend? And it that it does seem like is gloating. They were probably frenemies.


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:46pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

OP, does your friend steal?

Is she light or dark?

Is dude old?

dont even answer this, it's got nothing to do with sh*t

lol i think she's implying that OP's friend is a poster here.
who? pritty hurr & blac1chyna aint overweight nor have kids


Posted By: GG
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:47pm
Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

matter in fact op, just abort thread.  I see the big girls in here already coming for ur neck.  When they unite like voltron, they leave a path of destruction,  nobody is safe





Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:47pm
I've only read the OP and whatever page I 1st posted on, and I'm not bout to read the rest now, so lemme PM cc#1 with her lowkey ass....


Posted By: Jewelsnyc
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:47pm
not up in my feelings at all but when I see a fake bitch I'll call it that...just like when you said you went & broke bread at a female house all the while you was clocking the females man & wind up fuuking this nicca....it isn't a stretch to see you got them dirty skank tendencies...


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:48pm
Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

don't get mad cause someone saw through your fake ass friendship bullshyt...you admitted to and gloated about stealing men in the past...so don't act like that sh!t ain't in your damn character...you sitting there listening to that girl acting like you gaf...


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:48pm
Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

lol i think she's implying that OP's friend is a poster here.

Not quite MsW, but you're getting better. Thumbs Up

Ouch one day I will crack a case.


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:49pm
Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

matter in fact op, just abort thread.  I see the big girls in here already coming for ur neck.  When they unite like voltron, they leave a path of destruction,  nobody is safe




LOLLOL


Posted By: GG
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:49pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

lol i think she's implying that OP's friend is a poster here.

Not quite MsW, but you're getting better. Thumbs Up


Ouch one day I will crack a case.


I think she was implying that she was talking about herself


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:50pm
Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

lol i think she's implying that OP's friend is a poster here.

Not quite MsW, but you're getting better. Thumbs Up


Ouch one day I will crack a case.


I think she was implying that she was talking about herself

ah, i didn't know OP was part of the booster club.


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:50pm
Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

not up in my feelings at all but when I see a fake bitch I'll call it that...just like when you said you went & broke bread at a female house all the while you was clocking the females man & wind up fuuking this nicca....it isn't a stretch to see you got them dirty skank tendencies...





Posted By: iSMILE13
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:51pm
If I ever get fat I want my friends to give it to me straight. Don't sugar coat....I tell them that all the time.


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:51pm
Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

I know not everyone believes in marriage but they were together for 13 years and were still boyfriend and girlfriend? And it that it does seem like is gloating. They were probably frenemies.

They were high school sweethearts, I didnt know them back then, my ex husband did. The only reason I knew her weight was a real issue was because he would complain to my husband I dont think he always complained to her about it.

So the weight his words NOT mine was the reason he cheated which ultimately ended their relationship. She admitted that prior to the cheating that they had not had sex in about 5 months. Snowball effect....

Sorry I cant compare cancer to weight gain.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:51pm
Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

don't get mad cause someone saw through your fake ass friendship bullshyt...you admitted to and gloated about stealing men in the past...so don't act like that sh!t ain't in your damn character...you sitting there listening to that girl acting like you gaf...




Chile this is Grandmother Willow shade right here.......


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:52pm
Cancer and gaining weight are the same thing???? Really no seriously really. 


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:52pm
Originally posted by iSMILE13 iSMILE13 wrote:

If I ever get fat I want my friends to give it to me straight. Don't sugar coat....I tell them that all the time.


Wink #Iseewhatyoudidthere



Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:53pm
Originally posted by iSMILE13 iSMILE13 wrote:

If I ever get fat I want my friends to give it to me straight. Don't sugar coat....I tell them that all the time.



So mugs clothes get tight and they don't notice?


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:53pm
Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

not up in my feelings at all but when I see a fake bitch I'll call it that...just like when you said you went & broke bread at a female house all the while you was clocking the females man & wind up fuuking this nicca....it isn't a stretch to see you got them dirty skank tendencies...

*Regine Hunter* Awww sookie sookie now.....


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:53pm
Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

matter in fact op, just abort thread.  I see the big girls in here already coming for ur neck.  When they unite like voltron, they leave a path of destruction,  nobody is safe





They can Wondertwins activate all they want. 


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:53pm
Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

So who is hittin the gym this yr?
not i. 

*strokes and dusts octorolls with baby powder*

#teamfattypants


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:54pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

I know not everyone believes in marriage but they were together for 13 years and were still boyfriend and girlfriend? And it that it does seem like is gloating. They were probably frenemies.

They were high school sweethearts, I didnt know them back then, my ex husband did. The only reason I knew her weight was a real issue was because he would complain to my husband I dont think he always complained to her about it.

So the weight his words NOT mine was the reason he cheated which ultimately ended their relationship. She admitted that prior to the cheating that they had not had sex in about 5 months. Snowball effect....

Sorry I cant compare cancer to weight gain.


Yes IA, unless your friend has Hypothyroidism?


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:55pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

I think it's stupid to say she's not the person he fell in love with.....that shyt is shallow and stupid.....she is she's just fat now....y'all betta stop playing into that bullshyt......cause when a nicca leave you at your worst.....prolly bald from chemo....missing a breast.....hell it's plenty of shyt that alters physical appearances......hell what y'all gon do come old age? Better hope you're with a nicca that loves you for real past that pretty face and lil waist.....

dude.....he was never loving her....not her lost.....


Cancer and gaining weight are the same in your mind???Confused

She didnt have chemo, she still have both tittays.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:55pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Cancer and gaining weight are the same thing???? Really no seriously really. 



It was an example.....but hundreds of things can alter appearance......but we know you get the point......


Posted By: GG
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:56pm
So who is hittin the gym this yr?


Posted By: blaquefoxx
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:56pm
bait thread


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:56pm
Originally posted by iSMILE13 iSMILE13 wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by iSMILE13 iSMILE13 wrote:

If I ever get fat I want my friends to give it to me straight. Don't sugar coat....I tell them that all the time.



So mugs clothes get tight and they don't notice?
it seems like some fat people don't realize how big they are....or maybe they be in denial. Sometimes you need a reality check



If you say so...


Posted By: iSMILE13
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:57pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by iSMILE13 iSMILE13 wrote:

If I ever get fat I want my friends to give it to me straight. Don't sugar coat....I tell them that all the time.



So mugs clothes get tight and they don't notice?
it seems like some fat people don't realize how big they are....or maybe they be in denial. Sometimes you need a reality check


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:57pm
Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

She didnt have chemo, she still have both tittays.

lmao


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:57pm
f8!? how you been?! 

happy new year!! Hug


Posted By: Princess Grace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:57pm
Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

not up in my feelings at all but when I see a fake bitch I'll call it that...just like when you said you went & broke bread at a female house all the while you was clocking the females man & wind up fuuking this nicca....it isn't a stretch to see you got them dirty skank tendencies...

*Regine Hunter* Awww sookie sookie now.....

Lmao, you real mad. I have been called worse by much better Im sure. 


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:57pm
Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

So who is hittin the gym this yr?
not i. 

*strokes and dusts octorolls with baby powder*

#teamfattypants


I will try some squats and whatever booty-waist miracle work out. Ugh I wish I could just think it and the toned butt will appear, just thinking about exercising makes me tired.



Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:57pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by iSMILE13 iSMILE13 wrote:

If I ever get fat I want my friends to give it to me straight. Don't sugar coat....I tell them that all the time.



So mugs clothes get tight and they don't notice?




Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:57pm
Grace, do/did you have cancer? I missed that thread if so



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