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Topic: WWYD - Sex And The City Edition
Posted By: CLCNY20
Subject: WWYD - Sex And The City Edition
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 5:57pm
So, as I stated in another thread, I recently began watching this show.

I'm only up to season 2, but I have to admit that while I find the characters to be annoying most of the time, the subject matter and themes are pretty fawkin interesting LOL

So, I thought it'd be fun to come up with a "what would you do?" thread with the show's theme, which would ask questions related to the episodes.

Trust me, I've though this shat out, and if participation is hearty, this could def. be a 2014 memorable thread highlight reel LOL

I'm about to bounce from work, but once I get home, I will post the first episodes series of questions.  Feel free to answer all, none, or some, and if you have juicy stories to share for elaboration of your answers, FEEL FREE! Wink

BBL



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Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 7:30pm
Ok--so, here we go:
 
 
 
Episode 1/Season 1 - Sex And The City:  (Asked on page 1)
 
Could you, or do you already, have sex "like a man"?  Can you just find a man you're highly attracted to, get to know him enough to feel comfortable f*cking him, screw him, and then sneak out the next morning before he gets up?  Can you ignore his calls after that, and maybe only hook up with him again if you happen to run into each other at a bar one night in the future--but only for another drunken one-night-stand?  What do you think of this type of behavior?  Even if you, yourself, would not engage in it, do you look down at women who do?
 
 
Episode 2/Season 1 - Models and Mortals (Asked on page 3)

Could you ever date a guy or girl that you knew went for a type that's the opposite of yourself?  Like, if you knew a guy who only dated tall, White, leggy redheads, and you were Black, 5’3, 160lbs, with dark hair—could you ever feel comfortable knowing you were the “first of your type” to be with him?  What about dating a guy who has only ever dated models—if you knew, for sure, that he’s only ever been with runway models, porno vixens, fashion magazine types, would you feel comfortable dating/getting naked with him?
 
 

Episode 3/Season 1 – Bay of Married Pigs:  (Asked on page 5)


If you are single, do you feel uncomfortable around your married friends?  If you are married, do you feel uncomfortable around your single friends?  Do you envy or pity the friend (whether single or married)?  Do you trust your S/O around said friend, or do you feel comfortable being left alone with your friend’s S/O, if single?



Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 7:39pm
BHM never forgets


Posted By: Wynter
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 7:39pm
Honestly, if I wasn't so afraid of catching something....especially the very "personal" nature of lesbian sex....I could definitely do it.

BTW, I love SATC and its one of very few shows I can watch over and over.

ETA: CLC, don't watch the movie until you've watched all seasons. Movie #1 was great- #2 Meh but bearable bcus I like the characters.


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 7:40pm
I love this show. Love. I have the entire series. And first movie


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 7:44pm
I've been hearing about this show for years, but just never thought I'd be able to get into it, because it seemed geared more towards women with "fashionista" type mindsets (and I am a tomboy through and through) LOL
 
The first season was kind of an eye-roller for me, character-wise, but the second season is a little more interesting.
 
I think the topics are AWESOME forum material tho, and loved the thought of making one single thread to ask all these ratchet, or thought-provoking questions, in one!


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 7:44pm
I just could not have meaningless sex, I think it's gross when guys do it and as well as girls. I try not to look down on people that do it, but I swear I've always thought that casual sex was gross


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 7:46pm
thats hard to answer.. 
like idk if id just always be content with just sex (lol yea right.. I'm just speaking as if my cooch was normal...) or if id start to develop feelings.. 

if it was strictly sex and i knew i just had no interest in him whatsoever otherwise… sure.. why not? 
i could be like that with a few ppl 

i don't think theres anything wrong with that type of behavior as long as its not a new guy every week… if you just have like 1 or 2 fck buddies… and both of y'all know what it is and are okay with it.. no big deal.. 




Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 7:50pm
Right off the bat, I wanna just say "yes, yes I would do it--in a heartbeat", but that's bullshat.  I couldn't do it no matter how hard I tried.  I even had feelings for my lovers. 
 
The thought of just having meaningless sex scares the sh*t out of me, because I feel like having some meaning to what I do with my partners is the only thing keeping me from being one of them man-bashing bitches talmbout "men are all dogs". 
 
I definitely need to be able to tell if a relationship is built on "lust", but also want to believe that love exists, and I need to know that if I'm going to be getting down and dirty with anyone, that I'm at least giving love an opportunity to happen.


Posted By: Wynter
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 7:50pm
Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

I've been hearing about this show for years, but just never thought I'd be able to get into it, because it seemed geared more towards women with "fashionista" type mindsets (and I am a tomboy through and through)


I didn't start watching until season 2 for the same reason lol. Tomboy here as well lol.


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 7:53pm
I hate how much I want to f*ck Mr. Big.
 
I have a love/hate relationship w/him already.  He reminds me of my ex--the dark hair, eyes, even the long ass fingers and big ass hands.  GOD the sex was hot...even just going down was better than most partners actually penetrating.  Damn.
 
But, real talk, she needs to have low expectations for him.  He seems non-committal, and untrustworthy.  I know I'm still not that far in the series, but I just saw the episode where she tried to leave her things at his place, and he brought 'em back (I lo-fawkin-l'ed at him bringing them back LOL).


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 7:56pm
I've *&%^$#@Eed and ignored plenty of nigguhs.
My heart isn't connected to my cervix.


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:01pm
Grrrrrrrl, Big and Carrie gon have you hatin both they trifflin asses real soon....

#nospoilerIJS


Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:02pm
I've done it in the past. Can't say I would not do it again.


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:03pm
Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

Grrrrrrrl, Big and Carrie gon have you hatin both they trifflin asses real soon....

#nospoilerIJS
 
I knew it Sleepy I could just f*ckin sense it already.  She should have left his ass alone--I was so proud of her for dropping him after he refused to introduce her to his mama.  Big is the type of guy you let wine dine and 69 you, you do NOT start trying to leave your ish at his place.


Posted By: Wynter
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:03pm
Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

Grrrrrrrl, Big and Carrie gon have you hatin both they trifflin asses real soon....

#nospoilerIJS



So true


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:04pm
The redhead one--Miranda?  Yeah...ion like her.  She looks/talks/walks/dresses like a man.  It makes my imaginary penis go soft.


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:10pm
The actress who plays Miranda (whose name I can't ever think of) is a lesbian.

at imaginary penis.


Posted By: Wynter
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:11pm
Awww Miranda has a soft side. Charlottes naivete drove me crazy sometime.   


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:20pm
i liked the slutty one. 



Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:20pm
Charlotte is a f'n freak, she need to stop.  Won't go down, but will do everything else?  foh.
 
Ok then, the Miranda puzzled is solved, because she was setting my spidey-senses ALL to f*ckin tingling, and buzzing.  I was like SOMETHING is not copacetic.


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:22pm
Aight, next question:
 
Episode 2/Season 1 - Models and Mortals:

Could you ever date a guy or girl that you knew went for a type that's the opposite of yourself?  Like, if you knew a guy who only dated tall, White, leggy redheads, and you were Black, 5’3, 160lbs, with dark hair—could you ever feel comfortable knowing you were the “first of your type” to be with him?  What about dating a guy who has only ever dated models—if you knew, for sure, that he’s only ever been with runway models, porno vixens, fashion magazine types, would you feel comfortable dating/getting naked with him?


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:23pm
The threads about Tre & Toine got me wanting to dig out my DVDs and watch the ep with the "is he a straight gay man or a gay straight man" debate.

eta: Not Big. I don't remember what season that was, but yeah, not Big.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:29pm
yes. 
been there a few times. 
doesnt bother me.. if anything i like it. 
shows that if you're hot, you're hot. preferences aren't absolute and a cute girl is a cute girl is a cute girl 



Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:29pm
Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

The threads about Tre & Toine got me wanting to dig out my DVDs and watch the ep with the "is he a straight gay man or a gay straight man" debate.

eta: Not Big. I don't remember what season that was, but yeah, not Big.
 
I just finished watching that one--the dude that screamed like a lil bitch because of that mouse stuck on the glue trap? LOL  It's season 2


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:32pm
Yesss! I loved that ep.


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:34pm
To answer question #2, I couldn't do it--in terms of a guy who only dates models.  Not that I don't think I'm cute, but model material I am not, and I would feel he was just using me until he was ready for the next Naomi.
 
Being a guy's first Black chick, I'd be more open to (so long as he wasn't fetishizing, because that's just some jungle fever sh*t that I don't have time for).
 
I learned, with the last dude I crushed on, that if a guy is into blondes, or redheads, or blue eyes, English accents, or whatever, I'm not going to waste my time with them.  True, they could be into me despite the absence of these traits/qualities, but I wouldn't trust that he wouldn't go running after the next chick to catch him in a weak moment who embodied these things.


Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:41pm
Question # 2: I've been in relationships with black men who prior to me dated thick black women and were ass men. I'm slim but that did not bother me at all. like coco said if you're hot, you're hot. I've turned a lot of ass men into leg men.


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:48pm
I had sex with an ugly guy and stopped all contact with him the next day if that counts as a one night stand LOL I met him at a Temple party back in the day and chatted with him for a month. But when I met him in person again......smh....Never went to a party without lights ever again lol


Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:48pm
Originally posted by Wynter Wynter wrote:

Honestly, if I wasn't so afraid of catching something....especially the very "personal" nature of lesbian sex....I could definitely do it.

BTW, I love SATC and its one of very few shows I can watch over and over.

ETA: CLC, don't watch the movie until you've watched all seasons. Movie #1 was great- #2 Meh but bearable bcus I like the characters.
Along with early Greys Anatomy, it never gets old


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:51pm
Q2, no because in the back of my mind all the time I would be thinking I wasn't measuring up to what he really wanted.


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:53pm
I used to feel that way about Grey's too but I've come to hate some of the earlier characters and the storylines. Man I'm gonna go through my DVD box and get out satc


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:53pm
Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

I had sex with an ugly guy and stopped all contact with him the next day if that counts as a one night stand LOL I met him at a Temple party back in the day and chatted with him for a month. But when I met him in person again......smh....Never went to a party without lights ever again lol
 
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
 
Was it good, at least?! LOL
 
There was this fug redheaded guy YEARS ago that just kept asking me to fuk, and I was just NOT havin it.  A) I was in a relationship already, B) he was really fug.  He caught me on a really bad day (bad for me, good for him).  It was after I had broken up w/my ex, and I was just feeling ratchet and angry.  I wasn't angry enough to let him hit LOL but when he said, "can you at least let me go down?" I was like ConfusedDisapproveErmmGeekSleepy fine.
 
I will say this...he gave good head.  Once I let my kitty roar enough, I was hopping off of the bed, and heading out the door.  I was not staying long enough for him to ask for reciprocation LOL


Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:54pm
Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

I used to feel that way about Grey's too but I've come to hate some of the earlier characters and the storylines. Man I'm gonna go through my DVD box and get out satc
Oh the storylines definitely do not make any sense.  
lol


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:54pm
Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

Q2, no because in the back of my mind all the time I would be thinking I wasn't measuring up to what he really wanted.
 
That's how I feel--but I know I'm very self-conscious/insecure.


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:58pm
Originally posted by Jess Jess wrote:

Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

I used to feel that way about Grey's too but I've come to hate some of the earlier characters and the storylines. Man I'm gonna go through my DVD box and get out satc
Oh the storylines definitely do not make any sense.  
lol

They don't, and I remember being so captivated by everything going on in the show, but when I watch older episodes now I just get mad and annoyed, like wtf is this ish. But these lat few seasons I love


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 8:59pm
Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

Q2, no because in the back of my mind all the time I would be thinking I wasn't measuring up to what he really wanted.

 

That's how I feel--but I know I'm very self-conscious/insecure.

Same here


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 9:06pm
Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

I had sex with an ugly guy and stopped all contact with him the next day if that counts as a one night stand LOL I met him at a Temple party back in the day and chatted with him for a month. But when I met him in person again......smh....Never went to a party without lights ever again lol
 
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
 
Was it good, at least?! LOL
 
There was this fug redheaded guy YEARS ago that just kept asking me to fuk, and I was just NOT havin it.  A) I was in a relationship already, B) he was really fug.  He caught me on a really bad day (bad for me, good for him).  It was after I had broken up w/my ex, and I was just feeling ratchet and angry.  I wasn't angry enough to let him hit LOL but when he said, "can you at least let me go down?" I was like ConfusedDisapproveErmmGeekSleepy fine.
 
I will say this...he gave good head.  Once I let my kitty roar enough, I was hopping off of the bed, and heading out the door.  I was not staying long enough for him to ask for reciprocation LOL


Sleepy  It was meh! Nothing memorable. I actually forgot his name also lol Plus He keep asking me to take off the condom ruining the mood. Ugh.

Hahahaa that's cold! LOL He didn't try to stop you from leaving?

Teamf*ck'emandduck'em Stern Smile


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 9:11pm
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
He offered!!!!  It would have been rude to pass it up, but yeah--I literally was zipping back up as I rose, and grabbing my keys out my purse as I headed for the door, because I ain't offer sheit.


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 10:07pm
LOL sh*t, guys do the same so I aint even mad !


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 1:33pm
Okay, next question:
 

Episode 3/Season 1 – Bay of Married Pigs: 


If you are single, do you feel uncomfortable around your married friends?  If you are married, do you feel uncomfortable around your single friends?  Do you envy or pity the friend (whether single or married)?  Do you trust your S/O around said friend, or do you feel comfortable being left alone with your friend’s S/O, if single?



Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 3:09pm
I was wondering if u stuck it out CLC.  I love the show.  I mean I know it's white women living well with "I got money" problems but...*shrugs*  I still enjoyed it.  Yeah...that first season was...u can tell when they were picked up and got more money.  Carrie's apartment changed up and errything.  Her thing with Big was crazy.  I had a family member that would break up and make up and I was like...who u think ya'll are Carrie and Big?  LOL  How far have u gotten?


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 3:14pm
The couture was sick.  I loved the wardrobe for that show.  One of my fav episodes was "Mr.coochie". LOL.


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 3:24pm
Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

The threads about Tre & Toine got me wanting to dig out my DVDs and watch the ep with the "is he a straight gay man or a gay straight man" debate.

eta: Not Big. I don't remember what season that was, but yeah, not Big.
 
 
that was a good one. 


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 3:31pm
Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

I hate how much I want to f*ck Mr. Big.
 
I have a love/hate relationship w/him already.  He reminds me of my ex--the dark hair, eyes, even the long ass fingers and big ass hands.  GOD the sex was hot...even just going down was better than most partners actually penetrating.  Damn.
 
But, real talk, she needs to have low expectations for him.  He seems non-committal, and untrustworthy.  I know I'm still not that far in the series, but I just saw the episode where she tried to leave her things at his place, and he brought 'em back (I lo-fawkin-l'ed at him bringing them back LOL).
 
 
 
Girl yes.  Big was a jerk but it's like damn....why u got errything tho.  I hated it but I understood why Carrie was stupid over him.  I need to watch the episodes again but I don't think Big ever said they were exclusive or even to the point to be leaving things at each others house but I could be wrong.  Did Big leave things at Carrie's?


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 3:33pm
Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

I was wondering if u stuck it out CLC.  I love the show.  I mean I know it's white women living well with "I got money" problems but...*shrugs*  I still enjoyed it.  Yeah...that first season was...u can tell when they were picked up and got more money.  Carrie's apartment changed up and errything.  Her thing with Big was crazy.  I had a family member that would break up and make up and I was like...who u think ya'll are Carrie and Big?  LOL  How far have u gotten?
 
I'm still on season 2.  Miranda needs to leave poor Skipper and his curly hair alone LOL  She gon land that nuccuh in therapy!
 
I've spotted the boom/mike in like 2 episodes now--once, it was reflected in Carries TV.  I facepalmed Sleepy


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 3:34pm
I love any episode with Anthony Marentino.


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 3:35pm
Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

I hate how much I want to f*ck Mr. Big.
 
I have a love/hate relationship w/him already.  He reminds me of my ex--the dark hair, eyes, even the long ass fingers and big ass hands.  GOD the sex was hot...even just going down was better than most partners actually penetrating.  Damn.
 
But, real talk, she needs to have low expectations for him.  He seems non-committal, and untrustworthy.  I know I'm still not that far in the series, but I just saw the episode where she tried to leave her things at his place, and he brought 'em back (I lo-fawkin-l'ed at him bringing them back LOL).
 
 
 
Girl yes.  Big was a jerk but it's like damn....why u got errything tho.  I hated it but I understood why Carrie was stupid over him.  I need to watch the episodes again but I don't think Big ever said they were exclusive or even to the point to be leaving things at each others house but I could be wrong.  Did Big leave things at Carrie's?
 
She offered for him to leave a toothbrush or something, and he was like, "I don't want to tho Confused" LOL
 
I thought things may have changed between them when they said "I love you", but yeah--his trip to Paris just nixed any positive changes...


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 3:36pm
Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

I was wondering if u stuck it out CLC.  I love the show.  I mean I know it's white women living well with "I got money" problems but...*shrugs*  I still enjoyed it.  Yeah...that first season was...u can tell when they were picked up and got more money.  Carrie's apartment changed up and errything.  Her thing with Big was crazy.  I had a family member that would break up and make up and I was like...who u think ya'll are Carrie and Big?  LOL  How far have u gotten?
 
I'm still on season 2.  Miranda needs to leave poor Skipper and his curly hair alone LOL  She gon land that nuccuh in therapy!
 
I've spotted the boom/mike in like 2 episodes now--once, it was reflected in Carries TV.  I facepalmed Sleepy
 
 
LOL.  Skipper is crazy in love with Miranda.  Broke up with a girl why his dicc was still inside her because Miranda called.  spoiler. my bad.


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 3:37pm
I just plain don't like her.  I knew for sure during that episode where she was faking an orgasm, and sounded like that animal-man from "The Goonies".


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 3:39pm
Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

I had sex with an ugly guy and stopped all contact with him the next day if that counts as a one night stand LOL I met him at a Temple party back in the day and chatted with him for a month. But when I met him in person again......smh....Never went to a party without lights ever again lol
 
 
 
 
 
"Ugly sex is hot" - Anthony Marentino


Posted By: saxssyvixen29
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 3:41pm
Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

I had sex with an ugly guy and stopped all contact with him the next day if that counts as a one night stand LOL I met him at a Temple party back in the day and chatted with him for a month. But when I met him in person again......smh....Never went to a party without lights ever again lol
 
 
 
 
 
"Ugly sex is hot" - Anthony Marentino

LOL I loved him on the show.  Dang, I miss watching the uncensored version, I only have season 3 on DVD.  I always tell myself, I should buy the whole series...
Carry on ladies, your comments got me all giggly.


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 3:41pm
I haven't gotten up to any episodes w/him in it yet, now I'm intrigued LOL


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 3:41pm
Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

I just plain don't like her.  I knew for sure during that episode where she was faking an orgasm, and sounded like that animal-man from "The Goonies".
 
 
 
U talmbout Miranda? 


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 3:42pm
Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

I haven't gotten up to any episodes w/him in it yet, now I'm intrigued LOL
 
 
I guarantee you gone like him.


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 3:43pm
Another one of my favs is the "Corporate Lesbian" episode.  I understood Charlotte in that one.


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 4:35pm
To answer the last question--I never find myself feeling sorry for single friends, unless they're dying to be in relationships.  I'm actually happier that my friends are single, because I know it gives them more time to focus on themselves, and mentally/emotionally/physically/financially/spiritually prepare themselves for any possible relationships in the near future.
 
I find myself feeling, moreso, sorry for the friends I know who are boo'ed up.  Maybe it's because I'm hearing nothing but whining, nagging, crying, complaining from them about the S/O.  In any event, their relationship sounds like more work than anything, and it always seems like they're "all alone in love".
 
I always feel awkward around my friend's S/O's, especially if there's a dirty joke in the air.  I've had 3 friend's men flirt hard with me in the past--1 of them asked my friend if she would consider asking me to join them in the bedroom...
 
She actually had the nerve to come back and ask me, and I was like, "welp, that's all the time we have for this friendship..."


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 6:34pm
Originally posted by saxssyvixen29 saxssyvixen29 wrote:

Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

I had sex with an ugly guy and stopped all contact with him the next day if that counts as a one night stand LOL I met him at a Temple party back in the day and chatted with him for a month. But when I met him in person again......smh....Never went to a party without lights ever again lol
 
 
 
 
 
"Ugly sex is hot" - Anthony Marentino

LOL I loved him on the show.  Dang, I miss watching the uncensored version, I only have season 3 on DVD.  I always tell myself, I should buy the whole series...
Carry on ladies, your comments got me all giggly.
 
 
I got all season's except for the last I think.  The seasons are cheap these days...I think.  Maybe around 15.99 or summin' if u get it at The Target.   The last season is split into two groups.  I keep procrastinating but I need to go ahead and finish my collection.  I just want my season 6 DVD's to match the rest in my collection.  I have the transparent covers but from what I'm seeing they have changed that.  I need my sh*t to match.


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 6:39pm
LMFAO @ "I need my sh*t to match" LOL


Posted By: purple.chuckz
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 6:49pm
Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

I hate how much I want to f*ck Mr. Big.
 
I have a love/hate relationship w/him already.  He reminds me of my ex--the dark hair, eyes, even the long ass fingers and big ass hands.  GOD the sex was hot...even just going down was better than most partners actually penetrating.  Damn.
 
But, real talk, she needs to have low expectations for him.  He seems non-committal, and untrustworthy.  I know I'm still not that far in the series, but I just saw the episode where she tried to leave her things at his place, and he brought 'em back (I lo-fawkin-l'ed at him bringing them back LOL).
 
 
 
Girl yes.  Big was a jerk but it's like damn....why u got errything tho.  I hated it but I understood why Carrie was stupid over him.  I need to watch the episodes again but I don't think Big ever said they were exclusive or even to the point to be leaving things at each others house but I could be wrong.  Did Big leave things at Carrie's?

Big had Carrie on emotional layaway.


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 6:56pm
U sure right.


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 7:01pm
Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

LMFAO @ "I need my sh*t to match" LOL
 
it's a thing with me.  If I have a series of DVD's.  I need it to...coordinate.LOL


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 7:11pm
Originally posted by purple.chuckz purple.chuckz wrote:

Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

I hate how much I want to f*ck Mr. Big.
 
I have a love/hate relationship w/him already.  He reminds me of my ex--the dark hair, eyes, even the long ass fingers and big ass hands.  GOD the sex was hot...even just going down was better than most partners actually penetrating.  Damn.
 
But, real talk, she needs to have low expectations for him.  He seems non-committal, and untrustworthy.  I know I'm still not that far in the series, but I just saw the episode where she tried to leave her things at his place, and he brought 'em back (I lo-fawkin-l'ed at him bringing them back LOL).
 
 
 
Girl yes.  Big was a jerk but it's like damn....why u got errything tho.  I hated it but I understood why Carrie was stupid over him.  I need to watch the episodes again but I don't think Big ever said they were exclusive or even to the point to be leaving things at each others house but I could be wrong.  Did Big leave things at Carrie's?

Big had Carrie on emotional layaway.
 
I'm sensing that he just resurrects every season?  Cuz I'm at the end of season 2 (when they went to the tantric sex class, and that old man nutted on the redheads face LOLLOLCryCryLOLLOL) and he's not back yet.


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 7:37pm

Big comes in and out.  She dates other folks.  That's the one where Charlotte's man fell asleep while having sex with her.  LOL.  that was funny.



Posted By: purple.chuckz
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 8:19pm
Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

Big comes in and out.  She dates other folks.  That's the one where Charlotte's man fell asleep while having sex with her.  LOL.  that was funny.


Mr. Bigs was like herpes. 

I luv, luv the premature ejaculator episode with Justin Thereaux and Valerie Harper " I see you Carrie, I see you."


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 04 2014 at 8:33pm
I just finished watching that one!  That dude is messed up in the head--how you don't want to talk about the fact that you can't even wait to take your d*ck out your pants before you cum?  Then the hissy fit he threw???  FOH.
 
I just saw the next Big resurrection, at that beach party.  Damn...he ain't even tell her he was back from Paris.  Asshole.


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 2:10am
I only feel sorry for one single friend, cuz I'm just like man I'm glad I don't go through the bs she puts up with...and I just can't relate to the problems she has going in in her life. Bye i got the SAtC Box set. Was an awesome gift from my husband


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 9:26am

Episode 4/Season 1 – Valley Of The Twenty-Something Guys: 


Granted that you are at least thirty years of age, would you ever date a guy ten years your minor?  What is your general attitude about women dating men much younger than themselves?  Would you ever marry a man ten years younger than yourself?


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 9:41am
yup
I'm definitely gonna be a cougar 
maybe not at 30 (at least not serious)… but definitely like 40. 


Posted By: Omni Harmony
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 9:58am
Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

I just plain don't like her.  I knew for sure during that episode where she was faking an orgasm, and sounded like that animal-man from "The Goonies".
LOLLOLLOL


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 2:52pm
Originally posted by purple.chuckz purple.chuckz wrote:

Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

Big comes in and out.  She dates other folks.  That's the one where Charlotte's man fell asleep while having sex with her.  LOL.  that was funny.


Mr. Bigs was like herpes. 

I luv, luv the premature ejaculator episode with Justin Thereaux and Valerie Harper " I see you Carrie, I see you."
 
 
Yeah that was a good one.


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 2:53pm
Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

I just finished watching that one!  That dude is messed up in the head--how you don't want to talk about the fact that you can't even wait to take your d*ck out your pants before you cum?  Then the hissy fit he threw???  FOH.
 
I just saw the next Big resurrection, at that beach party.  Damn...he ain't even tell her he was back from Paris.  Asshole.
 
 
 
Charlotte out there frontin' in those streets. Crabs n sh*t.LOL


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 4:39pm
that made her 27 jump right back to 32, didn't it tho? LOL


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 4:40pm
And...I cannot f*cking believe Big married that 20-something-year-old.
 
What...the...fawk?!
 
Omg, that would hurt so bad.  That would really mess me up...



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