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Topic: Old Men Trying to Flirt
Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Subject: Old Men Trying to Flirt
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 8:30pm
I am soo disgusted by this.  I have gotten "talked to" at work for being rude to an old man who was trying to flirt with me. If you are over 40 you have no business trying to talk to a woman in her 20s, am I right? What makes them think this is the move? Some old fart asked me out at work and it took everything I love for me not to laugh in his face. Do they really think they can pull a woman young enough to be their daughter?  I shaded him on his age too and he had the nerve to giggle. Bitch, I SHADED YOU, why are you laughing?  He asked me if I was from the area and I said "why you wanna know?" He said he was just asking. I asked him if he thought he knew me from hanging out at one of his kids house. He laughed. Bitch that was a read not a joke. Ugh.

What can I do to repel old men? Should I be even meaner? It just really bothers me. I also hate how they try to monopolize your time. I think they only do this because you're on the clock and they know you cant be mean to them because you're at work sheit.



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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 8:32pm
Some old men are bold as hell though.


Posted By: blaquefoxx
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 8:36pm
Just politely turn them down and keep it moving.

It ain't that deep.

But then again if his pockets were, the OP would be differentStern Smile



Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 8:38pm
if his money is right he can flirt with me 


Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 8:39pm
Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Just politely turn them down and keep it moving.

It ain't that deep.

But then again if his pockets were, the OP would be differentStern Smile


You cant get away from them at work tho

But his pockets aint tho...That's whats so offensive. You old AND regular? ew


Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 8:40pm
If he was a decent looking old man like Rick Fox that would be ok. But he wasn't and he was creepy.

In order to get away with being old you have to be fiiinnnneee. I'm talking about the average man in his late 40s probably early 50s


Posted By: HeyBeautiful18
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 8:40pm
Old guys in their 40s and 50s looove me at my job. Idk why. I think I have a cute/innocent look to me and they are attracted to that. Which is really weird

I always laugh in their faces. I can't ever and never will take them seriously...

I usually pull the "you're like twice my age..you could be my grandpa" comment and they get offended

Some of them be kinda cute tho


Posted By: Bored w/Out Me?
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 8:40pm
Close mouth don't get fed...


Posted By: blaquefoxx
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 8:43pm
Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Just politely turn them down and keep it moving.

It ain't that deep.

But then again if his pockets were, the OP would be differentStern Smile


You cant get away from them at work tho

But his pockets aint tho...That's whats so offensive. You old AND regular? ew
How you know lol


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 8:44pm
sometimes you can't tell when them older men have money.. 

I'm pretty sure I've laughed at some old men who were wealthy on the under.. idk about rich though.  
i wasn't willing to wait and see though.. i gotta know for sure.. show me somethin if you want me pops 


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 8:48pm
they have dicks. doesn't change cuz they're old. get used to it 


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 8:50pm
Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

they have dicks. doesn't change cuz they're old. get used to it 

i get what the op is saying though.. 
when i was more confident i used to forreal get offended.. i couldn't understand the audacity.. 
a guy isn't gonna try to get something he knows he has no chance with 8 times out of 10.. 
it used to be offensive that they'd even try like they thought they had a chance.. 
yanno? 




Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 8:51pm
is that you in your avi


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 8:57pm
I think some old men flirt with young gals out of their league because they think it's endearing. I don't think many of them take it seriously or expect to get anything other than a friendly rejection.


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 9:01pm
Example of my opinion around 0:35.




Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 9:04pm
Drug companies *&%^$#@Eed up when they invented viagra. They are allowed to be attracted to who they want to be attracted to, but its levels to this sh*t. If you in your 40s-50s do not think that you have a viable chance with a woman in her 20s. No. fck I want you for? Where your son at?  That's so disrespectful. It shouldnt be socially acceptable.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 9:06pm
Dead @ socially acceptable


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 9:27pm
His old ass might keep you off them racks.....


Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 9:32pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

His old ass might keep you off them racks.....

You stay on my  clitoris like one of them sores you got.






Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 9:34pm
LMAO....ole basic ass thot.


Posted By: juicifruit89
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 9:40pm


Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 9:45pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

LMAO....ole basic ass thot.

You will always and forever be a miserable angry rat. No amount of high end makeup can hide your ugliness


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 9:46pm
it only bothers me because men say i look like im 17...so i'm conflicted when older men talk to me, feels gross




Posted By: OoDles O
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 9:52pm
20 to 25 years from now, if I can afford it I might buy me a nice young woman lol


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 9:57pm
Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

LMAO....ole basic ass thot.

You will always and forever be a miserable angry rat. No amount of high end makeup can hide your ugliness


Your parents fail.....so hard.....


Posted By: juicifruit89
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 9:58pm
Originally posted by femmefatale85 femmefatale85 wrote:

it only bothers me because men say i look like im 17...so i'm conflicted when older men talk to me, feels gross



THIS! I'm 24 and have been told I look 17/18, so it's kinda weird to me to have late 30/40 guys not asking my age before proceeding. 


Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 10:03pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

LMAO....ole basic ass thot.

You will always and forever be a miserable angry rat. No amount of high end makeup can hide your ugliness


Your parents fail.....so hard.....

Thirsty bish stay wanting scraps of my attention. Was that how it was for you as a child, as well?


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 10:08pm
Stay wanting your attention....boo you're delusional.....tbh you're just a pathetic bum chick that idolizes a stripper dates old ass nickel boys and boost clothes from target.....you are too cheap a trick for me to want your attention.....I sincerely hope you attempt to upgrade your poo butt ass existence in 2014....cause based on your posting 2013 was not a good year...


Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 10:10pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Stay wanting your attention....boo you're delusional.....tbh you're just a pathetic bum chick that idolizes a stripper dates old ass nickel boys and boost clothes from target.....you are too cheap a trick for me to want your attention.....I sincerely hope you attempt to upgrade your poo butt ass existence in 2014....cause based on your posting 2013 was not a good year...

Angry argumentative hoodrat stay following my threads trying to get me to talk to you. Is it because I wont let your Sinbad with a zorro mustache azz eat my cat? I could be a cheap trick and you still wouldnt be able to afford me. Before you worry about somebody upgrading, wax that mustache first.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 10:14pm
You have nothing but a shadow from a picture I had in my avi 3 years ago? Yawn. Eat yo cat...girl you can't even get the current nicca you're blowing to do it.....baby steps boo.....baby steps.....Argue? You're a booster wheres the argument? 


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 10:15pm
this is getting interesting.. 




Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 10:18pm
People really be looking for fights online though LOL


Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 10:20pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

You have nothing but a shadow from a picture I had in my avi 3 years ago? Yawn. Eat yo cat...girl you can't even get the current nicca you're blowing to do it.....baby steps boo.....baby steps.....Argue? You're a booster wheres the argument? 

That wasnt no shadow boo, that was bad bidness on your part. If you that bummy in a BHM avi I wonder how busted and disgusted you look in real life. Maybe that's why you're so bitter. Stupid heaux shoulda befriended me, I might have used my connects to boost you a No No for xmas




Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 10:24pm
look at the bright side.  one day you'll be practically invisible to all men.  just take it as entertainment.  i wonder how common it is to miss the eyes at age xx.


Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 10:27pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

look at the bright side.  one day you'll be practically invisible to all men.  just take it as entertainment.  i wonder how common it is to miss the eyes at age xx.

I will only be upset once I become invisible to the fine/rich ones.

I only get mad because they are approaching me when I'm in a vulnerable state. If I was not at work, I would have no problem just ignoring them and rolling my eyes. At work I have to be friendly and sociable to the customer. I think it is just so wrong how these men dont realize who they should and shouldnt be talking to


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 10:27pm
what are racks


Posted By: Ming
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 10:27pm
Originally posted by femmefatale85 femmefatale85 wrote:

it only bothers me because men say i look like im 17...so i'm conflicted when older men talk to me, feels gross




exactly why it bothers me. Men my age always ask how old I am. There's only one reason an old man would be looking at me when I look underage

*continues reading*


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 10:27pm
Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

what are racks


Clothing racks she steals fromLOL


Posted By: OoDles O
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 10:30pm
I'm just giving thanks to even out the score.
don't want people to quit if they see a blowout.


Posted By: blaquefoxx
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 10:33pm
no home training...whatsoever





Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 10:33pm
Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

I'm just giving thanks to even out the score.
don't want people to quit if they see a blowout.

LOLLOL


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 11:41pm
eanaj was entertained  LOL


Posted By: Naturalchick30
Date Posted: Dec 28 2013 at 11:44pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

His old ass might keep you off them racks.....



Posted By: newin2009
Date Posted: Dec 29 2013 at 8:54am
Lol. I wasn't not expecting this, but I was definitely entertained.

Anyway just smile at those old men and keep it moving. Some of them just like flirting and don't really expect anything 9 times out of 10.


Posted By: trudawg
Date Posted: Dec 29 2013 at 9:46am



I guess that nasty azz potty mouth and sh!tty attitude was supposed to be a defense mechanism?



Posted By: GG
Date Posted: Dec 29 2013 at 10:16am
Just ignore them, I don't believe in men who've already lived their lives and been ran thru the mill trying to come at women half their age.


Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Dec 29 2013 at 10:29am
lol look at it this way.....these old dudes look at trying to pick up young girls like winning the lotto.....yea you may play a thousand tickets over the years .......but you only need to win mega million just once to be set for life......


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 01 2014 at 8:43am
old ppl that try to get with young ones ARE disgusting!!! Ppl shouldn't be with anyone outside of a 10 yr age range.  sh*t is so pedo-like & gross!


Posted By: bunzaveli
Date Posted: Jan 01 2014 at 8:53am
i thought you ladies loved older men


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 01 2014 at 8:55am
oh my, read the rest of the thread.  Another reason lsa is better.  u can say ALL ur dirt completely anonymously & don't ever have to worry about  ppl throwing sh*t in ur face later
LOL
 
Speaking of which, I saw a thread there that as sooooo sad & fucced up, I wanted to c/p it over here.  Reading that sh*t made me wanna kill somebody


Posted By: Jewelsnyc
Date Posted: Jan 01 2014 at 9:57am
Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

oh my, read the rest of the thread.  Another reason lsa is better.  u can say ALL ur dirt completely anonymously & don't ever have to worry about  ppl throwing sh*t in ur face later
LOL
 
Speaking of which, I saw a thread there that as sooooo sad & fucced up, I wanted to c/p it over here.  Reading that sh*t made me wanna kill somebody
Bunny bring it over!


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 01 2014 at 10:18am
Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

oh my, read the rest of the thread.  Another reason lsa is better.  u can say ALL ur dirt completely anonymously & don't ever have to worry about  ppl throwing sh*t in ur face later
LOL
 
Speaking of which, I saw a thread there that as sooooo sad & fucced up, I wanted to c/p it over here.  Reading that sh*t made me wanna kill somebody
Bunny bring it over!
ok hold on..


Posted By: MzCaliky
Date Posted: Jan 01 2014 at 8:07pm
You are making a big deal of nothing. Like a few said they just wanna flirt right quick to see where there game is and keep it moving. Most aren't seriously trying to get you to date them or anything. When I went out last night I told my friend I could feel the vibe that an "old" man would offer to buy me a drink.  That's exactly what happened. He asked if he could buy my next drink, I said yes, thank you and smiled at him and he didn't say anything else the rest of the night except to ask if I was good, as in do you want another. For the few who get frisky be upfront but polite. Usually they respect a polite no thank you. It is the way of the world. Can't knock them for trying cause some chicks like it. 


Posted By: AmiliaCabral
Date Posted: Jan 01 2014 at 8:46pm

a simple "we work together" would probably make it clear

 
but I tell old niccas to scram all the time, I hate old people im not related to


Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Jan 01 2014 at 10:55pm
Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:




I guess that nasty azz potty mouth and sh!tty attitude was supposed to be a defense mechanism?


You sound defensive yourself....hope you arent one of those old azz men tryna get chicks out your age range. I was rude to him b/c I dont want him and was disgusted with the fact he approached me. Maybe he would have had a better reception from a woman his own age...



Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

i thought you ladies loved older men

Not that damn old. 5-10 years older cool. Generations older, hell naw


Posted By: trudawg
Date Posted: Jan 02 2014 at 1:04am
Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:




I guess that nasty azz potty mouth and sh!tty attitude was supposed to be a defense mechanism?


You sound defensive yourself....hope you arent one of those old azz men tryna get chicks out your age range. I was rude to him b/c I dont want him and was disgusted with the fact he approached me. Maybe he would have had a better reception from a woman his own age...





Na, I'm only attracted to women.


Posted By: MzCaliky
Date Posted: Jan 02 2014 at 11:11am
Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:




I guess that nasty azz potty mouth and sh!tty attitude was supposed to be a defense mechanism?


You sound defensive yourself....hope you arent one of those old azz men tryna get chicks out your age range. I was rude to him b/c I dont want him and was disgusted with the fact he approached me. Maybe he would have had a better reception from a woman his own age...



Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

i thought you ladies loved older men

Not that damn old. 5-10 years older cool. Generations older, hell naw

Maybe you look older than you think. Just a thought. 


Posted By: Ds2nice
Date Posted: Jan 02 2014 at 12:16pm
It's normal. Older men tend to go after younger women and even girls. I think its really nasty. I normally tend to get these so called older men that think I'm in my mid twenties. I shoot them down and depending on the situation I may give shade.


Posted By: Krystal Klear
Date Posted: Jan 02 2014 at 3:47pm
I would not entertain an elderly man. I wish these old ass men would stay in their lane and never approach or look at me. Nasty pervs


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Jan 02 2014 at 4:04pm
I weep for you 20-somethings these days. I wish y'all could have known what the world was like for a PYT before the makers of Viagra completely fcuked up the Sugar Daddy game. They need to be class action sued.

All good things.....




Posted By: Az~Maverick
Date Posted: Jan 02 2014 at 6:19pm
Sorry if I don't feel the same.....lightheartedness...in this thread than some but, I think old dudes hitting up on young girls is freaking nasty, pedo-type shyt. 

They know their game is weak with women their own age because they asks too many questions. It's all about control, molding, & shaping with these hound dogs. 


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Jan 02 2014 at 6:36pm
Originally posted by Az~Maverick Az~Maverick wrote:

Sorry if I don't feel the same.....lightheartedness...in this thread than some but, I think old dudes hitting up on young girls is freaking nasty, pedo-type shyt. 

They know their game is weak with women their own age because they asks too many questions. It's all about control, molding, & shaping with these hound dogs. 
ia 100%


Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Jan 02 2014 at 6:37pm
Originally posted by MzCaliky MzCaliky wrote:

Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:




I guess that nasty azz potty mouth and sh!tty attitude was supposed to be a defense mechanism?


You sound defensive yourself....hope you arent one of those old azz men tryna get chicks out your age range. I was rude to him b/c I dont want him and was disgusted with the fact he approached me. Maybe he would have had a better reception from a woman his own age...



Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

i thought you ladies loved older men

Not that damn old. 5-10 years older cool. Generations older, hell naw

Maybe you look older than you think. Just a thought. 

If that was the case I wouldn't feel so creeped out. But I look younger! the man tried to guess my age and thought I was 19 or 20 (I am older than that but still in my twenties).

So he's in his 50s and tryna holla at someone he thinks is 19 or 20? Thats sick


Posted By: Nisha
Date Posted: Jan 02 2014 at 6:42pm
Originally posted by Az~Maverick Az~Maverick wrote:

Sorry if I don't feel the same.....lightheartedness...in this thread than some but, I think old dudes hitting up on young girls is freaking nasty, pedo-type shyt. 

They know their game is weak with women their own age because they asks too many questions. It's all about control, molding, & shaping with these hound dogs. 


Yup! Clap


Posted By: Anah
Date Posted: Jan 02 2014 at 6:44pm
Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

I weep for you 20-somethings these days. I wish y'all could have known what the world was like for a PYT before the makers of Viagra completely fcuked up the Sugar Daddy game. They need to be class action sued.

All good things.....



He he tell me more. Are you implying it was an uneven exhange?Wink


Posted By: GoodGirlGoneGr8
Date Posted: Jan 02 2014 at 6:46pm
What's the point of being rude though? Doesn't that create a hostile work environment?

Just decline and keep it moving. I use to volunteer at a nursing home and the old men would be rubbing on their stuff trying to get the volunteers and nurses to come "help" them.....now that is a reason to be disgusted.

But flirting? It's not even that serious. Just look at it like a Steve Urkel/Laura type interaction and tactfully say no. It's not worth getting angry over.


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Jan 02 2014 at 6:49pm
Anah, gworl, wut? I don't understand your question.


Posted By: bunzaveli
Date Posted: Jan 02 2014 at 9:10pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

eanaj was entertained  LOL
wtf is this nonsense in your aV


Posted By: zsazsa
Date Posted: Jan 02 2014 at 9:49pm
OHKAYYY BHM I'm coming home. Bye bye LSA.

I had my own lil story but boy this shiit is entertaining [<:o)]



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