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Topic: Khloe Kardashian Divorce 2 File 4 Divorce Today
Posted By: hauteshellbi
Subject: Khloe Kardashian Divorce 2 File 4 Divorce Today
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 3:49pm
I think they should stay together



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Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 3:50pm

Khloe Kardashian Divorce: What She’ll Get In The Prenup – Remains SOLE Beneficiary Of Lamar Odom’s $10M Life Insurance Policy



Posted on Dec 13, 2013 @ 10:36AM | 

http://radaronline.com/category/tags/khloe-kardashian/" rel="nofollow - Khloe Kardashian  sealed an ironclad prenup with estranged husband  http://radaronline.com/category/tags/lamar-odom/" rel="nofollow - Lamar Odom  when the pair suddenly wed in 2009 — a move that savvily protected the reality star’s empire, RadarOnline.com has exclusively learned.

The ex-Los Angeles Lakers and Clippers star — said to be worth up to $100 million himself — waived any claims to his 29-year-old wife’s fortune, estimated to total much less, at around $18 million.

Kardashian will retain the couple’s $4 million Tarzana, Calif., mansion, as part of  http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2013/09/lamar-odom-drug-binges-high-end-call-girls-behind-khloe-kardashian-back/" rel="nofollow - the impending divorce .

http://radaronline.com/photos/kardashians-in-krisis-16-scandals-that-rocked-tvs-first-family/photo/546871/" rel="nofollow - PHOTOS: Kardashians In Krisis: 17 Scandals That Rocked TV’s First Family

She’ll also keep the engagement ring — worth $1 million — along with all jewelry and gifts given to her by love-rat Lamar during  http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2013/10/lamar-odom-will-take-drugs-tests-prove-sobriety-khloe-kardashian/" rel="nofollow - the course of their strained four-year marriage .

“Khloe will be entitled to $500,000 for each year married to Lamar and she could petition for spousal support,” a source with knowledge of the prenup told Radar.

“However, she would only be entitled to spousal support from Lamar for half the length of their marriage, which would be less than two years.

http://www.radaronline.com/photos/image/2731" rel="nofollow - PHOTOS: The Costliest Celebrity Divorces

“Lamar waived his rights to seek spousal support from Khloe and any claims to any money she earned from the Kardashian empire.

“Khloe will remain as the beneficiary on a $10 million life insurance policy Lamar has and that will remain for the rest of their lives.”

Contrary to reports, the insider insisted: “There is absolutely no cheating clause in document… it just doesn’t exist.”

As Radar previously reported, the youngest of the three Kardashian sisters is  http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2013/12/khloe-kardashian-divorce-lamar-odom-file-breakup-split/" rel="nofollow - expected to file for divorce from Odom, 34, as soon as Friday, after cheating he cheated on his wife numerous times during the marriage.

http://radaronline.com/photos/kardashians-in-krisis-16-scandals-that-rocked-tvs-first-family/photo/546871/" rel="nofollow - PHOTOS: Kardashians In Krisis: 17 Scandals That Rocked TV’s First Family

Odom is also battling  http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2013/11/khloe-kardashian-lamar-odom-agrees-random-drug-testing-clippers-spot/" rel="nofollow - an addiction to crack cocaine  and  http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2013/08/khloe-kardashian-cheating-scandal-kris-jenner-divorce-husband-lamar-odom/" rel="nofollow - booze .

Interestingly, the woman who hatched Kardashian’s prenup, legal ace Lisa Myer, won’t represent her during the divorce.

That role went to  http://radaronline.com/photos/kim-kardashian-and-her-lawyer-laura-wasser-hold-hands/photo/487984/" rel="nofollow - Laura Wasser , who represented her sister  http://radaronline.com/category/tags/Kim-Kardashian/" rel="nofollow - Kim  during her contention split from ex-husband http://radaronline.com/category/tags/Kris-Humphries/" rel="nofollow - Kris Humphries .

http://radaronline.com/photos/they-really-did-say-it-50-outrageous-kardashian-quotes/photo/548267/" rel="nofollow - GALLERY: They Really Did Say It! 50 Outrageous Kardashian Quotes

http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2013/12/lamar-odom-refused-rehab-desperate-wife-khloe-kardashian-cheating/" rel="nofollow - The divorce comes after  Kardashian desperately demanded Odom enter rehab after video surfaced showing him shirtless and attempting to rap with a male pal.

The NBA star refused — which lead the E! star to  http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2013/12/khloe-kardashian-lamar-odom-filing-divorce-soon/" rel="nofollow - take off her wedding ring  once and for all.

Revealed a source: “Surprisingly, Khloe wasn’t upset about the cheating confession, but the video which proved to her that Lamar is continually abusing drugs and alcohol. He was obviously wasted when the video was recorded.


http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2013/12/khloe-kardashian-divorce-lamar-odom-prenup/" rel="nofollow - http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2013/12/khloe-kardashian-divorce-lamar-odom-prenup/



Posted By: IslandSuga
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 3:54pm
Not surprised. Divorce is a black cloud looming over the Kardashian women. I'm not surprised that Kourtney never got married. Kris-divorced twice Kim-divorced twice


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 3:56pm
welp


Posted By: solena
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 4:00pm
Originally posted by hauteshellbi hauteshellbi wrote:

I think they should stay together

even after that video where he bragged about being on the DL?


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 4:02pm
Originally posted by solena solena wrote:

Originally posted by hauteshellbi hauteshellbi wrote:

I think they should stay together

even after that video where he bragged about being on the DL?

Shocked

DL?

bragged??

ShockedShockedShockedConfused


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 4:08pm
Video?


Posted By: lanae
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 4:10pm
Their perfume smells good. Oh well


Posted By: solena
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 4:11pm
Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by solena solena wrote:

Originally posted by hauteshellbi hauteshellbi wrote:

I think they should stay together

even after that video where he bragged about being on the DL?

Shocked

DL?

bragged??

ShockedShockedShockedConfused

i took it as him bragging about cheating when he said DL but it only added more fuel to the gay rumors


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 4:16pm
dam, these things don't seem to last very long. I remember people saying how much in love they seemed to be. 


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 4:25pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Video?

okay! sumthin!!


Posted By: SN2BPHD
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 4:33pm
I wonder what took her so long.


Posted By: oh_so_moody
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 4:35pm
I use to love Lamar's dirty drawers.... he was nice at URI when he beat Temple....

But whn he married...smh


Posted By: shellbee823
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 4:42pm
NOT SURPRISED


Posted By: indiecat
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 4:52pm
Good, but she knew how he was when she married him. waiting for Kim and Kanye to break up.



Posted By: thickblkbarbie
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 5:05pm
Good no babies were involved..


Posted By: HeyBeautiful18
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 5:05pm
Awe man i really liked them together

I thought he had tweeted they were doing okay


Posted By: hauteshellbi
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 5:15pm
Originally posted by solena solena wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by solena solena wrote:

Originally posted by hauteshellbi hauteshellbi wrote:

I think they should stay together

even after that video where he bragged about being on the DL?


Shocked

DL?

bragged??

ShockedShockedShockedConfused

i took it as him bragging about cheating when he said DL but it only added more fuel to the gay rumors


Never heard of this fukkery


Posted By: hauteshellbi
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 5:16pm
Chris bosh come out his closet yet?


Posted By: IslandSuga
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 5:24pm
Originally posted by indiecat indiecat wrote:

Good, but she knew how he was when she married him. waiting for Kim and Kanye to break up.



She married him after a few months of knowing him. She set herself up trying to compete with the big dogs


Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 5:37pm
I'm not surprised. I'm sure I'm one of the many people who is surprised they even lasted this long in the first place.


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 5:58pm
10 mil life insurance policy...this Brotha must be a crackhead


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 6:04pm
Khloe was homely and desperate to nab a baller.  there was no reason for them to get married so quickly.  she looks much better than 3 yrs ago so now she'll be moving on to someone (eta: someone else) who plays for the Lakers.


Posted By: thewonderfulwa
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 6:18pm
I think its more than any of these men signed up for but don't realize it until its to late.
I wonder if he will go back to his children mother.


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 6:22pm
Originally posted by thickblkbarbie thickblkbarbie wrote:

Good no babies were involved..

iseewhatyoudid


Posted By: GG
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 6:23pm
These chicks stay catching lifetime paychecks. Life isn't fair!


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 6:34pm
Quote Khloe will remain as the beneficiary on a $10 million life insurance policy Lamar has and that will remain for the rest of their lives.


Ermm well that dont sound right


Posted By: QueenBee
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 6:46pm
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

[quote]Khloe will remain as the beneficiary on a $10 million life insurance
policy Lamar has and that will remain for the rest of their lives.


Huh...how does an ex remain on a life insurance policy...really what law is Lamar breaking if he changes it from Khloe to someone else
(kids).....sounds very odd.




Posted By: QueenBee
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 6:47pm
Why Khloe even asking for spousal support...


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 6:51pm
Originally posted by QueenBee QueenBee wrote:

Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

[quote]Khloe will remain as the beneficiary on a $10 million life insurance
policy Lamar has and that will remain for the rest of their lives.


Huh...how does an ex remain on a life insurance policy...really what law is Lamar breaking if he changes it from Khloe to someone else
(kids).....sounds very odd.




he had to have been high

if he up and dies...



Posted By: GG
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 6:55pm
These damn cat nap marriages get on my nerves.


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 6:56pm

NO. Stern Smile


Khloe Kardashian Files For Divorce [+ Is She Dating Matt Kemp???]

Fri, Dec 13 2013 by Bitchie Staff | Filed Under: http://necolebitchie.com/category/celebs/" rel="nofollow - Celebrities

Matt Kemp & Khloe Kardashian 2012

Well, if there isn’t a little tea brewing in the Kardashian camp!

The sad news is that after months of holding on and defending her relationship to NBA star Lamar Odom, Khloe has finally put the nail in the coffin and ended her marriage. In court papers, filed by her lawyers today, she cited “irreconcilable differences” as the reason for the divorce, but what’s even more interesting is the iron clad prenup that the couple signed which basically allows them to leave the relationship with what they came with. The couple kept all of their property separate so divorce will be a cinch. Khloe is not asking for spousal support and she wants the judge to reject any bid by Lamar for the same.

Meanwhile, Dodgers cutie Matt Kemp may have scooped up Khloe on the rebound.

Over the past few weeks, the two were spotted (separately) attending both Jay Z and Drake’s shows at the Staples Center and Matt Kemp even snapped a few pics with Khloe’s mom Kris.   But that’s not what has people talking… Last night, after taking a two month hiatus from Instagram, Matt uploaded a photo of the Kardashian Christmas tree (previously posted by Kris Jenner) while stating it would be a “Cali Christmas” this year.

Fans of Matt quickly started piecing things together and started inquiring on whether he was dating Khloe in the comments.

 

Matt Kemp spending the holidays with the Kardashians 1 Matt Kemp spending the holidays with the Kardashians

http://necolebitchie.com/2013/12/13/khloe-kardashian-files-for-divorce-is-she-dating-matt-kemp/matt-kemp-kris-jenner-2012/" rel="nofollow">Matt Kemp & Kris Jenner 2012
Has Khloe moved on? Only time will tell..

P.S. That embarrassing leaked video of Lamar rapping about cheating definitely was the last straw for this marriage.

Via http://www.tmz.com/2013/12/13/khloe-kardashian-files-legal-docs-divorce-lamar-odom/#ixzz2nOY3l9JI" rel="nofollow - TMZ


Read more: http://necolebitchie.com/2013/12/13/khloe-kardashian-files-for-divorce-is-she-dating-matt-kemp/#ixzz2nPFj3IYy" rel="nofollow - Necole Bitchie.com: Khloe Kardashian Files For Divorce [+ Is She Dating Matt Kemp???] http://necolebitchie.com/2013/12/13/khloe-kardashian-files-for-divorce-is-she-dating-matt-kemp/#ixzz2nPFj3IYy" rel="nofollow - http://necolebitchie.com/2013/12/13/khloe-kardashian-files-for-divorce-is-she-dating-matt-kemp/#ixzz2nPFj3IYy


Posted By: GG
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 6:58pm
Can they stay away from influential athletic peen?!?!? I'm gonna start a petition!


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 7:36pm
Originally posted by QueenBee QueenBee wrote:

Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

[quote]Khloe will remain as the beneficiary on a $10 million life insurance
policy Lamar has and that will remain for the rest of their lives.


Huh...how does an ex remain on a life insurance policy...really what law is Lamar breaking if he changes it from Khloe to someone else
(kids).....sounds very odd.




she must be the irrevocable beneficiary (my favorite kind; if it's meLOL). 



Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 7:42pm
I need to see this video ya'll talkin' about


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 7:44pm
Khloe is my Fave Kardash but I'd be super pissed if she pulled Matt Kemp.....like farreals....


Posted By: sunshine321511
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 8:32pm
AS I always tell wives...make sure you are the "owner" of the life insurance policy you have with your husband.  Life insurance policies work by "who" is the owner.  Since I work in OHR I have seen terrible cases where wives are surprised upon death to find out ...the beneficiary was changed to a sister or other women.
which Khloe is obviously the policy owner because if he was the owner he could take her off.
 
Now that she is the owner, as long as she pays the premium...it is her 10 million dollar policy.


Posted By: sunshine321511
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 8:33pm
Matt Kemp is FINE AS WINE, I wonder how this will work out


Posted By: QueenBee
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 8:35pm
Purp..

I had to read up on irrevocable beneficiary. So basically he can't change the name on his life insurance without Khloe signing off that she in agreement to have herself removed.

QB goes off to look at our insurance policies.


Posted By: QueenBee
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 8:39pm
Thanks sunshine because I have two kids to provide for if hubby dies. Interesting... we need a thread on financial ways for spouses, long-term gf, sig others to protect themselves in event of sig other death


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 8:42pm
*sips wine and invests in whatever they got*


Posted By: sunshine321511
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 8:48pm
I am the "OWNER" on my husband's policy.
 
The man will have to SIGN, to that he understands that you are the OWNER and not him
 
My husband signed it, he was YOUNG, and I was WISE!!!
 
I'm pay that policy as long as I can, with all my planning, I'm sure to die first.Ouch
 
 


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 8:58pm
Originally posted by QueenBee QueenBee wrote:

Purp..

I had to read up on irrevocable beneficiary. So basically he can't change the name on his life insurance without Khloe signing off that she in agreement to have herself removed.

QB goes off to look at our insurance policies.


and I can't imagine why she'd do that LOL


Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 8:59pm
Considering that Lamar is an alleged crackhead there is a good chance Khole might get that 10 million dollars.


Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 9:52pm
I wanted them to work. I felt that she honestly and whole heartedly loved him.They made a nice couple

However, bitch you got me f*cked up if you think you're gonna make a lame ass rap song with your losin ass friend where you brag about cheating on me while I'm trying to support your non-rappin crack head ass. Boy, gone on. Deee-vorce


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 10:16pm


still no links, video, evidence of Lamar being on the DL?

this thread is invalid.



Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 10:24pm
Mod



theres a full video on youtube (lamar odom rapping) .,. but pretty much it was trash and embarrassing, but the line in the above video was all he said about it I think


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 10:26pm
Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:



still no links, video, evidence of Lamar being on the DL?

this thread is invalid.


i don't think he's on the DL either, but there's no telling what someone might be willing to do when they're high on crack and chilling in a mansion for days with a bunch of ngas.


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 10:45pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:



still no links, video, evidence of Lamar being on the DL?

this thread is invalid.



i don't think he's on the DL either, but there's no telling what someone might be willing to do when they're high on crack and chilling in a mansion for days with a bunch of ngas.


true true
ain't no telling these days





Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Dec 13 2013 at 10:45pm
thanks lite brite !



Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 3:05am
They got married too fast and .. he's unstable. Very bad upbringing .. so any relationship he gets into will fail or be a disaster.

Saddly ... I think Lamar is a bit self-destructive as well so yes, the life insurance policy might get paid off.



Posted By: sunshine321511
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 8:50am
Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

They got married too fast and .. he's unstable. Very bad upbringing .. so any relationship he gets into will fail or be a disaster.

Saddly ... I think Lamar is a bit self-destructive as well so yes, the life insurance policy might get paid off.

 
Ms. Printer-Ink is right, I watched a sports show and they were talking about his high school years and how he went to 5 high schools and his unstable life.  I'm learning more and more each day, how a person is raised, the characters they are around, has a major effect on their lives and how they treat people.


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 8:58am
Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

Considering that Lamar is an alleged crackhead there is a good chance Khole might get that 10 million dollars.


crack heads dont die that easy.  she'd be better off cutting his brakesLOL


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 9:47am
Khloé Kardashian Files For Divorce [+ Is She Dating Matt Kemp???]
Matt Kemp & Khloe Kardashian 2012

Well, if there isn’t a little tea brewing in the Kardashian camp!

The sad news is that after months of holding on and defending her relationship to NBA star Lamar Odom, Khloé has finally put the nail in the coffin and ended her marriage. In court papers, filed by her lawyers today, she cited “irreconcilable differences” as the reason for the divorce, but what’s even more interesting is the ironclad prenup that the couple signed which basically allows them to leave the relationship with what they came with. The couple kept all of their property separate so divorce will be a cinch. Khloé is not asking for spousal support and she wants the judge to reject any bid by Lamar for the same.

Meanwhile, Dodgers cutie Matt Kemp may have scooped up Khloé on the rebound.

Over the past few weeks, the two were spotted (separately) attending both Jay Z and Drake’s shows at the Staples Center and Matt Kemp even snapped a few pics with Khloé’s mom Kris.   But that’s not what has people talking… Last night, after taking a two-month hiatus from Instagram, Matt uploaded a photo of the Kardashian Christmas tree (previously posted by Kris Jenner) while stating it would be a “Cali Christmas” this year.

Fans of Matt quickly started piecing things together and started inquiring in the comments on whether he was dating Khloé.



Matt Kemp spending the holidays with the Kardashians 1Matt Kemp spending the holidays with the Kardashians

Matt Kemp & Kris Jenner 2012
Has Khloé moved on? Only time will tell…

P.S. That embarrassing leaked video of Lamar rapping about cheating was definitely the last straw for this marriage.

Via TMZ


Posted By: danieb23
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 9:50am
Whelp. It's been coming for a while. I actually liked them together..it seemed genuine.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 9:56am
i don't want matt and khloe together..
thats some bullshiit
i would have preferred kim.. 


i need to learn about those insurance policies. I think I'm the beneficiary of one but i don't know like anything about it and i don't think its worth much


Posted By: Naturalchick30
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 11:14am
Originally posted by hauteshellbi hauteshellbi wrote:

Originally posted by solena solena wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by solena solena wrote:

Originally posted by hauteshellbi hauteshellbi wrote:

I think they should stay together

even after that video where he bragged about being on the DL?


Shocked

DL?

bragged??

ShockedShockedShockedConfused

i took it as him bragging about cheating when he said DL but it only added more fuel to the gay rumors


Never heard of this fukkery



Posted By: petiteone29
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 11:17am
I sear some of y'all are so pessimistic. Predicting the worst for someones future. Just because he had an unstable upbringing means that all of his relationships will fail? 


Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 11:57am
I guess Matt Kemp wants to ruin his life...


Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 12:06pm
Matt kemp hopped on a first class flight to hell I see


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 12:17pm
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

Considering that Lamar is an alleged crackhead there is a good chance Khole might get that 10 million dollars.


crack heads dont die that easy.  she'd be better off cutting his brakesLOL



I swear....nicca might out live her


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 12:41pm
she probably doesn't need the money tho right? lol


Posted By: uppitynegroid
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 2:50pm
Well thanks for the life insurance tip yall. Yeah, well I'm not surprised. I'm just wondering how Khloe will find another man taller than her. Lamar was it for her, in that regards anyway.

If Matt marries her, then black athletes officially ain't shyt.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 3:03pm
LOL


Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 3:26pm
Originally posted by sunshine321511 sunshine321511 wrote:

Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

They got married too fast and .. he's unstable. Very bad upbringing .. so any relationship he gets into will fail or be a disaster.

Saddly ... I think Lamar is a bit self-destructive as well so yes, the life insurance policy might get paid off.


 
Ms. Printer-Ink is right, I watched a sports show and they were talking about his high school years and how he went to 5 high schools and his unstable life.  I'm learning more and more each day, how a person is raised, the characters they are around, has a major effect on their lives and how they treat people.


Yes, major. Major, major, major.

Un forunately they often meet 'savior' type of people - like his wife who think that shew can be his rock and help him overcome his history and they can have a good life.

No, he needs to see a Therapist to help him work through his issues. This would be a PROFESSIONAL and even this professional has enough sense not take him home with him. No, there have to be boundaries.

I once dated a guy that seemed a bit off but then when he started talkung about his childhood .. oh no, I could already seee what kind of situation I would be setting myself up with. No, I wished hiom the best ... but I stoppe seeing him.

Then the next week I met a lovely guy ... I could tell he was operating in a normal way and I could tell .. he was raised well. MAJOR.

I don't date these damaged good type of men. I wish them well and try to suggest they get help... but I don't have a martyr complex where I need to sacrifice my life to HELP some poor soul.

Nooo he just needs to seek help.

(Frankly, I don't know what ELSE she saw in him - he's too streetwise. UGH!)


Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 3:30pm
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

Considering that Lamar is an alleged crackhead there is a good chance Khole might get that 10 million dollars.


crack heads dont die that easy.  she'd be better off cutting his brakesLOL


Good point. She will have years and yeaaars of misery with him until he croaks from drug use. Sometimes these folks are resilIent and will take down anyone around them .. LONG before the croak. :(

She needs to cut her losses now and MOVE ON.


Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 3:45pm
Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

I sear some of y'all are so pessimistic. Predicting the worst for someones future. Just because he had an unstable upbringing means that all of his relationships will fail? 


Pretty much.

They will either fail or the relationships will be volitile and miserable. It all depends on how co-dependent his partneer is. Co-dependants are also damaged goods so to put 2 such people together ... is like dynomite.

The only way to avoid this is if the person gains insight to their issues and gets help. Help takes a long time though and you have to hear stuff you don't want hear - like stay away from drugs which are basically masking the pain.

In this case .. I would suspect Lamar does not have any insight or at least is not willing 'to do the work' to deal with his childhood problems - particularly as relates to hid father.

Sad that he will now lose the only stable influence he has in his life - his wife. It seems like he's just circling te drain now - though he may pull his bacon out of the fire.

I guess she realized thst she can't fix him... and just needs to save herself.

I don't care who she's dating next - though she needs a normal guy in her life. Wonder what's this new guys background?


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 3:48pm
Khole used to be knee deep in the drug game too though.

But I guess it takes a druggie to know one.

Meh, Lamar used to be an awesome basketball player.

He went to hell when he got with her.


Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 3:58pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Khole used to be knee deep in the drug game too though.

But I guess it takes a druggie to know one.

Meh, Lamar used to be an awesome basketball player.

He went to hell when he got with her.



Ummm Lamar's problems didn't start with her.

Maybe they were hiddened by the fame etc and now they are starting get so bad that even the drugs (and her PR agent) can't keep the lid on it all.

Noooo I think it's really poor form to blame the wife for the husband's now serious drug problem, which is based on alll the sh*t that went on in his childhood. In fact, if I didn't know better (and I don't know better) I would say he is a victim of sexual abuse.

He seems .... haunted. Po thing. :(


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 3:59pm
Blame who for what?
I not talking about his drug problems and she is at fault.
I'm just saying she had drug problems too

I'm talking basketball wise.
His career went down .

Maybe it was the trade but the NBA teams did not like the fact that he was on a reality show


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 4:06pm
a rough upbringing doesnt mean that you'll have a troubled life….. 

a person using drugs can't be blamed on a rough upbringing.. 

y'all watch too much tv. 




Posted By: uppitynegroid
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 5:06pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

a rough upbringing doesnt mean that you'll have a troubled life….. 

a person using drugs can't be blamed on a rough upbringing.. 

y'all watch too much tv. 




Its not about tv, it has more to do with basic psychology. Its not correct 100% of the time, but most of the time it is.


Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 5:19pm
Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

a rough upbringing doesnt mean that you'll have a troubled life….. 

a person using drugs can't be blamed on a rough upbringing.. 

y'all watch too much tv. 




Its not about tv, it has more to do with basic psychology. Its not correct 100% of the time, but most of the time it is.



Correct. There are exceptions but most of the time this is the case.

Especially when someone (as with Lamar) has been showing signs throughout in his adulthood.

I meet people with troubled childhoods all the time - they just don't realize the way they manage themselves in life ... stands out to people that were not raised that way.

I try to be polite but in the end I get away from them before they start directing their hostilitly toward ... me.

I leave these folks alone. That's all you can do.



Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 6:31pm
well.. i guess 'troubled upbringing' is subjective… 
but i disagree (with lots of proof). 

i love psychology.. it was my major and i go back to it time and time again.. but i still think y'all watch too much tv. 



Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 6:37pm
How was your childhood Printer_Ink?

Do you think your upbringing has some thing to do with the fact that you are 55 years old and single/never married?

Maybe men sense your childhood and avoid you. 


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 6:44pm
I thought Printer said she turning these young bucks out?


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 6:44pm
Hmmmmmmm


Posted By: uppitynegroid
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 9:25pm
Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

How was your childhood Printer_Ink Do you think your upbringing has some thing to do with the fact that you are 55 years old and single/never married. Maybe men sense your childhood and avoid you.


Damn!


Posted By: herwoman
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 9:50pm
Well...valid question.


Posted By: patternsandtexture
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 9:56pm
And I'm the messy one.


Posted By: nala52808
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 10:01pm
ruh-oh! Bindy bringin dat fiyah up in dis thread.

I AM HERE.


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 10:33pm
geezus


Posted By: herwoman
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 10:37pm
^^^I laughed HARD


Posted By: Qualified
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 10:53pm
Literally just got off the phone with Ms. Cleo, and she told me to tell yall that this thread was about to take a NASSSSSTYYYY left!

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Im going to heed my warning, I'll check in on this brewing sh!t storm later, but for now, I gots ta go! LOL, I aint messing with yall tonight. I see you Bindy... yes ma'am I do!

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Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 11:41pm
call ms. cleo nahw


Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: Dec 15 2013 at 2:53am
Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

How was your childhood <span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 23.33333396911621px;">Printer_Ink?</span>
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Ahh ... I am not 55 years old. :O

I am 58 years old :) and I never said I have never been married because I have been married but death takes everyone .. even when you don't expect it.


Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Dec 15 2013 at 3:02am
Funny how you never mentioned your dead husband before.........may he RIP......


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Dec 15 2013 at 3:08am
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

Considering that Lamar is an alleged crackhead there is a good chance Khole might get that 10 million dollars.


crack heads dont die that easy. 
she'd be better off cutting his brakesLOL
I busted out laughing when I read this.LOLCryLOL


Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: Dec 15 2013 at 3:26am
Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

Funny how you never mentioned your dead husband before.........may he RIP......


Wow.

If you don't like what I have to say fine but .. you don't have to attack me PERSONALLY.

Just goes to show ...


Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: Dec 15 2013 at 7:38am
Originally posted by IslandSuga IslandSuga wrote:

Originally posted by indiecat indiecat wrote:

Good, but she knew how he was when she married him. waiting for Kim and Kanye to break up.



She married him after a few months of knowing him. She set herself up trying to compete with the big dogs

Yup after 2 weeks of knowing each other they engaged


Posted By: QueenBee
Date Posted: Dec 15 2013 at 8:54am
Has lamar spoken on this issue?


,the Kardashian girls don't even let the stamp get applied to the divorce papers before starting new relationships.


Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Dec 15 2013 at 9:37am
Originally posted by IslandSuga IslandSuga wrote:

Originally posted by indiecat indiecat wrote:

Good, but she knew how he was when she married him. waiting for Kim and Kanye to break up.



She married him after a few months of knowing him. She set herself up trying to compete with the big dogs

after one month, I think and still say it was for TV just like Kim, but it blossom into more afterward.. but it was only a shell. 


Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: Dec 15 2013 at 9:47am
I'm watching their show and wow they have the worst taste in men.


Posted By: indiecat
Date Posted: Dec 15 2013 at 10:02am
Originally posted by keepgrowing keepgrowing wrote:

Originally posted by IslandSuga IslandSuga wrote:

Originally posted by indiecat indiecat wrote:

Good, but she knew how he was when she married him. waiting for Kim and Kanye to break up.



She married him after a few months of knowing him. She set herself up trying to compete with the big dogs



Yup after 2 weeks of knowing each other they engaged



I'm sure the kardashians did their research on him. They picked out an ugly man for her though, thought he wouldn't cheat probably.


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Dec 15 2013 at 10:16am
Khloe has the best money can buy beauty wise and is a solid 5 herself.
I'm still scratching my head over Matt kemp. His 3 exes I've seen are all really pretty


Posted By: Printer_Ink
Date Posted: Dec 15 2013 at 12:34pm
Originally posted by keepgrowing keepgrowing wrote:

I'm watching their show and wow they have the worst taste in men.
 
 
Correct ... and they can never be WITHOUT guy. Can't stand on their own 2 feet. Confused
 
I have a friend like that. She will be will guy number 1 for a couple of years or whatever .. and when it starts to go south she is out shopping for another guy. So she has an affair with guy number 2 until she feels she's got him ... and then she dumps guy number 1.
 
She has done this through 2 marriages as well - I keep telling her to take her time. Let the dust settle before she jumps with both feet into another committed relationship and think about why things didn't work out with the last guy for goodness sakes.
 
But every relationship starts as part of a cheating situation (she is a permanent cheater) because ... she can't stand to be alone. Sleepy


Posted By: purple.chuckz
Date Posted: Dec 15 2013 at 1:12pm
Lamar wanted the limelight and Khloe was in competition with Kourtney and Kim.


Posted By: Qualified
Date Posted: Dec 15 2013 at 1:17pm
This was eventually bound to happen, although I liked them together when things were sizzling between the two. She's better off, going through someones crack druggles with them, can be taxing as hell and take a toll on you. She will be okay, and she's young enough to bounce back as if this sh!t never even happened! I like Lamar and I really hope he's able to get himself rehabilitated and back on track before that crack rock gets the best of him.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Dec 15 2013 at 1:27pm
it really does seem like 99% of men seriously involved with a kardash end up with their life ruined or they go crazy 
reggie seems like one of the few who made it out safely 


Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Dec 15 2013 at 1:34pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

it really does seem like 99% of men seriously involved with a kardash end up with their life ruined or they go crazy 
reggie seems like one of the few who made it out safely 

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