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Topic: Thank you BHM
Posted By: BeatriceBean
Subject: Thank you BHM
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 1:32pm
Thank you for all of your support through this difficult time. As some of you know, my husband passed away in August. It has been a very trying time being away from my family and living in this phase of life without my honeybun, but your support means so much. Even the pms just asking how I am touched me.
I am not on as often as I used to be but I do appreciate you all! Hug

Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 1:34pm

Posted By: herwoman
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 1:36pm
I didn't know that BB I wish you well as you heal.

Posted By: kfoxx1998
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 1:37pm
Sister BHug

I didn't realize you lost your mate and I'm sad now to hear this. My deepest regards to you and your children.   I'm glad you're doing okayHeart 

Posted By: petiteone29
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 1:39pm

Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 1:40pm
I had to log in just to say...I'm so sorry Beatrice.  I had no idea.  I can't even pretend to understand the pain and hurt you're going thru right now. My deepest and sincerest condolences.Hug

Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 1:41pm
*hugs BB*

Posted By: OoDles O
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 1:44pm
oh wow Beans.. Im sorry to hear that.
Ima wish you and your family the best. Hug 

Posted By: tropical-punch
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 1:47pm

Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 1:47pm

Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 1:51pm
i'm so sorry to hear that happened bbean. 

love and prayers to you and your family.


Posted By: oh_so_moody
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 1:56pm
Sorry to hear that.

Prayers for you & your family.

Posted By: BrownQtee
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 1:58pm
Heart Blessings and love your way!

Posted By: Rumbera
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 1:58pm

Posted By: yaya24
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 2:02pm
Heart Prayers sent your way!

Posted By: whosbotheringme
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 2:06pm

My condolences to you and your family  Hug

Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 2:06pm
Sorry to hear that
Prayers for you and your family

Posted By: Princess_S
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 2:17pm
Saddened to hear about your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers Heart and Hug

Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 2:23pm
I'm very sorry to hear that Hug

Posted By: HowardAlumAKA
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 2:31pm
Hug Hug Hug Hug Hug Hug Hug Hug Hug Hug Hug

Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 2:33pm
Shockedoh no i didnt know. im sorry..will keep you and family in my prayers hon'


Posted By: liesnalibis
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 2:53pm

Posted By: indiecat
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 3:09pm

Posted By: maysay1
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 3:41pm
Awww BB that's so unfortunate. Just from the way you talked about him I know he was a good man who will be missed.

Hugs to you.

Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 4:11pm

Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 4:14pm
I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers. Hug

Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 4:15pm
I'm sorry to hear that. I can't fathom the pain that you must be going through. My grandma passed away in August also, but she and I were not close. To lose someone so close, a partner, your other half, must be painful. I am truly sorry for your loss. If I can be of any assistance, let me know. Condolences to ur whole family

Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 4:17pm
I had no idea BB. I am so sorry for your pain and loss. HeartHug

Posted By: Ladybird0724
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 5:08pm
I didn't know.

my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family


Posted By: Brownsugar1
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 5:12pm

Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 5:14pm
so sorry to hear this.  based on the stories you told, you two had a beautiful love story. Hug

Posted By: Sleek
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 5:15pm
Sorry for your lost****hugs****

Posted By: JamCaygirl
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 5:18pm
Had no idea,
Am so sorry for your loss...
my deepest condolences.

Posted By: AffirmativeBunny
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 5:20pm
My condolences to you and your family Beatrice. May God provide you with all the comfort you  need. Hug

Posted By: Butta Cookie
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 5:22pm

Posted By: RoxieDream
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 5:22pm

Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 5:23pm

Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 5:26pm
I am so sorry for your loss. I had no idea...

Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 5:40pm
Sending prayers and condolences your way

Posted By: BHMModerator5
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 5:41pm
So sorry to hear about your loss. Prayers to you and your family.

Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 6:17pm

Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 6:30pm
my prayers to you and your familyHug

Posted By: fckwitmeuknoigotit
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 6:33pm
sorry for your loss, BB. its tough losing a loved one but i can't imagine losing a spouse. Broken HeartHug

Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 6:38pm
Originally posted by BHMModerator5 BHMModerator5 wrote:

So sorry to hear about your loss. Prayers to you and your family.

Posted By: Jewelsnyc
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 6:46pm
So sorry to hear Mrs. B. I know this must be extremely hard on you. Praying for you and your family.

Posted By: newin2009
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 7:09pm
I'm sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family.

Posted By: Claudie
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 7:15pm
BB, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Heart Hug

Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 7:27pm
Oh Mrs. Bea, I'm so sorry to hear that. I'll pray for your healing Hug

Posted By: cvzx
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 7:31pm

Posted By: nemesis1
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 7:36pm

Posted By: HaitianDiva64
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 7:36pm
**hugs*** take all the time you need Bea.

Posted By: TexturizedDiva
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 7:50pm
So sorry for your loss.  Hug  Glad you're okay.  I've missed your presence.

Posted By: Bored w/Out Me?
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 7:52pm

Posted By: PeacefulOne
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 8:14pm
Oh Beatrice, so sorry to hear of your loss!
I pray for strength and peace for you and your family!

Posted By: fairyQueen092
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 9:06pm

Posted By: Miss SDY
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 9:16pm
Oh my...

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Posted By:
Date Posted: Nov 08 2013 at 11:56pm
I'm so sorry to hear that Ms. Bean! You are in my thoughts

Posted By: Tbaby
Date Posted: Nov 09 2013 at 4:16am
I'm sending prayers of strength and of comfort for you.

Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Nov 09 2013 at 6:13am
had to log in to say I am so sorry to hear this Aunt Bea. your posts about your husband were always so loving and i know you two had an amazing relationship.  I hope you are able to lean on your family during this time.

Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Nov 09 2013 at 6:46am
I'm sorry for your loss....and you and your family are in my prayers.

Posted By: Qualified
Date Posted: Nov 09 2013 at 7:04am
BB, I am so sorry to hear of your loss, I had no idea. You have my sincerest condolences in your time of bereavement. Please PM me if you should need anything. We miss you, take care!

Posted By: BeatriceBean
Date Posted: Nov 09 2013 at 7:27am
Thanks all (literally lol). I made this thread to thank you and to inform everyone (just in case a question ever popped up), and to let you know that I'm okay.

Just another word.

My husband and I were the type of people who were always very busy. Even after he had retired he was on somebody's committee, or teaching some seminar, or whatever. Even when he was sick the man was unstoppable. I was working until earlier this year. We spent as much time with each other as we could though.

We said that when we both retire, we're going to go away and DO US. Like, really live it up and enjoy each other.

A couple of months after we came to this breathtaking island, he had a heart attack as we were pulling out of the driveway to go into town.

I say all this to say, you can't put off life. You have to live while you're living. Whether you're married, in a relationship or single, you have to make your time outside of busy-ness a top priority. Time spent alone, with your partner, your family, your friends, all of that is what life is about. You can miss...will miss...what's most important if you don't prioritize and time will slip away. Achieve that balance early on and you will be golden.

Even with all that, we had an amazing 30+ years together. He was such an incredible man and I am grateful for everything that he was to me, the good and the not as good, and to everyone he knew. My life has to go on, but our love will always be a part of me.

Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Nov 09 2013 at 12:07pm
praying for you and your family.. Hug

Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Nov 09 2013 at 12:51pm
what?! I had no idea, I thought you weren't posting because Tortola had you busy

I am so, so, so sorry for the loss of your husband, Ms Beatrice ... my heart hurts for you just thinking about it, you are so strong and stoic

Again, as always you share your life experiences to teach us, the bitter and the sweet... a lot of us needed to hear the message to live in and enjoy the moment, now. Thank Ms Beatrice

We're praying for you

Posted By: alynxx
Date Posted: Nov 09 2013 at 12:57pm
I'm so sorry for your loss BB. Hug

Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Nov 09 2013 at 2:21pm
You are such a strong, wonderful person. I know you'll find comfort in the beautiful memories you have. You are so blessed to have experienced something so special and rare. All the positive energy you have given out will surely deliver itself back to you in your time of need.

Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Nov 09 2013 at 2:31pm
Aunt B sorry for your lost. I was just saying yo myself where is Aunt B. Haven't seen her on the board lately. Stay strong. I'm glad you're in good spirits.

Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Nov 09 2013 at 2:36pm

Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Nov 09 2013 at 2:39pm
Wow, I'm so sorry ms Bea.
I'm truly sorry about your loss but happy that you have 30 + years worth of memories.
I can't imagine how tough this is for you .
Hope you and you're family are leaning on each other.

Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Nov 09 2013 at 2:44pm

Posted By: zsazsa
Date Posted: Nov 09 2013 at 6:27pm
Very very sorry about your loss.

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