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Topic: Why dont men like to wear condoms?
Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Subject: Why dont men like to wear condoms?
Date Posted: Oct 03 2013 at 11:38pm
I was dealing with this gentleman who I had to persuade to wear a condom. I didnt have to go into a lengthy debate with him, but he tried to go in me raw and I had to tell him no more than once. he wanted to hit with no condom and this really bothered me because he is not my boyfriend and we dont know each other like that.  i just dont get it. does sex feel bad to men wearing a rubber? smh and dont tell me not to deal with him b/c the pipe too good



Replies:
Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Oct 03 2013 at 11:40pm
Ya'll are really trying it tonight and I love it. 


Posted By: Alias_Avi
Date Posted: Oct 03 2013 at 11:41pm
Because it feels good. Next


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Oct 03 2013 at 11:42pm
eta: 
Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

Ya'll are really trying it tonight and I love it.  
^^^

for real answer: most general answer i've heard (on either side) is lack of sensation/feeling. 


Posted By: Alias_Avi
Date Posted: Oct 03 2013 at 11:43pm
I swear I don't get you people...

Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

I was dealing with this gentleman who I had to persuade to wear a condom. I didnt have to go into a lengthy debate with him, but he tried to go in me raw and I had to tell him no more than once. he wanted to hit with no condom and this really bothered me because he is not my boyfriend and we dont know each other like that.  i just dont get it. does sex feel bad to men wearing a rubber? smh and dont tell me not to deal with him b/c the pipe too good


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Oct 03 2013 at 11:44pm
why didnt you ask him that? you dont know him like that?

seem like a lot to go through...
i probably would've just said forget it




Posted By: dijah.love
Date Posted: Oct 03 2013 at 11:44pm
*Sips drank*

And so it begins.


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Oct 03 2013 at 11:45pm
Originally posted by Alias_Avi Alias_Avi wrote:

I swear I don't get you people...
Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

I was dealing with this gentleman who I had to persuade to wear a condom. I didnt have to go into a lengthy debate with him, but he tried to go in me raw and I had to tell him no more than once. he wanted to hit with no condom and this really bothered me because he is not my boyfriend and we dont know each other like that.  i just dont get it. does sex feel bad to men wearing a rubber? smh and dont tell me not to deal with him b/c the pipe too good
OK ?! CAUSE I WAS ABOUT TO SAY!!!!!!

!!!!


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Oct 03 2013 at 11:55pm
Raw is the only way to go. Anything else is unacceptable. Stern Smile


Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: Oct 03 2013 at 11:58pm
Originally posted by dijah.love dijah.love wrote:

*Sips drank*

And so it begins.
 
 
LOL Beer


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Oct 03 2013 at 11:59pm
because they like playing russian roulette with their diccs and gettin hit up for child support.


Posted By: Chantal34
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 12:15am


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 12:49am
Some nigguhs got balls yo...


Posted By: Az~Maverick
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 12:53am
Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

I was dealing with this gentleman who I had to persuade to wear a condom. I didnt have to go into a lengthy debate with him, but he tried to go in me raw and I had to tell him no more than once. he wanted to hit with no condom and this really bothered me because he is not my boyfriend and we dont know each other like that.  i just dont get it. does sex feel bad to men wearing a rubber? smh and dont tell me not to deal with him b/c the pipe too good

You don't really know what you want do you? Smh.....why even try to look for answers here when it's obvious you don't really want "common sense" answers?


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 1:12am
in the bathroom waiting for my veet to activate before i get some raw dack



Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 1:14am


Hahahahahahahahaha!


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 2:50am
Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

I was dealing with this gentleman who I had to persuade to wear a condom. I didnt have to go into a lengthy debate with him, but he tried to go in me raw and I had to tell him no more than once. he wanted to hit with no condom and this really bothered me because he is not my boyfriend and we dont know each other like that.  i just dont get it. does sex feel bad to men wearing a rubber? smh and dont tell me not to deal with him b/c the pipe too good
he is not my boyfriend and we dont know each other like that

Now what now?


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 5:50am
A lot of dudes are so obsessed with their dicks, they equalize it to their potential as a human being.


Those are the kind who will do anything to feel sex without any obstruction even at the risk of catching disease.

Run faaaaar away from those dudes. If you're gonna have sex, let it be with a dude who gives a genuine fuck about himself and his health.


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 6:03am
I'd like to know more about the back story to this..

Like the nature of relationship leading up to the sexual transaction


Posted By: AmiliaCabral
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 6:20am
Cuz he ain't bout shyt, and he figures you ain't either if you let him hit. I guess he wouldn't know if he didn't try

But after the first time he tried it you shoulda got up and left. You don't know that nicca


Posted By: *Belle*Femme*
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 6:29am
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

I'd like to know more about the back story to this..

Like the nature of relationship leading up to the sexual transaction
word


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 6:30am
what happened to that other guy that you were dealing with, that she could not stop fuccing cuz the dick was too good? R u fuccing them both?


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 6:33am
Originally posted by *Belle*Femme* *Belle*Femme* wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

I'd like to know more about the back story to this..

Like the nature of relationship leading up tothe sexual transaction
word
I think it goes something like this, he is cute and fly and I want to hit it


Posted By: beebeexx
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 7:48am
lol bhm just ain't never heard of casual sex.


Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 8:18am
Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

because they like playing russian roulette with their diccs and gettin hit up for child support.

right? then next couple of years they going to be calling women bitches and hoes for possibly having their child when they forgot they hit it raw and that is a possibility smh. dumbasses.


Posted By: Bribby
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 8:21am
Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

lol bhm just ain't never heard of casual sex.

Lol, its crazy though. what is that?


Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 8:23am
to answer the OP immature men don't.


Posted By: comingofage03
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 8:29am
I have been a silent lurker on this site for years...on and off.

However, after coming upon this post, I could not, in good faith fail to reply.

Ma'am, you have to ask yourself this one pertinent question.

If this chap suggests you engage in recreational sex with him unprotected, who else does he makes the same requests of?

Are you that special to him that he's will to risk the health of his body or possibly become linked to you indefinitely by way of an unplanned child?

No, you are not! He's doing the same thing with ------> her.

Our gullible almost juvenile behavior is exactly why the HIV rates among hetero African American women are through the roof.

We care more about stroking the ego of some man before we consider the value of our own worth. (My opinion on why women are less vocal concerning safety in the bedroom)

IMHO...Being a big girl and having sex with multiple partners, outside of marriage, within a marriage, etc. all come with varying degrees of responsibility.

I am not the morality police but please think and do responsibly.

I said all of that to say...Take care of yourself, you are worth it.

God created you to be more than a pharmaceutical statistic.

The end! =) You brought me out of hiding.


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 8:33am
LOLThumbs Up


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 8:37am
Originally posted by comingofage03 comingofage03 wrote:

I have been a silent lurker on this site for years...on and off.

However, after coming upon this post, I could not, in good faith fail to reply.

Ma'am, you have to ask yourself this one pertinent question.

If this chap suggests you engage in recreational sex with him unprotected, who else does he makes the same requests of?

Are you that special to him that he's will to risk the health of his body or possibly become linked to you indefinitely by way of an unplanned child?

No, you are not! He's doing the same thing with ------> her.

Our gullible almost juvenile behavior is exactly why the HIV rates among hetero African American women are through the roof.

We care more about stroking the ego of some man before we consider the value of our own worth. (My opinion on why women are less vocal concerning safety in the bedroom)

IMHO...Being a big girl and having sex with multiple partners, outside of marriage, within a marriage, etc. all come with varying degrees of responsibility.

I am not the morality police but please think and do responsibly.

I said all of that to say...Take care of yourself, you are worth it.

God created you to be more than a pharmaceutical statistic.

The end! =) You brought me out of hiding.
well damn, 2005!!Clap


Posted By: comingofage03
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 8:55am
I had to reply to this. I'm sure between 05 and 13 this has been discussed before but umm....

I wish a negro would ask me to risk my life to engage in casual sex?!??!!

He'd be pulling his pants back up and tying up some laces.

This ain't the eighties...we have to do better.

Chile please =)


Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 8:58am
The 80s?LOL


Posted By: Brjasuga51
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 9:09am
Originally posted by comingofage03 comingofage03 wrote:

I have been a silent lurker on this site for years...on and off.

However, after coming upon this post, I could not, in good faith fail to reply.

Ma'am, you have to ask yourself this one pertinent question.

If this chap suggests you engage in recreational sex with him unprotected, who else does he makes the same requests of?

Are you that special to him that he's will to risk the health of his body or possibly become linked to you indefinitely by way of an unplanned child?

No, you are not! He's doing the same thing with ------> her.

Our gullible almost juvenile behavior is exactly why the HIV rates among hetero African American women are through the roof.

We care more about stroking the ego of some man before we consider the value of our own worth. (My opinion on why women are less vocal concerning safety in the bedroom)

IMHO...Being a big girl and having sex with multiple partners, outside of marriage, within a marriage, etc. all come with varying degrees of responsibility.

I am not the morality police but please think and do responsibly.

I said all of that to say...Take care of yourself, you are worth it.

God created you to be more than a pharmaceutical statistic.

The end! =) You brought me out of hiding.
ClapClap


Posted By: csungrl09
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 9:47am
Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

I was dealing with this gentleman who I had to persuade to wear a condom. I didnt have to go into a lengthy debate with him, but he tried to go in me raw and I had to tell him no more than once. he wanted to hit with no condom and this really bothered me because he is not my boyfriend and we dont know each other like that.  i just dont get it. does sex feel bad to men wearing a rubber? smh and dont tell me not to deal with him b/c the pipe too good


then you shouldn't have been having sex with him.
Ermm


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 9:49am
I love when people ask questions they already know the answer to.....


Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 10:04am
Originally posted by Alias_Avi Alias_Avi wrote:

Because it feels good. Next


tis allLOL
I hate rubbers too. but what to do.



Posted By: danieb23
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 10:04am
I don't understand it, either. I know it's lack of sensation, I just don't understand why people are so fcking stupid to have raw sex with any old body KNOWING that HIV/AIDS and other untreatable stds are still rampant. Is a good nut worth risking your entire future for?

I have a girlfriend now who I had to check tf out of. She has a really good & loyal bf up in NY, but was still fcking her ex down here raw (while he had a girlfriend that he was also fcking raw) and then she carried her ass up there and convinced her NY bf to go raw (he was apprehensive) before coming back down and fcking the ex raw more. 

I cussed her out for that bull. IDC who ur screwing and how much....that ain't my business and I'm not worried about it, but wear a damn condom before you fck around and start burning and crying about how your "life is ruined" while you was riding dic to dic unprotected.


Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 10:06am
Originally posted by danieb23 danieb23 wrote:

I don't understand it, either. I know it's lack of sensation, I just don't understand why people are so fcking stupid to have raw sex with any old body KNOWING that HIV/AIDS and other untreatable stds are still rampant. Is a good nut worth risking your entire future for?

I have a girlfriend now who I had to check tf out of. She has a really good & loyal bf up in NY, but was still fcking her ex down here raw (while he had a girlfriend that he was also fcking raw) and then she carried her ass up there and convinced her NY bf to go raw (he was apprehensive) before coming back down and fcking the ex raw more



'zus christ
Ouch

yet why the way this is worded made me laugh, i dunnoLOL



Posted By: Brjasuga51
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 10:07am
Originally posted by danieb23 danieb23 wrote:

I don't understand it, either. I know it's lack of sensation, I just don't understand why people are so fcking stupid to have raw sex with any old body KNOWING that HIV/AIDS and other untreatable stds are still rampant. Is a good nut worth risking your entire future for?

I have a girlfriend now who I had to check tf out of. She has a really good & loyal bf up in NY, but was still fcking her ex down here raw (while he had a girlfriend that he was also fcking raw) and then she carried her ass up there and convinced her NY bf to go raw (he was apprehensive) before coming back down and fcking the ex raw more. 

I cussed her out for that bull. IDC who ur screwing and how much....that ain't my business and I'm not worried about it, but wear a damn condom before you fck around and start burning and crying about how your "life is ruined" while you was riding dic to dic unprotected.
Your Girlfriend is way past Thrifflin


Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Oct 04 2013 at 10:09am

i love how after reading your previous eloquently written post..

then came this

LOL


..

Originally posted by comingofage03 comingofage03 wrote:

I had to reply to this. I'm sure between 05 and 13 this has been discussed before but umm....

I wish a negro would ask me to risk my life to engage in casual sex?!??!!

He'd be pulling his pants back up and tying up some laces.

This ain't the eighties...we have to do better.

Chile please =)


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Oct 05 2013 at 11:06am
Don't get much sensation/feeling = step your rubber game up. I've forever been harping on the Japanese condoms cause they tend to win best condoms every year.
http://www.amazon.com/Okamoto-Polyurethane-Condom-Regular-Import/dp/B003Y8Y9QG/ref=sr_1_cc_1?s=aps&ie=UTF8&qid=1380989289&sr=1-1-catcorr&keywords=okomoto+condoms" rel="nofollow - http://www.amazon.com/Okamoto-Polyurethane-Condom-Regular-Import/dp/B003Y8Y9QG/ref=sr_1_cc_1?s=aps&ie=UTF8&qid=1380989289&sr=1-1-catcorr&keywords=okomoto+condoms


Are women just ignoring the fact that we catch STDs easier than men do? Vaggie = big/wide (dont come for me) warm wet dark with a rich blood supply plus its has many other compartments (tubes, cervix, ovaries= microorganisms and pathogens love that place.

Stop the slackness man- get tested with your partners use condoms and dont forget afro's trick of putting the water in the condom after you're finished to check for tears/leakage

ETA Found some answer for you BlacDead

Lloyd G, 31:

I'm not sure why I don't sometimes. I guess it has to do with how comfortable I am with the girl — not that that's a good thing.

Kemar W, 27:

If she appears clean, then I might not use a condom.

Anthony S, 41:

I'll stop after I get to know her and know her track record. But some men don't wait, they just jump right in, mouths first sometimes.

Andre, 31:

My girlfriend and I used a condom the first few times, then she got on the pill. She says she likes the natural feeling. I'm not cheating and I hope she's not, so we should be safe.

Glendon R, 27:

Boy, to tell you the truth, sometimes I sleep with some girls and afterwards I have to look back and curse myself. But really still, sometimes you get in the mood and you realise you don't have any condom and you just do your thing and hope for the best. Because some women look so good, you just can't resist.

Dwayne W, 24:

If the person is my significant other I'll take the chance. On the other hand, if the person is not my number one, then maybe I will go unprotected if I am intoxicated.

Theodore M, 30:

I would have to trust someone to a great extent to take such a chance... to even think of taking such a chance. Or it would have to be a case where you have none available and it is virtually impossible to get one at the time and you just can't walk away. But naturally, your wife would be exempt from condom use since we imagine a normal person would trust their marital partner.

Barrington H, 34:

If she has done a AIDS test and she is on birth control, I wouldn't.

Carlton G, 38

After sleeping with her three times.



Read more:  http://www.jamaicaobserver.com/magazines/allwoman/Men--Why-we-don-t-use-condoms_14238956#ixzz2grgYwHMk" rel="nofollow - http://www.jamaicaobserver.com/magazines/allwoman/Men--Why-we-don-t-use-condoms_14238956#ixzz2grgYwHMk

Isiah Cole, 41, common-law-relationship for 10 years:

Simply because I like the natural feeling. Condoms take away that natural feeling of the skin to skin friction. And also, I don't get that monster of an erection that I have when I'm not wearing one. I use to bag up back in the days because I was afraid of catching anything, but when I found one person to settle with I started using it initially, but after awhile you fall into the pattern of not doing so and I realise sex was even better because there is no barrier. So today I no longer use it.

Duane Mills, 48, single:

Well obviously I don't use condoms all the time because I got two children! But if I am just meeting a girl and don't know anything about her then I will use it. But my children were born during stable relationships with women I felt I could trust at the time. But to be honest, sometimes you find yourself in a position where you don't have any 'bag', so you just do your thing and hope for the best. But for the most part I try to use condoms as much as possible.

David McHugh, 41, married nine years:

I don't use condoms with my wife because it's the ultimate trust and intimacy factor. It's much more enjoyable going without and I don't have to deal with putting on, taking off, and putting on again!

Sidney Greene, 39, married three years:

I have one partner and she is not cheating on me.

Byron Burnett, 47, married 11 years:

I don't use any with my wife, but if I do cheat, and I say if, condom is a must. I don't want to get any disease.

Ezekiel Chambers, 27, between relationships:

Sometime I don't use condom still. But you realise is fool fool we fool fool? Because we meet a woman and start using it and two, three weeks later we feel like we shouldn't use it anymore. But that fool fool still, because anything that was there three weeks ago will still be there three weeks later.



Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Oct 05 2013 at 11:17am
Maybe/probably cuz he is already permanently diseased and has no wages to garnish so he ain't worried about child support




Posted By: HeyBeautiful18
Date Posted: Oct 05 2013 at 3:36pm
Because to them, the fact that it feels better without it is more important than STDs and babies.



Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Oct 05 2013 at 3:48pm
Condoms are blasphemous.



Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Oct 05 2013 at 6:30pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

in the bathroom waiting for my veet to activate before i get some raw dack



LOLLOL



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