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Topic: Mr Cee Caught (again) and resigns from Hot 97
Posted By: Cocoa
Subject: Mr Cee Caught (again) and resigns from Hot 97
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 12:24pm

Mister Cee Resigns From HOT 97 Following Further Prostitution Allegations


Mister Cee has officially resigned from HOT97 after a video of him allegedly soliciting a drag queen for sex surfaced online.

Mister Cee has been the subject of a lot of controversy over the last few years. The HOT97 DJ has been arrested for attempting to solicit prostitutes multiple times while working at the station, as has consistently made headlines as a result. While the reports consistently point to the fact that Cee was soliciting male prostitutes in each case, he has maintained that the incidents have always been with women. 

Popular blogger and drag queen Bimbo Winehouse allegedly caught Cee in the act,  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jGhOVlDBcjs&feature=player_embedded#t=0" rel="nofollow - videotaping  the DJ's attempt to solicit Bimbo for sex. Mister Cee is not actually seen in the footage, and while the voice heard in the clip is very similar to that of Cee's, it is not confirmed either way that it is actually him. 

In what seems to be a reaction to the Video, Mister Cee has officially announced his resignation from HOT97. The DJ shared his final words on air over Biggie's "Hypnotize" beat. Read his short speech below.

"Today is my last day on Hot 97. Mister Cee, I'm resigning today. It is not a mystery that the past two years I've been through a lot and I've tried to deal with it the best way that I could deal with it and Hot 97 has tried to deal with it the best way they've had to deal with it. But when you're dealing with corporate America and you're dealing with a station you love as much as this station, I don't want to put this station through more than what they've been through I've been thinking of this for a long long time. I never want to be in a situation where I get pushed out anywhere. I've been at this station for 20 years since 1993 and if I'm gonna go out let me go out with me saying I'm gonna go out. Allow me to have that and so the station is allowing me to have that today and I appreciate that."

View an official statement from HOT97 below, as well as some tweets from Cee's co-worker MissInfo.

Due to some personal circumstances that have become public, after 20 years of service, Mr Cee has chosen to resign.  We feel that this is in the best interest of both HOT 97 and Cee’s personal well-being. While we do not endorse the alleged activities, he is clearly facing a personal dilemma that is for him and only him to comment on. We are saddened by his departure; his contributions here at HOT 97 were great and we know him as a friend, a caring individual and significant hip hop advocate. We wish Mr Cee the best and will always consider him a family member of HOT 97.

Moments ago, he officially signed off, on the air and will finish out his last show today on September 11, 2013, an already sad day for New York City.


UPDATE: HOT97's official statement below:

“Due to some personal circumstances that have become public, after 20 years of service, Mr Cee has chosen to resign. We feel that this is in the best interest of both HOT 97 and Cee’s personal well-being. While we do not endorse the alleged activities, he is clearly facing a personal dilemma that is for him and only him to comment on. We are saddened by his departure; his contributions here at HOT 97 were great and we know him as a friend, a caring individual and significant hip hop advocate. We wish Mr Cee the best and will always consider him a family member of HOT 97. Moments ago, he officially signed off, on the air and will finish out his last show today on September 11, 2013, an already sad day for New York City.”
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Replies:
Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 12:25pm
lol I hate you for putting that picture up.Dead


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 12:31pm
LOLLOL

Again, bro? AGAIN??


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 12:34pm
them eyebrows 


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 12:34pm
I wish this big negro would just come out the closet.....the secret is already out bruh


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 12:35pm
ooh my was he married? I remember there was a thread on him a few months back.


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 12:56pm
he's fighting a losing battle with himself cuz that closet he's in has glass doors.  feel bad for him.


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 12:58pm



Posted By: fckwitmeuknoigotit
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 1:22pm

 
i'm starting to think he got a fetish for not only trannies but getting caught.


Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 1:24pm
But...transsexuals? Men is one thing...this brother is into a whole nother thing. I'm cool with it, b urself.


Posted By: TheAwakenGod
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 1:30pm
Jump out the closet brotha.


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 1:38pm
all isn't lost, 

sure there is a satellite station for him

rush still got a show, Mr C can to


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 1:39pm
He said Mr. Cee didn't get any services like he turned him down... you ain't do nothing cuz you were the most talking, texting, annoying prostitute ever known to man. He coulda been putting on but naw...

But yeah, he really should just come outta the closet and live his life.

And that stiff, mangy looking wig made me so sad lol.


Posted By: CLCNY20
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 1:40pm
can't stop, won't stop! LOL


Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 2:39pm
Did somebody curse this brotha?
He stay getting caught.


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 2:40pm
If you're gay, you're gay.  Why is he paying for sex though?


Posted By: HaitianDiva64
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 2:43pm
BE FREE MR.CEE BE FREE!!!!


Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 2:45pm
Did I hear him say that he is tryna get some good head but the dude/chick was effing it up by saying lets go to the store???? Dang they wanted to out him so daggone bad I guess.


Posted By: BrownQtee
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 2:49pm
I mean really...all he had to do was go to a DL party. Plenty of free sex. I do believe messing with a tranny made him feel like he was still with a female in his twisted mind...sad.


Posted By: kfoxx1998
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 2:56pm
I don't understand this at all.  So many other ways he could satisfy this urge.  Random street sex? Really?


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 2:59pm
He's said that he is addicted to the "ratchet quickie" so to speak. Prolly why he'd rather find random street hookers or mess with strippers in hole in the wall clubs than find a more...classy way to hook up.


Posted By: zsazsa
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 3:54pm
come OUT the cupboard, man. 


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 3:58pm
Is there a difference between being attracted to transexuals but not men, and being attracted to men?


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 4:03pm
be free mr cee be free

these guys make it easy for power 105.1 to destroy them


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 4:15pm
Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Is there a difference between being attracted to transexuals but not men, and being attracted to men?


Yeah of is full on gay the other is in denial gay......LOL


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 4:16pm
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

be free mr cee be free

these guys make it easy for power 105.1 to destroy them


LOL


Posted By: stardaqueenb23
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 4:39pm
Damn and I missed the Breakfast Club this morning listening to satellite radio. SMH. This is like the 4th or 5th time he needs to just come out and get a boyfriend. Be Free Mr. Cee. Be Free.


Posted By: AmiliaCabral
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 5:09pm

Get ya life Mr. Cee

 
I wanna see you at the next pride parade, decked out in all rainbow everything
 
Do it for da people


Posted By: queencocobrown
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 5:12pm
You know what??? At this point of the game, you have to be true to yourself. Mr Cee is gay but he is a talented DJ and has been for years. I know it is easier said than done but at his age, he needs to just continue on with his career. It's 2013... The only person you are making a fool of is yourself. Should you HAVE to tell people you business??? Hell no. However, he has been carelessly caught with Tranny's so many times that he might as well fess up to it.Did he think the Trannys was going to keep silent about hooking up with him??  WE KNEW THIS FOR YEARS AND STILL ACCEPTED YO AZZ!!!! BE TRUE TO YOURSELF BRCAUSE THE PUBLIC ALREADY KNOWS Geeeeeeezzzzz


Posted By: bunzaveli
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 6:20pm


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 6:24pm
Originally posted by AwesomeAries AwesomeAries wrote:

Did somebody curse this brotha?
He stay getting caught.


He messing up trusting random street whores. He better do like the politicians do, and find him an escort service that's paid to keep your secrets too


Posted By: cece1987
Date Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 6:26pm
he is going to commit suicide I feel, this is so sad.


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 6:54am
he on the radio crying.


Posted By: khivey
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 7:07am
Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

He said Mr. Cee didn't get any services like he turned him down... you ain't do nothing cuz you were the most talking, texting, annoying prostitute ever known to man. He coulda been putting on but naw...

But yeah, he really should just come outta the closet and live his life.

And that stiff, mangy looking wig made me so sad lol.

LOL He really was


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 7:12am
Mr. Cee just confessed everything and he's gong be back on the air at 12


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 7:15am
Confess as in admitted to seeking sex with transexuals/crossdressers?


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 7:19am
Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Confess as in admitted to seeking sex with transexuals/crossdressers?


yup, but i didnt turn on the radio until Sang said he was on the air crying.  so yeah he admitted being into trannies.


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 7:34am
He says he's in denial about being gay, tho.


Posted By: miamiu27
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 7:53am
I laughed.


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 7:59am
...


Posted By: BrownQtee
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 8:43am
Wow
I wonder how his wife feels?? Ouch


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 9:00am
Bimbo Winehouse used to give Wendy Williams info, he's messy
He really wants to be famous
I don't think outing people is the way to acceptance, but I hope he gets off these streets and gets on Plenty of Fish like everyone else


Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 9:03am
Smh now he just need to go on and get a shemale
Some of them are really pretty
Perfect solution for him


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 9:09am
I wonder if Sidney Starr would give him some tenshun.

 



Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 9:10am
Originally posted by BrownQtee BrownQtee wrote:

Wow
I wonder how his wife feels?? Ouch
he has never been married


Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 9:13am
So its not gay if the man is wearing a wig.......ok then....


Posted By: BrownQtee
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 9:14am
I thought mr. cee was married with children???


Posted By: kfoxx1998
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 9:15am
Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

he has never been married


See I would feel some type of way about him if he was but since he's not married I'm not that mad.  I just feel like trolling the streets for sex is playing with your own life.  He has the choice to do that if he wants but that is not a good look. 

He just needs to get out of denial and get a feminine dude as a long term partner.  Don't know if he'll still find it exciting but he should try that 1st because its a lot safer. 

I don't condone random stranger street sex. 


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 9:16am
Originally posted by BrownQtee BrownQtee wrote:

I thought mr. cee was married with children???

He isn't married, according to his interviews.


Posted By: BrownQtee
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 9:19am
Well alrighty then! That makes me look at this whole situation differently...


Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 9:22am
Sydney probably would
She likes attention


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 9:28am
Originally posted by BrownQtee BrownQtee wrote:

I thought mr. cee was married with children???
nope, no kids either.  He is in his late 40s & it struck me as odd to be so popular & never have a wife or kids.  Kind of like Luther Vandross oddLamp


Posted By: NadiaPost
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 9:29am
Poor Cee. It must suck to live in a world where you feel that you must suppress your appetite for men. I know since he is in the hip-hop industry he feels he must uphold a certain image but you can be gay and still be hard and spin records and say yo whats up son. You can do all of that and get your peen sucked by another man. sh*t Biggie said he would fuk rupal before he would fuk anyone from the group xscape. sh*t looking at Tiny I would choose Rupaul too.
Dear Cee,
Just Live


Posted By: Missvw
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 9:29am
Damn


Posted By: NadiaPost
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 9:31am
Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

Originally posted by BrownQtee BrownQtee wrote:

I thought mr. cee was married with children???
nope, no kids either.  He is in his 40s & it struck me as odd to be so popular & never have a wife or kids.  Kind of like Luther Vandross oddLamp


I'm glad he isn't married Bunny it makes the situation not so bad. Yeah he may be embarrassed but at least the only person he is lying too is himself vs lying to his wife and kids.


Posted By: Senior Detective
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 9:37am
Originally posted by NadiaPost NadiaPost wrote:

Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

Originally posted by BrownQtee BrownQtee wrote:

I thought mr. cee was married with children???
nope, no kids either.  He is in his 40s & it struck me as odd to be so popular & never have a wife or kids.  Kind of like Luther Vandross oddLamp


I'm glad he isn't married Bunny it makes the situation not so bad. Yeah he may be embarrassed but at least the only person he is lying too is himself vs lying to his wife and kids.
 Real talk, I hope he gets married to the man of his dreams & leaves them dingy, dirty, prostitutes alone.  You can be gay & in love & in entertainment.   Neil Patrick Harris & Elton John have babies & a husband.  Their careers never suffered.  It shouldn't be any different for blacks.  I fully support himClap


Posted By: NadiaPost
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 9:45am
Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

Originally posted by NadiaPost NadiaPost wrote:

Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

Originally posted by BrownQtee BrownQtee wrote:

I thought mr. cee was married with children???
nope, no kids either.  He is in his 40s & it struck me as odd to be so popular & never have a wife or kids.  Kind of like Luther Vandross oddLamp


I'm glad he isn't married Bunny it makes the situation not so bad. Yeah he may be embarrassed but at least the only person he is lying too is himself vs lying to his wife and kids.
 Real talk, I hope he gets married to the man of his dreams & leaves them dingy, dirty, prostitutes alone.  You can be gay & in love & in entertainment.   Neil Patrick Harris & Elton John have babies & a husband.  Their careers never suffered.  It shouldn't be any different for blacks.  I fully support himClap


It would be nice but Cee aint marrying any dude he is still in the denial stage. Poor Cee


Posted By: Cocoa
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 11:14am
Well he is on air now doing his usual 12pm show talmbout 'leave me alone, let me live my life....'


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 11:25am
yeah, he back like he wasnt crying a minute agoLOL i respect it tho'LOL


Posted By: khivey
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 11:28am
He 'fessed up because he had no choice. He told Flex "I'm not going to get caught". Flex prob had something to do with him getting busted hahaha...


Posted By: Qualified
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 11:49am
I dont understand. I just parked my car in the garage and heard Cee's ol zesty ass on the radio? What da hell was the hell and farewell speech about? What makes me burn is in Feb. I went to a party in Queens, and Cee was the DJ... When it was time for him to play reg-gae, he played a few songs and interjected very loudly into the mic "No batty boi!" And other anti gay, inflammatory slurs in patois while the re-g-gae played! And Im looking around like, is this mu'fucca for real? So he can just front like this and no one calls his fake ass out??? Im totally fine with alternative lifestyles, what I am not okay with , nor will I ever be, are men that are on the DL. Like, My ni-g-ga, you's a gay, cut all that extra sh!t out, be gay, and be alright with that!!! FOH.


Posted By: BrownQtee
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 11:52am
lmao @ "no batty boi". Cee needs to have a few seats. smh.


Posted By: goodm3
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 12:05pm
I'm having a really hard time understanding how someone could be in denial about their lifestyle SO MUCH SO that they are willing to give up their livelihood/career/INCOME for it. 

I doubt he would've gotten fired from HOT97 for coming out...possibly a few jokes would've come his way but he would still be employed.

New Yorkers - is Mr.Cee still doing parties and such? Is making money like DJ Envy and Kid Capri?




Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 12:19pm
If he gon be gay he need to get somebody to handle that unibrow situation he got going on. The gay community is not gonna let him experience any kind of joy if he gon bring their stock down.

Gaybrows is serious business.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 12:19pm
LOL


Posted By: kfoxx1998
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 12:24pm
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

yeah, he back like he wasnt crying a minute agoLOL i respect it tho'LOL


I know rightLOL!  But I swear I keep thinking he's like those posters who do a long farewell post and keep on posting the next day like they never typed alladat.   Boy bye!



Posted By: Qualified
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 12:45pm
So maybe they let him back until they can find a solid noon time replacement??? Or Maybe Hot 97 restructured his contract and implemented a clause that states, that he can continue to work, so long as he promises not to go strolling for dicc in the midnight hour.


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 3:26pm
Thoughts?

Shaming Men Attracted to Trans Women


Posted by: Janet    Posted date:  September 12, 2013    24 Comments

Guess what? Many men are attracted to women, and trans women are amongst these women.

We, as a society, have not created a space for men to openly express their desire to be with trans women. Instead, we shame men who have this desire, from the boyfriends, cheaters and “chasers” to the “trade,” clients, and pornography admirers. We tell men to keep their attraction to trans women secret, to limit it to the internet, frame it as a passing fetish or transaction. In effect, we’re telling trans women that they are only deserving of secret interactions with men, further demeaning and stigmatizing trans women.

I’ve stood witness to many so-called scandals, mostly published on gossip blogs, where passing interactions with trans women spawn hundreds of headlines, particularly for a man with fame and social capital. Thousands of words have been dedicated to analyzing whether such and such famous man is now suspect, merely because he took a photo with a fan who happened to be a trans woman. This questioning has led many well-known men to adamantly defend their heterosexuality and has tarnished the reputation and careers of others. It sounds like silliness on the surface, but often times when gossip blogs are the public’s only exposure to trans women, it spreads misinformation, validates stereotypes and causes irreparable damage.

When a man can be shamed merely for interacting with a trans women – whether it be through a photograph, a sex tape or correspondences — what does this say about how society views trans women? More important, what does this do to trans women?

This pervasive ideology says that trans women are shameful, that trans women are not worthy of being seen and that trans women must remain a secret — invisible and disposable. If a man dares to be seen with a trans woman, he will likely lose social capital so he must adamantly deny, vehemently demean, trash and/or exterminate the woman in question. He must do this to maintain his standing in our patriarchal society. For a man to be associated with a trans women, in effect, is to say that he is no longer a “real” man (as if such a thing exists) because he sleeps with “fake” women (as if such a thing exists).

The comments and conversations surrounding http://www.hot97.com/new-on-hot97/2013/09/12/dj-mister-cee-shares-all-comes-clean-about-his-struggles-on-the-hot-97-morning-show-audio" rel="nofollow - hip-hop DJ Mister Cee’s http://www.complex.com/music/2013/09/mister-cee-resigned-hot-97" rel="nofollow - sex scandal-turned-resignation has been appalling, and has led me to this essay, which isn’t about him soliciting sex from someone he perceived as a trans woman. The Mister Cee “scandal” sheds light on society’s ignorance, similarly exhibited when Chris Brown, Chingy and Chad “Ochocinco” Johnson took photos with trans women; similarly exhibited when folks http://www.loop21.com/entertainment/joseline-hernandez-transmisogyny-outrage" rel="nofollow - gender-policed Joseline Hernandez to the point where she Tweeted a nude photo to prove her cis-ness; similarly exhibited when Eddie Murphy, LL Cool J and a list of other powerful men were accused of being “caught” seeking trans women.

This anti-trans woman ideology is harmful, misogynistic and pervasive and travels way beyond the comments section of gossip blogs, and as Sylvia Rivera once said, http://thespiritwas.tumblr.com/post/26871577096/sylvia-rivera-kicking-ass-on-stage-after-some" rel="nofollow - “I will no longer put up with this sh*t.”

I am a trans woman. My sisters are trans women. We are not secrets. We are not shameful. We are worthy of respect, desire, and love. As there are many kinds of women, there are many kinds of men, and many men desire many kinds of women, trans women are amongst these women. And let’s be clear: Trans women are women.

The shame that society attaches to these men, specifically attacking their sexuality and shaming their attraction, directly affects trans women. It affects the way we look at ourselves. It amplifies our body-image issues, our self-esteem, our sense of possibility, of daring for greatness, of aiming for something or somewhere greater. If a young trans woman believes that the only way she can share intimate space with a man is through secret hookups, bootycalls or transaction, she will be led to engage in risky sexual behaviors that make her more vulnerable to criminalization, disease and violence; she will be led to coddle a man who takes out his frustrations about his sexuality on her with his fists; she will be led to question whether she’s worthy enough to protect herself with a condom when a man tells her he loves her; she will be led to believe that she is not worthy of being seen, that being seen heightens her risk of violence therefore she must hide who she is at all costs in order to survive.

When I was a girl finding myself, I was met with similar questions and believed I would never find someone to love me. I had learned that I was unworthy and undeserving, and it took me years to release myself from the shame and stigma society had forced upon me as a young woman. A man’s desire for my body, my brain, my brilliance and my existence is not a laughing matter because I am not a joke.

When I met my boyfriend Aaron and http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/telling-partner-youre-transgender-janet-mock" rel="nofollow - disclosed that I am trans , he did not question his sexuality. He recognized me as a woman, and my being trans did not negate my womanhood. http://janetmock.com/2011/12/19/missing-piece-podcast-episode-19/" rel="nofollow - My relationship with Aaron is a rarity, though. Don’t get me wrong, I see our loving partnership as a blessing, but not in the same way others view it. Our relationship is marveled at largely because most people do not believe that a man like Aaron should have to “compromise” his heteronormative social standing by being with a trans woman or a woman who is not “real.”

It is rare for an openly trans woman – no matter how “passable” or attractive she is – to have a man who openly loves her, who has an unabashed desire to be seen with her, who proudly stands beside her — despite the stigma and other people’s curiosities and inappropriate questions. Those questions regarding Aaron’s sexuality are constant and fraught with assumptions that this essay can’t begin to unpack, and for a man less secure it can be difficult navigating these questions, especially if you also perceive the women you’re attracted to as shameful, as less-than-human objects you must keep secret at all costs.

It’s important that we begin truly accepting trans women as who they are, women. We are not objects to have secret sex with, to discard and to laugh at on the radio or the gossip blogosphere. We are worthy of being seen and are not dirty or shameful. Until we begin checking how we delegitimize the identities, bodies and existence of trans women and stigmatize the men who yearn to be with us, we will continue to marginalize our sisters, pushing them further into socially-sanctioned invisibility, left in the dark to fend for themselves with men who are don’t have the space to explore, define and embrace their attraction to various women.


http://janetmock.com/2013/09/12/men-who-date-attracted-to-trans-women-stigma/" rel="nofollow - http://janetmock.com/2013/09/12/men-who-date-attracted-to-trans-women-stigma/




Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 3:28pm
Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Thoughts?

Shaming Men Attracted to Trans Women











Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 3:31pm
Trannys offend me. 


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 3:35pm
I couldn't date a trans


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 4:20pm
Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:



Shaming Men Attracted to Trans Women





that was very interesting. Thanks for posting.

and I love this word <<heteronormative >>




Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 4:36pm
If you still got a dick you a shemale
You might as well fcuk a dude
Yea I said it....


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 4:41pm
Dude ain't even trans though....he's just a drag queen.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 4:53pm
A bad drag at that.


Posted By: rell85
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 6:16pm
Hope it helped bimbo he want to be on so bad guess he don't be lying about his wild stories.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Sep 12 2013 at 6:28pm
Naw we aren't there yet when it comes to transgender and transvestites .
I have so many questions for a younger transgender person I see when I go to Chipotle pretty regularly ,however; I will not ask .
The name tag says Trisha so I oblige , smile, and keep it going .


I figure questions would be impolite even though my questions aren't intended to offend .
I don't want to come off as a white person wanting to feel some negro hair


Posted By: Qualified
Date Posted: Sep 19 2013 at 4:33pm
HAVE WE SEEN CEE'S NEW PSA... GET INTO THIS???

DID HE REALLY GET TIRED OF LYING AND HIDING? OR DID HIS ASS JUST GET CAUGHT? LET'S BE REAL CEE, YOU WOULD NOT BE MAKING PSA'S AND SH!T, HAD YOU NOT BEEN TAPED AND CAUGHT UP... CHECK IT OUT



Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Sep 19 2013 at 5:14pm
some people walk out of the closet and some get dragged out.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Sep 19 2013 at 5:24pm
I just hate how he was doing the homophobic thing while chasing dudes.......if he didnt do that I would feel bad for him........


Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: Sep 19 2013 at 6:25pm
he's using this opportunity to speak on risk of HIV. That's good. Do as I say not as I do type message I guess. 


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: Sep 19 2013 at 6:27pm
I really think that was at the urging of the radio station........


Posted By: HaitianDiva64
Date Posted: Sep 19 2013 at 7:33pm
Yea the next day he was back and out.

I hate when ppl are dragged out the closet or embarrassed into saying they are gay eapecially when it's the older, obvious gays and they just live by don't ask don't tell but it's always that one person tryna trick them into saying it


Posted By: NadiaPost
Date Posted: Sep 19 2013 at 9:35pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

I really think that was at the urging of the radio station........


If so I wouldn't have done it tbh. Just makes sh*t worse. I get speaking out on STD's but now he is the hip hop poster child who got dragged out the closet


Posted By: Geminigirl
Date Posted: Sep 19 2013 at 9:47pm
wow so i found the recording and lol at this dude trying to deny he is a transgender slut bucket. He was playing games and that;s why nothing happened but don't act like you don't have sex for money cause it's way obvious you do.

then in the PSA he's still not admitting his sexuality./ he just beating around the bush. I guess he figures y'all know what it is, i'm not gonna say it. He doesn't have to admit to the public but it's just weird how he kinda admits it but doesn't. IDK.



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