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Topic: Your Friends Ex
Posted By: uppitynegroid
Subject: Your Friends Ex
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:24pm
I know the question has been posed here before, but this is a slight twist.  If your friend is completely ok with you dating her ex (like Adrienne seems to be in this clip) would you still feel uncomfortable doing it?
 
 
 
I think the only way I could do it is if my friend knew he was interested in me and initiated the conversation by giving me her blessing.  I wouldn't feel comfortable asking her for it.  I would feel as though I was betraying her.



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Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:26pm
Eh, I think it's one of those situations that you really can't speak on until you experience.  I would like to say "no," but I really don't know.


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:27pm
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Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:28pm
I really can't sleep w someone who slept with a friend. Too many guys out there.

But I have dated my ex's friend. :)


Posted By: Katrenia
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:28pm
That situation has ended sooo many friendships.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:28pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

I really can't sleep w someone who slept with a friend. Too many guys out there.

But I have dated my ex's friend. :)


eta:
but yeah to this


Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:30pm
I dont do community d!ck

no ma'am


Posted By: dijah.love
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:31pm
I can no longer keep caping for Adrienne's dating philosophy.


Posted By: keelolo1
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:33pm
No I don't do any type of friends exes.


Posted By: uppitynegroid
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:34pm
Why are you all up?  I assumed I wouldn't get responses till tomorrow, then I click the refresh button and bam! LOL


Posted By: Addicted19034
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:36pm
I don't like Adrienne in this show

When does this show come on and what channel

Seems like a low budget the talk

Also seems like Adrienne and Tamar battle for dominance and the others barely speak

And Sherri Shepard doing both?


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:37pm
Uppity, It's only 11:30 where I live, My cell phone died and I'm not about to hunt down the charger,
 It's cold in my mommy's room but a furnace in mine, I'm bored as heck

I get what Adrienne is saying but my answer is NOPE.




Posted By: Addicted19034
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:42pm
That's not Sherri shepard


Posted By: uppitynegroid
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:43pm
Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

Uppity, It's only 11:30 where I live, My cell phone died and I'm not about to hunt down the charger,
 It's cold in my mommy's room but a furnace in mine, I'm bored as heck

I get what Adrienne is saying but my answer is NOPE.


 
I forgot about time zones.  Its almost 1 in the morning here.
 
 
Do you ever feel like this is more accepted with white people?  I saw it a lot in high school and college.  Friends would date exes, sometimes marry even, and no hard feelings.  Black people can't do that mess! LOL


Posted By: uppitynegroid
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:44pm
Originally posted by Addicted19034 Addicted19034 wrote:

That's not Sherri shepard
 
No it is not. LOL
 
I actually like the show.


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:46pm
Hmmm having been around zero whites in my life I can't comment. But in High school yes the "whites and the mixed chicks" would do this ALOT the "regla black" girls could never wrap our mind around this concept. Everyone getting fingered and kissing and sexing and "warring" the same damn boys YUCK



Posted By: laceyfront
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:52pm
I agree with too many men for that type of nastiness. 


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:52pm
Originally posted by Addicted19034 Addicted19034 wrote:

That's not Sherri shepard




Posted By: dijah.love
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:53pm
Loni Love.

Adrienne is pretty dominant when it comes to relationship talk...Tamar is just Tamar, but all the ladies do have their piece on the show. I loveeee The Real.


Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:53pm
When does this show come on and what channel?


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:55pm
Oh, I don't mind others doing it. You like it, I love it.

*I* just can't date one of my friend's ex boyfriends. 


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:56pm
i could never ever be friends with adrienne.  she seems basic as hell...   


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:56pm
family member's ex?


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Aug 03 2013 at 11:58pm
oh and dating/being friends with each others ex's is definitely in the no no section of me and my gurls handbook. 


Posted By: VelvetOne
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 12:07am
No,  and my friends really don't make good choices in my book!! So no and no...Confused


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 12:09am
oh and why is it that her stories never make sense?? 
 
first she said she was "really good" friends with rita ora for "awhile" "before" (before what?) and then after they (i'm assuming they = rob and rita) were no longer together...it was like ok. 
 
then later she said she dated him 5 years "prior" to even meeting her. 
 
Confused
 
that bish either needs to improve upon her story telling skills or she needs more people...


Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 12:11am
I wanna my friends ex so baaaaaaddd.


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 12:11am
Nope. Friends share, but that's taking it too damn far.

And any "friend" of mine trying to date behind me would no longer be a friend.

I had a so-called friend who tried to get with my ex, but luckily he told me bout her. Smiling in my face but sending my ex coochie shots smh.

Hoes these days.


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 12:12am
Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

family member's ex?
Naw girl.LOL


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 12:12am
I don't see the big deal with Adrienne and Rita. She broke up with Rob before she even met Rita. And I think she's using the term friend, when she should be saying associate. A lot of those girls aren't real friends so meh...


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 12:13am
Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

family member's ex?
 
hell no.LOL
 
i remember when i was little there was a scandal involving my moms sisters ex husband dating their 2nd cousin.  everybody in the family said the second cousin was a desperate whore...LOL 


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 12:13am
OAN: I actually wanna give this show a try based on all the clips on here lately.

This is the second time I've noticed Adrienne's obvious contouring. I'mma need her to do better.


Posted By: Addicted19034
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 12:15am
Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

I wanna my friends ex so baaaaaaddd.


With you I'm not surprised

Keep ya stolen panties on


Posted By: Diane (35)
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 12:16am
Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

oh and why is it that her stories never make sense?? 
 
first she said she was "really good" friends with rita ora for "awhile" "before" (before what?) and then after they (i'm assuming they = rob and rita) were no longer together...it was like ok. 
 
then later she said she dated him 5 years "prior" to even meeting her. 
 
Confused
 
that bish either needs to improve upon her story telling skills or she needs more people...

I havent watched this show but yupppppppppppp same thing with the car clip. Maybe she needs to take a second and figure out what exactly she want's to say and stop over talking Tamar

she must have meant before rita and Rob got together.

someone said in another thread she tries so hard to be "down" and I agree.


Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 12:21am
SMDH. I would cut my friend if she went with my ex.  Cut the shyt out of her.  Why?  Too many men around.  

However, if I was cool with it...then well.

The Real>>>>>


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 12:23am
I like Adrienne .


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 12:26am
I haven't watched the clip but I can offer one small cape for Adrienne...I too am a bad storyteller...I stay forgetting pieces and having to go back. Well, I've gotten better bc of some training I've received but I ain't the one on a talk show.


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 12:26am
ok so she met rita and became good friends 5 years after her relationship with rob. then rita started dating him.  yeah...couldn't be me. 
 
anyway, her story still seems sketchy because she also said they all run in the same "circles".  well if that is the case they sure managed to not run into each other for all those years when she and rob were dating...


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 12:44am
Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

family member's ex?
 
hell no.LOL
 
i remember when i was little there was a scandal involving my moms sisters ex husband dating their 2nd cousin.  everybody in the family said the second cousin was a desperate whore...LOL 


lol


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 12:44am
needlessly messy


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 12:49am
ok i see now this heffa is one of those people who make up shyt as they go along...
 
11:50 total different pov...Sleepy 
 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=540LAGj5fG0" rel="nofollow - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=540LAGj5fG0


Posted By: Addicted19034
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 6:46am
Yea she did flip flop

The show seems interesting tho

I would record if I knew when it came on

Also who is Adrienne dating now?


Posted By: Im_oh_so_hott
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 7:11am
Why does her math never make sense ? She dated the car guy for 10 years, 10 yrs ago and Rita was with Rob six years after they broke up but, she and Rob were dating less than six years ago


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 7:19am
lol

how close of friends are we talmbout??

like a bestie? nah....

but we might fucck doe!

REPEATEDLY


Posted By: CamiK
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 7:30am
I think this is a cute show for young folks...


Posted By: K_Camille
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 8:05am
It seems like Adrienne is trying too hard to be that downass chick..I'm with Shady on her obvious contouring, all that money..she can do better. LOL 

And that's a no to dating a friend's ex.  I'm loyal to my friends.


Posted By: SweetNovember*
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 8:09am
gross


Posted By: Omni Harmony
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 8:34am
Originally posted by Im_oh_so_hott Im_oh_so_hott wrote:

Why does her math never make sense ? She dated the car guy for 10 years, 10 yrs ago and she Rita was with Rob six years after they broke up but, she and Rob were dating less than six years ago
her wiki says she's 29. She said she dated the car boy from age 15-25.  its strange, she is lying somewhereLOL


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 8:38am
So is Adrienne saying she had broken up with the guy, the new girl had broken up with the guy years prior and it just so happened since they run in the same circles that she met the new girl, liked her and they started hanging out?  As in they have a mutual ex in common?  If that's the case ...what's the prollem?


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 8:49am

that doesn't appear to be what she is saying.  she definitely said they were friends before during and after rita and robs relationship. 

also it appears she dated rob first.  then she met and became good friends with rita (not sure if this was before or after her and rob broke up).  then rita started dating rob.


Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 8:53am
She's obviously a pathological liar. She's determined to make herself happen no matter what lol
The show makes me cringe.

Anyway...i don't want my friend's ex man. Ever.
If a bitch sleeps with my soul mate i'm kicking her teeth out.


Posted By: Limalady
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 9:01am
Originally posted by dijah.love dijah.love wrote:

I can no longer keep caping for Adrienne's dating philosophy.
 
Her and Tamar go at it. Shocked


Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 9:03am
Originally posted by Addicted19034 Addicted19034 wrote:

Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

I wanna my friends ex so baaaaaaddd.


With you I'm not surprised

Keep ya stolen panties on

Don't come for me, you pressed and getting 0 dyck that's why u have time to worry about me from thread to thread.girl adios


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 9:06am
having watched the whole episode....she did flip. Who is doing her make up cause they need to blend that out better. They got ole girl wearing foundation/concealer more than 3 shades difference.


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 1:52pm
Originally posted by Im_oh_so_hott Im_oh_so_hott wrote:

Why does her math never make sense ? She dated the car guy for 10 years, 10 yrs ago and she Rita was with Rob six years after they broke up but, she and Rob were dating less than six years ago


I'm convinced she be lying sometimes. I've seen a couple of clips where stuff she says just don't add up.

I think the way Tamar and the other women put her on the spot makes her feel stupid, so instead of just letting that roll off her back, she tries to justify it with some unnecessary lie.


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 2:01pm
Nah....Unless we're ex friends then it's fair game Stern Smile


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 2:02pm
Tamar does a little too much on the show


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 8:53pm
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

lol

how close of friends are we talmbout??

like a bestie? nah....

but we might fucck doe!

REPEATEDLY


LOL
so do most men not care about this??... no biggie to get with their buddy's ex girl? IM-past-E they haven't cared, but I didn't know if that was the normLOL

Women won't usually do that though.

eta: if they are real friends that is. If a woman dates her GF's ex their friendship is over. If a man dates his buddy's ex , he and the buddy may still play golf twice a week  LOL




Posted By: Addicted19034
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 8:54pm
I can see Adrienne's concealer eyes from all the way over here


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Aug 04 2013 at 8:59pm
Originally posted by Addicted19034 Addicted19034 wrote:

I can see Adrienne's concealer eyes from all the way over here
Dead


Posted By: Yardgirl
Date Posted: Aug 05 2013 at 10:23am
Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

Hmmm having been around zero whites in my life I can't comment. But in High school yes the "whites and the mixed chicks" would do this ALOT the "regla black" girls could never wrap our mind around this concept. Everyone getting fingered and kissing and sexing and "warring" the same damn boys YUCK


The black girls did it too... quietly. There was this guy from Wolmers who about 4 or 5 friends had something to do with at one point or another. I met him after I left school and... I get why they did it. He had no shame. But I didn't go there LOL


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Aug 06 2013 at 6:03am
Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

Originally posted by Addicted19034 Addicted19034 wrote:

Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

I wanna my friends ex so baaaaaaddd.


With you I'm not surprised

Keep ya stolen panties on

Don't come for me, you pressed and getting 0 dyck that's why u have time to worry about me from thread to thread.girl adios


Well damn


Posted By: uppitynegroid
Date Posted: Aug 06 2013 at 6:17am
Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

Originally posted by Addicted19034 Addicted19034 wrote:

Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

I wanna my friends ex so baaaaaaddd.


With you I'm not surprised

Keep ya stolen panties on

Don't come for me, you pressed and getting 0 dyck that's why u have time to worry about me from thread to thread.girl adios


Well damn
 
LOL


Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Aug 06 2013 at 6:59am
Rita and Adrienne friends? Ok... Associates, but friends, like besties? I think Adrienne is using the term friend too loosely. That's just someone u know and talk to from time to time little cheetah girl.


Posted By: joileprincess
Date Posted: Aug 06 2013 at 3:37pm
Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

Nope. Friends share, but that's taking it too damn far.

And any "friend" of mine trying to date behind me would no longer be a friend.

I had a so-called friend who tried to get with my ex, but luckily he told me bout her. Smiling in my face but sending my ex coochie shots smh.

Hoes these days.

I had an ex-friend who tried something similar after we fell out.  I told him to let her come on over to the house Evil Smile. She has a standing azz whoopin waiting should I ever catch her anywhere. Just a disrespectful azz violating azz skank.



Whoosah



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