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Topic: Dating Someone With Physical Flaws
Posted By: sache1991
Subject: Dating Someone With Physical Flaws
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 6:57pm
What is the worst flaw you could accept? How many are your limit? I know it sounds shallow, but let's be real for a moment. 

Short?
Crooked Teeth?
Limp/Crippled?
Fat?
Horrible Tattoos?
Lazy eye?
Thin white people lips?
Scars?

Confused




Replies:
Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:06pm
I can deal with a lot of things.......but homosexuality is a deal breaker for me.


Posted By: sache1991
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:09pm
Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

I'll can deal with a lot of things.......but homosexuality is a deal breaker for me.

Never liked that either...Shocked


Posted By: Guidette
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:12pm
 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder..We all have flaws


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:13pm
man i dont know... i look past a lot of things. ...i kinda dont like short.. not that im that tall... but i hate the idea of being taller than a grown man.


Posted By: nala52808
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:13pm
Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

I'll can deal with a lot of things.......but homosexuality is a deal breaker for me.



Posted By: miana79
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:15pm
u cant be serious!


Posted By: GoodGirlGoneGr8
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:25pm
Everyone has physical flaws...


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:26pm
Originally posted by sache1991 sache1991 wrote:

What is the worst flaw you could accept? How many are your limit? I know it sounds shallow, but let's be real for a moment. 

Short?Idk how short I will go but, I'm trying not to let a mans short ht deter me anymore.
Crooked Teeth? If it is white, we can work with something like a dentist.
Limp/Crippled?
Fat? chilleee I'm dealing w/ this now, he has most of  the qualities I like in man besides a six packCry
Horrible Tattoos?
Lazy eye? we can pretend that he is giving me bedroom eyesLOL
Thin white people lips?
Scars?

Confused


thx for starting this thread btwWink



Posted By: GoodGirlGoneGr8
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:26pm
I'm not counting, some peculiarities are sexy to me...



I have 3 nipples...POW


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:29pm
Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

I'm not counting, some peculiarities are sexy to me...



I have 3 nipples...POW


wordShocked pics for proofBig smileLOL


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:30pm
lol @ pretend bedroom eyes


Posted By: JustMe90
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:30pm

Fat

Small Penis
Shorter Than Me
Bad Teeth
Poor Hygiene


Posted By: Joseph_Sun
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:31pm
Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

I'm not counting, some peculiarities are sexy to me...



I have 3 nipples...POW
wheres the 3rd one?


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:31pm
Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

I'll can deal with a lot of things.......but homosexuality is a deal breaker for me.

!! You beat me to it!!


Originally posted by sache1991 sache1991 wrote:

Never liked that either...Shocked
Uh-huh. Yeah ok.

You ain't got to lie sashay… You ain't got to lie.


Originally posted by Guidette Guidette wrote:

 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder..We all have flaws
Agree.

*waits for saying to rustle jimmy from the great beyond*



Posted By: nala52808
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:33pm
I won't date a guy who is shorter than me, which is anything below 5'10, unless I'm in thirsty ho mode.
No guys with huge gaps.
No tattoos on their face.
No fat boys.
No boys with knots on the back of they head.
I can't get with bad breath, yellow teeth, or yellow eyes.


Posted By: sache1991
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:34pm
Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

I'm not counting, some peculiarities are sexy to me...



I have 3 nipples...POW

So do I, coincidentally...Confused

I appreciate nala for keeping it real...Sleepy


Posted By: GoodGirlGoneGr8
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:38pm
Originally posted by Joseph_Sun Joseph_Sun wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

I'm not counting, some peculiarities are sexy to me...



I have 3 nipples...POW

wheres the 3rd one?



On my rib...


Posted By: GoodGirlGoneGr8
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:41pm
Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

I'm not counting, some peculiarities are sexy to me...



I have 3 nipples...POW


wordShocked pics for proofBig smileLOL


Lmao...no pics. I honestly didnt know what it was til my doc told me :)


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 7:42pm
Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

I'm not counting, some peculiarities are sexy to me...



I have 3 nipples...POW


wordShocked pics for proofBig smileLOL


Lmao...no pics. I honestly didnt know what it was til my doc told me :)




.Disapprove................................LOL


Posted By: Limalady
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 9:36pm
I've dated men

missing teeth (he was an MMA fighter)
fat (1 was a senior process engineer and one was a college football player)
yellow eyes (owned an accounting firm)
yellow teeth (same guy as above)
small appendages (the process engineer wasn't working with a lot)
facial scars

I'd date men with those issues again.

I dated a broke man once. I'd never do that again.


Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 9:49pm
Ill accept short...


Posted By: Katrenia
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 9:55pm
Short?                 I'm short so I'd consider it
Crooked Teeth?   Only if it gives him character 
Limp/Crippled?     Depends on the degree of the affliction
Fat?                    Chubby is okay but NOT big booty fat
Horrible Tattoos?  As long as they're tasteful and not on the face
Lazy eye?             annoying 
Thin white people lips? I don't care for that, I love juicy lips.
Scars?                         Not in the face


Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 9:55pm
I wont accept a guy shorter than me. It makes me uncomfortable.


Posted By: *Belle*Femme*
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 9:55pm
one of my exes has a crooked tooth.


Posted By: Limalady
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 9:56pm
I don't have a problem with short men, but I didn't include it because being short isn't a physical deformity.


Posted By: csungrl09
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 10:38pm
Originally posted by sache1991 sache1991 wrote:


Short? Yes.
Crooked Teeth? Maybe.
Limp/Crippled? NO.
Fat? NO.
Horrible Tattoos? NO.
Lazy eye? Yes.
Thin white people lips? Yes.
Scars? Yes.




Posted By: csungrl09
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 10:40pm
Originally posted by Limalady Limalady wrote:



I dated a broke man once. I'd never do that again.


LOL


Posted By: laceyfront
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 10:49pm
Originally posted by Limalady Limalady wrote:

I've dated men

missing teeth (he was an MMA fighter)
fat (1 was a senior process engineer and one was a college football player)
yellow eyes (owned an accounting firm)
yellow teeth (same guy as above)
small appendages (the process engineer wasn't working with a lot)
facial scars

I'd date men with those issues again.

I dated a broke man once. I'd never do that again.
ITA if the money is right and he treats me good, Im willing to overlook a lot.


Posted By: Blac1Chyna
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 10:51pm
iCant. Every niqqa I faux with betta be perfect


Posted By: Jr1127
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 10:51pm
 
Horrible Tattoos? I can care less
Lazy eye? Yeah that's a problem but then its not
Thin white people lips? I can care less
 
 


Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 11:10pm
Short has happened. I dated one who was 5'7'' (I am 5'6" and when I dated someone 6'3'', what a difference!) and currently dating someone who is only 5'9".....
I think that's as far as I go in physical flaws.

I am sure that I would never date someone fat, or with crooked teeth, bad breath...


Posted By: *Belle*Femme*
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 11:36pm
Bad breathe does it for me. Is that considered a physical deformity. I guess not, but woo I cant.


Posted By: Nisha
Date Posted: May 14 2013 at 11:41pm
Originally posted by csungrl09 csungrl09 wrote:

Originally posted by Limalady Limalady wrote:



I dated a broke man once. I'd never do that again.


LOL
 
LOLLOL


Posted By: SweetNovember*
Date Posted: May 15 2013 at 12:05am
Looks aren't everything. I'd rather an ugly man who treats me well than a gorgeous one who dogs me out.


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: May 15 2013 at 12:50am
Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

Looks aren't everything. I'd rather an ugly man who treats me well than a gorgeous one who dogs me out.


nope, neither I want the best of both worldsCool


Posted By: Prazol60
Date Posted: May 15 2013 at 3:04am
Originally posted by sache1991 sache1991 wrote:

What is the worst flaw you could accept? How many are your limit? I know it sounds shallow, but let's be real for a moment. 

Short?
Crooked Teeth?
Limp/Crippled?
Fat?
Horrible Tattoos?
Lazy eye?
Thin white people lips?
Scars?

Confused


Yes to all


Posted By: FearlessNik
Date Posted: May 15 2013 at 3:45am
I used to be in the shallow club. Then I took a leap of faith. But IMO the guy wasn't bad with his clothes on. Thumbs Up I'm going through an IHeartVampires phase and that made him extremely attractive to me. He has Marfan's. Basically elongated limbs and appendages (penis size was average though Ermm). Then he took off his shirt. Not that bad, but he had a sunken chest. I was more afraid that I would hurt him more than anything. Turns out he was the best lover I had and he sets the bar in my book. Very happy that I gave him a chance.


Posted By: Allure.
Date Posted: May 15 2013 at 4:18am
Nobody's perfect...but love will make them perfect in your eyes. Flaws and all. My boo has scars from his fights and wrestling on his body and one on his face, noticable scars, and I could care less.


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: May 15 2013 at 4:44am
I don't want nobody that looks better than me. 


Posted By: Omni Harmony
Date Posted: May 15 2013 at 6:46am
Originally posted by Guidette Guidette wrote:

 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder..We all have flaws
not all


Posted By: loveandpeace1984
Date Posted: May 15 2013 at 6:49am
Originally posted by sache1991 sache1991 wrote:

What is the worst flaw you could accept? How many are your limit? I know it sounds shallow, but let's be real for a moment. 

Short?
Crooked Teeth?
Limp/Crippled?
Fat?
Horrible Tattoos?
Lazy eye?
Thin white people lips?
Scars?

Confused

Fat, short, limp/crippled, lazy eye, scars


Posted By: loveandpeace1984
Date Posted: May 15 2013 at 6:51am
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

I don't want nobody that looks better than me. 
 
Than that's why we can never be together LOL


Posted By: HunnyB
Date Posted: May 15 2013 at 10:52am
Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

I'm not counting, some peculiarities are sexy to me...



I have 3 nipples...POW
Dead


Posted By: BrownQtee
Date Posted: May 15 2013 at 10:56am
I can be very shallow. Working on getting past that.
 
No to everything listed. Fat...hmm.. maybe. I do like hefty men. Depends on what is considered fat.


Posted By: .hott.pink.
Date Posted: May 15 2013 at 10:58am
I can't date someone shorter than 6'1 or with any kind of physical handicap including bad acne.



Posted By: loveandpeace1984
Date Posted: May 15 2013 at 11:07am
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


nicca please
 
LOL


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: May 15 2013 at 11:07am
Originally posted by .hott.pink. .hott.pink. wrote:

physical handicap including bad acne.

 
 
what?LOL


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: May 15 2013 at 11:09am

well...i don't date yt men...so there you go...




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