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Topic: Bad Mothers Day
Posted By: loveandpeace1984
Subject: Bad Mothers Day
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 6:37pm
Where to start with how my day has went from a good relaxing bed into total family and church nightmare. I come here and there is noooo WHERE To park and there are sooo many people I'm like wtf. Let's speak about the children and there were at least 20 kids, I'm not joking and the food was not done cooking and I had to cook and watch the kids from killing themselves on the trampoline. My mother talked to me about how my Aunt invited everyone, she was pissed off as well. There was no where to move and everyone eating up all the food and I didn't know those fools. They drank up everything and I at least made plates for my brother and me. I made my mother a plate as well. I had to do the raffle tickets and clean up. Busy day. The kids were the worst and my oldest cousin best friend who I had a big crush during puberty was looking frumpy, still cute, but you know her 3 sons were just too much. I felt bad for her. *Sigh* And she was my student teacher in high school and she looked so good. Ouch

The worst thing, my mom has a boyfriend of almost 3 years and I have never met him before and I did today. Aaarrghh. Today wasn't that good.

And yes I'm a mama's boy.Angry



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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 6:39pm
You have an awesome mothers day if you had your mother here to share it with you.


Posted By: Marmonette
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 6:41pm
I am sorry your day did not go so well :(

Just remember that some of us do not get to spend mothers day with our mothers and stay thankful you got to spend it with her. I hope your day gets better Hug


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 6:46pm
Today wasn't about you


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 6:49pm
You actually called her frumpy? You do realize you frumpy too......y'all need to go and be frumpy together......


Posted By: loveandpeace1984
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 6:57pm
I know, but the thing is I'm mad that it wasn't about my mother and those evil kids made it worst.


Posted By: loveandpeace1984
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 6:58pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

You actually called her frumpy? You do realize you frumpy too......y'all need to go and be frumpy together......

Nicca please, go swim in lava or something.


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 7:02pm
You mad? Oh so you can call a chick frumpy but can take being called frumpy.......atleast she has three kids.......what's your excuse?


Posted By: bindy
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 7:36pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

You mad? Oh so you can call a chick frumpy but can take being called frumpy.......atleast she has three kids.......what's your excuse?

And with his comment his day gets worse.....LOLLOL


Posted By: bunzaveli
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 7:38pm
i just watched iron man 3, it was aight


Posted By: mizzsandra00
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 7:40pm
I hope 1984 was the year he finished high school and not the year he was born cause chile that nicca got some nerve..........let me give RR he Momma's Day cape back......


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 7:41pm
Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

i just watched iron man 3, it was aight

Aight is def the description.
I thought it was gonna be a bit better.


Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 7:43pm
lmaooooooo at sandra

my mothers day was bitter sweet.
my mommy is in NY and im not there.
this is the first time ever we've been apart on this day. and I didn't like it.

I did however have a reason to smile. 

so it wasn't that bad i guess


Posted By: Marmonette
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 7:47pm
I got a new phone and had lunch with my dad and sister, I had a good day today Smile


Posted By: loveandpeace1984
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 7:56pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

You mad? Oh so you can call a chick frumpy but can take being called frumpy.......atleast she has three kids.......what's your excuse?

I don't dress frumpy when I go out, I dress up, but apparently you know everything that I do. Please just suck on a butcher knife and write to me how that goes.


Posted By: loveandpeace1984
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 8:00pm
This is my mother. Smile




Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 8:01pm
ur moms cute
 
pretty lady


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 8:02pm
Your mama looks lovely


Posted By: femmemichelle
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 8:10pm
At least you have family.


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 8:11pm
Originally posted by femmemichelle femmemichelle wrote:

At least you have family.
 
this this this
never take them for granted


Posted By: loveandpeace1984
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 8:11pm
Originally posted by femmemichelle femmemichelle wrote:

At least you have family.

It's not about that, it's how it was setup it was suppose to be my mother's graduation party from college, birthday, mother's day but so many people my mother didn't invite but my aunt did from her church and it was only suppose to be family, just came and ate up everything and looked at us like who are we. That what pissed me off. But I did everything for my mother to make it a special day. That what I was really ranting about and these kids were so disrespectful and didn't want to listen. But it ended well. 


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 8:16pm
Dead
im sorry did he say go swim in lava...
 
im stealing thatLOL


Posted By: *Belle*Femme*
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 8:24pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

You have an awesome mothers day if you had your mother here to share it with you.


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 8:59pm
all i heard was wah wah wah i had to do domestic work today like many mom's do EVERYDAY and women weren't attractive looking to me.
 
and how you gon be a mama's boy and have NO IDEA what to get her for a graduation gift because you just never asked or noticed what she likes.
 
agree with everyone who mentioned at least you have your mother and today wasn't about you.
 
boo effin hoo to ya.
 
 


Posted By: loveandpeace1984
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 9:16pm
Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

all i heard was wah wah wah i had to do domestic work today like many mom's do EVERYDAY and women weren't attractive looking to me.
 
and how you gon be a mama's boy and have NO IDEA what to get her for a graduation gift because you just never asked or noticed what she likes.
 
agree with everyone who mentioned at least you have your mother and today wasn't about you.
 
boo effin hoo to ya.
 
 

I don't know what to get her!  Fine! It's not like I can take this on facebook cause that will be another mess. Sleepy
My friends empathized with me and my mother. I broke down what happened and said it's not about me, but how this day was suppose to be about my mother and her accomplishments, but the whole dam church was invited and they made it about them! 

Niccas and reading don't go hand to hand, I suppose.


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 9:19pm
did she enjoy her day?


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 9:25pm
Originally posted by loveandpeace1984 loveandpeace1984 wrote:


Niccas and reading don't go hand to hand, I suppose.
blah blah blah. i guess articulation and niccas don't go hand in hand either, because that's surely how it read-- like whining. i get it if you felt SHE deserved better, but you made the focus the awful time YOU had.
 
so 2 things:
 
1)
 
Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

did she enjoy her day?
 
2) if not, what are you planning on a more personal scale so you can feel your mother has been avenged?


Posted By: loveandpeace1984
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 9:53pm
She was actually pissed and she rarely gets pissed. She didn't even know half the people there. So I'm going to cook for her and do my own thing with her and spend time with her.


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 9:58pm
bless her heart. random people and your aunt aside, i think it's cause y'all combined so many things at once. then again you know how somepeople consider church "family".
 
at least you can kinda do over. i'm sure she'll appreciate the effort and special attention.
 
be sure to get her another gift too if you can squeeze that in there.
 


Posted By: loveandpeace1984
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 10:15pm
Yup, that's what I will do, cause I really do appreciate her and she knew my talents before I did and pushed them and got me all types of science equipment/books for me knowing I didn't care for sports like that.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 10:17pm
I didn't even get to see my mother and she had to work on a day she deserves to rest...so yeah


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 10:33pm
how could it be bad with your mama, your auntie and your cousin there and the kids that made them mamas

everyone ate eventually, your mom got a lot congratulations and you met the people, who 50+ years from now, will either keep you out of the assisted living facility or at least visit you

with a little foresight, it's a win, win


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 10:36pm
I had to settle for facetime Cry

and it was so precious, so glad my sisters were there


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: May 12 2013 at 10:52pm
i think its always so cute when moms have boyfriendsHeart. sons always freak out about it.
i've yet to see a daughter do the same.




Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: May 13 2013 at 6:21am
It seems like your mother didn't have a good mother's day. Sorry to hear that Hug


Posted By: loveandpeace1984
Date Posted: May 13 2013 at 6:37am
Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

It seems like your mother didn't have a good mother's day. Sorry to hear that Hug
 
I apperciate the love BB, here is a hug from me. Hug


Posted By: Naturalchick30
Date Posted: May 13 2013 at 8:19am
Your mom is beautiful


Posted By: EasterBell
Date Posted: May 13 2013 at 1:46pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

You mad? Oh so you can call a chick frumpy but can take being called frumpy.......atleast she has three kids.......what's your excuse?
LOLLOL


Posted By: EasterBell
Date Posted: May 13 2013 at 1:48pm
At least you have family that do events like this.. This type of stuff never crosses my family's mind..



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