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Topic: Would you / have you ever lived with a boyfriend?
Posted By: princesshoneybee
Subject: Would you / have you ever lived with a boyfriend?
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 10:54am
I don't believe in premaritial sex and having a live in boyfriend is fornincation waiting to happen. My mother always taught me, no mans gonna buy the cow if he gets the milk for free. She says a man won't marry you if your already giving him wifey priveleges. How do you feel about this? Have you done it or would you consider it?



Replies:
Posted By: iSMILE13
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 10:56am
If that scenario was true for everyone then a lot of people wouldn't be married. Do what's best for your relationship


Posted By: freedom76
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 10:56am
We moved in together way before we were married. I think most people know when their relationship is going nowhere regardless if you live together or not.


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 10:59am
how old are you again?


Posted By: princesshoneybee
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:00am
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

how old are you again?
 

22 turning 23 in July


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:00am
yeah i moved in with him. was really fun for about 2 months until i realized...i gotta look at his face every. single. day.

i've seen lots of chicks give it away for free and still got married so... your mom just wants you to stay outta trouble.


Posted By: Merin
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:01am
I did but he had to put a ring on it first.


Posted By: binky622
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:01am
Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

I don't believe in premaritial sex and having a live in boyfriend is fornincation waiting to happen. My mother always taught me, no mans gonna buy the cow if he gets the milk for free. She says a man won't marry you if your already giving him wifey priveleges. How do you feel about this? Have you done it or would you consider it?

my mom had/has the same philosophy but ultimately you have to do whats best at the end of the day.  DH and I lived together before we got married, I have never lived with anyone he let me know early on he was serious and actually didn't like the co-habitating however I wanted to know what i was dealing with being that I had lived my whole life with parents or alone

IA with freedom


Posted By: binky622
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:01am
Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

how old are you again?
 

22 turning 23 in July

you are still a babeTongue


Posted By: .hott.pink.
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:05am
No. Never have and never will.

Simply because I'm selfish about my space. Also, if I get irritated with you I need to be able to kick you out or go back to my own zen.

Even if I did live w/ a bf it would need to be a 2 bedroom 2 bath apt.


Posted By: princesshoneybee
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:08am
Originally posted by binky622 binky622 wrote:

Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

how old are you again?
 

22 turning 23 in July

you are still a babeTongue
 

LOL not really. 


Posted By: .hott.pink.
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:09am
Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

Originally posted by binky622 binky622 wrote:

Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

how old are you again?
 

22 turning 23 in July

you are still a babeTongue
 

LOL not really. 

sh*t.




Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:09am
long time ago i was against it then realized my beliefs/thoughts were based off retarded ish and now i'm like do what works for you.


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:10am
op you seem a lot happier these days... did you get all that other stuff worked out?


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:11am
Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

I don't believe in premaritial sex and having a live in boyfriend is fornincation waiting to happen. My mother always taught me, no mans gonna buy the cow if he gets the milk for free. She says a man won't marry you if your already giving him wifey priveleges. How do you feel about this? Have you done it or would you consider it?
so you think you're a cow?

and what are these wifely privileges you're talking about?


Posted By: goodm3
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:12am
Never done it

never considered it




Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:13am
I'm not with the living with the boyfriend stuff.



Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:14am
yeah, what are the wifey privileges? Something tells me I'm probably still not doing those.


Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:14am
Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

yeah, what are the wifey privileges? Something tells me I'm probably still not doing those.



LOL


Posted By: newin2009
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:15am
I would absolutely live with someone I was considering marrying first.


Posted By: princesshoneybee
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:16am
Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

op you seem a lot happier these days... did you get all that other stuff worked out?
 

thanks ! Yea i just realized I am turning 23 and I don't have a time machine. No matter what happend I need to let it go because it already happend. asking why won't change a thing. I am just thinking about moving out of Miami and going to New York and having a fresh start. I am having rhinoplasty this year so my appearance will improve and I'll be more comfortable with the way I look. Suicide is stupid, I've survived this long so I might as while wait it outWink life is over before you know it anyway.


Posted By: BeatriceBean
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:18am

I don't understand couples who aren't fornicating but are living together. Like...what are you doing?



Posted By: SimplyPut
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:18am
Never have live with a bf & never plan too

I don't do the whole pre-marriage cohabitation thing


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:19am
Do a search and you'll see BHM don't play that under any circumstances. Cuz in EVERY situation he's gon' use you, never marry you, and it will hurt the relationship. They won't consider the fact that this doesn't happen in every situation.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:20am
I do it because I'm cheap and I don't like paying rent.

The two guys I've lived with have been like bffs to me so it was fun most of the time but the first thing I typed is the real reason.   


Posted By: princesshoneybee
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:20am
Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

I don't understand couples who aren't fornicating but are living together. Like...what are you doing?

 

trust me they are.LOL just aren't going to tell you.


Posted By: BeatriceBean
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:24am
Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

I don't understand couples who aren't fornicating but are living together. Like...what are you doing?

 

trust me they are.LOL just aren't going to tell you.
 
I don't believe that everyone who does, is. Besides, IDGAF what you do anyway, there's no need to lie to me.


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:24am
I can't stand 'virgins' who suck dick.
Just had to release that thought. 


Posted By: nemesis1
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:25am
No. I haven't and wouldn't.


Posted By: rell85
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:29am
yes


Posted By: loveandpeace1984
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:30am
Do what works for you as long as it doesn't harm no one and step on their rights and freedom. But to your question, if it works for you it works, I have seen people wife up people who they first lived with. So it depends on how serious you two are really are. If you are serious and it's love and you both are working towards it than I see no problem. Rules are in place because certain people are irresponsible and inwardly lawless.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:31am
im not going to be ready to live with a guy for a long time.. 

that is too much time around me tbh. 

like ill have to feel like i know for sure and for certain that we'd be together for a really long time.. and its gonna have to be like to where i NEED to be around him most nights 


Posted By: IslandSuga
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:42am
I would live with my fiance, but a boyfriend? No way. I'm not about that "having to find out how a person really is" life. You should know who you're dealing with before you even move in with each other. I also think that moving in with someone takes the fun out of doing those "first" things like first dinner, furniture purchases, dinner party, etc.


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:44am
I don't like milk


Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:47am
Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

She says a man won't marry you if your already giving him wifey priveleges.


elaborate?


Originally posted by iSMILE13 iSMILE13 wrote:

Do what's best for your relationship


Originally posted by freedom76 freedom76 wrote:

I think most people know when their relationship is going nowhere regardless if you live together or not.


Pretty much.



Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:48am
Originally posted by loveandpeace1984 loveandpeace1984 wrote:

Do what works for you as long as it doesn't harm no one and step on their rights and freedom. But to your question, if it works for you it works, I have seen people wife up people who they first lived with. So it depends on how serious you two are really are. If you are serious and it's love and you both are working towards it than I see no problem. Rules are in place because certain people are irresponsible and inwardly lawless.


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Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:50am
 privileges??--- being able to bleach with him in the same rooM?


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 11:52am
The only privilege he gets it me spending more of his monies. 


Posted By: lexis83
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 12:01pm
Originally posted by nycdiva357 nycdiva357 wrote:

 privileges??--- being able to bleach with him in the same rooM?




Posted By: val48066
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 12:06pm
moved in together before marriage and engagement. matter of fact, i moved cities to do that


Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 12:09pm
Done before but probably would never do it again. Then again with my ex we had issues that existed before we even moved in together so that's probably why us living together didn't work out.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 12:10pm
I want to!
I want to live with him for the summer but I probably wont.
My family would kill me and I am absolutely postive my mother ,maternal grandmother , and maternal aunts and older sister would come and hunt me down.
 
My father's sisters and brothers would be calling me like fools. I could just imagine.


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 12:13pm
I've learned that this doesn't work for me.


Posted By: Carmensworld
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 12:15pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

I can't stand 'virgins' who suck dick.
Just had to release that thought. ing a little though...


Why?And I don't either LOL


Posted By: Cream1970
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 12:17pm
I have and would, but for only brief periods and if there was a dire financial situation.


Posted By: princesshoneybee
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 12:19pm
Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

She says a man won't marry you if your already giving him wifey priveleges.


elaborate?


Originally posted by iSMILE13 iSMILE13 wrote:

Do what's best for your relationship


Originally posted by freedom76 freedom76 wrote:

I think most people know when their relationship is going nowhere regardless if you live together or not.


Pretty much.

 

cooking for him, cleaning, doing laundry. wifey stuffLOL 


Posted By: bg
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 12:24pm
Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

I don't believe in premaritial sex and having a live in boyfriend is fornincation waiting to happen. My mother always taught me, no mans gonna buy the cow if he gets the milk for free. She says a man won't marry you if your already giving him wifey priveleges. How do you feel about this? Have you done it or would you consider it?


Thats cool that you dont believe in premarital sex i do.

And i am a shacker with NO intentions of getting married...ever.

im no cow (and i hate milk) but i dont feel like im giving something away with out getting my needs met in return.

All relationships are different and believe it or not, not EVERY woman wants/needs/is desperate for a ring and or marriage.




Posted By: bunzaveli
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 12:27pm
bhm women dont cook for they boyfriends ? how a Brotha gonna know if your food is trash ?


Posted By: bg
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 12:27pm
LOL those arent 'wifey' duties, those are we live in the same house and somebody gotta do it duties.

i cook and clean (which i love to do)
he pays the bills (which he loves to do)

Win, win


Posted By: freedom76
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 12:27pm
Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:


cooking for him, cleaning, doing laundry. wifey stuffLOL 


Oh...yeah I barely did those then and rarely do those nowLOL


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 12:37pm
@freedom, I know right. Lol


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 12:42pm
Who's the poster that always says 'I'm not here for that'

Yeah I'm not


Posted By: Prazol60
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 12:45pm
Did and got married to him



Posted By: Lilaca
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 12:48pm
Originally posted by .hott.pink. .hott.pink. wrote:

No. Never have and never will.

Simply because I'm selfish about my space. Also, if I get irritated with you I need to be able to kick you out or go back to my own zen.

Even if I did live w/ a bf it would need to be a 2 bedroom 2 bath apt.
hear hear


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 12:54pm
Get a big house and send him away at home lol. I know a couple like that. One year She gave him an anniversary gift of a wknd in a fancy hotel, alone. They get their alone time lol


Posted By: Ladycoils
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 1:00pm
Done it and doing it.. works for us. Had the marriage discussion prior too so he knows whats up.


Posted By: binky622
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 1:00pm
i use to be concerned about alone time because I was single.  when you get live together or married forget it (in my case). DH was like why even bother you can just stay single to do that and I agree in our case.  Now I have 3 kids, a husband and a dog. all I need is an hour and I m good. 


Posted By: loveandpeace1984
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 1:06pm
Originally posted by binky622 binky622 wrote:

i use to be concerned about alone time because I was single.  when you get live together or married forget it (in my case). DH was like why even bother you can just stay single to do that and I agree in our case.  Now I have 3 kids, a husband and a dog. all I need is an hour and I m good. 
 
An hour is something I can sacrafice a day of silence. I'm big introvert.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 1:08pm
Binky ,it's not for us. we like being together.


Posted By: Katrenia
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 1:11pm
No, I needed the commitment to do the role of wife because I work hard at it and I refuse to play house.
Two bedroom-two bath dwelling, I can do as a roommate but that didn't work because I'm not going to take the backseat in that type of relationship.

Wives still get left and cheated on however if I were in either situation I'd not feel so foolish because I kept house for my husband, not some person who took advantage of a nice living situation and later decided to move on. 
And I enjoyed the freedom of my alone years.


Posted By: kfoxx1998
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 1:14pm
Moving in with a guy you already know isn't committed and just came for the milk is stupid even if you ARE married to him.

Purp I'm with you.   I'm not here for all that either.   I'm here for the companionship, love, support, laughs, eye candy, financial stability and lots of sex w/o dating. 

I wish I had a good counter about why he should buy the cow.  Like that sh*t is so ancient.  When women were graduating high school with a diploma in how to get a man to marry you.  sh*t is  Insulting!


Posted By: HaitianDiva64
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 1:30pm
Aww cant post the link

Was trying to embed the wife, lover friend spoken word poem

Lol


Posted By: binky622
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 1:34pm
Originally posted by loveandpeace1984 loveandpeace1984 wrote:

Originally posted by binky622 binky622 wrote:

i use to be concerned about alone time because I was single.  when you get live together or married forget it (in my case). DH was like why even bother you can just stay single to do that and I agree in our case.  Now I have 3 kids, a husband and a dog. all I need is an hour and I m good. 
 
An hour is something I can sacrafice a day of silence. I'm big introvert.

so am I and so is my husband but we have kids, a dog you have to change your ways for the good of your family. make sacrafices


Posted By: binky622
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 1:35pm
Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

Binky ,it's not for us. we like being together.

yeah i know.  its hard for a lot of single folks to grasp the concept including me at that time


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 1:57pm
Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

bhm women dont cook for they boyfriends ? how a Brotha gonna know if your food is trash ?
we cook for each other when we visit. Also we love cooking together. BHM seems to think cooking is slave chore. I cook for friends too. I enjoy it. Me and him have cooking show downs lol


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 2:22pm
I've tried it and its not for me.

I love having personal space and being able to isolate myself in the comfort of my own home when I wanted to be alone. Constantly having someone around and in my face drove me crazy.

Just the thought of doing it again like the current has been hinting at, irks the f outta me.


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 2:23pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

I can't stand 'virgins' who suck dick.
Just had to release that thought. 


I can't get with the " virgins" who do anal .


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 2:31pm
I would.


Posted By: AmyAmyAmy
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 2:33pm
maybe

it depends...although i love my personal space.


Posted By: OoDles O
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 2:37pm
Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

I've learned that this doesn't work for me.

...........

I dont really like living with people in general.



Posted By: AmyAmyAmy
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 2:53pm
Originally posted by kfoxx1998 kfoxx1998 wrote:

Moving in with a guy you already know isn't committed and just came for the milk is stupid even if you ARE married to him.

Purp I'm with you.   I'm not here for all that either.   I'm here for the companionship, love, support, laughs, eye candy, financial stability and lots of sex w/o dating. 

I wish I had a good counter about why he should buy the cow.  Like that sh*t is so ancient.  When women were graduating high school with a diploma in how to get a man to marry you.  sh*t is  Insulting!

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Posted By: EasterBell
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 3:17pm
been there, done that..ain't for me


Posted By: princesshoneybee
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 4:06pm
Originally posted by EasterBell EasterBell wrote:

been there, done that..ain't for me
 

Is that you in your sig pic?


Posted By: lambkin
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 4:49pm
Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

I don't believe in premaritial sex and having a live in boyfriend is fornincation waiting to happen. My mother always taught me, no mans gonna buy the cow if he gets the milk for free. She says a man won't marry you if your already giving him wifey priveleges. How do you feel about this? Have you done it or would you consider it?


I don't think that's true.

Generally speaking, you know where you stand with a man before you move in together. He'll make it very clear to you if he's thinking about marrying you or not. Many women don't want to see it so they set themselves up for disappointment.

Oh, and yes, I have done it. I've lived with my husband for 9 years before we got married 3 years ago.





Posted By: Allure.
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 5:07pm
Me and my current s/o lived together for a year before getting married and having our baby.

Me and my ex lived together for three years on and off, we were engaged for 2 of those years (we were super young, 19-21) until I broke up with him.


Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 5:10pm
Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

She says a man won't marry you if your already giving him wifey priveleges.


elaborate?
 

cooking for him, cleaning, doing laundry. wifey stuffLOL 



the help does that too tho....










Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 5:25pm
Originally posted by Allure. Allure. wrote:

Me and my current s/o lived together for a year before getting married and having our baby.

Me and my ex lived together for three years on and off, we were engaged for 2 of those years (we were super young, 19-21) until I broke up with him.
Congrats! Allure, when did you have your baby?Big smile


Living together, getting murried and then having a baby sounds like the route I'd like to take in the future.


Posted By: ImThatDiva
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 5:27pm
I've got better things to do than place house. I don't believe in shacking up.


Posted By: princesshoneybee
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 8:31pm
Originally posted by Allure. Allure. wrote:

Me and my current s/o lived together for a year before getting married and having our baby.

Me and my ex lived together for three years on and off, we were engaged for 2 of those years (we were super young, 19-21) until I broke up with him.
 

aww congrats on having a family and marriage


Posted By: bklyngurl33
Date Posted: Apr 30 2013 at 9:27pm
I lived with my husband then had our daugther before we were married. Do what works for you.


Posted By: modelbusiness82
Date Posted: May 01 2013 at 12:02am
Originally posted by iSMILE13 iSMILE13 wrote:

If that scenario was true for everyone then a lot of people wouldn't be married. Do what's best for your relationship


This.

My fiance and I lived together for quite a while before he "put a ring on it". Although there is a certain amount of truth to the cow/milk theory, I tend to relegate that as applying best to one-night stands.


Posted By: modelbusiness82
Date Posted: May 01 2013 at 12:07am
Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

She says a man won't marry you if your already giving him wifey priveleges.


elaborate?


Originally posted by iSMILE13 iSMILE13 wrote:

Do what's best for your relationship


Originally posted by freedom76 freedom76 wrote:

I think most people know when their relationship is going nowhere regardless if you live together or not.


Pretty much.

 

cooking for him, cleaning, doing laundry. wifey stuffLOL 


I know women who do these things and aren't living with their men.

No offense to your mom because I'm positive she means nothing but the best for you, but she needs to redefine "wifey priveledges".


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: May 01 2013 at 12:25am
I would rather live with a fiance than a boyfriend.


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: May 01 2013 at 11:57am
so summary?


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: May 01 2013 at 11:59am
Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:


I know women who do these things and aren't living with their men.

No offense to your mom because I'm positive she means nothing but the best for you, but she needs to redefine "wifey priveledges".


I don't think she needs to redefine it if that works for her relationship/lifestyle.


Posted By: modelbusiness82
Date Posted: May 01 2013 at 2:22pm
Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:


I know women who do these things and aren't living with their men.

No offense to your mom because I'm positive she means nothing but the best for you, but she needs to redefine "wifey priveledges".


I don't think she needs to redefine it if that works for her relationship/lifestyle.


But if cooking/cleaning for your man = wifely privileges that one does with a man they live with. And by default if you do them while cohabitating, "no man will marry you because he's getting the milk for free". Then what does that say of the women who AREN'T living with their man but are cooking his meals and cleaning his house in the hopes of getting wifed up? Are they just intensely lost causes who will never in life get married? Are they immune to the cow/milk philosophy?

That's why I say "wifey privileges" needs to be redefined.


Posted By: AfricanLove1415
Date Posted: May 01 2013 at 3:37pm
Originally posted by iSMILE13 iSMILE13 wrote:

If that scenario was true for everyone then a lot of people wouldn't be married. Do what's best for your relationship
 
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Posted By: KottonKandy
Date Posted: May 01 2013 at 4:02pm
yes, for the first time ever I am. I'm 30 btw. He travels for work and I'm home alone pretty much 75% of the time. It works for me.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: May 01 2013 at 4:23pm
Originally posted by KottonKandy KottonKandy wrote:

yes, for the first time ever I am. I'm 30 btw. He travels for work and I'm home alone pretty much 75% of the time. It works for me.



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Posted By: Allure.
Date Posted: May 04 2013 at 10:44am
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Originally posted by Allure. Allure. wrote:

Me and my current s/o lived together for a year before getting married and having our baby.

Me and my ex lived together for three years on and off, we were engaged for 2 of those years (we were super young, 19-21) until I broke up with him.
Congrats! Allure, when did you have your baby?Big smile


Living together, getting murried and then having a baby sounds like the route I'd like to take in the future.
 
Aww thank uBig smile I had her back in October 2012, a week after my actual due date, and she came out 10lbs 2oz! My lil chunkaEmbarrassedHeart


Posted By: Limalady
Date Posted: May 04 2013 at 10:57am
What if you live together and your man cooks, cleans, AND pays the bills? Does that mean you ain't sh!t? Cry

Ain't no "wifey duties" here.

I cook and clean, but my SO is a neat freak. After I clean, he will go back a few days later and clean it again. I clean everything you can see. He is the kind of person that moves the sofa and entertainment center to clean behind it. It actually drives me nuts.


Posted By: Princess_S
Date Posted: May 04 2013 at 4:32pm
I have lived with an ex. i dont regret it because It was because of his help i was able to finish and otain my college degree.  I was given the option to quit or work less and he would take of the all the major bills. I worked PT and was only responsible for my cell phone and car insurance. But i also opted to pay the cable/internet/phone as well. Although we didnt work out becuase of other reason(s) i have nothing but love and respect for him based on this. Heart 



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