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Topic: Are you afraid of aging?
Posted By: princesshoneybee
Subject: Are you afraid of aging?
Date Posted: Apr 27 2013 at 11:56pm
turning 23 in July. I thought I would be freaking out but I just don't mind aging anymore. You either older or your dead. Do you mind getting older? I hope to get my life together and be taking care of myself. Plus If you take care of yourself, you can be a bad bish at any ageWink



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Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Apr 27 2013 at 11:59pm
*looks at mom and grandmother*
 
HAHAHAHAHAHA!! HELL NAW!! time can bring that sh!t!!
 
i'll be 30 in july. i'm still getting carded-- frequently. Cool
 
sn: when in july? you a cancer or a leo? Geek


Posted By: Meme0887
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:00am
Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

*looks at mom and grandmother*
 
HAHAHAHAHAHA!! HELL NAW!! time can bring that sh!t!!
 
i'll be 30 in july. i'm still getting carded-- frequently. Cool
 
sn: when in july? you a cancer or a leo? Geek
 
Same here Big smile
 
I'm July too..Leo Tongue


Posted By: princesshoneybee
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:02am
Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

*looks at mom and grandmother*
 
HAHAHAHAHAHA!! HELL NAW!! time can bring that sh!t!!
 
i'll be 30 in july. i'm still getting carded-- frequently. Cool
 
sn: when in july? you a cancer or a leo? Geek
 

12th I'm cancerSmile 


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:03am
No. I'm on the right path as far as life goals go and I am not aging like a white woman--score!Approve


Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:06am
Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

*looks at mom and grandmother*
 
HAHAHAHAHAHA!! HELL NAW!! time can bring that sh!t!!
 
i'll be 30 in july days. i'm still getting carded-- frequently. Cool
 
sn: when in july? you a cancer or a leo? Geek  taurus are the best.. that is all.


Posted By: BeatriceBean
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:07am
Nope. However well or badly I age, getting older is a blessing.


Posted By: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:07am
Nope. 

Im tired of being on this side of 21, and I'm sure that once I'm 21 I'll be tired of being on this side of 25.
I just want to be finished with school and established in my career n' sh*tDisapprove.


Posted By: Bored w/Out Me?
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:08am
23 Child Please...don't worry about aging cause You are not promised one day on this earth so why worry about an age that You might not get too.


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:09am
Originally posted by Meme0887 Meme0887 wrote:

Same here Big smile
 
I'm July too..Leo Tongue
SWEET!! Cool
 
Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

12th I'm cancerSmile 
ok, imma boo cause that's my stupid ass father's birthday. however, cancer women are lovely people.
 
i know cause my mommy is a cancer. her birthday is july 1st. Smile
 
yeah-- we were all born in july. so's much of my extended family. 


Posted By: Katrenia
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:10am
No fear of aging, I have good genes. I fear illness in old age.


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:10am
Originally posted by nycdiva357 nycdiva357 wrote:

Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

 sn: when in july? you a cancer or a leo? Geek  taurus are the best.. that is all.
*stank face* no ma'am. Sleepy


Posted By: BeatriceBean
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:10am
Originally posted by Bored w/Out Me? Bored w/Out Me? wrote:

23 Child Please...don't worry about aging cause You are not promised one day on this earth so why worry about an age that You might not get too.
 
OKAY?!?


Posted By: Lilaca
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:11am
if i was clear, yes


Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:21am
Nah. If I turn out anything like the women in my family then I should have no problem aging as I get older. I'm moreso afraid of not living my life to the fullest while I'm still young.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:41am
 I didn't   until I found out that I couldn't still wear bikinis when I get old LOL


no I don't. I fear illness though.


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:45am
^Sorry Purp, once you reach a certain age (no one can really say what age it is though) you better learn what an appropriate one piece looks like for your age.Stern Smile

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Posted By: TokyoRose
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:48am
This is how I've begun to feel about aging lately.

Photo


Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:51am
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

^Sorry Purp, once you reach a certain age (no one can really say what age it is though) you better learn what an appropriate one piece looks like for your age.Stern Smile

http://www.eastessence.com/products/WHITE_WITH_BLACK_ACCENT_SWIMWEAR-997-43.html" rel="nofollow">WHITE WITH BLACK ACCENT SWIMWEAR


LOL


Posted By: Prazol60
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:57am
No ,so many people never even make it out of childhood so to turn a year older is truly amazing


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:59am
Originally posted by Prazol60 Prazol60 wrote:

No ,so many people never even make it out of childhood so to turn a year older is truly amazing


yes. I've only heard one person say she wanted to die young so she'd be a pretty corpse. I think she got that from a movie or something though lol.


Posted By: Meme0887
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 1:03am
Lol I actually wanna die in my 80s..I think that's long enough to be here


Posted By: rell85
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 1:13am
nope 


Posted By: shrew297
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 1:41am
Getting older isn't my issue. Being able to afford good healthcare is. Soylent Green is people ya'll. 


Posted By: modelbusiness82
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 1:56am
Afraid of aging as in looking old?

No...I'm 30 and most people have a hard time believing I'm even old enough to get into a bar/club.

My mom is 61 and looks like she's in her late 30s...so if I have those genes...I'm satisfied. :)


Posted By: TokyoRose
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 2:12am
Originally posted by shrew297 shrew297 wrote:

Getting older isn't my issue. Being able to afford good healthcare is. Soylent Green is people ya'll. 


One of my FAVORITE movies of ALL TIME!!!

And if you ask me, I really don't think we're that far off.  Monsanto is just the beginning.


Posted By: SweetNovember*
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 4:44am
Yes. But apparently I look a lot younger than my age so I have that small comfort at least.


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 6:22am
i cant say that i really care.
i've been aging for 30 years now...
no need of worrying about it at this point...



Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 6:42am
Nope not afraid. I don't mind looking old when I'm old either. I guess youth obsession is natural for some people but I don't want to look 35 when I'm 60.im fine with looking like a 60 year old.
None of that plastic surgery or cosmetic enhancements either. Seems desperate to me.

I'm more afraid of being unaccomplished in old age. That's apart from money and materials


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 6:51am
Originally posted by shrew297 shrew297 wrote:

Getting older isn't my issue. Being able to afford good healthcare is. Soylent Green is people ya'll. 
 
 
 
something like that^^^^^^
 
i'm not afraid of aging as in looking older.  i'm more afraid of what's going down socially.  of the fact that it's lookin' like by the time I get older (if I get there) u're gonna have to be a milliionaire just to live comfortably.  And from the way things are lookin'.....I just might be here for the apocolypse. I'm kinda mad about that.


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 6:53am
Soylent Green from what i've seen reminds me of Abe's Odyssey.


Posted By: nala52808
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 7:07am
I find aging to be interesting and I actually look forward to it. I would of course take care of my body and face, but I would never depress myself because I may not look as "fresh" as I did when I was younger, or try to wear body on dresses and mesh cutout sh*t so that I can still feel like I can party with my grandchildren at the club.


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 8:00am
I'm afraid of being old, bitter and broke. 


Posted By: bebe88
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 8:09am
I'm afraid of physical aging. I will be coloring grays, staying in shape, and getting botox if needed. Face lifts when I get rly old.


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 8:16am
I'm not afraid of getting older or looking older.

I am afraid of getting old and losing my physical and mental capabilities.

Every day is a blessing, but I dread the thought of not being able to think or function for myself. I don't think I wanna get so old where I'm constantly in pain or miserable, and I'm alive but not living.


Posted By: Brownsugar1
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 10:11am
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

^Sorry Purp, once you reach a certain age (no one can really say what age it is though) you better learn what an appropriate one piece looks like for your age.Stern Smile

http://www.eastessence.com/products/WHITE_WITH_BLACK_ACCENT_SWIMWEAR-997-43.html" rel="nofollow">WHITE WITH BLACK ACCENT SWIMWEAR

DeadLOL


Posted By: Ladycoils
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 10:50am
No I just hope that I can get myself healthy enough that I can be vivbrant and with no broken hips and on tons of medication.


Posted By: laceyfront
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 12:21pm
Nope the women in my family age good and I haven't lived a hard life so my face is going to be on point! YAAAAAASSSSSSS!


Posted By: AmyAmyAmy
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 1:17pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Nope not afraid. I don't mind looking old when I'm old either. I guess youth obsession is natural for some people but I don't want to look 35 when I'm 60.im fine with looking like a 60 year old.
None of that plastic surgery or cosmetic enhancements either. Seems desperate to me.

I'm more afraid of being unaccomplished in old age. That's apart from money and materials

Woo, this.


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 1:24pm

I made it to "turned 23 in july". I can't take this thread seriously.



Posted By: pebbles251
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 1:33pm
YES. I my old ass is terrified. LOL I am afraid my pum pum will dry up


Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 1:50pm
I look 10 years younger; I am not worried.
Tip: don't wear makeup, don't smoke and don't drink much alcohol.



Posted By: tallcake
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 2:10pm
Nah. I'm good.
The women in my family age gracefully and hopefully so will I.


Posted By: Hello! Tsuki
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 2:12pm
Not really 'cause I try to take care of myself and I'm not white, thank god :>


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 2:17pm
i think if i looked old, i would mind aging




Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 2:29pm
Leo's suck aries are the best fire sign


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 2:29pm
Looks are the least of my getting old concerns


Posted By: purpulicious01
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 2:55pm
LOL , girl stop - you're making it seem as if you are a middle aged woman.

But to answer your question, no, I'm not afraid of aging. I welcome it, will embrace it, and look forward to aging, the gained life experiences, and wisdom.
 
 


Posted By: talia
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 2:55pm
I don't mind aging at all - if it is about looks - well I made it into Essence Hot Hair magazine at a ripe "old" age.  They weren't carding lol.

I'm worried about not having accomplished my dreams...and being financially independent so I can unplug from the man and do what I want.....so hell yeah I'll be a bitter old titty if I get old 
and have done what I want to do in life. I'm okay looking the way I look. I'm more interested in what I've done in life than what I look like.  

Age you can erase what you can't erase with surgery is not having accomplished anything.   


Posted By: texasmami0117
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 3:04pm
I aint got no worries. I get it from my mama so Im good.


Posted By: miana79
Date Posted: Apr 28 2013 at 3:06pm
I try not to worry to much! they say to start taking better care of your self when you hit 30! things change after age 30 skin, metabolism etc.  I am more concerned about being healthy!



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