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Topic: *Update in OP*My hubby knocked me up
Posted By: Lonisha87
Subject: *Update in OP*My hubby knocked me up
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:24pm
You ladies were right, I'm am pregnant. About 5 weeks. I drove all the way to my husbands job in Pasadena to let him know. Do you ladies have any advice in how I should tell me mother. On April Fools Day I told her I was pregnant( not knowing is was) and she didnt take it all too well, I am married, but were both students and that was her main issue
*update*
So I told her and she was just like I knew it, I've been saying it for weeks. I could tell and she then told my husband it's his fault and she's not talking to him. We talked some more and everything's good and everyone's happy. My brothers all said they knew and they've all been saying it behind my back for weeks. She said to not be scared and everything will be fine, also said she's doing the baby shower and that I need to move back in.



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Posted By: zsazsa
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:25pm
Congrats.


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:28pm
Lmaoooo at the title.

Tbh I thought you and the other ladies in the bump thread were trying to get pregnant or already were. Congrats Lonisha!Party


Posted By: Hello! Tsuki
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:29pm
Lmao, congrats!!


Posted By: alynxx
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:29pm
Congrats! 


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:30pm
Haha. Thanks. No I wasn't trying though


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:30pm
you and your hubby looked so cute in your avi.  congrats!!!!!!  don't let anyone take away the happiness and positive attitude you have about it.


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:31pm

"my hubby knocked me up"

Confused

i came in this thread expecting something totally different


Posted By: bunzaveli
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:32pm
in the words of charlamagne da god, that Brotha shot your club up lonisha ? 


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:33pm
Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:




"my <span style="font-size: small; line-height: 1.4;">hubby knocked me up"</span>

Confused

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">i came in this thread expecting something totally different

I assumed everyone knew knocked up meant pregnant


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:34pm


congrats to you however EmbarrassedEmbarrassed


Posted By: Miss SDY
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:34pm
Yay!!! Congrats!!!!! Party
 
As for how to tell your mother, I think you might just have to flat out tell her. She may not be too happy at the moment, judging on how you said she reacted to your April Fool's joke, but I believe as your pregnancy progresses, she will become really excited about a grandchild!


Posted By: miana79
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:36pm
are you gonna wait 3 months b4 telling others?


Posted By: Sleek
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:37pm
Congrats


Posted By: Katrenia
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:37pm
Husbands tend to do that LOL

Congrats!! You're mom will be okay.


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:38pm
Yeah I'm gonna wait 3 months before telling everyone else. But I just wanted at least our parents to know. I'm just gonna have to let her know


Posted By: hauteshellbi
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:40pm
Congrats!!


Posted By: Bored w/Out Me?
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:44pm
Awwwwh Congrats Mama!!!


Posted By: kkscottdale
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:45pm
Congrats!




Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:47pm
congrats luv.

someone I know sent her mom a personalized teeshirt that said

my grandbaby is better than your grandbaby.




Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 6:56pm
That's so cool. I'm telling her in like 3 hours though. Thank You for all the congrats. Where's Lady ICE and Epitome?


Posted By: ModelessDiva
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 7:03pm
Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:




"my <span style="font-size: small; line-height: 1.4;">hubby knocked me up"</span>

Confused

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">i came in this thread expecting something totally different

I assumed everyone knew knocked up meant pregnant
 
no... im well aware that knocked up meant pregnant
its just that you hear folks use the term knocked up with a "babydaddy" or an ex in a situation thats not ideal
 
not for a husband.....
but anyway congrats again hope everything goes wellWinkSmile
 
 
 


Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 7:04pm
lol... pity spoke to you in the prego style thread.


Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 7:05pm
hmm 3 hours.. ok... lets think.

in person or over the phone?


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 7:08pm
Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

That's so cool. I'm telling her in like 3 hours though. Thank You for all the congrats. Where's Lady ICE and Epitome?

I'm here!! congrats booski!!!! since you already tried to fool your momma, just tell herLOL

 


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 7:10pm
In person. I'm thinking to just say the jokes on me I really am pregnant


Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 7:10pm

Congrats!!!

 
I would probably be like "Remember that April fools joke? it wasn't a joke biiitcchh!!" but thats just me
 
Actually I've always planned on sending her an ultra sound pic for a big surprise.. or just showing up at her house with a huge stomach and yelling surprise.


Posted By: Princess_S
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 7:10pm
Congrats


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 7:11pm
omg can u get that Tamar Braxton shirt? my ls tried to tell me she was getting it for me even though i am nowhere near with child.



Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 7:16pm
Aww. I would do that if i could get it today


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 7:17pm
congrats!!!!!!!Party


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 7:37pm
Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

That's so cool. I'm telling her in like 3 hours though. Thank You for all the congrats. Where's Lady ICE and Epitome?
Cry im hereeeee!! omgosh congrats. i cant wait to see the baby bump!! ClapPartyClap yay now i leave niecy alone, i can just bug you all the time. wooo. lol tell me how happy your hubby was. well let me read the thread!! yaaaaaaay lonisha eeeeeeeeek!!LOLClap

ok yeah just be straight forward with mom. i hate to sound mean but its kinda too bad if she doesnt like the timing..baby is here now. LONISHA!!! lol.LOL
change your avi. take a pic with your hand on your hip and the other on your stomach *standard preggie pose* lol.


Posted By: Anah
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 7:41pm
Aww how did Hubby reply

Eta lol wrong smiley


Posted By: Ladycoils
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 7:41pm
Congrats!!


Posted By: miana79
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 7:54pm

having a feeling baby will be a girl!



Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 7:56pm
there is something in the water...

congrats! your mom will come around



Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 8:03pm
Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:




Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

That's so cool. I'm telling her in like 3 hours though. Thank You for all the congrats. Where's Lady ICE and Epitome?

Cry im hereeeee!! omgosh congrats. i cant wait to see the baby bump!! ClapPartyClap yay now i leave niecy alone, i can just bug you all the time. wooo. lol tell me how happy your hubby was. well let me read the thread!! yaaaaaaay lonisha eeeeeeeeek!!LOLClap

ok yeah just be straight forward with mom. i hate to sound mean but its kinda too bad if she doesnt like the timing..baby is here now. LONISHA!!! lol.LOL
change your avi. take a pic with your hand on your hip and the other on your stomach *standard preggie pose* lol.



He did not believe me at all. I had to show him the paperwork, prenatal pamphlet and the prenatal vitamins them he was like oh my gosh!! Dang, really, man....I'll change my avi when I get a bump.


Posted By: happy 4b
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 8:11pm
YAY!!! Another BHM baby. Congrats. Goodluck with everything.


Posted By: Merin
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 8:12pm
YAY!!! 


Posted By: journeytolong
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 8:35pm
Congratulations, now you get to get away with the "eating for two" excuse!


Posted By: mrshairdo
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 8:42pm
congratulations Heart


Posted By: miamiu27
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 8:45pm
Congrats!!!
 
Well when I found out this is how the conversation went.
 
Phone call:
 
parents: why haven't we heard from you
me: i don't know just been busy with classes
    sis in the background (we are sitting on my porch) whispering to me: "jus tell em"
    me whispering back: "no, shut da heck up"
    sis grabs phone...runssss
sis: she ain't call cause she pregnant
    me: mushing her in the face and grabbing the phone
    sis: smirking
 
So me sharing that probably didn't help but thing is she will find out sooner or later so you might as well get it on out the way before someone else does it.


Posted By: bubblyboo
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 8:45pm
Congratulations love!!!!! I'm so happy for you!


Posted By: rayrayxox
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 8:55pm
Congratulations <3

Can I be BHM Godmother


Posted By: Jr1127
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 8:58pm
Party Congratualations


Posted By: danni7
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 9:19pm
Originally posted by femmefatale85 femmefatale85 wrote:

there is something in the water...

congrats! your mom will come around


Yup 8th 2013 baby I know... Not including Kim K, Princess Kate and Halle Berry


Posted By: Faithfully2002
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 9:23pm
Congrats!!


Posted By: danni7
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 9:23pm
Originally posted by journeytolong journeytolong wrote:

Congratulations, now you get to get away with the "eating for two" excuse!


LIES!!! 

I ate more when I wasn't sharing my body. I just feel stuffed and it just gets worse the further along I get.


Posted By: Claudie
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 9:44pm
Congratulations   


Posted By: Limalady
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 10:39pm
Congrats!


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 10:47pm
Congratulations!

I pray you have a safe, blessed pregnancy.


Posted By: mcelweewife
Date Posted: Apr 10 2013 at 10:52pm
Congrats to you love!! I hope you keep us posted on this journey. I would recommend watching as many births as you can on youtube. If you are squeamish try watching home births--they are beautiful to behold!!!


Posted By: miana79
Date Posted: Apr 11 2013 at 12:30am
aww happy all went well when u told herSmile so are u gonna move back in?


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Apr 11 2013 at 12:39am
oh goodie. im glad everything worked out.

lmao @ blaming the husband.LOL moms are so dramatic sometimes.



Posted By: Miss SDY
Date Posted: Apr 11 2013 at 1:43am
I'm ready for belly pics already!!!!!!!! We have another BHM baby to look forward to!!


Posted By: mcelweewife
Date Posted: Apr 11 2013 at 1:48am
Awwwww your mom is funny!Heart


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Apr 11 2013 at 1:53am
Originally posted by Miss SDY Miss SDY wrote:

I'm ready for belly pics already!!!!!!!! We have another BHM baby to look forward to!!
youre next.ShockedGeek


Posted By: Prazol60
Date Posted: Apr 11 2013 at 2:14am
Congrats...do what you want, your family will come around 


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 11:30am
the found a second gestational sac......


Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 11:31am
ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

congrats x 2

ya hubby did that! lmao


Posted By: iSMILE13
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 11:33am
Twins????? Awwww yay!


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 11:34am
haha man omg..it needs to be confirmed with a second ultrasound next week. I'm a twin and they run in my family so......but damn...senior year of college this fall plus twins.


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 11:36am
Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

the found a second gestational sac......
ShockedShockedShocked it keeps getting better!!


Posted By: WadadliQueen
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 11:38am
Wow!! Double the Congratulations!!


Posted By: ThatGurlD
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 12:01pm
Congratulations.  

Leave and cleave.


Posted By: goodm3
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 12:03pm
Congrats! 

But why are moving back home? Is your husband military?


Posted By: Princess_S
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 12:06pm
Originally posted by goodm3 goodm3 wrote:

Congrats! 

But why are moving back home? Is your husband military?
 
 


Posted By: Alias_Avi
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 12:07pm
omg lmao dang girl


congrats tho


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 12:08pm
congrats again!!!!


Posted By: beebeexx
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 12:09pm
congrats!! my good friend just had twins(we are both in college). and is doing very well with her fiancée.
I wish you guys the best!!


Posted By: Naturalchick30
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 12:29pm
How'd I miss this thread?  Congrats OPClapParty


Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 12:35pm
Awwwwwww lol omg
Reading this was like a book. Climax and all.
Congrats dear!


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 1:00pm
I'm not moving back in with my mom. She just wants to take care of me. How am I going to concentrate in school today


Posted By: Miss SDY
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 1:45pm
Congrats times two!!!!!! Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm acting like its me!!!

Oh and Lady Ice, I see you......


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 1:59pm
am i the only one who read the op and saw the word husband and disregarded her whole dilemma?LOL

 
Congratulations Lonisha!


Posted By: Jr1127
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 2:33pm
Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

I'm not moving back in with my mom. She just wants to take care of me. How am I going to concentrate in school today
When are you going to graduate?


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 2:52pm
Originally posted by Jr1127 Jr1127 wrote:


Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

I'm not moving back in with my mom. She just wants to take care of me. How am I going to concentrate in school today

When are you going to graduate?

Spring 2014 around june or Winter 2014 around march


Posted By: Jr1127
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 3:04pm
Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

Originally posted by Jr1127 Jr1127 wrote:


Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

I'm not moving back in with my mom. She just wants to take care of me. How am I going to concentrate in school today

When are you going to graduate?

Spring 2014 around june or Winter 2014 around march
WOW that baby came right on time!


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Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 3:07pm
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Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 4:11pm
Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

the found a second gestational sac......
Congrats Mrs. Fertile Myrtle!Party

Can't wait to hear mom's response. I bet she'll think you are playing another joke on her.LOL


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 4:13pm
Congrats! 


Posted By: Ladybird0724
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 4:24pm
2x the cuteness!! congrats!!

the best advice I got was to relax and enjoy it the best you can. def. let ppl help you out as much as they are willing to and take up strangers on their acts of kindness.


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 4:30pm
My mom was like OMG I told you. I knew I knew I knew it. I can keep one right? She said that's why you look so big for only 5 weeks. She was really happy. My twin bro was like oh no. I can't believe it.


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 4:32pm
Lol mama always knows. Always!Shocked


Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 11:05pm
thank you


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 11:12pm
Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

My mom was like OMG I told you. I knew I knew I knew it. I can keep one right? She said that's why you look so big for only 5 weeks. She was really happy. My twin bro was like oh no. I can't believe it.
Congrats and best wishes to you and hubby . LOLClap


Posted By: Tbaby
Date Posted: Apr 12 2013 at 11:13pm
Wow!!!  Double blessings!!!

So are you going to move back home?  Or try to handle 2 babies and school on your own? 

Thats a biggggg decision.  Mom can definately help with 2 newborns...but then Mom might be more annoying then helpful, too.   What does hubby say about it?



Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 13 2013 at 12:53am
I am NOT moving back home....NOT, my mom will be there to help me in the beginning, because she's taken care of twin newborns before(me and my bro). Me moving in there was never an issue, she was joking. Thanks for the congrats again


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Apr 13 2013 at 1:40am
twins!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

congratulations honeybunch!!!!!!!!!!!


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Apr 13 2013 at 4:20am
bhm baby twins. its so excitingLOLLOL




Posted By: Lonisha87
Date Posted: Apr 13 2013 at 10:51am
Am i being too sensitive. I got really genuinely pissed off and feelings hurt yesterday when my sister in law asked if i would be having my tubed tide after i give birth. I just think that it is the rudest thing to ask someone...WHO JUST found out their bringing life into the world. I said no, why would I do that, and she's like you're not, and then made a rude face. It's not like i plan on having another kid right after, but damn.


Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Apr 13 2013 at 10:57am
Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

Am i being too sensitive. I got really genuinely pissed off and feelings hurt yesterday when my sister in law asked if i would be having my tubed tide after i give birth. I just think that it is the rudest thing to ask someone...WHO JUST found out their bringing life into the world. I said no, why would I do that, and she's like you're not, and then made a rude face. It's not like i plan on having another kid right after, but damn.

Girl that's them hormones kicking in.


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Apr 13 2013 at 11:01am
Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

Am i being too sensitive. I got really genuinely pissed off and feelings hurt yesterday when my sister in law asked if i would be having my tubed tide after i give birth. I just think that it is the rudest thing to ask someone...WHO JUST found out their bringing life into the world. I said no, why would I do that, and she's like you're not, and then made a rude face. It's not like i plan on having another kid right after, but damn.
No you are not . I think you and your husband should keep both families out of your decisons regarding your life together . Hug


Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Apr 13 2013 at 11:05am
Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

Am i being too sensitive. I got really genuinely pissed off and feelings hurt yesterday when my sister in law asked if i would be having my tubed tide after i give birth. I just think that it is the rudest thing to ask someone...WHO JUST found out their bringing life into the world. I said no, why would I do that, and she's like you're not, and then made a rude face. It's not like i plan on having another kid right after, but damn.
No you are not . I think you and your husband should keep both families out of your decisons regarding your life together . Hug

True. From experience family will have alot of opinions on what you should be doing throughout your pregnancy though so just beware. You ain't gotta listen to every little thing they say thouh.


Posted By: GoodGirlGoneGr8
Date Posted: Apr 13 2013 at 12:23pm
Awwwwwwww, congrats!!!


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Apr 13 2013 at 12:29pm
Originally posted by niecy niecy wrote:

Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

Am i being too sensitive. I got really genuinely pissed off and feelings hurt yesterday when my sister in law asked if i would be having my tubed tide after i give birth. I just think that it is the rudest thing to ask someone...WHO JUST found out their bringing life into the world. I said no, why would I do that, and she's like you're not, and then made a rude face. It's not like i plan on having another kid right after, but damn.
No you are not . I think you and your husband should keep both families out of your decisons regarding your life together . Hug

True. From experience family will have alot of opinions on what you should be doing throughout your pregnancy though so just beware. You ain't gotta listen to every little thing they say thouh.
lol my mom was asking if i were getting my tubes tied before i even had kids.LOL now that i keep having dreams that im suppose to be pregnant again (ConfusedConfused) shes really pushing me to do it.

anyways yeah family is gonna be butting in like crazy now. i would say ignore half of it. cause they can make you crazy. but now that i know youre having our baby, im gonna be droppin by your pm box and askin questions too. yessss.LOLbut dont hate me bro.



Posted By: val48066
Date Posted: Apr 13 2013 at 12:40pm
Establish your boundaries now and check anybody, even mom, as soon as things happen. Don't allow them to use your youth or lack of experience as a mother to butt into your new family's business. Otherwise, your family will believe they can butt in about anything. As a poster stated a few pages back: leave and cleave. 


Posted By: crzyabthair
Date Posted: Apr 13 2013 at 1:13pm
Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

bhm baby twins. its so excitingLOLLOL





Awwwww....ClapClap

Congrats!


Posted By: Prazol60
Date Posted: Apr 13 2013 at 1:13pm
Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

the found a second gestational sac......

Congrats again! Good for you on staying in school. You can do it!


Posted By: kandi*tess
Date Posted: Apr 13 2013 at 1:16pm
congrats SmileSmile



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