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Topic: Spinoff: Can an SO be taken?
Posted By: Babydoll9163
Subject: Spinoff: Can an SO be taken?
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:42am
And I don't mean can you get someone else's SO to have sex with you, I mean really take them. How or why do you think this is possible? 

Have you ever taken someone's SO?


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Posted By: Flowing-Ice
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:42am
of course they can. 

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Posted By: lovelife
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:43am
no. you can't take someone from a place they didn't already want to leave, imo. 

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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:43am
if eve can be tempted ....anybody can be and stray

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Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:44am
I think so. Although I do feel like if he/she can be taken then they weren't fully yours to begin with.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:44am
If someone wants to be taken yes .

But that's the committed persons choice.

But you got some O's thinking they grecian sirens or something

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Posted By: Ashleyano
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:45am
Originally posted by lovelife lovelife wrote:

no. you can't take someone from a place they didn't already want to leave, imo. 


Posted By: Flowing-Ice
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:45am
Originally posted by lovelife lovelife wrote:

no. you can't take someone from a place they didn't already want to leave, imo. 

lol, so... changing the wording makes people feel better?
mmkay.


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Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:46am
Yes, you can take someone else's S/O...i believe that MOST people aren't happy in their current relationships and are just sticking to their comfort zone until someone "better" comes along anyway.  I think a lot of people already have one foot out the door.  When i say Most, i am not talking 99%...more like 70%.


Posted By: lovelife
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:47am
Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

Originally posted by lovelife lovelife wrote:

no. you can't take someone from a place they didn't already want to leave, imo. 

lol, so... changing the wording makes people feel better?
mmkay.


LOL LOL but you aren't taking them. like "you can't **** the willing"


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Posted By: ThatGurlD
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:50am
This S.O. can not be taken and the only way someone could take him is if he wanted to go.  



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Posted By: uppitynegroid
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:51am
Yes, but if the person is in a functional and happy relationship, I think it would take an incredibly manipulative and patient person to do it.  No matter how good a SO is for you, the fact remains that no one can be everything to you. 

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Posted By: ThatGurlD
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:51am
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Yes, you can take someone else's S/O...i believe that MOST people aren't happy in their current relationships and are just sticking to their comfort zone until someone "better" comes along anyway.  I think a lot of people already have one foot out the door.  When i say Most, i am not talking 99%...more like 70%.

This post made me sad.  I know what you mean too.  I blame the media.  Ain't nothing better coming most of the time.  If people spent as much time making their relationships great as they do wishing they were better, it'd be a whole other story.


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Posted By: Flowing-Ice
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:52am
Originally posted by lovelife lovelife wrote:

Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

Originally posted by lovelife lovelife wrote:

no. you can't take someone from a place they didn't already want to leave, imo. 

lol, so... changing the wording makes people feel better?
mmkay.


LOL LOL but you aren't taking them. like "you can't **** the willing"

what's the bleeped out stuff?
the whole point of "taking" someone is to make their current situation look miserable.
once you make them want to leave, just insert yourself into that picture. lol. 


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Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:52am
Sure.
Aren't there cultures where if you rape a chick she has to marry you?


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Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:54am
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Sure.
Aren't there cultures where if you rape a chick she has to marry you?

They have cultures that still do this? I believe it was like that in Biblical days.


Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:54am


taking someone involves, IMO, a person ENDING things with the person they are with and choosing to be with another person instead. 

in most cases what I see however, is that the person cheats, gets caught and is dumped, and THEN moves on to the next. to me this isn't taking, it's picking up trash that someone else discarded and claiming it as a prize. 



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Posted By: lovelife
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:55am
Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

Originally posted by lovelife lovelife wrote:

Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

Originally posted by lovelife lovelife wrote:

no. you can't take someone from a place they didn't already want to leave, imo. 

lol, so... changing the wording makes people feel better?
mmkay.


LOL LOL but you aren't taking them. like "you can't **** the willing"

what's the bleeped out stuff?
the whole point of "taking" someone is to make their current situation look miserable.
once you make them want to leave, just insert yourself into that picture. lol. 


r*pe. i don't like that word.
and that's some really shady ish.
sounds like you've done it before flow LOL


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Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:57am
Originally posted by ThatGurlD ThatGurlD wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Yes, you can take someone else's S/O...i believe that MOST people aren't happy in their current relationships and are just sticking to their comfort zone until someone "better" comes along anyway.  I think a lot of people already have one foot out the door.  When i say Most, i am not talking 99%...more like 70%.

This post made me sad.  I know what you mean too.  I blame the media.  Ain't nothing better coming most of the time.  If people spent as much time making their relationships great as they do wishing they were better, it'd be a whole other story.

amen, i feel the same way.  no one wants to work with what they have...this same mentality permeates the way ppl feel about their jobs, physical appearance, etc...just put in some effort and things will work.  


Posted By: Flowing-Ice
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 11:57am
nah @ lovelife.
but im the exception to the rule. my baby aint goin nowhere. Cool


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Posted By: el_bandido
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 12:06pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

if eve can be tempted ....anybody can be and stray


that heaux was easy all u had to do was offer her some fruit


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Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 12:07pm
Originally posted by niecy niecy wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Sure.
Aren't there cultures where if you rape a chick she has to marry you?

They have cultures that still do this? I believe it was like that in Biblical days.

Yea I know its in the bible.
I'm pretty sure I saw a doc where an ethnic group still does it. 


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Posted By: tropical-punch
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 1:14pm
Rape is censored?


Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 1:16pm
Originally posted by lovelife lovelife wrote:

no. you can't take someone from a place they didn't already want to leave, imo. 


If I'm having a great time at Disneyworld, I could be persuaded to leave if i'm offered tickets to Universal Studios.

Options.


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 1:36pm
Yup. 9 times outta 10, they'll turn out to be trash, and you'll wanna give them back.


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 2:01pm
I saw a snapped where a husband and wife took in one of their children's friend that had trouble at home and had no where to go and raised her as their own

wellllllllllllllllllllll this friend did schemed and planned and manipulated and turned the husband against the wife and kids 

people can be manipulated ... now does this happen the majority of the time, absolutely not

people who want to treat don't need help



Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 2:02pm

that said, why be the knife used to stab someone, no thanks, I'm not that thirsty and men aren't that scarce




Posted By: Lhdc2011
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 2:25pm
no

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Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 2:25pm
Originally posted by lovelife lovelife wrote:

no. you can't take someone from a place they didn't already want to leave, imo. 

thats really the same thing though

no?

whilst you might think you have the choice to leave that aint sh*t nicca for mr right, that 'mr right' might think yeah, i took her from him..

its all about perception but it really is the same thing at the end of the day.


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Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 2:26pm
Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:


Originally posted by lovelife lovelife wrote:

no. you can't take someone from a place they didn't already want to leave, imo. 



If I'm having a great time at Disneyworld, I could be persuaded to leave if i'm offered tickets to Universal Studios.

Options.
and thats all there is to it

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I just can't stand the negro british midget. He brings out the worst in me.....

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I sometimes think AfroK is gay and either doesn't know it or won't admit to it..


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 2:26pm
Originally posted by el_bandido el_bandido wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

if eve can be tempted ....anybody can be and stray


that heaux was easy all u had to do was offer her some fruit


and she was perfect!LOL


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Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 2:26pm
Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Originally posted by lovelife lovelife wrote:

no. you can't take someone from a place they didn't already want to leave, imo. 


If I'm having a great time at Disneyworld, I could be persuaded to leave if i'm offered tickets to Universal Studios.

Options.

LMAO.

that's people's problem.  it's the American way to always want more no matter how good you have it.
I was that way until a couple yrs ago.


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 4:17pm
 yep

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